Some context first. My wife has a clit of steel. She needs a lot of stimulation to orgasm. In the 8 years we've been together I have done plenty of research (a lot of it here) and have upgraded her sex toys, which consisted of a couple of bullets. So far her Holy Trinity is the Tango and We-Vibe Wand and surprisingly, one of the cheapest toys in our arsenal, the Lovehoney beaded glass dildo.

After reading many reviews it was clear to me that opinions on the rose were very polarized - more than probably any other toy. Either you hated it or it was the best toy ever. Given that it was on "sale" by a reputable vendor, I decided to add it to the cart to help me get to the free shipping amount. I figured what the heck it's only $25.

Now forward to last night. My wife returned from an out of town assignment after several days and I surprised her with flowers and told her I had one more flower for her. I proceeded to explain to her the theory behind the design as best as someone without a clit can, and told her that it's hit or miss depending on the person so no worries if it's not to her liking because it wasn't really expensive like some of our other toys.

It took her a minute or two to find the pattern and the location that worked for her and then she started making some faces and sounds I've never experienced before. I then inserted fingers and started hitting her G-spot. The pleasure was so much that she was losing grip of the rose (because it's kinda awkward I guess) but I grabbed it and kept it where she had it. A few seconds later she squirted for the first time in her life. My hand was holding a huge puddle that overflowed and left a big wet spot on the bed. She didn't know what hit her. She said it was the most intense sensation she's ever experienced. The whole thing lasted about 6-7 minutes. That's the fastest she's had an orgasm. Definitely an achievement unlocked.

I guess we're lucky the toy was compatible with her. Now what would be an upgrade to the Rose? I'm thinking more about ergonomics. Something that is easier to hold or even used during penetrative sex.

The Rose - Holy Shit!


Do i need to discard it if the ridge on the head hurts when it slides in n out, and what should i look for instead? Im not beginner and **my previous dildo was 6 Inch** but the texture was smooth and i quickly got over it. Im male tho

# Lifelike Lover Luxe Realistic Multicoloured Silicone Dildo 7 Inch

[https://www.lovehoney.eu/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/lifelike-lover-luxe-realistic-multicoloured-silicone-dildo-7-inch/71433.html](https://www.lovehoney.eu/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/lifelike-lover-luxe-realistic-multicoloured-silicone-dildo-7-inch/71433.html)

Lovehoney dildo hurts


I'm looking for a bit of advice on cock rings and finding the right product. I already own this [stretchy silicon ring set](https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/cock-rings/cock-ring-sets/p/lovehoney-get-hard-stretchy-silicone-cock-ring-set-3-count/a32876g58321.html) (diameters 1.5 inch + 1.75 inch + 2.0 inch), but I find the rings a bit too intense and I'm worried about damage from long term use.

Crucially, I don't have any trouble with erections or stamina. I'm mostly actually looking for comfort and support. That's why I'm thinking I might want something different to the standard tight silicon rings?

There are kind of 2 different things I'm looking for here:

1. A large ring to provide a "snug" feeling of support, sitting behind my balls and going all the way around the shaft. Ideally I'd wear it for 45-60 minute long sessions, or even inside my underwear during the day. Maybe something like the [Bulge Band](https://bulgeband.com/)? Does anything like this exist? I think my package is on the larger side (9 inches around if I measure snugly, 8 inches if I squeeze - so looking at ring circumferences like 2.5-3 inches). Again I don't want something firm or constrictive here - if anything I want something soft like a hair scrunchie.

2. Another ring to help keep my balls away from my shaft. I have sensitive balls, and a fairly tight scrotum, so I don't like how they can sometimes shift upwards into my pelvis when I'm in certain positions. I've found the 1.75 inch silicon ring can work well here, but is there something better tailored for that?

Thanks in advance for the advice. It's hard to find products that aren't tailored towards helping with erections or delaying ejaculation.

Comfortable and safe cock rings


I ordered from Adam & Eve today and already canceled my order. I mistakenly ordered a dildo made with TPE, which I learned a few hours after ordering is not good for you. I liked Adam & Eve because they seemed pretty affordable and gave me a free toy, but I am open to other sellers.

Should I order with them again? The process was smooth enough, but I had to get into a chat for them to add my promised free toy, so that was a bit annoying.

So, I am looking for any other recommendations from toy sellers for actual products.

I've heard mixed reviews on Peepshowtoys, Adam & Eve, and Lovehoney. I want something affordable, but *safe* for my body.

I'm hoping for a dildo that doesn't look like skin? Not transparent/jelly/TPE, but maybe something pink/purple/etc with a suction cup? I am planning to use it more for performing oral than inside.

From Adam & Eve, I got a rose toy and a rabbit. Should I just buy those again from that store or another shop? What is the best beginner-friendly vibe/clit sucker? I prefer clitoral stimulation.

Any advice at all would be appreciated. I'm a clueless virgin who doesn't know where to start with sex toys. Clearly, since my first attempt was buying one that was not safe for my body.

Thanks in advance!! If it isn't too much work, linking me recs would be appreciated, and a small explanation of why a seller or toy is good. I am nervous about trying this again.

Best Online Toy Shop + Vibes + Dildo for Virgin


I’m looking for something that’s as close to the real thing as possible, including balls, and is good for practicing oral with too.

I’m looking at this: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/lifelike-lover-classic-dual-density-silicone-dildo-with-balls-8-inch---flesh-tan/86989.html

This is more than I want to spend but probably what I would have otherwise gone for: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/lifelike-lover-luxe-ultra-realistic-silicone-dildo-6-inch/86123.html

And then I liked this one but it’s not silicone so not safe I think?: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/lifelike-lover-classic-dual-density-dildo-with-moving-foreskin-8-inch/a45267g81593.html?queryID=ef1fb5a7a51fd5dcd85b2b98eef03867

Open to other suggestions :)

Realistic dildo for virgin


I’m a female looking for inexpensive butt plug that’s comfortable (and safe) to wear during sex - preferably available from Lovehoney (15% cash back on Rakuten right now lol)

I’m not specifically seeking vibration, but is it a good feature to have in a plug, or am I better off going without if it’s not priority?

Thanks in advance!

Butt plug questions!


Okay so here’s where it starts: I want to go to the store to buy my dogs and pee pads, and I decided that for a spontaneous moment I went to a sex shop because it had been a few months since I last been there. I wasn’t planning on purchasing anything, but I thought I could look. Anyways, I asked the cashier behind the desk if there were any more displays available that I could play around with. She says that that’s all that she had on the shelf, but on the other side of the wall, there were new toys that I could try and look at. She recommended this peach like shaped rose toy, and the brand is from ‘Romp’.

She turned it on and gave it to me in my hands and applied my index finger on top of where you put your clitoris. I was shocked and amazed. I couldn’t believe what I had felt on my hand, yet how soft and luxurious it felt. On top of that, the toy very cute because it’s a shape of a peach!! (instead of a rose).

It’s SUPER quiet (which sold me) compared to the other rose toys I saw on the wall. I impulsively bought it, and I used it last night for the first time ever. I was absolutely mind blown, BEST orgasm I had in months. I finally understood the reason why Rose toys are a women’s favorite. 10 out of 10, I would definitely recommend this to anyone over a regular rose toy.. I have the link below so you guys could check it out.

https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-suction-vibrators/p/romp-pink-peach-rechargeable-clitoral-stimulator/a49144g87135.html

First time trying the “Rose” like vibrator. I almost died.


Wife and I have recently really gotten into controlling me. She’s looking at a head vibrator on lovehoney and wants something she could “put in my pants” to tease me throughout the day or make me cum in my pants if she wants. Neither one of us are interested in me not getting hard, but more getting hard and only her being allowed to touch it or play with it, or possibly even me being a little embarrassed about it. We’re also looking for a normal cock ring since we only have vibrating ones. Any suggestions would be great!

Femdom toys we can use that aren’t a cage?


Hi everyone first post in here so hoping i can get some help.

I quite enjoy anal play as a guy but ive been getting into more feminisation and want to level up my anal game.

Currently use this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/basics-slimline-anal-starter-dildo-6-inch/a37282g68843.html

and the girth is fine its just the length just doesn't do it for me anymore. Amy advice on an upgrade would be greatly appreciated

Next level for anal play


I need to buy some new suctions for my womanizer from LoveHoney and thought that I’d add something new to my collection in the same order to make the shipping cost make more sense. As of right now have a bullet, one of the womanizers, and a little dildo. I definitely prefer clit stimulation, but Im pretty open to exploring and trying new things, so let me know what your personal Lovehoney faves are or any recommendations you think I should get!

Lovehoney toy recs


Hi there, recently brought a lovehoney penis ring and have been using it in play with coconut oil (i find its far more nicer to use than other oil and water based lubes) but its seems the silicone has deteriorated?

I did some online research but apparently coconut oil should be fine? Was my toy just deffective or did I make mistake?

If so, can anyone advise me on stretchable rings i can use with coconut oil?

My LoveHoney Doughnut has fallen apart after using coconut oil — did I mess up?


I’m kinda obsessed with this toy (https://www.lelo.com/ora-3) — I’ve not purchased, but it’s the first tongue-like toy I’ve found. I was curious if there are others too, or if this is the only one like it?

I’d like to get some kind of clit sucker toy, like this (https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/p/lovehoney-mon-ami-silicone-pleasure-air-suction-stimulator-/85104.html) one I have here. It’s good, but a little small and the pump’s more vibraty than suctiony. Any recommendations would be super appreciated.

Oral sex toys, like the Lelo sucker?


Bit of a story first and hoping to develop into a discussion!

I just ordered a few things from lovehoney a while ago to A try something new, and B try out this shop since I keep seeing it everywhere.

I used the localised website to get prices and available items and put my order through and for some reason it is shipping from Ireland, to the UK, to another UK address, to a third UK address and now has been sitting idle for two days.

I was ordering from a North American website so I thought it would be reasonably local... Luckily I got free shipping but there's now 3 companies I have to look through to track my items. My only thought is that I picked the few items that are not stored together and this order has been hitting each and every warehouse on its way over to me lol!

I know Amazon is a gamble for toy-safety concerns but man do they spoil you with being a turbo-mega-corp shipping machine having warehouses everywhere. 😂

Anyways, I hope this gave you a bit of a laugh and feel free to share your experiences with wacky shipping routes!

Weird experience with Lovehoney


I’ve been looking for a new toy that’s a size up from what I have now! I’m currently using a 6.5 inch long and 5.25 inch circumference dildo at the moment and I’m looking for a size up, nothing too big or fancy just a simple size up. I’ve been looking on Love honey mostly and I’ve found a few:

[https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/lifelike-lover-classic-realistic-extra-girthy-dildo-8-inch/86973.html](https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/lifelike-lover-classic-realistic-extra-girthy-dildo-8-inch/86973.html)

[https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/doc-johnson-bust-it-ejaculating-realistic-dildo-with-vac-u-lock-8.5-inch/59198.html](https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/doc-johnson-bust-it-ejaculating-realistic-dildo-with-vac-u-lock-8.5-inch/59198.html)

If anyone has ideas on these or any suggestions on others I would be very grateful 🙏

Can’t decide on my next toy..


