Hello!

I haven’t seen too many reviews on the Lelo Switch which is fairly new, so I thought I’d share my thoughts on the toy.

For full transparency, Lelo kindly reached out and sent the product to me in exchange for user feedback after seeing my post about the Lelo Dot (which I purchased myself) here on this community. I wasn’t obliged to share my thoughts outside of the company but hopefully my experience is useful if you’ve been considering the Switch! I’m not a professional reviewer and still fairly new to toys but happy to answer any questions you might have ☺

**First Impressions / Ease of Use**

Like my Dot, the Switch arrived in a discreet  black box and comes with a silky black pouch for storage. I really love the premium look and feel of Lelo toys and the silicone material is not only really soft to touch but super easy to clean too. The Switch is compact and small enough to travel with - it roughly measures 22cm. Extra points for being waterproof and simple to charge via USB.

**Power**

Considering how small and compact the Switch is, I really didn’t expect it to be so powerful. This is my first time using a Wand and I know they’re known for delivering intense power but wow! I was honestly a bit taken aback when the levels kept increasing. Personally I didn’t feel the need to go beyond level 5 but this goes up to level 16 so I think most people will be able to really enjoy it.

When connected to the app you can also access two advanced ‘finishing’ modes which are seriously intense (I won’t lie, I jumped and was quite shocked when I clicked on them 😂). The modes might not be for me personally but if you’re after a versatile and strong toy I really don’t think you’ll disappointed.

**App Compatibility**

When researching Lelo toys in the past, I noticed the app had quite a few negative reviews but I think this has really been improved - at least with the newer toys. I had no problems logging in and was able to connect straight away. The app has 3 regular modes (plus the advanced modes I mentioned) - you can control the toy by twisting or shaking your phone, or moving your finger across the screen which is my favourite! This is one of the best features of the Switch imo- the buttons are accessible to operate easily in manual mode but the app makes it so much easier to increase levels and even create your own patterns! Changes sync with the toy quickly with little delay. It’s also really fun for use with a partner when you want to give them control. App compatibility was something I thought I wouldn’t really use before trying it out, but it’s definitely something I’ll look for in future now either for lelo toys and other toys. If anyone’s tried the Sona 3 let me know haha - that’s next on my list now!

**Design/Performance/Orgasms**

There are two sides to the Switch and this 2-in-1 element is a big pro for someone with a smaller collection. The insertable end is lightly textured and curved well so it was really easy to hit my g-spot. Size wise it was great for me but I do prefer something smaller during solo play. If you like larger dildos etc just keep this in mind as it might not be big enough for you!

Both ends vibrate without that mechanical ‘buzzy’ feeling to deliver deeper enjoyable sensations - you can turn on both ends simultaneously or one by one depending on the mode you’re in. The sensations intensify slowly and this is definitely a toy I like to reach for during longer sessions - the build up is amazing and orgasms are more intense and full bodied. In comparison, the Dot that I have is much more direct and intense, better for when you need to be quick, but tbh it’s not quite as satisfying as the Switch! It took me a while to get used to difference but I do find myself reaching for the Switch more than my Dot now.

I also prefer using the Switch with a partner and find the shape works perfectly in various positions. The Dot was always a little too intense (and slightly pointy in shape if you’re not careful) for use during sex but the Switch is a great companion!

One small con for me - due to its compact size, when both sides of the Switch are vibrating it can sometimes make your hand feel a little numb. This also happens if you’re just using the wand end but only when vibration levels are really high.

**Conclusion**

Overall I’m really pleased with the Switch and think it’s a fantastic toy - especially if you’re looking for something discreet yet powerful that can expand the versatility of your collection.

I was a little intimidated at first as a ‘beginner’ trying out a Wand for the first time, but the Switch has such a good range of modes and levels that I think beginners and more experienced users alike will love it!

Has anyone else tried to Lelo Switch before? I’d love to hear what you think of it - and any other Lelo / toy recommendations you might have!

Lelo Switch Review - My first Wand experience!


Hey Guys thinking about Buying this toy. When it comes to toys I am a absolute beginner. So my question is, It is beginner friendly

LELO Loki Wave 2


I’ve been testing the Womanizer Next... reviews are mixed with the biggest complaint about the controls - but I've given it a good go and it’s actually *very* good.

It doesn’t reinvent the wheel, but it fixes a lot of the small, irritating things other suction toys still get wrong. The biggest one for me is the contact sensor. It only works when it’s touching your body, which means if you’re using it during sex and put it down, it just stops. No fumbling with buttons mid-moment. It sounds minor, it’s not.

It’s also one of the smoother toys I’ve tried. The intensity builds properly instead of jumping from “nothing” to “holy shit", and there’s a “Climax Control” setting that lets you tweak how deep the pulses feel. The highest setting was actually too much for me, which I did not expect, but I like having something to work up to.

It’s not perfect. It’s bigger than most, not the quietest once you turn it up (despite what the marketing says), and it’s hella expensive (£190 full price, the most expensive one I have). If you already own a decent suction toy, this isn’t going to completely change your life.

Compared to the [LELO Sona 3](https://sextoyreviews.uk/lelo-sona-3-review/), it’s easier to use, has a much bigger mouth and is better during sex, but slightly louder and doesn’t have app control. Compared to the [Biird Namii](https://sextoyreviews.uk/biird-namii-clitoral-sucker-review/), it’s much stronger but less “cute and gentle”.

Also, no patterns. Which I love. No accidental button presses ruining your O.

If you want something powerful but genuinely easy to use, especially with a partner, this is probably the best I’ve tried.

Full review (with comparisons, pros/cons, and my cable chaos situation) here: https://sextoyreviews.uk/womanizer-next-review/

Th Womanizer Next - A VERY expensive clit sucker (but I reckon it's worth it)


We’re getting a hot tub soon, and my wife gets thrills from public play. Consequently, she’s interested in being able to get off in our hot tub using a vibrator.

She has quit a few rather expensive “waterproof” vibes (she LOVES the Lelo brand), but doesn’t want to risk bringing them totally underwater.

Anyone have any suggestions for a truly submersible vibe?

Thanks!

Submersible Vibrator


Hello. Looking for recommendations please for a very intense clit vibe. I have a friend who can only get off with an ancient, but still powerfull, electric tooth brush. Id like to try something like an Eroscillator or Lelo Dot on her but im up for anything  similar that may be available. No need to suggest wands as I have 3. Any other suggestions?

TIA

High Intensity Pinpoint Clit Vibe


I genuinely thought nothing could beat the [LELO SONA 3](https://sextoyreviews.uk/lelo-sona-3-review/) for clitoral suction, and since I got it my poor [Biird Namii](https://sextoyreviews.uk/biird-namii-clitoral-sucker-review/) has been woefully underused unless a. The battery goes or b. I want to use it handsfree/on my front (where the Namii remains undefeated!).

Today I've been playing with the Womanizer Next and I genuinely don't know which way is up anymore and haven't even been able to concentrate long enough to start on a review. I'm having to re-write my best clit sucker post once a week at this rate. SURELY it can't get better than that?!

Every time I think I've found the best clit sucker, another one comes along


Been looking to try a lelo rabbit vibe but I'm in a bit of a budget crunch lately and found the kaya is their best priced rabbit at just $69 (interesting number:) but only available [here on spicerack](https://spicerack.market/sex-toys/vibrators/rabbit-vibrators/lelo-kaya-originals-soft-pink-rabbit-massager). Anyone every try this and could compare it with their more expensive rabbit models?

TIA

Anyone ever try the Lelo moka $69 rabbit??


Hi everyone, I'm looking to write a blog post about sex toys with Bluetooth apps which can be used long distance with a partner.

I have LELO, Satisfyer and We-Vibe toys which are all app-compatible, and I'm looking at getting a Lovense toy - is that most bases covered?

My posts tend to go very in depth so I will be putting the time in, I don't want to miss anything important so all input would be gratefully received. Thanks!

Best long distance apps - advice wanted!


Hey,

I've been looking to get a new toy to use on my wife for a while. Right now we mainly use a small  Lelo wand. When I use it on her however, she gets to about 98 percent to the finish line, but then she has to take over to finish. She usually just makes a small adjustment to the way I was holding it-moving at a quarter inch one way or holding it at a slightly different angle. It seems a little strange to me as a guy that such a small adjustment can make such a big difference, but I can't argue with results.

We've also used a rose suction device and have the same issue there. She needs to take over to finish. We also have the big Hitachi magic wand but she finds that too intense even on lowest setting.

So I'm looking for something that I can consistently use and make her finish that doesn't require fine adjustments. I'm not sure exactly what that would be. I guess something that covers her whole sensitive area in vibration so the exact positioning isn't as important.

What is the most foolproof toy a man can use on a woman?


Put on my atom octopuss or whatever (vibrating c ring). Turned on a super hot porn video I'm watching for the first time on a little tripod. Put in the Lelo 2 and turned it on. Sat on my Chirp massage bed so it was push up and down right on my prostate area as I have my back on the wall. Turned on the octopuss. Realized I could prop my feet up on the other end of the chirp bed so my calves also got sort of a massage. Condom on so I can blow anywhere. Couldn't even casually get the domi 2's on I was already rabid/shaking at this point. Had like 20 second with the both the domis on, sitting harder into the massage, and I went brainde\*d, and then I literally felt like something would pop. Like I could not physically squeeze and push to cum that hard or I would blow a valve. But at the same time I wanted to. Like it's like I literally could not cum that hard. Like the fantasy I've always had about being forced to cum that hard. Well anyways. I literally found it. And it was way more real than what I imagined lol. Like it was a legitimate sense of alarm and I would have had to squeeze and grit to push and see what happens, but I felt like I would blow a valve lol.

Anyways.. I guess y'all should try that. And Gemini (AI) says nothing can really pop so I should carefully go for it (just try not to rip anything?)

First time in my life I had an "oh shit" / I can't cum that hard / somethings gonna pop moment.


I certainly have thoughts. This dual stimulator (clitoral suction and sonic a-spot vibrations. yes, a-spot...) will set you back £300 if you buy it full price. So expectations are not low. For that, you want something that’s going to knock you sideways, not just politely vibrate. I'm talking orgasm-coma stuff.

First impressions - It’s big. Noticeably bigger than something like the Womanizer Blend. Not unmanageable, but definitely not subtle. That said, it looks incredible and feels properly premium.

