Personally I love feminine things like makeup, nail polish, womens fashion, heels, etc. I also like stuff like homemaking and interior decorating, but I don't consider those exclusively "female."

I'm not an expert on them since I have no practical use for them (I just like reading about them and looking at them on sites like Pinterest or subreddits like MUA. Though I do buy "female" bathroom items like shampoo and soap.), but I know more than a lot of my guy friends, even the ones with girlfriends.

But the other day I overheard a couple of girls talking at school about how if a guy they were dating knew what wedges are, they would be like "aw honey you should be dating a man not a woman."

So I was wondering how you ladies felt about a man that knew what wedges, foundation, and denier were.

How do you feel about dating a man that knows about feminine things?


So.. I was married right out of high school and was with her for 17 years. I loved her but not true love. The sex was maybe once or twice a month after the honey moon period... then we got divorced.

I waited two years after the divorce and decided to date. after only a few dates, I met a girl who I fell deeply in love with, more deeply than I had ever known I could, with such a deep passion, and we were like rabbits... 4 to 5 times a day... up to 8 to 10 on some days.   It was like this for two years and never slowed down.  I am just now getting back into the dating world and am looking to find out what is normal...  so ladies.. I could use some help to know how often is good?

Too Much Sex - Just the right amount? - Too Little? How often is good for you Ladies?


To give some context, I met someone online, we had great chemistry and ended up sleeping together. I'm quite defensive and closed off when it comes to giving into romance and expressing my feelings. I'm cynical and know that love and relationships can be complicated and a lot of hard work however I've never felt this way with a woman before. We both agreed we weren't looking for anything beyond a casual relationship however, that evening the connection was undeniable, the sex was the best i've ever had and we talked and made love all night. I'm quite smitten and haven't felt this way in a long long time. She's expressed that I'm somewhat of a "trap" meaning that although I like to maintain casual relationships she said that most likely many women fall for me which also makes me think that she's second guessing where this is going as well. I have had women develop feelings beyond the casual level, however the feeling is never reciprocated until now...

TL;DR: Do any of you ladies believe in love at first site? Is it just a case of honey-moon romance? I feel like I'm in high school all over again...

Do you believe in love at first sight


My hands are shaking, I'm so fucking angry. My girlfriend left for work 2 hours ago, I'm at home, it's my day off. She forgot her phone, me being the idiot I am, I decided to look through it (I know, very wrong of me). This is the first time I've done it, and she was always an innocent angel, I was just hoping to get some confirmation on that 'fact.

Boy was I wrong. This old friend of hers [m/22] (who moved to a different country a while ago) had exchanged a couple of messages with her. Some of them caught my eye.

a bit before his birthday she wrote 'Maybe I'm gonna send you one or two birthday pics, if you behave ;)'. The smiley is what made me suspicious. Then after his birthday 'I sure spoiled you with that many pics at once ;)'

a bit before her birthday 'I wish you were there, to jump out of a giant cake.. :)'

and she frequently calls him honey, darling, and so on.

Now, do you think she sent him nudes? I went through her e-mail folder, Whatsapp folder, nothing. Why would she delete the messages, if they were just normal pics? Furthermore, why would she send him normal, fully clothed pics, if her facebook is already full of them?

I'm so pissed. Ive never been cheated on before. I'm an attractive guy, with a well paying job.

I've been with her for 2 and a half years now, we even live together. Fuck, can someone tell me what to do? I left the apartment, I'm just sitting here at starbucks and could just start crying.

If we break up, I cant afford the apartment anymore, I might even get fired, because her dad is my boss. Fuck everything, can anyone give me advice on what to do?

Would you break up with your SO over something like this? He moved to a different country before her and I got together, so if they ever had sex, it doesnt concern me, because it definitely wasnt during our relationship. She denies ever having sex with anyone but me and her only other boyfriend, do you believe that? Do you think they had sex?

I'm thinking about forgiving her, just for the sake of the apartment and my job, but it'll always bother me. Fuck fuck fuck.

Thanks for any and all answers.

**EDIT: I used to have a bit of a drinking problem, but I'm 2 weeks clean, and I'm so close to just go out and buy a bottle of booze again. Fuck fuck fuck. I need to do something to distract myself. Does anyone want an update later tonight / tomorrow? Should I post it here or make a new thread?**

**Update**: The dude just replied. He said they were two pictures of her in lingerie (pics she took for me, while I was gone for 2 weeks) and the whole flirting has been going on for 1 1/2 years. He apologized, said he would stop. I asked him to never tell my gf we had the conversation, he agreed and yeah... dont know what to take from it.