I'm curious, what are your favorite toy/toys?

Mine are [this bullet](https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/vibrators/bullet-vibrators/p/mantric-rechargeable-bullet-vibrator/a39046g71738.html), which has been a long time favorite, and [this dildo](https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/lifelike-lover-luxe-realistic-multicoloured-silicone-dildo-7-inch/a38847g86982.html), which is new to my collection, but has quickly made it's way to the favorites list.

Favorite toy/toys?


Pretty much what the title says I ordered off amazon and the box with the toy was really beat up and torn a bit. I know you shouldn’t buy off amazon but I thought since it’s the lovehoney storefront I should be fine. I’m really worried about it potentially being used, the stuff inside is all wrapped in sealed plastic bags but the box itself just looks used and torn through. I should just discard right?

Ordered lovehoney off Amazon box looks ripped up


My fault for not thoroughly reading the fine print, but I ordered from Lovehoney Canada in part due to their 100-day pleasure guarantee where you can return an item for store credit if you're not fully satisfied. The catch is, in addition to the buyer paying return postage, Lovehoney also deducts the inflated "value" of the gift-with-purchase.

I ran the numbers and found that it doesn't make much financial sense to return an item unless you \*hate\* it:

\* Main item cost: $120.96 + tax

\* Minus gift "value": $59.95

\* Voucher amount: $61.01

\* Minus estimated shipping: $25 incl. tax

I'm not sure it's worth the hassle and the additional $25 out-of-pocket for shipping (plus whatever I end up spending over and above the $61 voucher amount) to exchange a $121 item for a $61+ item.

As you'd expect, the gift "value" is seriously inflated. Lovehoney sells similar non-gift items for $28-32 ($35-40 minus the 20% off code that they always have) and I would get to choose something that better fits my preferences than the limited options in the gift section.

Lovehoney Guarantee Catch


I got a rose toy (from lovehoney) and the charger, which doesn’t come with an adapter, says to not use with anything more than a >5V outlet, and the instructions also say to check my local voltage level? Um… hello? These seem like oddly specific safety instructions for such a common toy. I think I have a 5V 2A AC adapter sitting around somewhere but like genuinely, how are they expecting me to know or to test my local voltage level? This is just supposed to be a sex toy. Baffled.

What are the consequences if I did charge it “improperly“ anyways? Is this thing gonna blow up or is just going to kill the lifespan of it? How do you all charge yours?

Rose toy— overly complicated charging instructions?


Hey everyone,

I’m flying soon (carry-on only) and planning to gift a sex toy to a close female friend as a surprise 😅 Want to make sure I pick something TSA-safe and avoid any awkward moments at security.

Main concerns:

* Will it get flagged in carry-on?
* Noise / accidental activation 😬
* Size & discreteness

Shortlist:

1. External Vibrators

Wand Vibrators

Lelo Switch is good one

or classic Hitachi wand

2. Internal Vibrators/G-Spot

Lush 4 (Super Best) i have used Lush 2 blind buy

Lush Nora 2 (Bluetooth and app control)

Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator

Lush Osci 3

Womanizer Next Duo

Womanizer DUO

The Thrusting Rabbit

ENIGMA™ Cruise

SORAYA Wave™

ENIGMA™ Double Sonic

3. Suction Stimulators/Clit Suckers

Lush Tenera 2 (Pair with Lush 4)

Womanizer Next

Womanizer Enhance

Flower Dance Carnival 4 Tongue Licking Vibrator

Sex Lip Lifelike Oral Love Vibrator

Georgia 360° Rotation Licking Rabbit Vibrator

SILA™ Cruise

Lovehoney Rose Clitoral Suction Stimulator

Lem Clitoral Massager

4.Panty Vibrator(can be used anywhere and in public too remote control lol)

Lush Ferri

Lush Flexer

Lush Ambi

The Remote Control Butterfly Panty Vibe

E. Butt plugs

Other

Lush Gemini for nipple play

she's a vibe and ready, set, vibe bundle set

Peral Panties

If you’ve traveled with anything similar:

Which category is safest for TSA?

Are wand vibrators a bad idea because of size?

Do app-controlled / Bluetooth toys cause any issues?

I only have Carry-on, NO Checked bag — what would you recommend?

Just trying to avoid any awkward bag checks while still getting something really nice as a gift. Thanks in advance 🙏

Traveling with a sex toy gift (carry-on only) — which ones are TSA-safe? Traveling domestic US


My favourite vibrator that I’ve used has been sold out and discontinued, basically it was an insertable vibrating egg but it was shaped like a pebble vibrator (one side is flat) and hence the vibrations were consistent throughout and I’d use the flat side for external broad vulva stimulation. It also had the deep rumbly vibrations (when it was brand new I stuck to level 1, but as the motor deteriorated I moved up to level 2).

The toy I’m referring to is the “Lovehoney Rechargeable Remote Control Love Egg” item number 82327. I will link below if allowed.

Anyway I’m trying to find a replacement and I’m having a really hard time and nothing I’ve purchased so far quite has the right shape/feel, I’ve tried a few curved ones but they didn’t sit right for me to get the right spots?

I prioritise stimulation areas near the vaginal opening, then up along the length (towards the clitoris) so I’d use the vibrator described above with the tip pressed to the opening (still externally) so for any pointed pebble vibrators, I’d essentially be using it upside down (because I imagine the tip is meant to be for clitoral stimulation). I still want some clitoral stimulation from the vibrator but i’m not a fan of pin point at the clitoris (it’s not a sensitivity issue, it’s that the orgasms aren’t as good this way lol).

So overall I’m looking for broad external stimulation but I’d probably be using any pebble vibrators upside down from the intended.

I was looking at the Je Joue Mimi Soft and I’m wondering if this will suit my needs? I’ve seen reviews saying the vibrations are strongest on the upper half (with the tip being the top), but does anyone know what the vibrations are for the rest of the body? To the point that there would be decent (doesn’t need to be super strong) vibrations for clitoral stimulation at the base of the toy?

And I’m worried it will be a little too wide as the Lovehoney is 4cm in width (its widest at the middle? and I saw a review saying the Je Joue is 5cm in width (but I hope they meant that at the base.

Anyway sorry for the super long and descriptive post but nothing has ever given me like body shaking orgasms the way the Lovehoney one does and it’s on the verge of dying 😭

Je Joue Mimi Soft as a broad external vibrator?


my lovehoney vibrator just died, it wasn’t anything spectacular but it did the job and i had it for \*years\* so now i know nothing about what’s the latest and what’s the best. here are my necessities:

• must be \~$100 or under

• must be wireless

thank you! ☺

powerful vibrator - any recs?


my lovehoney vibrator just died, it wasn’t anything spectacular but it did the job and i had it for \*years\* so now i know nothing about what’s the latest and what’s the best. i’ve had other ones but they’ve all been kinda shit tbh, and too gentle. as i’ve gotten older, i’m also wanting to spend a little more for something more powerful, here are my necessities:

• must be \~$100 (i’m in aus so that’s roughly 150 for us!)

• must be wireless

• more clit than g-spot stimulation toy

• powerful (high speed settings)

• waterproof silicon preferably

thank you! ☺

so overwhelmed by vibrator options - can anyone help?


any dildo recommendations from Lovehoney?

f22 virgin i currently have this dildo

the lifelike lover classic realistic dildo 6 inch (which is 5 inches insertable and 5 inches circumference) but i am looking to upgrade but am unsure what size or girth as I am indecisive and there's too many options.

please help!!! (wildsecrets recommendations too if you think they're better)

Lovehoney dildo recommendations please


Hey everyone :)
I’m a 23yo virgin guy looking to buy my first dildo for anal play and I’m a bit overwhelmed by all the options. I’ve read that I should definitely stick to silicone for safety, but beyond that, I’m not sure what to look for. I’ve been looking at LoveHoney, and I’m not sure if this 'Lifelike Lover Luxe Realistic Colour-Changing Silicone Dildo 7 Inch' would be a good fit. Do you know of any other websites where I could buy one? I’m from Europe, btw.
Also, do you have any general tips for a first-timer so I don't hurt myself or get discouraged? Ty for your help!

23M seeking advice on first anal toy


[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L4zI7l2YXBg](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L4zI7l2YXBg)

[https://carasutra.com/review/lovehoney-silicone-g-spot-suction-cup-dildo-review-7-inch/](https://carasutra.com/review/lovehoney-silicone-g-spot-suction-cup-dildo-review-7-inch/)

[https://hawttt.ca/products/view/6794/Lovehoney-Silicone-Suction-Cup-G-Spot-Dildo-7-Inch](https://hawttt.ca/products/view/6794/Lovehoney-Silicone-Suction-Cup-G-Spot-Dildo-7-Inch)

...out of stock everywhere in the world, seems like. anyone seen it somewhere?

anyone seen this toy for sale? trying to find another one... =(


Hi Guys,

Looking at getting a new harness and looked at the StrapOnMe range. Look very high quality, wondering if anyone has had any experience and if they'd recommend it?

If not I'm looking at some of the lovehoney strap ons which seem quite highly rated. Currently have a cheap one from Amazon that isn't great.

Any other recommendations would be appreciated

Thanks!

Strap On Me recommendations


Hello again, I come back seeking wisdom. I'm torn between two vibrators right now, and I just have no clue which one would be better. Here are the two toys I had in mind. I liked these two because they had more than just vibrating happening.

[Lovehoney Dual Embrace Pulsing Clitoral Suction Dual Stimulator](https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-suction-vibrators/p/lovehoney-dual-embrace-pulsing-clitoral-suction-dual-stimulator/87411.html)

[Svakom DuoGlow App Controlled All in 1 Rabbit Vibrator](https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/vibrators/rabbit-vibrators/p/svakom-duoglow-app-controlled-all-in-1-rabbit-vibrator/88435.html)

though I'm sure you lovely people may also have recommendations outside of those two so here is what I'm looking for if you think you may have a better fit.

\*  g spot stimulation

\* clitoral stimulation (I want to try the suction stimulation tbh)

\*I would prefer it to be from the lovehoney website

\*ships to the US

\* I would love to spend under 100, but if you know something is GOOD I'd be willing to spend more

\* I would like it to have more than just vibrations, like pulsing or thrusting

if you need me to answer any questions, please ask away in the comments

thank y'all so much for helping a girl out

Looking for advice on which vibrator to buy


Being SUCH a fan of clitoral suction toys I can't believe I've never tried these before, but finally I've got my hands on not one, but two!