Performance-wise, it’s very, very good. No problems at all with connecting the app. The clitoral suction is strong and consistent, and the internal stimulation feels different to most dual toys. Less buzzing vaguely and more targeted, almost thumping motion. It’s effective. Very effective.

I managed three orgasms in quick succession and then had to lie down and have an nap (orgasm coma achieved!).

But… it’s still £300 (well, £215ish in the sale at the moment, but £300 full whack).

And that’s the sticking point. It’s better than mid-range toys, yes. More refined, more intense. But is it three times better than something a third of the price? Probably not.

So I think it comes down to this:

If you want one of the best and don’t mind paying for it, this delivers. In spades.

If you’re happy with “very good”, you can spend a lot less and still have a great time.

I've written a very loooong but hopefully entertaining(?!) review here: [https://sextoyreviews.uk/lelo-enigma-double-sonic-review/](https://sextoyreviews.uk/lelo-enigma-double-sonic-review/)

I’ve just tested the LELO ENIGMA Double Sonic and, erm. Wow.


I want the sensation of oral but without vibration. I already have a Lelo Ora and Satisfyer, plus a silicone tongue shaped toy that I don’t switch the vibration on. I’m intrigued by those toys that have a tongue with a suction cup around the edge. But they all seem to vibrate and I don’t like that sensation 😭 Does anyone have any recommendations of a tongue toy without vibration (or at least can be switched on and off)? 💓 I know the motor will always create some buzz

Tongue toy without vibration?


So I’ve been slowly going down the LELO rabbit hole lately and figured I’d share my thoughts on the LELO Surfer 2 prostate stimulation sex toy since I don’t see many real user takes on it yet.

For context, I’ve previously tried the F1S and F2S, I actually wrote about those here: https://www.reddit.com/r/SexToys/s/cGFFCt35oI

First impressions / build quality

Like pretty much everything from LELO, the Surfer 2 feels premium right out of the box. Silicone is super smooth, it’s fully waterproof, and the overall design feels very “safe” and well thought out. Nothing surprising there, they’re consistent with quality across their lineup.

App & controls (big improvement)

This is honestly one of the biggest upgrades compared to the F1S/F2S. The app experience is just way better here- more stable, more usable, and actually feels like it adds something instead of being a gimmick. Being able to switch patterns without fumbling around is a big plus.

Performance / stimulation

The toy itself works really well. Vibrations are strong and deep, not just buzzy surface-level stuff. It’s clearly designed to be worn and used hands-free, and you can feel that in how it distributes the vibration.

That said, and this is just personal - I don’t think it’s the perfect fit for me specifically when it comes to prostate stimulation. It hits, but not always in that “exact spot” way I was hoping for. Could be anatomy, could be positioning, could just be preference.

From what I’ve read and experienced, prostate toys are super hit-or-miss depending on your body, so I wouldn’t call this a flaw of the toy itself.

Partner experience (this is where it surprised me)

Where it really stood out was using it with my girlfriend.

She absolutely loved it, and I was honestly not expecting how intense it would feel for me in that setup. The vibrations transfer really well, and it adds a completely different layer to sex. Way more noticeable than I expected.

This ended up being the main reason I still rate it highly, even if it’s not my ideal solo prostate toy.

Pros

\- Premium build quality (as expected from LELO)

\- Much better app than F1S/F2S

\- Strong, deep vibrations

\- Great for partner play

Cons

\- May not perfectly target the prostate for everyone

\- Takes some experimenting to get the most out of it

Overall, I think the Surfer 2 is a really solid toy, especially if you’re into experimenting or using toys with a partner. If you’re specifically chasing that “perfect prostate hit,” it might depend on your body, but as a versatile toy, it definitely delivers.

Curious if anyone else here has tried it and how it worked for you.

I tried the Lelo Surfer 2


I’m treating myself to a new toy and am tempted by the ora 3 by Lelo. I tend to like toys with strong vibration so this would be different for me. I’m just wondering if the feeling is still quite ‘strong’ or whether it’s a weaker, softer feeling? Don’t want to spend £140 and then hate it so just trying to do some research before I take the plunge.

Anyone tried the Lelo Ora 3?


Prostate stimulation can be pretty amazing, but it’s not for everyone. I’ve been dipping my toes in P-spot stimulation for a good while now, but I’ve still yet to find my “grail” toy where everything works.

Usually, the issue tends to be that I do love the stimulation from a given toy…only to find out that the toy falls out easily when I make even minor adjustments to my position. And the toys that stay in well are usually not the ones that hit the right angles or the vibrations feel too light.

Recently, I’ve been having fun with LELO BRUNO prostate vibrator - a slightly less-known little brother of LOKI WAVE and HUGO 2, two of the more well-known prostate-focused toys from LELO.

You can read [**my full testing report and review of LELO BRUNO here**](https://www.sextoymagazine.com/lelo-bruno-review/).

For people not interested in full-length reviews, here are some aspects that made this one tick for me:

* Sizing for LELO BRUNO is great. Not too thick for first-timers, but also not small for someone who has already had stuff up there!
* BRUNO has two motors - one on the prostate tip and one on the taint stimulation part. You also FEEL those two motors in action. BRUNO will give you that warm, pressured type of prostate stimulation.
* Taint stimulation tail on this is becoming a highlight for me. The flatness of the tip combined with the deep vibrations relaxes the body and makes it easy to take the inner tip of the BRUNO.
* Speaking of vibrations, BRUNO will have 6 settings to play with. The vibrator itself has a deep, reverberating feel to it. Even on the more tame settings, the buzz from this will take you for a ride.
* It stays put pretty damn well when compared to some of the alternatives. Hands-off orgasms are a possibility if you have trained your prostate/are sensitive enough.

The one single issue I have with the BRUNO is the lack of a remote control. Yes, the button placement is convenient enough and the toy will not fall out if you adjust your settings mid-action…but still. I enjoy having a remote handy when it comes to prostate toys.

In terms of experience levels, I’d say BRUNO is an intermediate prostate stimulation toy. The feel of the vibration is somehow stronger than on most P-spot toys.

It does stay in place very well though and it’s also pretty body-friendly in terms of shape. So, all-in-all I’d say that it could fit well for a beginner as well.

My overall verdict with LELO BRUNO is positive. Still not a 10/10 prostate stimulator for me, but it does come pretty damn close.

LELO tends to release upgraded versions of their toys from time to time and we are yet to see a BRUNO 2 so I’m low key holding out for a re-release with slight improvements in the future. For one, I’d like to see this same shape, feel, and design, but with a slightly better range of vibration intensities.

A remote would be nice too, but this is more of a personal pet peeve.

Overall, loved it!

LELO BRUNO Prostate Stimulator Review - Hands-Free P-Spot Fun.


Which one for my wife as a gift?

Womanizer vs. Satifyer vs. Lelo Sona 2?


Hello all!

Me and my partner have been collecting, testing, and writing about sex toys for more than 5 years now.

When you go through so many different toys, things eventually take on a bit of a repeat. Due to this, it is always fun to try something that looks and feels like something new.

The LELO Enigma Double Sonic G-Spot/Clit vibrator is just that. One of the few toys where it feels as if it genuinely brings something new to the table. Pretty amazing considering that we were not the biggest fans of this one at the start.

It is also a popular, well acclaimed toy with some industry awards to it's name so I figured it would be nice to share what makes this one tick for us:

* **The design is pretty out there** with alien-like coloring options and a sickle-like look. Very convenient to hold and use though.
* **3 erogenous zones are getting stimulated at the same time here** \- the clit, the G-Spot, and the A-spot. The A-Spot is a bit of a mysterious area on the top of the vagina between the cervix and the bladder. If this is your first time hearing about this area then you are not alone lol. Even as a toy reviewer, I had no idea such a place exists on my body.
* **Positioning the Enigma Double Sonic** can be tricky at first. It is a relatively robust vibrator and you'll want to try different positions and angles to see what "makes it sing" with your anatomy.
* If you do find an angle that you like then expect **a highly stimulating experience**. Feels like the stimulation I get from the good old "come hither" motion or a rabbit vibrator. Somehow feels more reverberating and massage-like compared to other stuff though. Like it truly knows what it's doing.
* I usually don't enjoy my partner using bigger toys on me, but this one became A BIG exception. Honestly, even seeing him hold it does things for me. **When I lay down and slightly raise one of my legs and then let him have his way with the Enigma Double Sonic**...whew.
* The material (body-safe silicone) feels lush. Love the contrast of the softness of the material and the bulky, commanding build of this vibe.
* I enjoy the throbbing and fast patterns with this one the most. Particularly when my partner is in control.

Any downsides? Well:

* It feels orgasmic as hell, but the somewhat complex and large look of it could potentially scare away a beginner.
* Getting this one to zing can be frustrating at first. Experiment with angles and positions if your first tries are disappointing.
* I am simply not able to use the Enigma Double Sonic for foreplay. With this one, I want to come! For edging and foreplay, smaller clit vibrators are a much better pick in my book.

You can find my [full review of the LELO Enigma Double Sonic here](https://www.sextoymagazine.com/lelo-enigma-double-sonic-review/) if you're interested.

Anyone else tried this one? Would be more than interested to hear your takes as well.

LELO Enigma Double Sonic Review: Triple-Stimulation Vibrator, Really?


Me and my wife have started with sex toys after been togeather for 30 years. We have startet with pegging, use dildos and anal toys. I have also bought her a womanizer that she loves, but she is not able to hit the spot with it while having sex or when I play with her. Therefore I think we also should have a wand that is easier to use during sex. We dont need anything with app control or dual functions. The most important is that it is easy to use during sex in sideways, doggy and prone bone positions. It should also be quiet, rumbly an have a good power range starting with low intensity. It is also important that she likes the look and feel of it.

I have showed her a few options and she liked the Lelo Smart wand 2. Therefore I think the best options would either be this or the We-wibe Wand 2.

Witch of these do you experienced women in here recomend for the intended use? Or do you have any better alternatives? I think both would work fine, but the We-wibe looks easier to use when she is laying on her belly because of the shape. She do not need the extra power of the Lelo because she is quite sensitive. We have also consither the Lovense Domi, but its more noisy and we still have kids living at home. Using the wand for body massasge would also be nice.