**Update 2**: My girlfriend will be home in less than an hour. Im signing off now. I'll make sure to post an update later tonight or tomorrow. I'll post it here, in this subreddit and I'll link to it in this post. Thanks for your support. I would never have expected so many responses. I promise I'll stay calm and not scream or throw a fit. I also managed to NOT drink tonight, so thats another win. I love you all, and I'll talk to you later. Thank you!

I think my girlfriend cheated. Do you consider this cheating? Looking for a female perspective. Thank you.


There's a wonderful girl in my life who I have liked for a long time, but was only friends with since we met 3 years ago. However we have moved out of the friend stage and are now a couple. Of sorts. I'd rather not make this into an essay about me. Because I do love talking about myself and my drama, and that is what this post would devolve into. But basically this is a girl who I am deeply happy with, and who says she is happy with me. We go on adventures together, picnics in the middle of the night, exploring old abandoned churches, etc. However, if I try to initiate physical contact, she shies away (IE sitting by each other, cuddling on a hammock, all that jazz.)

However, if we end up on a bed together then we have a lot of fun with each other, spending hours talking and enjoying ourselves. The problem isn't with the sex; she orgasms more often than I do.

So ladies, is there a reason that you would be okay with sex but not casual contact?

(If it's important, I'd say she's far more attractive than me. I'm a sallow fellow.)

If you think there is a plurality of reasons, I can tell you the full tale. Complete with hitchhiking through mexico, fights with drug dealers while covered in honey, and bongs in elementary schools. So hopefully that would clarify things. But I'd rather not ramble on if it's irrelevant.

Is there a reason a girl would be open sexually but against casual physical contact?


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For the past few times, I've had trouble trying to get my penis into her vagina when we try to have sex. Every time, I either go limp relatively quickly, or my penis just refuses to go into her and instead, it bends. Yes she's wet enough, I think as I fingered her quite a bit and was able to stick 2 to 3 fingers in there before we attempted to have sex. Thinking it's the mental problems that people have when they just start having sex, I somewhat shrugged it off. I'm perfectly fine when I masturbate as I can climax. It should be noted that I have a downwards curve, so if I'm lying on my back, my body and penis is literally like: __)__o.

Recently, I bought a [stroker](http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22078). I think I lubed it up pretty well, but anyways, I couldn't get myself into there comfortably. Again, my penis would bend and it was actually a bit painful trying to get in there. I thought I was maybe too big to fit into that stroker, but eventually, I got in there. However I wasn't able to stroke my penis and it would continue to hurt me, but I did climax so I guess it served its purpose.

Last night, I asked my friend who has had lots of sex and she told me none of the men she had sex with faced a problem like me. They were able to slip into her pretty easily and was stiff hard where their penis didn't bend much, if at all during penetration. I told her that even at my stiffest moment, my penis is curving down and would bend if I tried to penetrate a vagina/stroker. I also told her that I'm able to bend my penis when I'm masturbating with just my hands. The best example I can come up with so far is when you place a long ruler over the edge of a desk and you push half of it down over the edge, causing it to bend. She told me that it's a serious problem and I may have low blood flow in my penis, because there may not be enough blood in my penis when I have an erection. In fact, I just remembered that when I have an erection, I can still move my penis around and bend it throughout the base and the shaft.

I'm going to be seeing a urologist in October, but I'm not sure if they deal with the problem I may be facing here. After all, I'm seeing the urologist for what many call coregasms. Should I bring this up too? I can see a vein and a vein bulge in my penis, like there's blood backed up in there. I actually poke it for fun sometimes, but it's probably not a safe thing to do.

Thanks for the responses!

Do I have low blood flow in my penis? Problems masturbating and having sex.


I (34F) am 1 month postpartum. Things are going great with the baby and with our marriage. We are sleep deprived for sure but really more in love than ever. My problem is that I absolutely hate my body now. I know I can get it back, but it will take a lot of time and I hate seeing myself. I can’t imagine my husband (35M) being attracted to me this way, compared to how I was before. I was toned, great butt, perfectly flat stomach, and just so athletic and physically capable. By the time I delivered I had gained 65lbs (not sure where I’m at now), I have stretch marks on my hips/thighs, and on my boobs since my milk came in. Obviously my stomach is no longer flat and I have no abs, it’s big and soft and I hate it. The end of pregnancy was physically hard and painful, with sciatica and SI joint pain constantly. Now I still limp and waddle around, with stiffness and pain in my feet and knees.