I've compared the Lovehoney Indulge (budget clit sucker/g spot vibe) and the slightly more expensive Womanizer Blend in my latest review.

https://sextoyreviews.uk/best-dual-stimulator/

They were both really good but honestly the Womanizer... Thought I was going to actually explode the orgasm was that intense!

I'm now wondering what something like the LELO Enigma could achieve 🤯🤯🤯 anyone tried one of the top end ones??

Trying out dual stimulator suction devices - why haven't I before?!


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Lovehoney 20% discount code :)


Hey everyone,
My wife and I were looking for some new toys to experiment with and came across a penis sleeves. The descriptions claim they help provide a "longer-lasting, harder experience" which definitely caught her eye. (She’s a little hesitant jumping into a lot of extra girth)

We’re specifically looking at open-ended models because she wants to keep that direct skin to skin contact.

Does anyone have first-hand experience with any of these specific models:

[https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/penis-extenders-sleeves/p/perfect-fit-open-ended-textured-penis-sleeve/a46732g83920.html](https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/penis-extenders-sleeves/p/perfect-fit-open-ended-textured-penis-sleeve/a46732g83920.html)

[https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/penis-extenders-sleeves/p/lovehoney-mega-mighty-uncut-penis-sleeve-with-ball-loop/a49476g87483.html](https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/penis-extenders-sleeves/p/lovehoney-mega-mighty-uncut-penis-sleeve-with-ball-loop/a49476g87483.html)

[https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/penis-extenders-sleeves/p/perfect-fit-4-inch-open-ended-penis-sleeve-with-ball-loop/a48327g86134.html](https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/penis-extenders-sleeves/p/perfect-fit-4-inch-open-ended-penis-sleeve-with-ball-loop/a48327g86134.html)

[https://blushvibe.com/products/performance-clear-studded-c-sleeves-by-blush-bl-13129?variant=43638871752875](https://blushvibe.com/products/performance-clear-studded-c-sleeves-by-blush-bl-13129?variant=43638871752875)

Has anyone used open-ended sleeves for better stamina?


I am currently looking at one on LoveHoney, one that's around 20-30 dollars, and I kind of want to keep that price, but I can go 5 or 10 dollars more.

Is LoveHoney a good place for stuff like this? Are there other places I should look at? I have to wait to get paid, I'm just asking this in advance because I want to do this properly. If I'm shoving something in my ass, I want to make sure nothing goes wrong.

I'm using my horny alt to ask this, but what's a good beginner butt plug (or dildo) that won't break the bank. Also, is LoveHoney a good place to buy from.


Hi... I'm 19F and I still live with my parents but I really wanna get a toy without them finding out. They're pretty good about not snooping around in my mail  but I'm still nervous. I was going to order off of LoveHoney but I'm NGL I'm afraid they might know what it is based on the "LH Trading" they put on the sticker and the fact that it's been around for so long. I need something more niche..... Help....!!!

I need something discreet!!! Help!!!


Can anyone help me out? I’ve bought a knicker vibrator from lovehoney: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/vibrating-knickers/p/lovehoney-rendezvous-magnetic-remote-control-knicker-vibrator/a45391g81820.html

No matter what I try, it just won’t seem to turn on? I’ve charged it to where the light stops blinking (which I assume means it’s fully charged). I’ve pressed and held the power button many many times but nothing seems to work

Rendezvous remote control vibrator won’t turn on


Looking for a softer dildo similar in size to the King Cock Mega Girthy (10.5")

I have the[ King Cock Mega Girthy Ultra Realistic suction cup dildo (10.5")](https://www.lovehoney.com.au/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/king-cock-mega-girthy-ultra-realistic-suction-cup-dildo-10.5-inch/a34687g62729.html). The size and girth are honestly perfect for me, but the material is just way too firm. It barely flexes and feels a lot harder than I expected.

From what I’ve read, toys made from dual-density PVC usually have a soft outer layer but a really firm inner core. I think that’s what’s going on here because it definitely doesn’t feel very squishy.

So I’m trying to find something around the same size/girth but noticeably softer and more flexible. Something with more give when you press or bend it.

Ideally:
\- Similar size/girth
\- Much softer / more flexible
\- Suction cup would be nice but not required
\- Realistic or semi-realistic is fine

If anyone knows brands or specific models that feel softer but still come in that size range, I’d appreciate the suggestions.

Need a softer 10.5" dildo (same girth)


Hello, I'm considering Nexus Glide. I'm a beginner and right now I'm using this [https://www.lovehoney.eu/sex-toys/butt-plugs/non-vibrating-butt-plugs/p/lovehoney-booty-buddy-silicone-butt-plug/a16665g20512.html](https://www.lovehoney.eu/sex-toys/butt-plugs/non-vibrating-butt-plugs/p/lovehoney-booty-buddy-silicone-butt-plug/a16665g20512.html)

I thought about Nexus Excel, but it seems very big. Glide have mixed reviews, but it seems a good option. Anyone is having this? Hows your opinion?

Good non-vibrating P-spot massager


I’m newly out as gay and I’m done being in denial I am gay and I need help finding a toy to begin with I’m a bottom and want toys that can help me with that. I have looked at the following websites I will link below. Please any help to a new comer would be appreciated.

The 3 I have looked at is LoveHoney, PinkCherry and PeepShowToys. All 3 look great peepshow toys really gets my attention with their focus on body safe products.

Any advice or recommendations would mean a lot to me thank you. 😊

Help!


28m here. Just bought the Lovehoney Mega Mighty 2 Extra Inches for my 25f wife as a gift and can’t wait for it to get delivered. I know she’s had bigger than me before and can tell she’s turned on by big cocks. She’s not fully onboard yet with the cock sleeve, but she said she could be convinced. I have a feeling she’s going to love it and lose her mind. Has anyone used this sleeve, and any recs on how to use it the first time/get her fully excited to try it?

Cock sleeve help


Hey,
So everyone has a recommendation on their favorite lube but I just end up totally lost and IDK how to pick.

I'm going to be using the lube on Fleshlights and Aneros Helix Syn.

I have never used water based lube so I'm not sure what exactly they feel like, but I imagine I would prefer the less slimy varieties and most long lasting

Would be best if I could pick it up at Lovehoney as they offer free shipping to my country. Some brands also offer free shipping on Amazon so that's another good option for me.

There's too many lube brands. Help me pick one!


Hello there.

I've been using the small Starlet Womanizer (Lovehoney) for a couple of years. it does the work well, but it's not very easy to hold as it's small and makes quite a lot of noise. I'd like to buy myself something new. I usually use a wand for sex with a partner and the Womanizer for solo play. I always use it at the maximum level even though it can be a little uncomfortable. I don't want to buy something that will literally feel the same or worse! I hope you can give me some advice! Also, I'm in Europe!

Have a nice day/evening/night/morning!

I need a new toy after the Starlet Womanizer


Hi Guys, need help deciding between these two vibrators. I'm a complete newbie, so any help would be appreciated
1: [https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/dildo-vibrators/p/lovehoney-triple-tickler-realistic-purple-g-spot-dildo-vibrator-5.5-inch/a410g59125.html](https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/dildo-vibrators/p/lovehoney-triple-tickler-realistic-purple-g-spot-dildo-vibrator-5.5-inch/a410g59125.html)
2: [https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/rabbit-vibrators/p/lovehoney-frisky-10-function-silicone-rabbit-vibrator-%09/a40907g74528.html](https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/rabbit-vibrators/p/lovehoney-frisky-10-function-silicone-rabbit-vibrator-%09/a40907g74528.html)

Vibrator advice


Looking for pretty looking, ideally not T-shaped base butt plugs for PIV sex. I know those mystery metal gem butt plugs aren't safe due to the base to plug ratio, but I was wondering about round based gem silicone plugs? Thoughts on these:

[https://calexotics.com/forbidden-small-rose-anal-plug/](https://calexotics.com/forbidden-small-rose-anal-plug/)

[https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/butt-plugs/jeweled-butt-plugs/p/glams-silicone-black-mini-butt-plug-with-rainbow-crystal-3-inch/a41274g75174.html](https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/butt-plugs/jeweled-butt-plugs/p/glams-silicone-black-mini-butt-plug-with-rainbow-crystal-3-inch/a41274g75174.html)

[https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/butt-plugs/butt-plug-sets/p/lovehoney-jeweled-silicone-butt-plug-set-/a46748g83939.html](https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/butt-plugs/butt-plug-sets/p/lovehoney-jeweled-silicone-butt-plug-set-/a46748g83939.html)

[https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/butt-plugs/jeweled-butt-plugs/p/lovehoney-jewelled-silicone-butt-plug-3-inch/a45395g81824.html](https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/butt-plugs/jeweled-butt-plugs/p/lovehoney-jewelled-silicone-butt-plug-3-inch/a45395g81824.html)

The base to plug ratio looks a bit better on the first two than on the metal jewel plugs. Help me decide!

Cute buttplugs for PIV?


What is the best rabbit vibrator on the market or they all the same? I ordered one from LoveHoney along with some other toys but give me your experiences with them! Any tips and tricks would be greatly appreciated!

Rabbit toys


I recently bought this “Anal beginner dildo” from lovehoney. I’ve been using it with a condom on each use but it’s more of a “warmup toy” now. I feel like I’m burning through condoms using 2/3 toys each session. Can anyone confirm if this is body safe so I don’t need to waste a condom or 2 to warmup each session? [https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/basics-slimline-anal-starter-dildo-6-inch/a37282g68843.html](https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/basics-slimline-anal-starter-dildo-6-inch/a37282g68843.html)

Is my toy “bodysafe”


As someone from the UK who buys all their toys etc from Amazon, can anyone confirm if it’s safe to buy toys from the Lovehoney Amazon store?

Lovehoney on Amazon


i recently bought the ROMP serious X from LoveHoney. It came with batteries and i was able to use it once. I took the simulation head off the toy to clean it and let it dry. After taking the head off the toy stopped working all together. I put the head back on and still nothing. When i go to turn it on it makes a slight noise but doesn’t start. I don’t know what happened?

ROMP switch x stopped working


hi i ordered a dildo from lovehoney and it came today but i’m super paranoid of chemicals and materials being mislabelled

just wanna make sure the dildo linked below is actually silicone….i hope i don’t have to return it because i really wanna use it :(

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/lifelike-lover-luxe-realistic-silicone-dildo-6-inch/a28715g61381.html

paranoid about my new dildo


Good day. Anyone can give me a review on this.

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/blow-job-toys/p/blowmotion-blowjob-rotating-thrusting-masturbator/a49871g87936.html

Anyone used Blowmotion Blowjob Rotating Thrusting Masturbator?


Hey Everyone,

First time poster. I bought a dildo from lovehoney a year or so ago and just found out about toxic materials used in sex toy’s.