New wand for my wife


Should I buy it

Lelo F2S, anyone have any experience and is it worth it?


Hi! As the title says, I'm looking for recommendation for vibrators from Satisfyer/other brands. Bit wordy but I would love your help!!

My current inventory includes the first gen Satisfyer Pro+ G-Spot and a Womanizer Premium. And I adore them. Still, sometimes I need to find the exact spot to make me come with the Satisfyer so it takes a lot of adjustment and can kill my mood sometimes. The Womanizer Premium is great and everyone pretty much knows how great it is, but I want something to fill me up nicely as well <3

So, I have been looking to expand my inventory with a vibrator that doesn't have any clit suction or air pulse, just a long thingy you know? Then I can use it while using my Womanizer for the clit stimulation. If I turn the air pulse part of the Satisfyer away so I can use the Womanizer on my clit, then the G-Spot tip just doesn't feel right.

Practically, do you think that might be feasible for me to actually hold 2 toys at once? If so, what might you recommend? Dildo, duals, or whatever.

Bonus points if it is built for G-spots too. Satisfyer would be preferred but not necessary just because they are cheaper and I've had experience with.

I've looked at the Lelo Gigi 2 or 3 (stretching my budget a little bit but if it could work with Womanizer clit toy, I can consider it), is it good as well? Also the Womanizer Dual or Sona Enigma is too expensive for me at this moment.

Thanks very much in advance :))

Using clit air pulse toys & regular vibrators together - advice & recommendations


Hi! My Lelo Smart wand seems to be malfunctioning. I usually use the standard vibration function but recently after I've switched it on, as soon as it touches my skin it ramps up to an intense pattern setting. Is there some way to reset the wand back to normal?

Lelo Smart Wand 2 - reset?


i know bellesa comes up a lot on this sub and the vibes are not great, so before i ordered i spent probably two hours reading through all the threads. i want to give an honest account because i think the picture is more complicated than "avoid them" or "they're great."

what the threads said that turned out to be accurate: customer service is slow. i had a question about an order and the email response took four days. that's genuinely bad and i'm not going to defend it. the motors on some products being buzzy rather than rumbly is also accurate -- i got the demi wand and it's definitely more buzz than rumble compared to my old we-vibe touch. different sensation, not worse necessarily, but different and the rumbly crowd will be disappointed.

what the threads said that didn't match my experience: several people said products arrived damaged or not at all. mine arrived fine, packaged well, actually faster than i expected. the "is this legit / is this a scam" stuff i think comes from the fact that their sale model is genuinely aggressive and looks sketchy -- like "90% off, free toy with purchase, limited time" stuff that sets off every discount alarm. my products worked and were body-safe silicone as described.

the honest summary i'd give: they're not the best toys on the market but they're legitimate and the body-safe materials claim seems to be real at least on the silicone items i ordered. if you want the best motor quality go we-vibe, lelo, or dame and spend appropriately. if you're a first-time buyer on a budget the pebble in particular is a reasonable starting point. customer service is a real weakness and if you ever need to make a return or resolve an issue, that's a genuine risk.

this is just one person's experience. i know others have had worse. but i thought a more balanced take might be useful here.

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appreciate this write-up. my experience was a bit worse on the CS side -- i had a package that showed as delivered but wasn't at my address, and it took about 10 days and several follow-ups to get it resolved. they did eventually make it right but the amount of effort i had to put in was excessive for a straightforward issue. so i'd agree with your framing that it's not "scam" territory but the CS risk is real and if anything goes wrong you should expect it to take time and persistence. products themselves when they arrived were fine.

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yeah that matches what i heard from multiple people and is the part i'd actually be cautious about. like if everything goes smoothly you're probably fine, but you want to know going in that resolving any issue is going to be slow. glad they did eventually make it right for you

read every bellesa thread on here before ordering, here's what i actually found vs what the threads said


I recently bought the Lelo Dot - a pinpoint vibrator - and I was so so shocked to find out that it can make me squirt really quickly (I’m talking not even a minute of use, especially when using particular rhythms/settings).

Is this normal with pinpoint vibes? It’s not always accompanied by an orgasm and sometimes it even happens before my clit starts to feel really good. I’ve squirted before with a partner, but only with g-spot stimulation and it takes a while to build up!

I feel like I shouldn’t be complaining but I suppose I’m a little worried it’s damaging my urethra or something 🥲 it happens even when I’ve just emptied my bladder so I’m not sure what’s going on! Would appreciate any advice or to hear others’ experiences

Pinpoint vibrators - is it normal to squirt so quickly when using them?


I’ve always struggled with being overtly sensitive, and I’ve heard sex toys can help practice and reduce sensitivity, for instance the Lelo F2S I saw an ad for. Does anyone have any recommendations or comments on whether this is true/works?

Male toy to better stamina/ reduce sensitivity?


I need help! Back in 2019 I bought my first ever sex toy - the Lelo sona cruise 2. There was this one setting on it that sounded like a song. It would get super strong, and for a quick moment, get slightly softer.

It officially died two years ago and I’ve bought three different lelo sonas, including the 2 cruise again. They got rid of the only setting that made me come. Now I use the constant pressure pattern, but it’s way too weak for me on all three models. Idk what happened, but Lelo’s products are no longer powerful. The strongest intensity settings feel like nothing.

I miss the crazy orgasms I used to have. Now, I have to wait for an hour or just give up. I got so mad, I threw my lelo at the wall and later chucked it in the trash.

Any suggestions for a clit suction toy that is at least twice as strong as the lelo sona cruise 2? Tried wands/massagers, but the pressure isn’t localized enough to feel good. The only thing that could is the Theragun deep tissue massager (not a sex toy but I gave it a shot). To be honest, though, it just beats me to a pulp and hurts too much. Ultra fast orgasms though!

When I was first discovering my sexuality, the bath tub jets always worked. I love how intense they are. Yet, they never injured me. I wish there were a toy that made me feel that way.

I’m so desperate to feel normal again. I feel like I’ll never have a good orgasm in my life again. It makes me sad. I want my legs to be shaking violently, and to come so hard I bite my arm, ripping the toy off of me. Is there anything more intense out there?

Defeated with Lelo- Looking for the Strongest Clit Toy. Help!!


We have an OG Lelo Soraya. It's been the go to for year's. We have used the warranty a few time's for various reasons, overuse likely the main reason. The last time we had a replacement it wasn't the same. They changed a few things, angle of the clitoral vibe being the biggest difference. Doesn't "hit" the same for the wife.

Looking for recommendations for something similar. She doesn't use it on herself, I use it on her. She only likes the high speed strong vibration. Hates all of the variety patterns so those aren't needed. Strong, powerful vibrations.

We have several from Lelo and some randoms from our local adult store. Nothing has worked as well as the OG Soraya. Looking for a replacement before the Soraya dies.

Thank you for any help. Hoping to lessen the wasting of money on things we never use again after trying it a few time's because it's not doing the trick.

Lelo Soraya replacement


I’ve been testing the Monster Pub Hulu, which is a tiny app-controlled clit sucker that also seems to be called the Gourd/Energetic Gourd Girl depending on where you look.

You can read my whole review here, which I promise I cut in half, as I had WAY too much to say about this tiny toy: [https://sextoyreviews.uk/monster-pub-hulu-review/](https://sextoyreviews.uk/monster-pub-hulu-review/)

And a summary:

Real talk: Monster Pub’s website is chaotic. It’s a Chinese brand, and based on the English site alone I nearly refused to review it because I couldn’t tell whether it was a dropshipper, white-label chaos, or something genuinely original being badly explained. I figured what the hell, and I’m glad I did, because the toy itself surprised me.

It’s roughly makeup-blender sized, waterproof, USB-C rechargeable, app-controlled and has a travel lock. It also comes with a tiny removable “clit tapper” attachment that turns it into more of a pinpoint vibrator.

The app is better than expected for actual control: battery percentage, 1-100 intensity slider, light control and stable local connection. The community section is deeply weird though. Think random selfies, dinners, travel photos and giraffes. For a sex toy app, oddly wholesome.

In use, it isn’t as refined as a Womanizer or LELO SONA 3, but it works surprisingly well for something so small. I’ve orgasmed with it every time so far, and as a travel clit sucker I prefer it to the fruit-shaped novelty ones because it’s smaller, quieter and has better features.

Downsides: confusing website, odd product naming, suspiciously generic reviews, and the RRP feels inflated.

Monster Pub Hulu mini clit sucker review


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Review: LELO BIANCA 2


Update: Grabbed a Hello Nancy after seeing it in reviews. Holy crap, the silicone is way softer than my old toys. Now I get the hype! Been diving into suction toy threads and kept seeing Lelo vs. Hello Nancy debates. My last one bit the dust, so I’m curious—how do they actually compare? Anyone tried both side by side? Intensity, comfort, beginner-friendliness? Drop your thoughts!

Lelo vs Hello Nancy: Any hockey moms tried both?


So, I’m a 40F mom who’s been curious about the Lelo vs Hello Nancy debate. I just tried the Hello Nancy, and wow—it’s way softer than my old toys! I get why people rave about it. Anyone else compare them side by side? How do they differ in intensity and comfort? My last suction toy died, and I’m torn between these two. Thoughts?

40F: Lelo vs Hello Nancy - Which One Wins?


Been scrolling through a bunch of rose toy review threads and somehow ended up in this whole maze of clitoral suction toy comparisons. Every time I look up a review, people are debating the usual stuff like intensity, silicone feel, and how beginner friendly certain toys are supposed to be. Then I started seeing the “Lelo vs Hello Nancy” debate pop up all over my searches lately, and I’m trying to figure out what differentiates the two. My last suction toy finally gave out, so I’ve been looking around, but the reviews feel like a mix of super genuine and super hyped.

If you’ve tried a few suction toys from these brands side by side, how much did the experience vary?

Lelo vs Hello Nancy: anyone here actually compared them?


We are both guys and he is the top and I am the bottom and we are looking for interactive toys to bring the intimacy closer by being able to control each others.   I have looked at Lovense, Lelo, Kiiro, and that is all I could find.  He likes to thrust and he is quite long.   Lovense seemed to have the dildos for me, but I read bad reviews.  Lelo was way too expenseive as an experiement to see if it works.  Kiroo seemed promising but lacked anal stimulation for me or see it seems.   Any recommendations.  The Kiroo brand seems the way to go but The Keon seems the way to go but we would both need one where Lovense has just an interactive dildo.   The long distance thing is new to both of us and his concern is that he will have needs that I would be there to address and he is wanting more of an open relationship (for the purposes of just f\*cking and nothing more).  The idea of an interactive set of toys appealed to both of us.  We are 4000 miles apart.   Any recommendations?

Interactive long distance toy recommendation for gay couples - need recommendations


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LELO Liv 2 - Vibrator For Women - LoveExotics.com


Lelo Luna Beads Noir, Kegel Balls - Sex Toy Review


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Lelo Soraya - Dual Action Pleasure Object


Operation Lelo Mia 2


Review: Lelo Isla by Bella


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I got my wife the Lelo Smart Wand 2 Medium Rechargeable Vibrator, and it’s ok, but not the show stopper I was hoping for. My wife says that she prefers the more “buzzy” feeling of her bullet vibrator, so I’d like to get something that’s closer to that. I think what this translates to is faster and more intense oscillations desired. The shape and surface area covered aren’t the issue so it’s not a form factor problem. I’d love for it to be rechargeable, and still fit between us where I can hold the handle comfortably while still fucking without barrier during missionary / off the bed / mating press style positions. Recommendations, experiences/stories and links welcome

Wand vibrator recommendations for wife with “bullet vibrator” feeling of vibration preference?


So I’ve had a very specific toy that I’ve had for around a year and a half now (it’s a Lelo Sona 2 cruise for context) that’s really the only toy I’ve found that properly gets me off so it’s my most used toy. It’s one of those clit toys that uses air pressure and such and I’ve always been pretty strict with cleaning my toys for sanitary purposes and to prevent bacteria and infection. However, I’ve noticed there’s a weird smell coming from the hole part that you would put on the clit, so I cleaned it as usual with wipes and foam specifically made for cleaning sex toys but that smell is still there after cleaning three times.

Because of the way the toy is (if you look it up you’ll see what I mean) it’s really hard to get into every part for cleaning so I try my best but I’m suspecting there may be a buildup underneath the part that ‘flutters’ if I’m explaining that correctly, and I don’t know how to clean that out because it was an expensive toy and my favourite and I can’t afford another so I’m trying to prolong it’s longevity as much as possible.

Any advice for how I would be able to clean that properly?

How to clean this toy properly and fully?


I’m 30F and I’m so frustrated. Literally.

I don’t think I’ve ever had a proper orgasm in my life. I’ve used vibrators, with both internal and external stimulation. I’ve used my hands and I’ve had partners. Nothing seems to get me that mind blowing orgasm. If anything it just feels like too much stimulation on my clit and a super small release.

I’m more focused on trying to be able to get myself off alone. Like do I watch porn? Do I read? Do I just stick the vibrator in and enjoy the feeling ?? Honestly Wtf do I do bc tbh I just want to be horny and get off. Don’t have a partner rn so it’s just me myself and my toys. Recently purchased the Lelo enigma double sonic enigma so hoping that can help.

I have no absolutely no idea how to properly get myself off.


I have Thursday afternoons off from work, my time, I look forward to it all week. I love my husband and hew have a good sex life, however on my Thursdays I use my Lelo Sona toy, it’s amazing but afterwards I feel guilty should I tell my husband ?

I love my Thursday afternoons


Please help. Why do I find penetration so difficult.

Please don't read if you're not comfortable reading sexual details.

I'm 31F and only been with one woman. All I could really manage comfortably is two fingers.

I've tried to make myself accept more on my own with toys. I've tried Romp Hype, Lush 4, Fun Factory Petite thrusting toy, lelo love balls and recently an icicle glass toy with a ball top. Aside from lush4, all of these hurt going in, the glass toy especially.

I make it past what feels like one layer and then there's another ring that feels painful, even if I've used lube. Once I'm past that, the worst of burn is gone but I don't feel good. I move the toy, but it feels like it's just dragging and pushing against things inside me uncomfortabley. If I have it in too long or if I eventually orgasm (though I can't with the glass toy, it's too uncomfortable and feels hard), I start crying really badly. Like the tears come out of nowhere and I'm sobbing silently.

I don't know if I have vaginismus or because I've grown up in an anti sex culture or had a couple of small incidents of inappropriate touch. I'm afraid to go to a gynecologist because I will just cry if someone touches me.

I have a therapist but I haven't quite reached being able to have this conversation in this much detail. She suggested that maybe I just don't like penetration but I don't really know? I have no idea what it's supposed to feel like.

Do penises feel like this? I like someone but I'm too terrified to ever let it get to the sex stage because of all these problems and my crying.

If anyone has any insight or similiar experiences to share, I would be so grateful. Thank you.

Please help. 31F why do I find penetration so uncomfortable.


Just destroyed my lelo toy by accidentally using silicone lube. I used the toy for about 5 minutes on my back door before noticing. I washed it thoroughly and boiled it but I really wanted to finish so I used it for another 15 minutes using coconut oil instead. After washing the toy again, I noticed there was some silicone bits coming off when I rub/scratch it with my fingers and nails. They are tiny but I know some must have rubbed off while I was using it. I douched a few times about an hour after use but I’m worried I waited too long. I heard the anus/rectum is highly absorbent so I’m wondering if there’s any health concerns I need to keep in mind or things to look out for? I’m probably worried for nothing but I just want to be safe than sorry.

Accidentally used silicone lube on toy, should I be worried?


Long story short, I mostly let us "go with the flow", the partner expressed interested in pleasing me, and claimed experience, but what he was doing did not work for me. Was trying to steer things - gently - in the way I wanted, did not work. We are casual partners after me being married for a very long time. I suggest we do this and that, try to explain how things work for me, but when we meet - infrequently, due to our schedules and family obligations - we go "with the flow again/what he wants". I know it is at least partially on me to be more assertive - the problem is it does not feel good at all to kinda force him to do what I need and want. And not what he is doing is - typically - unpleasant or something, I just know it would most likely end up with him cumming again, and me not even getting close ...

to make matters worse, I can cum reliably from hand and oral only - and toys, of course. But I also need to be relaxed, etc. I brought toys into the bedroom and he was not against it/even suggested we use them more.

But also remarked that I cannot ""come naturally" due to using them and toys I like most - Magic wand and Lelo clit sucker he says are often too bulky and get in his way.

I am planning to show him next time how I am getting off with my hand - but I am afraid, due to stress, it will not happen with him ...

I have been also married for such a long time, I guess I forgot how long it will make hubby and me to figure it out? and I have no idea what hubby was doing to please me orally - probably what I am doing with my hand?

TL;DR I know I need to "talk with him". I tried! several times. How to keep things positive and fun? How to relax enough to make it easier to show him how I am making myself cum? How to not feel guilty when full attention is on my pleasure?

How to ask for what I want in bed - after I have not been?


My husband is working away from home and I would like to invest in the new vibrator that will allow him to pleasure me from across the pond.

Can’t decide between lovense, Lelo or we-vibe.

Can anyone recommend or tell me what not to buy?

Recommendations for vibrators with remote app


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Hi, middle-aged and divorced now, but when I was starting I was a "typical" woman, could orgasm easily from stimulating my clit manually. I married my first partner - I was his first, too - and our sex life ... was not good :(. He could not learn how to touch my clit to give me pleasure or at least not go to strong. We were in a very catholic country when even the chief sexuologist was claiming that clitoral orgasm was "immature" and to learn "maturely" and "properly" orgasm through intercourse, I should not touch my clit not only when having sex with my husband but all all ... years of sexual frustration, or even pain followed ... :(. My husband was also against toys, at least using them together ... fortunately at some point he learned to get off me through oral, but that was taking a long time ...

Anyway, initially I was very hopeful I will learn to orgasm from intercourse just by finding right positions - early on I orgasm through intercourse kinda randomly, and with him wearing a condom and me using an extra contraceptive foam - which according to conventional wisdom should prevent me from "feeling anything" and without touching my clit at all ... sadly, we could not re-create the position - or context? -later and it stopped happening .. and my husband was only into "jack-rabbit sex", despite my pleas ("got carried away by your beauty", "will try what you asked next time"). Yeah, he is an ex for a reason ;)

BUT After 4 years of complete celibacy and starting dating last year - and finally finding a nice guy who really wants to please me I realize I have a couple problems:

1. I got used to having sex a a nice, couple activity - but separately taking care of my orgasms and sexual realize on my own at other times. Currently, kinda presence of the other person maybe a bit of an obstacle or making it more difficult for me to relax. Solution: mutual masturbation?

2. The only orgasms I was having as a part of couple sex were from oral - so without anything in me. As a result I am afraid that being stretched during penetration makes orgasm more difficult. I am trying to get used to having them on my own with Kegel training device

3. With new partners, I tried to just stimulate my clit the way I do on my own during intercourse, but for some reason it is not working - I am getting frustratingly close, but never over the edge ...strangely, even though I am obviously very turn on with my partners, somehow get a clitoral O during intercouse seem to require more work and time then by my own? or is the intercourse and kinda different rythm distracting?

4. My clit is high over vag, so I dont think clitoral alignment technique would work.

5. I tried grinding in cow girl - it is nice, as other positions are, but does not seem to get me anywhere close to cumming

6. My most reliable toy is Lelo clit sucker, normally takes 30 secs on my own - what would be a good position to use it? it is a bit clunky and  I love "love making" positions with eye contact etc - but there is normally no space to put it? I know it would probably work in doggie but doggie feels very impersonal to me, I would love to be able to kiss my partner or at least see their eyes

Sorry for the very long post. I finally found a "good guy" - YAY! Hope it is not too late for me to figure it out. Everything else: libido, lubrications, health, fitness (exercise daily), healthy diet,  seem to work well. So, kind Redditors, please help me out with this - all suggestions welcomed.

How to learn to have orgasm during intercourse later in life?


So now I need someone to connect with to try the toy. Anyone wanna volunteer? 😅 Or any idea where I can find someone?
I saw that Lovense has a sub where people find partners, but I have a Lelo toy... not sure if there's a place for that.

Just bought a Lelo Bluetooth toy, but a few days later my BF dumped me...