From looking at their website, it seems a lot of what they currently offer is listed as pvc, but they don’t sell the model I bought anymore. I can’t remember what it was called other than it being a large lifelike dildo.

I’m wondering if there’s a way to tell if it’s pvc or silicone.

Thanks!

How to tell if toy is pvc or silicone?


Hello, I would like to buy and try wearing chastity, because I would like to try more backdoor stuff and I was thinking of chastity as a kind of motivator since you can't get off normally so you have to find other ways so I'm looking for advice in term of long time wearing, usage, cleaning etc.

I'm thinking to buy this one: https://www.lovehoney.eu/bondage/chastity-devices/cock-cages-plugs/p/impound-sentinal-cock-cage-3-inch/a49937g88022.html

Appreciate any advice and motivation :*

Looking for advice


My wife and I are looking for a riding chair that will support and work for us both being heavier people. We were looking at this from love honey: \[Position enhancer chair\](https://www.lovehoney.com/bondage/sex-swings-machines/sex-furniture-position-enhancers/p/lovehoney-deluxe-sex-position-enhancer-chair/a48102g85833.html)

and comparing it to this on Extreme Restraints: \[Sex Stool\](https://www.extremerestraints.com/products/bangin-bench-ez-ride-sex-stool-with-handles?variant=51644452471075)

Technically, the Extreme Restraints says it isn't rated for us( on the line of 250 to less than 300 lbs), but I was hoping generally if anyone would be able to share their experiences or recommendations for one that might work for us. Thanks!

Need help finding a Riding chair for plus size


here is everything I have:

“Domi 2 Wand Massager” by Lovense (https://a.co/d/0hlrB9lG)

“The Storm Chaser” by FUKENA (https://a.co/d/05Ngplyl) DISCONTINUED SOLD OUT

“The Librarian” by FUKENA (https://www.fukena.com/librarian.html)

“Solina Maxima XXL” by Solina (https://www.peepshowtoys.com/products/solina-maxima-xxl-big-ultra-realistic-silicone-dildo?\_pos=11&\_sid=8510a34be&\_ss=r)

“Galaxie” by Sportsheets (can’t find online, here is an online review I found for photo https://bedbible.com/sportsheets-galaxie-dildo-test-review/)

“Trio” by b-vibe (https://www.bvibe.com/all-anal-toys/butt-plugs/vibrating-plugs/trio-plug-black.html)

“Snug plug 3” by b-vibe (https://www.bvibe.com/snug-plug.html)

“Medium Plug” by Lovehoney (https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/butt-plugs/non-vibrating-butt-plugs/p/lovehoney-classic-silicone-medium-plug/a30703g52008.html)

“Bed Ringer Rechargeable Double Cock Ring” by Lovehoney (https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/cock-rings/vibrating-cock-rings/p/lovehoney-bed-ringer-rechargeable-double-cock-ring/a40888g74509.html)

“Bond” by We-Vibe (https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/cock-rings/vibrating-cock-rings/p/we-vibe-bond-app-controlled-rechargeable-wearable-vibrating-cock-ring/a46941g84312.html)

“Voy and Sync 2 Couple's Kit” by Arcwave and We-Vibe (https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/vibrators/sex-toy-kits/p/we-vibe-x-arcwave-voy-and-sync-2-couples-kit/a48511g86358.html)

“Moxie+” by Lovehoney x We-Vibe (https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/vibrators/vibrating-panties/p/we-vibe-x-lovehoney-moxie-app-and-remote-controlled-wearable-clitoral-vibrator/a48995g86960.html)

“Tango X” by We-Vibe (https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/vibrators/bullet-vibrators/p/we-vibe-tango-x-lipstick-rechargeable-bullet-vibrator-blue/a45646g82222.html) - originally bought in 50 shades of Grey kit which has now sold out

“Geminii XLR8” by Nu Sensuelle (https://shevibe.com/products/geminii-xlr8-silicone-waterproof-g-spot-vibrator-with-fluttering-tip-by-nu-sensuelle-blue?srsltid=AfmBOopd5x6bvpV\_FChEoRS-UBIaCEnQsgyL0TSHafXyCKT9cggsA6zN)

the domi2 has the male and female attachments. I have like 140USD to spend on lovehoney (vouchers, promised my girl I wouldnt spend more haha...)

any suggestions on what to get now? im thinking if the domi male attachment doesn't do enough prostate stim for me I'll get an aneros, but which one?

also thinking of a womanizer for her, but again, which one?

thanks!

What to try next?


I was unhappy with a product and got a voucher for £182.70 but I don’t want it

I’ll give the code for £132 if anyone’s interested - £50 off. Just PM.

Thanks for reading

LoveHoney voucher (UK)


I have a quick shot vantage and I love putting the cap on and how much suction it has, its not really made for that and I broke it. Wondering what to buy that can give me some suction and good feel inside, nothing over $100, and some other recommendations with suction, vibrating, and maybe even self heating. Or if I should just get a normal fleshlight, like the "Fleshlight Flight Pilot Male Masturbator" from lovehoney website. Thank you!

Have no idea what to buy.


Good male sex toys like this?


I (46M) am wondering if anyone has a recommendation for a swaying or darting tongue toy that works for rimming?

I've tried the Lovehoney Tongue Teaser, but it wasn't quite right (PS - LH has the absolute best refund/return policy I've ever seen - no affiliation).

I've tried plugs and vibes that have rotating beads already. Fun, but not what I'm after 🤷♂

TIA!

Clit toys for rimming?


I have an 8 inch, 5.5 circumference dildo which I can use easily, I'm trying to work up to one which is 8 inches long and 6 inch circumference but I can barely make any progress with because of the girth and end up hurting myself. Can anyone recommened an in between? I've linked both below in case that's any help.

[https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/lifelike-lover-ultra-realistic-suction-cup-dildo-7-inch/a38285g81750.html](https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/lifelike-lover-ultra-realistic-suction-cup-dildo-7-inch/a38285g81750.html)

[https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/dildo-vibrators/p/lifelike-lover-classic-girthy-realistic--dildo-vibrator-8-inch/a44698g86111.html](https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/dildo-vibrators/p/lifelike-lover-classic-girthy-realistic--dildo-vibrator-8-inch/a44698g86111.html)

Anal Training Help


Hey everyone, looking to placing an order for some new toys. Wanted to see if anyone has any recs for toys from Lovehoney. 23 bi male here so open to a lot of different toys.

Would love to hear some recs.

Lovehoney Toy Reccomendations


I bought the Lovehoney mon ami Silicone Personal Massager a couple of days ago and it has been getting quite warm in about 5-10 mins.
I haven't used it for more than 10 mins for the fear of it getting too hot and becoming a burning hazard as the heat does amplifier quite quickly.
Is this normal for this kind of item or is it faulty?
It only gets warm when in use, not when charging.

I had something similar from a different brand with no issues.

Will it be only to charge and use for short periods of time or should I dispose of it?

Faulty or normal?


Hello! I've been using a dildo/vibrator from lovehoney, specifically this one:

[https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/dildo-vibrators/p/lovehoney-silicone-7-function-girthy-realistic-dildo-vibrator-6.5-inch/a39549g72525.html](https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/dildo-vibrators/p/lovehoney-silicone-7-function-girthy-realistic-dildo-vibrator-6.5-inch/a39549g72525.html)

I am just finding myself a bit anxious about it. This might be a silly question - but can dildos cause cancer? I tried to make sure it was silicone etc, but I would just like some confirmation that it's safe because I'm gonna go crazy lol. I'm a woman if that changes anything.

Lovehoney Dildo Safety


TLDR: are fun factory dildos still made of body-safe materials even after being bought out by Eis/Satisfier?

I bought a Limba Flex (small) a few days ago for $40AUD, which I know is on the cheap end - but I'm a uni student and am really hesitant to drop over $100 on something I might not even be able to use (I'm a little tight when it comes to vaginal penitration, hence the small size). It's technically the second dildo I've bought, but the first was a $30 adam and eve one which I got a uti after using, and scared me away from sex toys in general for several months and generally made me super paranoid about utis (granted, I used a glycerine-containing lube and definitely smooshed it around the urethra more than was reasonable, but it was probably still a bad-quality toy. I've since bought a bottle of sliquid H2O to use instead). I know it's silly but it really scared me when I had it, and it progressed to a kidney infection because I was too embarassed to consult a dr for it and hoped it would just sort itself out.

I only learned about FF's purchase by Eis(?)/Satisfier after it was too late to cancel, and now I'm super scared that it's just going to give me another uti or worse.  I've been constantly stressing about it for a few days now, cold sweats and all.

Supposedly it's still made of "body-safe, hypoallergenic, porous-free" silicone which, as far as I can tell, is the same description it had pre-takeover, but the huge price drop ($80 to $40) concerns me. I know that's at least partly due to them now being manufactured in China as opposed to hand-made in Germany, which is a lot cheaper, but still.

I still live with parents and don't have my licence yet so returning it via post isn't super feasible, and as much as I really don't want to pay 40$ in a lesson for stupid purchasing, I will if it's super unsafe. It'd just be frustrating that I made the same mistake twice. I'm just really hoping that it's still considered as safe as before, and that I can use it without the stress and weight of potentially unsafe materials on my mind. I've tried to do all the research I can, but I haven't found anything definite, so I'm hoping someone here can provide some more insight. Thanks for literally any help you can give, I know it's stupid but I've been panicking about exactly this for several days straight and I'm annoyed at myself for putting myself in this scenario again and potentially wasting money.

Are FunFactory dildos still body safe?


I've been getting into prostate/anal play over the last 3-4 months and have been slowly trying different toys.

My first toy was a **vibrating butt plug**, and it was an amazing introduction. After that, I bought the [Adam & Eve prostate kit](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/prostate-toys/sp-adam-eve-intro-to-prostate-kit-102333.aspx). Out of everything in the kit, I really only enjoyed the prostate vibrator the other toys didn't do much for me.

The order also came with a free **rabbit vibrator**, which surprisingly felt really good too.

As I got more comfortable with the sizes, I wanted to go a bit deeper, so I bought a suction cup **dildo** with about **5 inches** of insertable length. The problem is that I don't really enjoy having to do all the thrusting myself, so it ends up feeling more like work than fun.

I started looking at thrusting dildos, but they're pretty expensive and I'm on a limited budget right now.

Does anyone have suggestions for improving solo play without spending a ton? Any tips, techniques, or affordable toys that made a big difference for you?

Need advice for Prostate/Anal toys for male


Hi! My wife is coming up on the 1-year anniversary of her (salmacian) vaginoplasty, and quite liked the cheap, shitty vibrating dildo that we got for free in an Adam & Eve order. However, since that's died, I'm looking for a higher-quality insertable, but a lot of my preliminary searches are for rabbit vibes, which don't help much given that her "clitoris" is much higher up.