Hey everyone! I came across something that might be useful to some of you. If you join the lelo vibes sub, you'll receive a message with a 10% discount. I’ve already ordered one device since the code can be applied on already discounted items! Thought I’d share in case anyone’s interested! 😊

Hope this helps someone out! Cheers!

Just bought an expensive toy for less money!


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Using Lelo as a man


I recently bought myself a "Lelo Hugo 2" and have used it maybe 4 times.

My last session lasted maybe 45 minutes, and while I had the usual "milking" going on, there were two times where I felt the sensation of ejaculation, and definitely had a partial load come out (although it was quite clear and incredibly lubricant, so I don't think it was sperm).

However, while the session was very pleasurable, these two "partial load" moments didn't feel different, aside from the fact that it did feel like I did an "involuntary kegel move" to push it out, and for the first time it wasn't just prostatic fluid leaking out: I suddenly had much more fluid coming out at once (which I found to be very hot to look at).

Is this an indication that I'm getting closer to "p-orgasm", or it's just yet another way that people end up milking themselves?

Prostate play and ejaculation, but no orgasm?


The durex condoms have such a weird smell. I only discovered the lelo hex condoms to not have a smell,  however I believe they may not be as safe because if the condom is brocken due to it's design, it's not obvious

Does anyone know of any good unscented fragrance free condoms?


Lelo is having a sale for Black Friday and I have been eyeing the enigma wave for awhile.

I also saw that they had released a new toy called the enigma double sonic.

If anyone has tried one or both, what do you think would be worth the purchase?

Lelo enigma wave vs Lelo enigma double sonic


LELO Ida Wave Dual Stimulation Massager vs we-vibe rave 2 blue? Idealy I would want it for a squirting orgasm. But if one  of them is way better than the other forget about the squirt. It doesn t matter if one is more expensive.

Which one to choose?


I (31m) and my fwb (30F) have a pretty good sexual relationship, no ties. Just great casual sex. She loves clitoral stimulation, and often asks for a finger or 2 to help provide a little pressure when building up during foreplay.. I really focus on her body cues and her gspot at this point.. she has no issue getting off this way. Even though she enjoys that pressure she does not like the idea of any toy penetrating her… I just feel like a toy of the appropriate size and shape could really intensify her orgasms more than my fingers… especially during foreplay when she’s using her lelo sila on her clit… how can I go about this idea? And what may be some appropriate toy options for this endeavor?

How do I introduce toys and new ideas in the bedroom?


I was out shopping with my boyfriend yesterday and we stumbled into Ann summers. Had no intention of purchase and was just browsing as I have secretly been struggling to orgasm and I was looking for possible aids. We got talking to a sales assistant who recommended the LELO sona. I get student discount and was feeling adventurous so I bought one.

I have always found it easy to orgasm alone but have had mixed experiences with toys (clitoral, internal and anal). I had a wand which was just a basic one from Amazon and that worked wonders. It broke so then I bought the Demi wand from bellesa and for some reason me and that toy are incompatible. I do not know if it is because the neck is too bendy or the shape or sensation.

So when I tried the sona I was alone but in front of my partner and was unsuccessful. However today I gave the toy a go alone and OH MY GOD. It is intense so I used it very lightly over my clit, adding more pressure over the parts that the hood covers and it was fabulous. It is one of the best orgasms I have had in a long time. The stimulation feels really deep and it gave a sort of burning tingling sensation in a good way right as I was about to orgasm.

So seriously if you have a vulva and are in the market for a new toy then I seriously urge you to invest.

GET A LELO SONA


Looking a discrete toy due to the environment I’m in, is the lelo sona is it noisy, roughly how many decibels?   Any advice welcome

Lelo Sona what’s it like compared to other clitoral toys?


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We’re a long standing couple breaking into more foreplay and fetish stuff.

For reference I’m a sub, she’s a switch. Looking for tips and tricks for hotter and more pleasurable non vaginal sex?

We use lelo personal moisturizer for footjobs and sex, we use ID Anal lube for prostate stuff (although it’s never been pleasurable), we use stroke 29 gun oil for handjobs.

Techniques I can teach my wife for better handjobs, footjobs, and first time pegging?


I got a Lelo Sona 2 during the pandemic, tried for three days to make it do anything nearling pleasurable, watched a ton of YouTube videos, and eventually tossed it in a drawer and forgot about it.

I recently found the charger and want to give it another go before I toss $125 in the trash.

Any other tips than "use lube" and "move it around to find the right spot"?

Ladies: How do these clit sucker toys work?


I was using my lelo sonic massager/ clit sucker/ sonic vibrator (idek what to classify it as) and already had a light orgasm and went again.

Second orgasm wasn’t a crazy intense one either- but what followed was a sudden release of liquid (it didn’t feel like a pee release, felt like it came from deeper in my vagina). The liquid was quite a bit and release from just one contraction- it was clear/ basically felt and looked like water. No smell (even after my sheets dried). It was literally a gush, like someone opened the door to a flooded room. A notable wet patch was on my sheets.

I always thought squirting was literally a squirt, like flying everywhere but I just had a sudden release of a lot of liquid and literally boringly seeped out so was this still squirt? Even though I didn’t physically squirt anything out.

 I’ve never had this much come out, only have contracted and felt a little drip but never seen anything released like this. Also orgasm wasn’t that great or intense but the liquid release was interesting/ surprising.

Did I squirt?


My wife got some vague advice from her MD about trying an "FDA approved vibrator" in a discussion about hormone replacement and such. She asked me to figure out what that means, and I've managed to find 2 toys that might fit the bill:

The [Crescendo 2 ](https://mysexmd.com/pages/crescendo2-health-2)and the [Nuri](https://www.heytabu.com/collections/shop-all/products/nuri-massager) - both mention FDA and studies, as well as post-menopausal women the target users.

Anyone tried both? Either?

Wife was a happy [Lelo Liv 2 ](https://www.lelo.com/liv-2)customer before menopause, and we tried a Womanyzer and Hitachi Magic Wand after. None of those do the trick for her these days, in case the context helps.

Post-menopause Vibrator Advice Needed


I know bad dragon has great body safe fantasy toys but I prefer vibrating/thrusting toys. Every search I make leads to Amazon toys and I don't trust any of those to be body safe. Is there any brand similar to BD or Lelo that specializes in moving fantasy toys?

Where could I get good quality vibrating monster/fantasy dildos?


I purchased a box of Lelo Hex condoms due to the overwhelmingly positive reviews without looking into the negative ones. I’m reading some things about how you won’t know if it breaks due to the hexagon structure containing punctures. Is this true, and what are your experiences with the condom?

Lelo Hex - are the few negative reviews valid?


I keep getting ads for it and I'm curious if it's really THAT good that my partner might like it. Anyone have actual experience with it?

Has anyone tried the Lelo Enigma Wave toy?


I was sceptical about buying a toy for my girlfriend, after research and advice I purchased the Lelo Sona, best purchase I've made, our sex life has never been so good

No looking back


I realy want something  from stone to my colection. I was wondering if this type of dildo will fit P-spot?  Will it be good for P spot, I seen Lelo Bily2 vibrator, and it has really close shape.

Laid D 1 stone dildo. Is it good for prostate stimulation?


Hello I'm trying to find a better sex toy. I have a few. I use some more then others and some I don't use at all.

I have 2 different fleshlights I always end up using.
Mia Malkova
https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/male-masturbators/celebrity-molds/sp-fleshlight-girls-mia-malkova-lvl-up-108881.aspx
Jenna Haze
https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/male-masturbators/fleshlight/sp-fleshlight-jenna-haze-102791.aspx

I have 2 cockrings I use alot.

Performance Silicone Glo Penis Ring

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/penis-rings/sp-performance-silicone-glo-penis-ring-106321.aspx

We-Vibe Verge

https://www.we-vibe.com/us/verge

And the toys I never use.

MANTA Vibrating Stroker

https://us.funfactory.com/products/manta?gclid=CjwKCAiAob3vBRAUEiwAIbs5Tn0YNL_r-Zro7fpzRl2AX8t2DkZh8blELzFZ5iR4ZN3yCLH7JX1mzhoCCxAQAvD_BwE&sscid=11k8_gferj

F1S™ V2

https://www.lelo.com/f1s-v2

TORNADO-5

https://m.bestvibe.com/tornado-5-rotating-10-vibrating-transparent-sleeve-oral-sex-cup.html?spm=m.c_3.g17

And I had my eyes on the

Automatic Male Masturbators - Carl Hands Free Male Masturbator with Suction & Male Stroker 3D Textured Men’s Blowjobsex Machine

https://www.lovexxo.com/collections/masturbation-cup/products/automatic-male-masturbators-carl-hands-free-male-masturbator-with-suction-male-stroker-3d-textured-men-s-blowjobsex-machine?spm=..collection_aa288aa9-70ec-4c09-b7c0-013a4e195ce8.collection_1.18

Was looking at this because it sucks and sqeezes. But thought I'd see what other people enjoy. I'm not looking for butt plugs or prostate vibrates. Thanks.

Male sex toys


My [43m] wife [42f] is great in bed but a little vanilla. To my surprise she brought up using toys after reading a message board. I was excited to try something new with her. We bought the Lelo Titani as it was something we could use as a couple. It was fun but my wife has never used a vibrator before and the sensation was new and intense for her. Especially since these toys target the clit. I think it was a little much for our first time. I decided to get her a clit sucker toy as I thought non-vibratory stimulation would be better. We haven’t tried it yet but I think she’s less interested in trying now. Just wondering what your experiences with using toys in bed were and how I can support her in trying something new. Thanks in advance

New to sex toys


19F So I’m starting to look at sex toys, and I’m not sure which is best. I’m also a virgin so I wanna get prepared for when I have sex, should I get a dildo and a vibrator? I haven’t had a boyfriend yet and I’m just wanting to be ready to have sex with him, and not feel uncomfortable. I need the best brands for the vibrators, I wanna get the Lelo but those are expensive.

What toy should I purchase


I'm 22 f but if the condoms aren't thin I don't feel anything at all so I get very bored during sex and above all it rubs too much🥲

what condom is the thinnest? lelo hex or skyn ?


We tried the Hitachi alternative on Adam and eve and it didn't last long enough and didn't pack enough punch. If yall have either of these, what do you like about it?

If you don't use either, which one would you recommend?

Thanks!