Do y'all have any recommendations? My budget is anywhere from $50-150, and I'd like it to be rechargeable.

Looking for a vibrating dildo that DOESN'T have rabbit ears?


My struggle continues. I am an 81y/o male, pre-diabetic with the only way to orgasm now is fast stimulation of the frenulum. The Hitachi is a wonderful tool and for a long time it has worked well for me with the Hummingbird attachment. But pre-diabetes can still cause issues. The variable setting is fast enough in parts of that cycle but the highest steady setting just isn’t fast enough. I need a little more — or maybe a lot more — speed driving the Hummingbird.

So, I am looking for something with a head the same size as that on the Magic Wand but would meet my other needs. Price is a concern but I’d like to see recommendations without that as a barrier for consideration. I am in the US and would mention that I've not found Adam & Eve products to work for me.

I think I've posed this some time ago, but I need to try again.

Thanks for recommendations.

Better than a Magic Wand


Hi! I’ve had the Adam and Eve magic massager deluxe forever and it finally gave out on me today. I saw that they changed it from a plug in to a battery operated version, and it is now much smaller. I was wondering what are some dupes for the old version? It was the one that had 8 vibration modes. It was mainly white with some pink lettering and a pink button. Absolutely devastated to lose my best friend and I need a new one that’s as close to that one as I can get. Thank you!

Help with vibrators please


Adam and Eve magic massager deluxe


Of all the Adam and Eve wands, which is the best/strongest? I was leaning toward the Peak or WildSecrets Glow. The waterproof part is a good point. Any opinions?

Question about wands?


As you can probably tell I am new to the world of toys and have many questions. Thanks to all for so much help!!!! One last one, maybe, of all the Adam and Eve wands, which is the best/strongest? I was leaning toward the Peak or WildSecrets Glow. The waterproof part is a good point. Any opinions?

Sorry,,but me again!!!


I lost the charger too my favorite vibrator and I’m wondering if anybody knows what kind it is, it’s the ‘Adam & Eve Magic Massager Rechargeable Rose Gold Edition’ i will link it below.
thank you in advance!!! [https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/wand-massagers/sp-adam-eve-magic-massager-rechargeable-rose-gold-edition-105748.aspx](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/wand-massagers/sp-adam-eve-magic-massager-rechargeable-rose-gold-edition-105748.aspx)

help!!!


I’m relatively new to this but Adam and Eve has sent me some free stuff and one was the assgasm plug/cock ring.  love it.  wear it over night and through the day.  also got the one with bullet vibe in it.  both of these just barely hit the p spot, but still feel amazing.

Adam and Eve assgasm.


So I got the free crystal rabbit vibe from adam and eve and I contacted support asking what the material it is and instructions for it and I got it. I also checked and they get these questions VERY OFTEN 😂

What I learned:

\-Made of ABS & TPE

\-You just put 2 AA batteries in 1 up and 1 down

Make sure you do not turn the button too tight. If there is a bitton press and hold for 2-10 seconds. If dial turn dial.  (I'm pretty sure this is what they said as they're msgs had very bad spelling and missed letters)

I have not used this yet, but from other posts I've seen they rarely last or even really work electronic wise.

Crystal Rabbit Vibe from Adam and Eve


can anyone verify if the adam and eve silky sensations bullet vibrator is body safe? I already bought it lol


Hi. F19.  I’m planning to buy my first sex toys from Adam and Eve. But one thing is about shipping and deliver thing I was wondering how many days does it take to arrive at your place of. Another question is what is prefect timing to buy?

I’m trying to find a right time and sadly I’m still live with my parents and I don’t want them to find out.

Thanks.

Sex toys questions


Welp I bought my first toy this week from Adam and Eve and I kinda expected the box to have a tamper proof sticker or shrink wrap over it. It didn’t and the box was easy to open w the toy already inside. Looks new and the remote control has the pull/remove sleeve to activate still inside. The charger is still sealed. The toy itself can turn on even tho it’s never been charge which is normal from the factory apparently. It’s new right? I’m a first time buyer and before this I did get a toy from Spencer’s but it was more heavily packaged w plastic and harder to open so when I got my first actual toy online this week I expected it to be like that too ahh.

I looked closer at the box it looks like it never had a tamper proof sticker to begin w and I heard from people that this is normal for toys to come like this? I’m just asking bc I’m nervous and a germaphobe and kinda have a fear that this is like a return or smth oof.

Is it normal for toys to not have tamper proof sticker or shrink wrap?


Hi all,

I feel insane because I recently ordered two dildos from Adam & Eve which both - in separate shipments - arrived in completely open, unsealed boxes. Like, the flaps weren't even closed. The first customer service employee I spoke to told me that "quality control opens toys to see if they work." I'm sure if that was the case, they would reseal the toys. I know I could clean them, but I don't feel comfortable using a sex toy that arrived in an open box. Has this happened to anyone else? Would you use the toys?

Note: On my second try, I did get a refund for the first item, and I'm now trying for the second one (they arrived a week apart).

Adam & Eve toys arriving OPEN?


I was using the bangin betty from Adam and Eve but overtime it just wasn’t really that good so I wanted to upgrade a bit and get a torso stroker. I’m mainly looking for one I can use on my bed and mainly do doggy, missionary or sideways. I was looking at the **PDX Plus Perfect 10 Torso in Light** on PinkCherry, I liked it because it’s long and looks pretty real but was wondering if there are other alternatives that give a better feel.

Best Affordable Torso Masturbators?


I'm on Adam and Eve and it looks rough. I don't want to order from them but I don't know who else has good deals. I'd love to get a couple things hopefully under $40-$50. Nothing huge. Maybe some bras or something. I'd love to be able to order a cute bra and undies set and get a new dildo. Any recommendations?

Places online to discreetly get toys and lingerie that aren't Adam and Eve?


Hi folks!  Wondering if you want to share any indie Etsy makers or other that you have found selling toys. Or even other sites aside from Adam and eve, love honey (you know the big ones).  Mostly looking for anal toys.

 I know of square peg, weredog and bad dragon already.

TIA!

Indie toy maker recommendations?


hi i had this vibrator magic massager from adam and eve for YEARS. red and white. it was so good, reliable and cheap. most importantly it was STRONG. i can’t find it anywhere anymore, only the rechargeable vibrators which i don’t want because i don’t want to wait for them to recharge. i have tried the magic wand plus, but it is not as strong and shuts off after 20 min use. :( i have also tried wand 2 from wevibe but it is recharger so not good and also not as strong as adam and eve plug in wand. help i am so desperate. :((

help me find this or something similar.


Are they safe? Long lasting? Or in the same boat as Spencer's?

Adam and eve toys


I purchased one of [these](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/male-masturbators/masturbation-sleeves/sp-the-boys-ambrosius-by-adam-eve-111615.aspx) things on a whim because, like most penis-havers, I'm always trying to find good, affordable silicone strokers in a sea of TPE trash.

At the time of writing, as well as when I purchased it, it was under $40 and I'll cut to the chase: it absolutely bewilders me how a novelty item is unironically the best silicone stroker I've ever used. A common issue with silicone strokers is the durometer of the silicone is too high. I'm slightly above average in girth and this makes most silicone toys pretty uncomfortable. However, this stupid octopus is the perfect balance of soft enough to feel really nice, but firm enough that it holds its shape. Additionally, the cavity is really cleverly designed. The head of the octopus acts as a little air reservoir which creates some very pleasant sucking if you use the toy right. Additionally, the textures inside are a nice balance of being stimulating enough without being too distracting.

Overall, I cannot recommend this toy enough. It's goofy that it's an octopus and it's also kinda a bummer that you're indirectly supporting amazon by purchasing one, but the Os you get from it are worth the sacrifices imo.

The Boys Ambrosius -- An infuriatingly awesome toy


I’m new to buying a sextoys  but I seen Adam and Eve and Love-honey. But I was wondering how was yalls personal experience and when you received the items did the box have the branding all over or was it just a regular brown box. Also did they send any mail or anything after your purchase???

Best online store


The day has come.. my dog ripped the entire silicone, waterproof cylinder off of an old Adam & Eve battery opperated bullet vibe I've had for a few years, (which seems to be discontinued, as I was going to link this cheap, pink, bedazzled vibe for reference but can't find it on the site.)

All this to say, I have a chunk of change to blow on a replacement and am a little overwhelmed by the options. A normal bullet has gotten me through for a long while, but I know I've enjoyed stimulation surrounding suction which makes me curious about rose toys, granted I've been intrigued by the additive power of a real wand (but am deterred by the price.) I've thought about something I could wear under panties for some public/dynamic play, but overall would probably settle for just about anything. My hard limit though is I will not be paying for any more AA batteries, lol! Ideally it would be rechargable or plug-it-into-the-wall.

Any of your long running favorites would be so appreciated! I'm not looking to spend more than $70-80 USD but I could be convinced to splurge a little to treat myself. Thank you so much in advance!!

Affordable, Long Lasting Vibes?


We are newer to toys, so I purchased a Satisfyer Pro 2 from Adam and Eve a couple months ago. At first it seemed a bit gimmicky, and I was constantly trying to find just the right spot on my wife with it. After reading reviews, I read it had a learning curve, so I tried to remain patient with it. I'm happy to report, this toy is Awesome!

We found that starting off on the second level for a bit, and then increasing the pressure a bit and then going up a notch every few minutes works great. Last night I did this, and also used my fingers a little bit, and got her off without the, "a little more this way, no too far, back this way" we had been doing in the past. But the best part was, after she came the first time, I gave her a minute to gather herself, and went again. She came much harder and faster the second time, and even squirted a little bit. This was the first time we've been able to do that. So again, I waited a minute, and went AGAIN! She came a third time, and finally said she had to rest 😂. It was a great night, I'm so glad I can give her this level of pleasure now, all thanks to an affordable little tool.

If you have one of these, and you get frustrated with it, don't give up, just try different speeds and angles. It took us a while but this will stay in our night stand permanently now. Just make sure she's warmed up good before, and use a little lube to create a good seal. I know everybody is different, so some just might not be compatible with it, but don't give up too fast on it!

P. S. Thank you fellow members and posters here for the solid advice, you've opened so many doors for our marriage, and the positive vibes I get from posting and asking questions is reassuring and empowering. I don't feel dumb asking here, and I really appriciate all of you!

Satisfyer Pro 2 is AWESOME!


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I thought it looked pretty and the guy I’m talking to,  who told me to buy a dildo, said that the slightly transparent/jelly looking ones are more attractive.

The Sunset Dream Dildo was the cheapest jelly one so I bought it. Now, I just learned that they aren’t good?

Can someone explain to me why jelly/TPE isn’t good and what I should do? I feel like I just wasted my money and I still live with my parents so I’m risking them seeing this purchase.

Here’s the link to what I bought: https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/realistic-dildos/sp-adam-eve-sunset-dreams-dildo-107703.aspx

Any advice is appreciated.

I just bought the Adam & Eve Sunset Dream Dildo


Hello,

First time poster in this group, but I figured I'd give it a shot.

My wife and I were struggling for a while with our marriage for a while, (20 Years Now) until I started up on TRT. Mine was low I guess, so I began injections about a year ago. It was amazing, my sex drive went through the roof, along with my mood and attitude. After a few months, I felt like I was falling in love with her all over again, the spark was back.

Our sex life came back to life, but I wasn't able to give her orgasms as much as I'd like, so I began browsing at toys online. At first I was shy to order and introduce them to her in the bedroom, but she's been very supportive and open to it, and I absolutely love it. Being able to get her off turns me on so much, and I'm so glad that she can climax now before I do, as she's always been generous at taking care of me, so now I want to do it for her too.

I began with some small things, browsing on [AdamandEve.com](http://AdamandEve.com) and after finding out they give a Veteran discount of 50% on many things, I figured why not. My first purchase was a Finger Vibe, which was ok at first, but it just didn't seem to do much after a few uses and the newness wore off, so I then moved on to their Peak Want Massager, which was absolutely awesome. It was one of the first times she told me she wanted to scream when I used it on her. The only downside was it made her numb after a while, and she'd usually be sore afterwords for a day or two if I used it too long. I am still looking for something a little less rough, but there are so many options out there I don't really know what to look at. So after browsing and trying to find something that wouldn't make her so sore after, I found a Satisfyer Pro 2 2nd Gen, and WOW! After the learning curve with it, it's been amazing. Sometimes it's hard to get it in just the right position, but once I did it works really good. She laughed at it at first when I opened it and showed it to her, but it's been so fun learning with her.

I've been so lucky to have a wife that's open to this, our relationship has been night and day difference since we brought back the spark. We're more loving, thoughtful, and passionate. I'm in my early 40s and we're having the best sex of our lives, and this forum has been a game changer in introducing me to toys I didn't even know existed, and it gave me the confidence and tips I never would have had, so thank you fellow Reddit users for that.

If any of you have any suggestions on what we should try next, please feel free to comment, I'm always hunting now for the next thing I'll bring in. I currently have a Nancy's Lem and Biird Kalii on order (I really want to see if we can figure out G Spot stimulation now) so we'll see how that goes soon.

Also, I now have been learning about body safe stuff vs. the cheap stuff, so I'm looking in more places that Adam and Eve since I have been reading not all their stuff is on the up and up with that in regard. (Plus all the extra add on junk they throw in is annoying, and I'm sure it's not body safe stuff) But I am grateful for their discount and discreet shipping, and also for introducing us to toys. Now when I break out something new, she always gives me a funny smile like, "what is it gonna be this time" and I love it.

Thanks Reddit Users, your support and information has been great, and I look forward to reading and learning more as we go!

Toys Make Sex Exciting Again!


I have used a hand full of vibrating toys on myself while in chastity (Lush from Lovense and a wand from Adam and Eve), but nothing can bring me to orgasm from just the toys I have used. Does anyone have any recommendations? I love chastity and I would love to take it to the next level!

Looking for a vibrating toys that’s good for chastity.


I've tried Amazon and Adam&Eve but im wondering where all of the femboys i see get the premium stuff? I've heard maybe Beastgasm or Bestvibe? What do you guys think? :3

What's the best place to get male pumps/masturbators or anal stuff


Hi everyone. Im planning to buy a vibrator, and i jjst wanna be sure i get it from a good brand. Ive been looking at Adam and Eve cause I know they have good reviews, but I wanted to get other opinions.

I want a vibrator thats not crazy expensive but still good quality. I also want discreet packaging for obvious reasons.

If anyone has any recommendations please let me know!

What site would you guys recommend?


Hi.  So I have this adam and eve kit https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/anal-sex-training-kits/sp-adam-eve-booty-boot-camp-training-kit-99260.aspx

It's VERY rigid.  The problem is the biggest size, the 1.5", I can't quite get it all the way in yet.  That can one day be solved, but once its in all the way my ass won't be stretched with it anymore.  Also, it's a bit long so I feel like I need to maneuver in a way I physically can't to get it deeper.

So, I think the best solution is a flexible dildo with a suction cup.  I don't want a monster cock or anything.  Whatever will help me accept 1.5" diameter and keep it open.

Follow up question: is a 1.5" piece good enough to eventually work up to a real human penis?  I can't imagine even getting to 1.75" at this rate.

I asked a friend about jelly dildos and she said she didn't like it.

I'd just want to use this to open and relax my ass, and riding it either on the wall or floor via suction cup.

Butt plugs always end up with my hole "closing" around them and getting tight, removing them is painful. Looking for a bendy dildo for a beginner


Hi! I am a 22 y/o AFAB, working a minimum wage job (and living with parents) and I've been desperate with wanting to get either a vibrator or a dildo... My hand isn't cutting it out anymore lol.

There aren't many sex shops where I live and I'd have to drive 2-3 hours just to get to the next shop in my city. The only "real" shops close by are Adam and Eve and Spencer's.

I've been looking online and some of the materials used looks really iffy... so if I were to get something from there (preferably a dildo) should I get some condoms too?

Or are there any really cheap alternatives? This is my first time buying anything like this so any help is super appreciated!!

Anything worth getting from Adam Eve worth? (First time)


My wife wants to get a suction cup dildo, not any of those tentacles or massive toys. She had one before but it wasn't very good for her and not the best quality. Looking for something that is in her words "cute and fun looking," so knowing her, that means not a super realistic looking one. If anyone could recommend a place to start my search, that isn't Adam and Eve? What material should we stay away from?

Suction cup dildos?


Ugh, just got an email from Adam & Eve saying my pre-owned vibe (a LELO Gigi 2, btw - still works like a dream) has to be returned because they "can't verify its condition"?? Like, bro, I ran it through a full sanitization cycle with my UV cleaner and replaced the batteries before sending it back - it's basically brand new in a non-vibe way. They're acting like I sent them a half-chewed dog toy. Anyone else get this BS when selling used toys? Should I fight this or just let it go and buy something new with the store credit they're giving me? (Totally not salty about having to choose between a pink wand or something I actually want at this point.)

Adam&Eve wants me to return a pre-owned vibe???


Im looking for toys that give high pressure and fas stimulation something that will borderline make me over stimulated. Also i been kinda wanted to get monster cocks is there a general good place to start. One last thing, what are yalls thoughts on adam and eve?

Recommendations for toys


i bought from adam and eve before but i wanna buy something else but i wanna make sure it not PVC first.

[https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/realistic-dildos/sp-realistic-inch-big-boy-dildo-with-balls-269.aspx?predictive=search\_autocomplete\_product\_Realistic%209%20Inch%20Big%20Boy%20Dildo%20with%20Balls&st=big](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/realistic-dildos/sp-realistic-inch-big-boy-dildo-with-balls-269.aspx?predictive=search_autocomplete_product_Realistic%209%20Inch%20Big%20Boy%20Dildo%20with%20Balls&st=big)

this is toy safe?


I am fairly Hung, and tbh she has always been Very Tight. We attempted to Fuck for the first time in a couple months last night. But she said that just the head was stretching her to the point it hurt.

We do PLENTY of foreplay, we make out and I eat her out at least once before we even attempt to put it in.

We do both masterbate when we have time, as she has mentioned wanting a dildo in the past. So I figured now would be a good time, since it seems our sex life is picking up again.

My Dick size is about 7” Long & 6” In Girth, I know a dildo with that girth might be harder to find. But at least something in that ball park would be good I think.

Would prefer something I can get in store…

We have A Adam & Eve store nearby ish, aswell as a ShockWave store.

Trying to find a good dildo 4 her. To make it easier for us to have sex… Advise / Recommendations


*It seems odd to use DEERS to get a sex shop discount. Lol. "MIL50" a checkout* at Adam and eve.

I couldn't use this code (manufacture stipulations), but it required ID.me. so it might be worth trying.


I need help finding a masturbator or flashlight for my husband who has a dick that is 6.5 inches in length and 5 inches in width (girth whatever you wanna call it)

I have checked bad dragon, nothasaur, Adam & Eve. He's never used one before so he has no knowledge when it comes to this stuff.

And before you give me shit for not having sex with him. I physically can't, I am way too small for him and it hurts to the point of needing and wanting to take painkillers before or after.
I feel horrible that I can't fuck him so im trying to find a toy for him while I try and stretch myself.

Masturbators with diameter of 5+inches


We are looking for something new to play with in the bedroom. We already have a wand, the purewand by Njoy, a handful of normal dildos. We are just looking for something new and open to recommendations. Things come out all the time and other than looking in our local Adam and Eve store we haven't looked around a ton recently. So asking the sub for some fun recommendations for her. She is open to anal toys as well and bonus points if it made you or your partner squirt (the more the better).

Looking for something new


I've exclusively used cheap toys in the past (all <$50) but decided to splurge on the Hitachi since it's so well reviewed. I unpack it and read the instructions-- 30 minute limit, no blanket, no pressure on the head I'm like okay, whatever it takes to keep it in shape. Turn it on and within 5 minutes, it's getting really hot. By 10 it starts smelling like burning wires. The only other time I ever experienced that smell was with an $11 wand after months of use, so to say I'm shocked is an understatement.
Is this a problem with my outlet/voltage/etc or did I just get a faulty one? I ordered from Adam & Eve's site if that makes a difference.

Hitachi overheating fast


Like you, I like to buy sex toys. I used to be a subscriber of DirecTV seven years ago. When I first got DirecTV seven years ago after switching to DirecTV from being an AT&T U-verse customer for almost a decade (That was back when AT&T first bought DirecTV.), I noticed that the Adam & Eve late-night paid programming infomercials was airing on DirecTV's paid programming channels and started watching the Adam & Eve infomercials that were airing on DirecTV's paid programming infomercial channels. When I switched back to AT&T U-verse after having DirecTV for a year, I noticed that the Adam & Eve infomercials were airing on AT&T U-verse's paid programming infomercial channels too (I guess that had something to do with AT&T U-verse owner AT&T buying DirecTV.). Like I said, since I first got DirecTV, I was watching the Adam & Eve paid programming infomercials. A year ago, I noticed that the Adam & Eve paid programming infomercials were no longer airing on AT&T U-verse paid programming infomercial channels (I don't know if the Adam & Eve paid programming infomercials are still airing on DirecTV's paid programming infomercial channels and the paid programming infomercial channels of cable TV providers that chose to air them on their paid programming infomercial channels.).

What happened to the Adam & Eve As Seen On TV infomercials tha used to air during the AM hours on cable TV providers' paid programming channels?