Can anyone recommend a strong waterproof wand? We're considering the Playboy Pleasure Royal or the Lelo Smart Wand 2.


Being male, once my penis is hard, the faster it's stroked, the quicker it cums.

I love making my lady cum with oral and fingers, but would also love to sometimes have her orgasm with me inside her.

She'll cum during intercourse if she's on top grinding (I'm guessing because of the friction on her clit), but she has grind me pretty fast to get off, and that makes me cum really quickly. Same thing with missionary (I'll grind into her from on top and she can get off, but only if I'm going very fast which I can't do for long because it makes me cum).

If I were to wear a vibrating cock ring (the type with the bit on the top such as a Lelo Tor 2 or Maude band), with the different speeds, etc, could she possibly be on top and still cum but while grinding a bit slower (making me last longer), and the same with missionary?

Will a vibrating cock ring help her orgasm during intercourse?


Also please indicate if you are a man or a woman as it might differ. I have seen that these ones are very well rated, so Id like to ask what you guys think... Which one felt better?

Lelo Hex (0.045mm) Vs. Okamoto 0.01/0.04, Vs. Kimono Microthin. Which one condom was better for you?


We tried fingering, oral, fingering + oral, anal, rubbing clit, i bought lelo sona vibrator and guess what. it doesn’t work. I can only orgasm when he isn’t in the same room as me. It’s so frustrating seeing him orgasm multiple times, now I find masturbation better than sex. I’m never satisfied and I’m afraid it’ll ruin our relationship.

Can’t orgasm with bf, only when i’m alone


I’ve had the rose,bullet and lelo rabbit vibrator. None of these gets me to orgasm. It just feel like vibrations on my clit. When I first started using toys I would squirt instantly now it takes forever to even orgasm with a toy. I can orgasm from head so I know it’s not that. What do you recommend?

Toys aren’t cutting it


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I currently use the Lelo Sona clit sucking vibrator - it is the only way I can come. PIV doesn't get me to cum, but doing both simultaneously is the best feeling ever. However, I've noticed that my Lelo Sona gets in the way mostly when I'm having sex (it's bulky), so I end up not using it, and then not cumming with my guy. I want to cum with him and have him inside of me. Any recommendations of similar vibrators I can buy that I can use with someone else, so the vibrator is flatter while still suctioning? Price isn't necessarily an issue.

FLAT clit sucker vibrator that can work during PIV intercourse


This is a follow up to the dilemma I posted in Dead Bedrooms, and it's a positive. After multiple difficult conversations, my wife (F54) agreed to review a list of new sexual things I'd like to do with her.

We've been married 30 years and are almost done with raising our 4 children.

When I (M55) asked her desires or fantasies to try new things, she had nothing to add. Said she's never viewed porn and wouldnt know what she desires. She did tell me that the time we had sex underwater in a swimming pool was super hot, but that was it for memorable sex with me

So I send her the list in an email with links to positions and activities that have illustrations, not real people, and she responded with the things she would not be comfortable with:

1. Anal play
2. Toys / vibrators
3. Toe sucking
4. Finding the g spot
5. Fuck face blowjob

The things she agreed to are new positions and variations on oral sex (She LOVES my oral skills).

Good news - she initiated some Wednesday "afternoon delight" where the new things we tried were her sitting on my face for the first time (heaven), and she gave me the 3rd blowjob ever!

She orgasmed twice.

I didn't.

I have stupid erectile issues and have Viagra prescribed, but from the time she initiated, there was little time for the med to increase the blood flow. And I couldn't satisfy her PIV....

After not having sex for months, I was totally satisfied giving her orgasms, but she felt bad I didn't jizz.

So this was a start, but she said no to toys. But I went and bought a couples bundle from LELO that includes a cock ring for me. Maybe that will keep me up...

But she said no to toys and I don't know how to tell her I really want to level up our sex life with toys for me and her (got her a LELO clit stimulator that can be used during sex while I use the cock ring)

Any advice on how to bring this up without her thinking I'm a "perv'?

She is a devoted Christian, and I think that's feeding into her lack of sexual adventure....

Advice needed: My Plan to Revive a Dead Bedroom


Apparently i am an idiot who can't put the condom on. So little back story i bought 3 different brands, and every brand when i pull the condom out and i put it on head of my dick and try to slide it down it doesnt go down easily i have force it, everybody on the videos literally just pull it down and it goes down

i tried xl from lelo hex and regulars ones from durex and they are all the same, the ones from lelo hex are bit easier to pull down but still very hard. The other problem is once i do pull it down after the friction in flashlight or by hand the top of the condom looks all wore out as if it's gonna fall out, the base of the condom is still strongly around base of my penis, so i don't think it is wide

Can someone help me, in next couple of days i should have a sex and i am freaking out that i cant put a condom. Also not sure if relevant i do have little bit girthier penis but not that girthy that none of the condoms can go down

How do you put a condom on?


I know that condoms have such a bad reputation, but people often take condoms out of their size or quite thick ones. However I am not talking about those slightly-thinner condoms that are almost the same, I am talking about those 0.045mm ones (Lelo Hex) or even Onamotos' (0,010mm) (1mm = 0,3937inches). I guess that the reduction of sensations with them might still be present, but I dont think it would be such a great difference as the other ones, right?

Has anyone here tried super-thin condoms? How was it compared to sex without it?


I have a lelo 2 wand I think and it's 12" and I was wondering if I could bring that in my carry on with delta from Seattle to Colorado it's rechargable and has a locking travel function so would I be able to bring it on my carry on with no issue of them confiscating it or anything? Please linke to know before tommarow or before 6

Question about bringing toys on plane


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Can someone explain to me how to use lelo luna beads seen a thread of someone who used them but u dont know how to.lol Also kegel exercises that I can do on a daily


I tried lambskin and loved it

I just need a little more protection and it hits differently than Skyn or Lelo thin condoms

I'm allergic to latex

Condoms that are nearly as thin as lambskin?


Hello I know pairing spermicides with condoms is a normal thing, but because lelo hex is this new strong fancy condom I’m wondering if I can use spermicides(like VCF film) with it?

Can I use spermicides with Lelo Hex condoms?


i have orgasmed/squirted plenty with wand vibrators. the sona cruise i have, however, is a whole different story. it is one of the most amazing things i’ve ever experienced. i squirt every time pretty much instantly once i put it against my clit, within 10-20 seconds without fail. and i will squirt multiple times again while continuing to use it. yet.. i get so close to what feels will be (if i ever get there) the best orgasm i have ever had in my life - in fact, the feeling i have throughout my whole body is maybe not as “pleasurable” but it’s certainly more physically intense - i just don’t reach a full “release”. i want to orgasm sooo badly with it, and i am getting closer, but i’ve had it for almost a year and only just started actually feeling like i COULD orgasm with it in the last couple months.

it seems that it will be the most intense climax (and feels better in general) if i hold it completely still directly on my clit, and when i try to move it in little circles like i do with the wand or my fingers, it stops feeling as intense and the climb towards finishing seems to stop entirely.

i try relaxing and breathing slower, but my whole body naturally tenses because it’s so pleasurable, and on top of that, i want to keep the toy completely still so i try i subconsciously try to keep my whole body still.

any advice? i am growing to hate this thing as much as i love it. it’s taunting me.

my lelo sona cruise is a mystery to me?


My girlfriend can only orgasm when her legs are together. She needs to tense the hip adductor muscles on the inside of her thigh quite hard in order to cum. This means that she has never cum from sex (penetrative or oral) and I'm not really sure how to proceed. When we have sex she has tried using a vibrator or playing with herself whilst I'm thrusting but when her legs are open her clitoris is hypersensitive and gets overstimulated. This is obviously a problem if I am to eat her out.

I think that she has trained herself to only be able to cum in this way. She told me that since she's been doing it this way (legs ram-rod straight and tense as a board) since she was a child and anything else just doesn't bring her to orgasm. She does enjoy the sex a lot and after each time that we have sex she's screaming, her whole body is shaking and I can feel her vagina contracting but I would really like to be able to give her an orgasm. Is there any way that she can train herself to masturbate with her legs more open or failing that, any specific positions to try where her legs are closed and her clitoris can be stimulated? We've tried the prone bone position a few times but I guess it's too awkward for her to rub her clit when she's lying on her stomach. I bought a LELO Tiani vibrator that we'll try the next time we have sex which should hopefully remove this issue.

A final note: we are both each other's firsts and so are just as inexperienced as the other. Any advice would be much appreciated. I am at my wits' end.

My girlfriend can only orgasm with her legs together


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I'm a straight male who enjoys prostate massage, and I'm considering buying a prostate massager thing. I've been looking at the Lelo Loki Wave, but it looks absolutely enormous. Is this thing suitable for a beginner (i.e. someone who's never had anything other than a finger up their arse), or should I be looking at smaller models? Any recommendations?

Prostate massager for beginner?


I bought kegel balls made by lelo. But they have small mall inside bigger ball that make big noise. Damn they were expensive and now this :( I wanted to wear them whole day.