I have a dildo I got on amazon last year (not the best choice, I know) and that's what I'm working with at the moment. I have another that's from adam and eve but it's bad so I don't use it at all.

Link to the one I have: https://a.co/d/02qQqwW2

I don't know how descriptive I can get on here but the one I have now is pretty straight so to get it to hit the spot I want, I have to sort of push downwards on the base so it tilts up towards my stomach but it's too soft and flimsy and is just barely too short so the tip kinda grazes my a-spot which isn't what I want.

The one I have now is mostly straight with the slightest curve, completely smooth, 7 inches insertable and 1.4 inches diameter. I'm looking for something with a more pronounced curve so I don't have to tilt it as much (or at all), at least 7.5 inches insertable and something thicker. I can comfortably go up to 2 inches diameter so anything between like 1.6 and 2 inches is what I'm looking for. I don't want anything too veiny since I don't really enjoy them on toys, but I think maybe I haven't tried a good veiny dildo, but also I don't wanna waste money experimenting right now. My budget is sorta flexible with my maximum being around $50 for one dildo, but I would spend more for a quality dildo that I'm interested in. Also I don't need a suction cup or anything since I still live at home and can't really take advantage of one.

I also really enjoy anal so I'm looking for toys for that too, but I'm going to make a separate post later on since I think this one is already pretty long.

Looking for a good a-spot dildo


I bought a fleshlight from Adam and Eve years ago. I placed it on a shelf a long time ago and left it there. After awhile I started smelling a weird smell in my room. Then I moved a bunch of stuff covering it. Recently the smell started getting out more as I started cleaning and moving things. I found out it had melted, due to living in a hot climate and hot house and it had gotten over a bunch of clothes and other items as well as on a dresser. I started cleaning it as best as I could and threw out some items that were beyond saving. A lot of items are still sticky and there are some items I left as I may try to save them. What is recommended that I do whether items that were affected should just be thrown out or if I should just throw them away. Also how should I clean up the rest of the shelves affected? Also will the clothes it got on be fine with a wash? Finally I heard that some toys like these are toxic. Should I be worried about the smell that was getting worse or messing with the melted toy? Should I see a doctor? The smell is sometimes still around but it’s gotten better now that I cleaned most of the things. Sorry for the rambling.

Melted Fleshlight worries


I got an email from Adam and Eve advertising a free “bag of treats” with any order over 17€. It contains 10 items including a bullet vibe and a masturbaiter among other things like “max size cream” and various gels. Is this legit, are all the items just very low quality?

Adam and Eve “bag of treats” promotion


[https://www.reddit.com/user/Dragonkin\_56/comments/1r6gkpi/gl%C3%A4s\_toys/](https://www.reddit.com/user/Dragonkin_56/comments/1r6gkpi/gl%C3%A4s_toys/)

PHOTOS LINKED ABOVE

Selling the 2 piece pleasure set of glass, Gläs brand dildos for $50 CAD! BUYER PAYS SHIPPING.
I use Paypal G&S.

Used only once anally, didn't take a liking to them - got them off the Adam n Eve website. Coming from a smoke free, disease free, cat friendly home and they'll be boiled before shipping. I'm located in Canada (and use CAD), and am willing to ship within Canada, to the US and internationally although I have to warn that shipping can get pricey depending on where you live.
These are lovely, and I'm sure they'll be loved in the right hands! They're really high quality and the temperature holding aspect of the glass is awesome

WTS Gläs 2pc pleasure set


Hi yall!

I received a shipped package on Valentine’s Day full of quite a few different Adam and Eve products. I did not order these and no one that I know has any clue about it either.

Due to the specific items/monetary value, I'm concerned that it may be from someone who I have a restraining order against because it seems very purposefully done. Will customer service be able to give me the billing information or will I have to pull teeth and fight to get info? FAQ says they can't disclose billing information to third parties but does that apply to me? I’m still waiting for an email back but I wanted to reach out to see if anyone has experienced something like this?

Thank you for your help! My anxiety and I sincerely appreciate it.

Help with unknown Adam & Eve package?


So I bought a bunch of toys recently from Adam and Eve, a cock ring, a plug, a vibrator, and a fleshlight. Only strange thing I discovered was the ring and fleshlight didn’t work at all, as I seemed to be too big for the ring without a doubt. Fleshlight was super uncomfortable too. This left me feeling rather bummed to be honest. Do you guys have any recommendations for places where I should shop in the future for a larger cock ring? This one I bought was 1.5 inches in diameter, but it was extremely hard to get on, and almost immediately started to hurt. I do like the idea of wearing one around my cock and balls though.

New to toys, ordered a bunch but have to send them back due to size.


Eve’s petite wand doesn’t appear to be charging?

My brand new (literally just arrived today) eve’s petite wand does not seem to be charging. On the charging instructions, it says that the light should blink while charging, but it isn’t. It isn’t even on. Should I contact customer support, or is there another way to see if it is charging? I’ve never bought a toy from them before, but I’m always hearing good things.

Just received a vibe from Adam & Eve, and I don’t think it’s charging.


I just recently bought a new dildo from Adam and Eve and when I opened it, the toy felt slightly tacky? I haven't used or washed it yet, it just feels much softer compared to my other silicone toys and I wanna make sure. Is it safe to use or is there a way to fix it?

The toy I bought is the Lollicock 7" Silicone Glow-In-The-Dark Dildo.

Tacky silicone toy?


So, recently I ordered some fun things off of Adam & Eve, and there were two free gifts thrown in. One was for me, but I'm wondering what the other one is. Is it for me again, or is it for him? I'm not too sure, I have never ordered off of this website before, but I wanted to snag a good deal on some Valentine's Day stuff so we could get some new things to add to our growing collection.

The mystery free gift is called the PLUG-N-STROKE COMBO and there isn't any sign of it on Adam & Eve's website and the order receipt in my email doesn't have a picture, go figure.

Trying to figure out what the free gift is


I’ve done a lot of research since I live at home,
I’ve found the shipping is discreet but I saw some old posts about them sending actual mail afterwards (sex magazines and the like) does that still happen? The posts were from 5 years ago  and considering their still quite popular I’m assuming not but I wanted to be safer then sorry

Adam and Eve mailing question


I cannot, for the life of me, charge this thing. I don’t even know where the hell the plug-in is. Please, somebody, help!

What kind of charger to use for Adam and Eve “Adam’s Gawk Gawk 3.0”?


Anybody else struggle to find a Dildo that actually fits inside? I’ve bought a few now and only one fits and it’s still a stretch. Any advice? Are there stores that sell smaller toys? I usually buy from Adam and Eve.

Dildos are too big


I loved my Adam & Eve Flexi Kegel Wand but it broke and I’m devastated. It lasted for years and was easily the best toy in my toy chest. Does anyone have any recommendations since they no longer sell it?

Adam & Eve Flexi Kegel Wand


I ordered a sex toy from Adam and Eve (which after doing more research, I see was a poor decision). When I received it, nothing was wrapped in plastic or seemed tamper-proof at all? After I opened the package, the toy was pre-lubed with some sort of substance. I initially thought it was bc of the texture/material, but after I gave it a good wash with dish soap, it is clear that the toy was lubed in something. This is the first time I’ve ever ordered a sex toy before. Is this normal?

I need advice because I think I received a used sex toy


TL;DR: If you’re not going to read it, then don’t bother responding.

So I’ve never used any kind of masturbator sex toy before and there’s a few questions and comments I want to go through. Many of these questions were prompted from looking into the brand, Fleshlight, but this is going beyond just Fleshlight. I’m curious about everything.

I’m aware that some of the questions I am asking are largely opinion based.  I’m still interested in hearing your answers.

In your responses, please label the question number you’re answering.

**1st and main question:** Given I’ve never used one before, I get the feeling I’m just going to have to buy a random one and try it.  Every different model out there seems to have different designs, tightness, and textures as well as features such as vibration, suction level, automated suction, automated movement, spinning. Creeping around here, it’s clear that some sleeves are more popular but obviously everyone has their own preferences. So am I just going to have to pick one at random, Fleshlight or no, and just feel it out from there? If I were to get one, can I use the texture of whichever one I get to find similar ones?

**2nd:** How do you people have so many? Upwards of 80 dollars per Fleshlight sleeve and folk here are talking about having whole collections or order 3 at a time. I understand they’re all different but still, that’s a lot of money. Are the sleeves really that different from one another? Are there 2 sleeves that provide almost completely different experiences aside from, “Cock feel good?”

**3rd:** I notice suction seems to be a common factor, whether it be adjustable venting or automated vacuum. Some sleeves boast more, some have less. How big of a factor is this? What exactly do they mean by suction? Like when you push in there's a vacuum force that wants to keep you pulled in? What’s the sensation like? Is it a primary consideration for you?

**4th**: I’ve seen those spinning ones before that are apparently blowjob simulators? Don’t think I’ve ever seen a woman do barrel rolls during a blowjob before but whatever. Imagining what it might feel like, it doesn’t seem like that spinning sensation would be all that pleasurable, but I suppose people use it.  So… is it?

**5th:** Since these are non-insertables, obviously the material can be a bit more lax. I’ve heard TPE is more realistic for a skin feel but isn’t preferred for dildos for reasons we all know.  So does TPE feel better or more realistic than silicone for masturbators?  I know whether or not it feels better is a matter of opinion but that’s why I’m here.

**6th:** So looking around I obviously came across list after list of the “Best” masturbators out there, and of course most of them feature completely different lineups. This goes back to the point of everyone having their own preferences, but would these articles and lists be a reliable place to start for a first time buyer?

**7th:** I’m sure there are differences between the different types. Types meaning onaholes, short masturbator sleeves, fleshlights, standalone sleeves with no case/pocket pussies.  There’s the automated kind like the spinning ones, moving sleeves like a launch or Autoblow, or the suction ones that (I assume) don’t really move but instead vibrate and vacuum such as Flesh. Onaholes seem to be the outlier among masturbators, so what exactly makes them different?

**8th:** Quick question regarding the previously mentioned Flesh and devices like it.  Do those electronic/automated ones that don’t move still feel nice providing suction alone, maybe alongside vibration? I would think they would, but I don’t know how much of a factor actual movement/thrusting is.

**9th:** For an automated stroker, about how fast of a speed do you all prefer? The Fleshlight Launch boasts 250 SPM while something like The Handy boasts 600. Looking up an animated visual of what those speeds look like, and 250 looks a bit too slow. Also side question, what are they counting as a stroke? Is the upward movement 1 stroke and the downward a second, or do both of those together count as 1?

**10th:** How much of a factor is tightness? I would think the tighter the better but it seems that’s not always the case. Some boast a higher tightness, some say they’re more loose. Is this just another thing you have to figure out what you like? Which end of this spectrum is more widely preferred, tighter or looser?

**11th:** What about vibration? Is that sufficiently stimulating to be a primary concern for you? Is vibration a command considered factor?

**12th:** Prolly better places to ask this but since I’m here. Not gonna get it because of its insane price but I’m still curious. The VacuGlide 2. How’s that?

**13th and final question:** How big a deal is price? Obviously the ones here on Fleshlight go for $70+, whereas places like Adam & Eve have some for sub $15. Is a $12 fleshlight a complete waste?

First time masturbator toy buyer and I have a host of questions.


I’m a 21 year old guy living at home with my parents and looking to order  a dildo from Adam and Eve. I know exactly what kind I want but  And I just wanna be 100000 sure they’re discreet before ordering as I don’t need my parents seeing that I ordered a  silicone dick lmao. any inputs are appreciated

Feelings on Adam and Eve?


I can't attach the photo of the email, but like the caption says, Adam & Eve wants me to return a used vibrator (a magic wand).

If I don't return it, I can't get a refund or replacement.

I don't feel comfortable returning it...? And also how is that allowed 😭

For context, I ordered it about a month ago and after some trial and error, I determined it was not functioning properly. (The one I've had for years is stronger and works better).

Thoughts? Advice? Idek 😭🤣 TYIA!

Adam&Eve wants me to return a USED vibrator???


Does fleshlight ever do any sales? Discount codes or anything? Adam and Eve do but I want specific Fleshlights that aren’t on their website! Thank you!

Fleshlight


I have the original corded palm power vibrator. I’ve had it for probably 15 years and the cord on it stopped working unless you held it a certain way, the vibrator itself still works. I cannot find any information on what size end the power cord had on it and my husband threw the original plug away, does anyone know what size it is so I can order one from Amazon?

I have tried other wands etc over the years and nothing has come close to feeling the same, I tried a Adam Eve wand and it was awful, I had the hardest time finishing with it and it made me sore and just didn’t feel good. I normally need multiple o’s before I am completely satisfied and the palm power is the only one that’s ever done it for me.

I really don’t want a rechargeable one and I’m afraid I would break the extreme one they have due to the shape of it.

I am open to suggestions on different brands etc that have a similar power level and feeling. I tried to research it and I keep seeing things about rumbly vs buzzy and I honestly don’t know what one it is I like. Any suggestions or even help figuring out what to get would be greatly appreciated.

Wand similar to palm power or replacement cord options


I have the Eve's ravishing suction rose from Adam and Eve and it's not air pulse but it actually sucks on the clit instead of blowing air on it, but it could have been stronger....(I have a big clit so I love when the rose sucks my clit real good 🤤🌹😍😍 if you want to know more or see it in action, pm me💋🌹

What kind of clit sucker (that actually sucks on the clit! =No air pulse toy!!) is best? - strongest?


I just ordered jelly dildos on Adam and Eve just to find out that they're not safe and canceled the order. I don't wanna make another order without proper research now. I kinda just assumed that since it was from a reputable company that it'd be safe.

If anyone has any good dildo recommendations that are completely safe to use, preferably under 60 dollars, then please suggest them!

Thank you

Reputable and safe dildo recommendations?


I ordered some toys on Adam and Eve and without thinking much I placed it under guest because I didn't already have an account and thought it'd be fine.

In my confirmation email I got, it says "We’ll send shipping information over as soon as it is available." And has an "Order Status" button below.

When I click the "Order Status" button it brings me to a prompt to sign in. I didnt use an account so I couldnt sign in. I created a new account using the same email hoping it'd be like lovense and automatically link it together.

It didn't. I went to my "purchases" tab and it says I didn't purchase anything yet.

Am I just screwed now? Will I get an email with the tracking info? I've been really anxious all night over this. Any help is appreciated, thanks.

Adam and Eve - Can I track the order shipment if I ordered it under "guest"?


I’m looking to get one but don’t know where to look.

It’d be my first so I also have n experience with that.

What’s a website for a good price and safe for the body?

Dildo recommendations/ Is Adam and Eve decent?


Hey so I placed an order on Adam and Eve. I just got an email that my order shipped but I realized that I put the wrong delivery address. I put it as my family’s home (my billing address) instead of where I currently live. I really don’t want it sent there. I contacted customer support and they said an order can’t be changed after it’s out for shipping. Does anyone know if there’s a way to change the address or prevent it from getting there. Maybe through the third party shipping they use. I am willing too pay any fees or such. Any advice is appreciated 🙏

Accidentally shipped to wrong address 😬


Does anyone know what these are? I got the text. I always look to see what they’re offering. This time it has different thing. But I can’t find what the sleeves are. I don’t want to spend $20 to get freebies that suck lol. I don’t need anything but if the freebies are I’ll buy some lube or something, ya know?

Strokes Of Pleasure Sleeve, Tickler Sleeve and Couples Pleasure Arouser. These are the ones I can’t find on the site or even by googling.

Adam and Eve Freebies


Ok so lemme explain my situation. I do amateur porn. As a male performer there is an expectation that you go for hours and then just cum near on command. I can go for hours (hooray depression and ennui) but getting that nut out can be difficult sometimes after telling your body to hold it in the past 3 hours.

I’m looking for a little extra insurance policy. I would like a vibrating buttplug that hits my prostate. I want it to be hands free so like not something I gotta take in and out like a dildo. Just a remote I click on and it goes to down while I jerk off. Bonus points is if it’s quiet (I can mask it with porn moans but the less I have to cover the noise the better). Double bonus points if it’s on Adam & Eve cause I can get a large chunk of cash back from Rakuten on them right now but that’s not as important as a quality product.

Looking for a quality vibrating buttplug/prostate massager


I’m looking for a place where I can order some toys, I tried ordering from Adam and Eve twice and both times they’ve canceled my order, I have no idea why.

Best online store for toys?


I am wondering if anyone else has had an issue with this brand or maybe with other clitoral vibrators. I got this clitoral “suction”(tbh I don’t even feel the suction) vibrator from Spencer’s and it has caused me pain. The toy is way too intense and has no lower mode setting on it. While it gives a good O, it caused my cl1t to bleed and I don’t even know how! I have to call Spencer’s customer service and see if they will somehow give me a refund because I just spent 40$ on something that caused me pain and I now won’t be able to use again. I’ve had the womanizer which gave actual suction but this one just pounds on it and it hurts. The vibrator I got from Spencer’s is “Penguin Clitoral Suction Vibrator” for 39.99. I got it in store so I can’t even write a review of it on the website. I know it’s an intimate product but if your product caused the consumer these issues you should be giving them a refund before it turns into a lawsuit. Now I just feel so sad. I think I’ll stick to bellesa and Adam and Eve for my stuff.

Please do not buy this toy!


Hey Sex Toy fam!

So we're mostly a vibrator, impact, restraint-loving couple. But we bought my wife her first just good ole-fashioned dildo a few months ago. We got it on a whim at a local sex toy shop and didn't really consider what size would be appropriate. Turns out that this 6.5" long, 4.5" girth (not sure of the circumference) dildo is a bit smaller than my own package. It's also a bit floppier and less firm than she'd like.

I don't think we're looking for soda-can girth, but she's said several times that it's the girth that she's looking to experience more. So I'm looking for suggestions!

I was looking at this 8-inch one from LoveHoney - https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/lovehoney-x-king-cock-realistic-extra-girthy-suction-cup-dildo-8/86957.html

And this 8.5-inch one - https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/king-cock-ultra-realistic-girthy-suction-cup-dildo-8.5-inch/60906.html

But we are open to suggestions.

Also we have been looking to expand our BDSM/kink repertoire a bit and add a ball or bone or leather gag. This one from LoveHoney seems good - https://www.lovehoney.com/bondage/blindfolds-masks-gags/gags/p/dominix-deluxe-leather-bit-gag/49141.html

We are looking for something relatively comfortable that won't break her teeth.

We're also open to other shops. We've shopped at Adam & Eve in the past, though we know a lot of people are pretty down on them here in the subreddit, and we've heard good things about LoveHoney.

So please, share your dildo and gag suggestions!

Best place to buy a body-safe dildo (and maybe a decent gag too)?


My wife and I tried the [Adam & Eve Naughty Silicone Trainer Kit](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/anal-sex-training-kits/sp-adam-eve-naughty-silicone-trainer-kit-105824.aspx) and didn't like how soft it was. We want something similar, but way stiffer. Now quite ready to splurge on metal or glass though. Any recommendations?

Adam and Eve silicone trainer kit too soft. Looking for something different.


I'm from europe and I'm trying to find a way to buy the official hitachi magic wand [https://magicwandoriginal.com](https://magicwandoriginal.com)
I already saw other posts on here talking about knock-offs on amazon and how it's pretty hard to get it shipped to europe but I found listings for all the models adam&eve
[https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/wand-massagers/sp-magic-wand-plus-106764.aspx](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/wand-massagers/sp-magic-wand-plus-106764.aspx)
The wand (plus model) is 90 euros and the shipping (to italy)+taxes amounts to just a bit over 30 euros, is this legit? I've never used the site so can I trust it with the wand being the official one?
Also is the shipping cost being this cheap normal?
thanks in advance!!!

adam&eve hitachi magic wand to europe


Hey everyone.... I posted a few days ago about my daughter, 14, asking me and my wife for a sex toy. I got told by MANY of you that I was not being fair, or understanding, and even a bit controlling/sexist. I had my eyes opened. I realized that it was not sexually unhealthy for her to have one, and in fact the opposite. Better a toy than a boy.

So me and her had a long talk. I thanked her so much for coming to us. I reiterated that it was the most important thing to me, for us to be open and honest. I sat down with her and let her pick a toy and we ordered one from adam and eve haha.

[https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/realistic-dildos/sp-dildolls-utopia-liquid-silicone-dildo-112213.aspx](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/realistic-dildos/sp-dildolls-utopia-liquid-silicone-dildo-112213.aspx)

I won't lie, it is still intense for me. But I am NOT a prude either, and its not like I am trying to stop her from masturbation. I just want her to be safe and healthy about it.

Update on daughter getting a sex toy, you all were right


Hello! F27 I have a question on TPE material. I got me a brand new dildo, it’s from Adam and Eve: sunrise dream. It is brand new and I used it for the first time. I always wash my toys before use, EVEN if they are brand new.

I seen that TPE is safe, but porous. I don’t use toys all the time only occasionally. I didn’t use a condom because I didn’t know it’s strongly recommended to use one for TPE dildos, and it’s brand new and this was the first time me using it. Is it still safe? Am I going to be okay??? I also always wash up after wards too.

Adam and Eve’s sunrise dream dildo concerns


i got rid of that nasstoys set i bought from adam and eve. and i bought a set like it off a site i trust. i was excited to use them. but after reading the comments and the smell and everything. i got anxious about using them. so i just threw them in the trash.

okay am in a pickle updated.