Just bought my first kegel balls and they are loud :(


Sorry for the long post. My (49M)wife and I had an argument last night during sex. Actually a couple of arguments and then finished having sex and things are a little awkward today. I am curious to hear any thoughts and if I am wrong.
My wife is very good looking at 48 years old and her confidence has been doing well since she had a tummy tuck. She works out and stays in shape. For some background she loves to give head and has gotten quite good at it. I can pretty much ask for it anytime and she is down for it. It’s pretty much the same thing for what I will call vanilla sex. Basically missionary or spooning position. She is not a huge fan of receiving oral and I love to give it. Many times when I am giving it she seems just not to be into it. And I really feel like she just wants me to cum and get it over with. I don’t mind if we were to do it that way but that is not the only sex I want every time we have sex which i would say averages about 3 times a week which I think is solid. So no complaints there.
My complaint is I feel like she is the gate keeper of the sex we will have. I feel It really doesn’t matter what I want or am in the mood for. To give you an idea we have had all sorts of sex and a lot of it mind blowing and fantastic. She does anal and when into it is very vocal and cums very hard. She text me a few weeks ago that she was embarrassed to admit it but she thinks she cums hardest from anal.
She also will do dp with toys on occasion. She enjoys toys when horny primarily just on her clit: we have a lelo that is her go to toy. She swallows and will very rarely ask me to cum on her. She also has some awesome outfits she wears that she looks amazing in and feels very sexy. When in these she will be a bit more aggressive in seeking her own pleasure which is awesome.
The trick is figuring out how and when she is going to be in this mood or willing for any of the above. We played with a suction dildo a few month ago. She spit roasted on the headboard and went insane with pleasure and moaning….and has never wanted to play with the toy again. She gets irritated when I try….but that night she was an animal.
We took to mojo upgrade quiz and all of her answers were tame and she thought we matched on everything because nothing racy came up. But it only shows matches and I knew she wasn’t going to have any outside the box stuff. As I mentioned earlier her confidence is high now but she is very self conscious and not too aggressive asking for what she wants. I felt bad we argued last night but I tried to explain that I sometimes want more then just vanilla sex. She wasn’t into me giving her head last night so I stopped. Then she got mad I stopped and we talk and discussed. Then we started again and she was getting more into it so I tried with the toys and then that turned into an argument. Finally we started again and I got her to play with herself. She rubbed her clit and then eventually fingered herself and had me taste it. All the while we were making out and I was sucking on her titties. Then she asked me to fuck her ass and we finished with some awesome anal. In my opinion mind blowing sex. But it only happened because I was upset and basically stopped and said good night twice. I don’t want to coerce her to have great sec. I want her to want it regularly.
My point is how do i know what she’s up for? Many times I will finish and all of a sudden she gets all worked up and starts playing with toys and then asking me to play with her ass and fuck her. The problem is I already finished because she likely said she didn’t want any of that additional play so I just cum.
If I were to deny having vanilla sex she would be incredibly offended and upset. but when she denies any kind of non vanilla sex it’s ok because it’s her body….. that is all fine and I agree with it but in the same sense she should not get pissed at me if I don’t want vanilla sex.
Sorry for the long post but just curious for any insight. I love her more then anything and will just continue to deal with this but I am curious for a way around this.

Trying to figure it out


What are some of your thoughts, personal reviews and/or stories related to said toy?

I read some reviews that I thought were surely overselling the product. It piqued my wife’s interest when some of her friends gave similar reviews describing it as a magic toy. So out of curiosity we went and bought the Sona 2 version and it was a game changer to our sex life. It really is a magic toy. Her desire to orgasm has greatly increased and so has her libido.

Thoughts on Lelo Sona vibrator?


I have a Lelo Hugh, prostrate massages, I can feel the vibrations but it never seems to bring me to any sort of climax, any recommendations on how to improve the experience

How to achieve a prostrate climax with toy


Certain medications I (male) am on make it nearly impossible for me to cum during intercourse with my wife. I have no issues getting aroused or staying hard, sex feels great, and my orgasms are otherwise amazing. The issue is that during intercourse I get to the precipice of cumming multiple times but can’t go over the edge. We have to stop and use our hands or a vibrator. Still fun, but we would like for me to be able to cum during intercourse.

A vibrating cock ring sounds ideal for hands free play, but I don’t know since they are designed to restrict blood flow and delay orgasm. It would have to be tight enough to give me good vibrations, but loose enough to not dull the sensation. Are there any toys you can recommend besides standard vibrators (we have a Lelo)? Thanks!

Couples toys that promote male orgasm?


So, I an ex-husband made me throw away a Rabbit in front of him. Fast forward 10 years and my boyfriend bought a Lelo Sona for (my birthday). We started having serious relationship issues and now I can find every toy HE USES but mine!
P.S. he works nights!
P.p.s. I’m planning on going to the adult store tomorrow to buy another one to make a point!

Why men deny sex toys…


Hi! So I hope I'm able to post this in here. I'm looking for vibrators that are quiet.

I do have a LELO toy but I think it's too loud 😬

Vibrators that are quiet and budget friendly


My wife always masturbates (with the bullet vibrator Lelo Nea) during intercourse in the prone bone (also called lazy doggy) position. The only problems is that sometimes her hands or arms gets crushed or goes numb under our combined weight.

Does anyone have an idea for how to avoid this? I browsed the Liberator website, in hope that they would have a sex pillow with a tunnel for the hand/arm, but unfortunately not.

Masturbating during prone bone – Hand gets crushed


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i have the pink lelo sona and i know im using a 5v charger as recommended, but for some odd reason the lights aren’t blinking on the front like they said it should? i am so confused cause i only got it a few months ago so i doubt it’s dead idk what’s wrong

vibrator not charging?


First, be aware I’m (38M) posting on behalf of my girlfriend (26F), who is shy af (more on that later).

Backstory - a few years back, she and I got together, and she, coming from a strict religious sheltering environment, had no clue about sex toys. Naturally, I went a little crazy buying her toys, and we had a lot of fun. One day, we were in Wal-Mart and saw a clit-sucking toy, and we didn’t have any of those, so I bought it. Awesome choice. We were a bit impatient, so she came her brains out multiple times on the 30-minute drive home. I was hooked as well, randomly using it on her during other play or in the shower. It couldn’t fail, although sometimes it made her make a hell of a mess. Anyway, we ended up trying the internal/external one from Tracy’s Dog, and another one from an off-brand company, and they did basically nothing for her. Wal-Mart toy was the clear winner. Then, due to a sale, I picked up a Lelo Sona 2 Cruise…

That was a disaster. Within probably 45 seconds she complained of pain. After removing it, there was a small amount of blood. I did a little research and apparently that happens to some people. Lelo wasn’t up for a refund, so in the trash it went. It has been a year since that incident, and although everything else healed and returned to normal (shape, size, feeling, reactions), the other clit-suckers do next to nothing now, and most of them cause her a little pain.

That said, sometimes the Wal-Mart one still does it’s job. It’s just rare. The main thing we notice is different about it is that the “mouth” of the unit is a bit larger. That got me wondering if there were other such toys that are worth trying.

So, any suggestions?

Lelo Sona 2 Mistake… Suggestions?


I don't want to read too much into things but was he low key implying that sex isn't great?  I felt a bit self conscious.. i was browsing to buy a sex toy online and wondering what else to get and he told me i should buy lelo luna beads. if I buy this is it more for his benefit or for me? I'm really new to all this.. thanks.

Guy suggested I buy kegel balls for pelvic exercise and I feel self conscious about what was implied.. Has anyone used them and benefitted?


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Lelo sex toys for women


Hi all!

Just looking for any opinions on these g spot toys from Lelo:

Mona 2

Gigi 2

Liv 2

Which one did you choose and why? How is it for you? If you have owned multiple, which did you like the best and why?

Wanting to get into g spot play, I don’t think I’ve ever orgasmed from there before.

Thank you!!

Sex toy product advice: Lelo


Would like to get one, I have trouble orgasming from foreplay and want to use it with my partner, but am worried these will be too much as I've never used a toy before

What is the best vibrator, hibachi magic wand or lelo or other?


Hi (21f), I went to buy condoms the other day cause I finally used all of the ones I bought a long time ago, and was surprised about the variety. I have no idea if the brand really matters so it's best to spend some more, or if the "fun" ones are actually worth it, etc... So I would like to hear peoples opinions on the topic. All I've tried is the regular blue and the red or sensitive Durex ones (which to me where no different) and Lelo Hex which we didn't really liked.

Let's talk about condoms


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So, a while back I bought these kegal torpedo things off of amazon. I did not like them. The strings hurt and they felt awkward..so never went on my kegal journey . But now I see there are newer types and I keep hearing about the LELO brand and was wondering if these are beginner friendly or should I get something else before I shell out 40$.

I know its been asked..but cant find anything recent .


Tw mentions of but not details of inappropriate touch in childhood, suicide ideation, self harm, rape (not my experience)

Hello, this is a long one they I've been trying to get my courage up to post this  and I'd appreciate any insight that can be offered!

Recently someone suggested that I (28F) may have vaginismus, which I never thought because I can manage one finger, sometimes two a little bit of the way, and tampons - though I prefer not to use them. I've also managed small sex toys. Lelo pleasure beads standard size were too big for me though.

My history :
- grew up in a communicative household, where sex could be discussed in a healthy way with my mother but in a culture where sex is taboo and you're expected to not have it before marriage
- I've had some moments of inappropriate touch by men when I was younger. My clothes were on but recently these retriggered memories have made things really hard for me. I'm in a bad way and sex is a big part of my anxiety.
- I've masturbated since I was seven, started enjoying fingers when I was 22ish and used some small toys 25 till now. Last couple of years, I have panic attacks afterwards 9/10 times. Really inconsolable sobbing, it can be pretty bad. I also have a high need to masturbate, specially when I think of the bad things that happened to me and I think part of me is sometimes trying to hurt myself. I feel good in the moment and I want to imagine being with someone but there's a part of me that wants to 'rape' and hurt myself because I feel I deserve it. I also keep reading about other people's rape stories and wishing someone would hurt me so I'd have a concrete reason for what I feel. I know it's not good and it's some kind of twisted trauma response. And I'm not detracting from anyone's real experiences. I know it's in my head now and nothing to do with other people.
-I've never had sex, been in a relationship or had any kind of intimacy besides a couple of first dates. I'm terrified of sex and men and can only imagine them hurting me and can't imagine anyone would be gentle.

-never had a pap smear. I went for one gyno appointment and he told me it's not necessary because I'm not sexually active and have done the hpv vaccine course - and that it would be uncomfortable for me. I'm also scared of it but there's also part of me that wants to force myself to do it because I'm scared and to test out having a man touch me. But I'm also scared ill get aroused at the doctors.

-I can't fit in anything bigger than half of two fingers. It hurts, I tried a lot with the Luna pleasure beads but I just couldn't get it in with lube and while aroused. After orgasm, if I have something inside of me (bullet vibrator for example) it can be hard to get out because I become tight after orgasm. I think part of me feels like I can only stretch myself further with the man I love because that's more intimate and part of the process??? But because I've never attempted inter course, I have no idea if that will actually happen.

-  When I'm really overwhelmed/disscoiating, I get really wet. I used to think it's arousal but now I know it's a trauma response and when it's really bad, I get contractions like an orgasm but it's painful not pleasurable. Like I'm clenching hard on something that is not there. And afterwards I might have cramps if it was really intense. Also, I broke my own hymen when I was 10-13

I'm trying to work through this with therapy but it's been slow going and really hard. I never considered vaginismus because I've not struggled with tampons and because I've never tried having sex and I thought not being able to do penatration with a person is the hallmark of a diagnosis.

Does any of this resonate with any of you? I'm trying really hard to make sense of stuff and have always thought it's my fear around sex causing the above. But someone planted a seed and I'm wondering if vaginismus is part of my story too?

is this vaginismus or just fear of sex?


I currently have a 2 prostate massagers, the Lelo Loki Wave and the Njoy Pure Wand. Both of these require you to hold them for use, though you can somewhat use the Wave hands free with adjustments while using.

I am curious if there is a good way to use these while having sex, or if you can suggest any other prostate related sex toys that will stay in during sex without holding them there.

Prostate Massagers for use during sex


Basically I just finished a nice session with my LELO Sona that I only take out once I for sure know that I'm home alone since I tend to moan quite loudly after I finish with it. After I finished and went to the bathroom to wash up I realised that my roommate was indeed home and I'm so embarrassed I literally want to move out lmao. Idk what to do. I kinda want to text her to apologise but I also want to pretend like it never happened?

Anyone got any advice for this horrible awkward situation?

My roommate heard me masturbate and I'm so embarrassed


I've (22M) been gifting my GF (23F) some sex toys since she hasn't really experimented with them before and was willing to try. I bought her a plain non-vibrating dildo and a lelo sona which was a clitoral massager. She thought the dildo was boring compared to the real thing and the clitoral massager was too intense so she doesn't use them.

I think she kind of gave up on sex toys, but I don't want her to miss out on pleasure. Are there any other types of sex toys to try before giving up on it altogether? Will a vibrating dildo or something else feel better even if she doesn't like these other sex toys?

Sex toy for GF who hasn't found one she likes


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There is an interesting collaboration at the moment that I really like. Diesel and Lelo. Is it just me or do some people also agree with me that it is cool?


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Hi, first time posting, sorry if it is usual/stupid questions. My wife delivered our second child few weeks ago. Obviously, we are not back in bed yet. But our sexual drive is quite high since I would say a month before delivering. We had some really nice ones recently, switching from vaginal to anal. She LOVES anal sex.

My new fantasy right now is to introduce double penetration to her.

I'm wondering if I can use a vibrator (she has a [picobong zizo](https://www.lelo.com/zizo)) to penetrate her vaginally while taking care of her back? It might be a stupid question, but we never really used it to penetrate, just to stimulate her clitoris.

What would you recommend to start DPing with my wife?

Would a dildo be better?

Any recommended positions?

What would be the best course of action? Vibrator first or last?

New fantasies after postpartum


This will seem random, but I'm really curious about this.

From what I can tell, sex toys for clitoral and g-spot stimulation during intercourse (like the Lelo Tiana and the We-Vibe) have only been around for about 15 years.

Did people try using clitoral and g-spot toys during sex before this? Like, a mini rabbit and rear-entry?

Sex toys during intercourse?


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Hey Reddit!

Been seeing this girl for nearly 4 months now. We just became exclusive.

I’ve been trying to hep her to orgasm vaginally. She usually has 1-3 clitoral orgasms (oral) with me everytime we have sex.

She tells me something yesterday that I’ve never really heard before though and was hoping someone could shed some insight/give any solutions?

She says she used to vaginally orgasm almost exclusively (describes it as orgasms purely from sex without any sort of clitoral stimulation and that she feels it all over her body instead of jusf her vagina). Whats interesting is she had vaginal orgasms right off the bat with her first and sexual second partners usually within 10 minutes of sex. She also had them in the beginning with her third partner until one day they just stopped. She was with him for 3 years but from my understanding, she stopped having them after the first year- right around when she bought a vibrator. Comparing dick sizes, the first two guys she was with- the first guy was about my size and the second guy was smaller and she still came vaginally so its definitely not a size issue. The third guy was shorter and less girthier than me but had an upward curve. She’s also been with about 4 other guys between guy number 3 and me and she was never able to cum vaginally.

We’re both very open with each other and I am quite a bit more experienced than her and I know she’s telling the truth.

 She hasn’t had a vaginal orgasm in a few years (since 18 and now 21). She thinks it has something to do with her using vibrators.

Anyways, this is the first I’ve ever heard of a girl starting with vaginal orgasms and then being unable to and only having clitoral orgasms. I want to unlock those vaginal orgasms back for her and train her to cum from her pussy again.

My first thought was to figure out if they were coming from the G-spot or the A-spot.

We’ve tried a few things since, from a sex wedge pillow for deeper penetration to a pelvic wand. I know for a fact I was hitting her back vaginal wall and a-spot, but may have been going a bit too hard and she wasn’t able to fully get in trance mode. I need to focus more on deep rythmic thrusts instead of fully slamming into her really roughly.

In the meantime- I have her doing kegel exercises using lelo luna beads and staying away from a vibrator for the next 6 weeks. Furthermore, I have some g-spot vibrators coming in (including the n-joy) a curved dildo, and some other things I’ll be experimenting with.

Any suggestions/tips/ advice from anyone that has been in a similar situation?

Thanks reddit.

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So I've been experimenting with prostate toys, none of them feel good, nor bad, just feel like something up my butt. Maybe I'm not doing it correctly? or I have a prostate that doesn't take stimulation well? If that's even a thing. I tired the following toys; Njoy pure wand, njoy Pfun plug, and Lelo Hugo.

Prostate massage doesn't feel good, am I doing it wrong?


I have the Satisfyer Pro 2, Lelo Sona 2 cruise and 2 dildos, looking to expand my collection and would like some honest reviews :)

People with vaginas/clitoris's, what is the best sex toy you've ever used


Honestly  i'm not sure where else to ask this question/which site/forumetc etc  etc i'm looking for answers from people that actuallytested/tried  multiple products that they know 100% what the best malesex toy is

but  yeah my question is what's the best male sex toy at the moment out of  all other products??some guy told me airturn 2 then there's airturn 3  then there's lelo f1s v2I need more indepth  experience/opinions/answersthanks in advance for anyone willing to help  me out.

 \^\_\^Also it would be nice if u can tell me which site i can use  to ask these kind of questions.

i have a 4.5/5 inch penis and  about 5 inch girth what would be the best male sex toy? for  pleasure.And best prostate anal vibrator?

 i've tried a normal speed  bullet which is about 3.6 inches long and i don't really feel anything

a normal basic one with a battery in it.

But  yeah i wish to know

1.what the best male sex toy is for a 4.5/5 inch  penis with a 5 girth

and

2. i wish to know what the best prostate  vibrator/stimulator is preferably with a remote/wireless

What's the best male sex toy?Thanks in advance.


Ladies, would you rather have an ora or a sona from Lelo??? I'd like to surprise her so please lmk what you think! She has mentioned these before but idk if the sucking or licking toys would be better 😊😇. I am in no way endorsed by lelo, just bought from them before and been happy enough.

https://www.lelo.com/valentines-day

Valentines sex toy for GF??


Just looking for validation. We’ve been together for 30+ years and now have a plethora of Lelo toys and dildos, etc. I’m pretty focused on making sure she cums before we have intercourse as I’m a little on the large side. Her glass dildo is called the “starter penis.” She kinda knows she’s in a good spot and has even joked we should do a Goop podcast for 50+ women. But most of her friends are older or in sexless marriages so she has no context. Just curious if there are other 50+ folks here achieving consistent female orgasms.

53 year old wife always cums


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I’m a guy and I recently got a Lelo Hugo. I tried using it with lube I already have for my sleeves but it has glycerin so it was super uncomfortable. I tried it with the glycerin free lube packet that came with it from Lelo and it was way better.

I’m thinking about getting Tush Cush by Hello Cake. Has anyone tried that? What are some other water based or perhaps hybrid lubes that are good for anal that DONT have glycerin?

Best lube for anal play with sex toy?


The guy I’ve been seeing for a few months now wants to try pegging. I’m definitely more than open to trying, but I’m not sure where to start, and I have a few questions:

1 - can we use my vibrator? I have a Lelo Mona that I don’t use anymore - would this be safe to use? (5.25” insertable length, 1.25” diameter, but meant for vaginal use) Would it be comfortable? I just don’t really want to spend $$ on a dildo or vibrator specifically for anal play, as I personally don’t like anal for myself.

2 - would I need anal plugs? Or can we just go slow with a vibrator?

Any other advice is also welcome! Thank you!

Guy I’m seeing wants to try pegging - where do I start?


I am thinking about getting the Lelo Hugo, especially because I like the idea of giving the remote to my wife while having sex. My only concern is whether it will stay in place during intercourse or if it is mainly made to sit on. What are your experiences with the device?

Wearing the Lelo Hugo while having sex?


I’d like to start this out by explaining I am no newbie when it comes to anal play—I’ve been sticking stuff in there for years. The problem is, I have never felt pleasure from this stuff, be it my fingers, a dildo, a vibrator, or a fixed-length insert.

With toys like the Aneros, I can lay there for hours doing the PC and anal contractions and breathing muscles to move the toy, but I feel absolutely no pleasure. I mean, it doesn’t feel BAD, but still, nothing. If I keep it in while I have a traditional orgasm, it makes it much better.

With vibrating inserts like the Lelo Hugo, I can sit there doing contractions or breathing exercises while it vibrates inside, but it just feels like vibrations deep inside—no pleasure.

With curved dildos like the Nioy Pure Wand, I can’t even locate my prostate. All I feel is pressure when I push upwards. When I insert far enough, I hit some sort of wall (where I need to curve the toy upward to insert it farther, but I’m assuming that’s too far to hit it, anyway) and when I pull it out, I feel nothing but pressure. Not even the peeing sensation that I’ve read about commonly. If I move it too fast, my body literally tries to push it out like going to the bathroom.

With all of these, I feel no pleasure at all. I have tried every position, method, speed, pressure, and exercises that exist in this world. I have read every guide out there. At this point, I am convinced that when I was born, a covert operation was performed to remove my prostate. I just want to find this thing, and I’m annoyed that even with the most expensive and reputable toys out there, I have made no headway.

If any of you have any tips or methods to help me glean even one bit of please, I implore you, please let me know. Or if I should just give up at this point. Thanks guys.

Trouble getting pleasure from prostate stimulation, even with the best toys out there