With the 6 week mark approaching, and likely the go ahead for intercourse, I feel even more self conscious. My body will be flopping and jiggling around in ways it never has before, and I just don’t see how he could actually like my body at this point. I know what he finds attractive and this is not it. ( he’s telling me I’m beautiful and all of that, but I just feel like he has to say that, he’s not an idiot, he’s not going to say gee honey, you look pretty gross!)

How do you really feel about your wife’s body postpartum?


Male 29 , female 26 , we’ve been together 9 months now . In the beginning first 5 months honey moon phase man it couldn’t be better , never felt a love so pure and tailor made . Sure we had little ups and downs nothing to over come . But around 6 months in she ended up getting pregnant. Not perfect timing I know but we were joyful because we knew we were perfect for each other so figure it’d be great . We were planning to get a house and all . After 3 ultrasounds life turned us upside down and the baby won’t make it due to health complications. So we decided to ultimately get a ab**tion to prevent more traumatic experiences . We cried . It was painful but we were there for one another and still planned to move together and stay together .

Until I found out in her phone after the first week of her finding out about her pregnancy she was smoking weed for the entire month after finding out . I confronted her and she accused me of insinuating that it was her fault . That wasn’t the case I was just upset that I didn’t know about that cause of course if I knew I would’ve told her don’t do that ( and I’d never blame her in such a vulnerable space ) . We got past that argument. But since we’ve been arguing every week . About all sorts of issues some her fault some mine . She tends to get real emotional when angry . It’s got me questioning if I should even get us the house . We have our good days where we’re still playful and romantic and desire one another , but some days like today it feels like we’re just here .

We had an argument this morning because she was late coming to watch my son so I could go work overtime cause I need to make money to pay for the ab**tion procedure that’s due next week . After I got back We were sitting next to one another, nothing to talk about, on our phones , void . It feels like the beginning of the end . Or is it just a rocky time due to all the stress . Cause we did have a great date night like 2 days ago and amazing sex . I’m trying to navigate it . I don’t know if it’s still love or are we just trying to not give up on one another . Like we’re showing up but not always there . I know every day won’t be perfect . But I’m just afraid to continue being vulnerable with all these ups and downs . I’m the only one working right now so I have to cover most of the cost for the procedure , when it’s done will she switch up ? And getting a house ?. We love each other. But these moments have really made me question the longevity of this relationship. I’m open to all inputs .

29m and 26f , arguing every week now . How to tell when it’s over ?


Yo yo, I'm looking for some fun/wholesome activities that we can bring out for a bucks party happening in a few months.

For context, the Buck has requested an Airbnb weekend with a crew of about 14 fellas over 3 nights. He's a bit outdoorsy, likes hiking and what not, and has made it super clear he doesn't want strippers or anything like that. He drinks a bit, but he doesn't like drugs. So I'm kind of feelimg more wholesome vibes.

Id LOVE some suggestions that kind of foster group bonding and celebrating the groom. Here's some stuff I've already come up with, but I'm looking for more

* Hike
* kayaking
* poker night
* someone brings a playstation for FIFA comp/Call of Duty/whatever
* Roast/Honey Roast (either affectionate ribbing or just straight up compliments)
* scavenger hunt
* Bucks Olympics (a few little competitions, possibly split into small teams)
* Puzzle race (get a couple of the same kits of Lego and race to finish them in teams)
* create a little memory boom for him
* drinking games
* trivia night about the buck
* slack line
* make a painting together/of each other
* Fire pit/ritual burning (identifying and releasing bad energy in your life now and asking for what you desire from the future)
* kareoke night/dance floor/everyone gets to DJ for 15 minutes
* lawn bowls

Im looking for any kind of activities, but if you can think of anything that honours the monumentous and transitional moment this is that'd be friggin dope! Thank you!

What Are Some More Wholesome/Teambuilding Style Activities I Could Organise For A Bucks Party?


In school, none of the other kids or teachers ever paid attention to me. I was never invited out to parties or any of the sort, i sat at lunch alone, you get the idea. I was also subject to bullying. This continued into high school years later when a group of girls brought me into their friend group, and i was only there for entertainment and being the punching bag.

They would belittle, bodyshame and emotionally abuse me and overtime i got the idea that it was ok if a girl in the future does this to me. Those girls i was “friends” with literally abused me so much i thought it was ok for women to do this.

Now, I’ve discovered theres women called who are similar to that of dommy mommies. They love you, cherish you and call you names like “sweet little angel” or “good boy, honey or sweetie”, all names that would make me melt. I always have been a naturally submissive pushover so ig it works into my favor. Those years of bullying still hurt me and idk if for when i get married, because i dont plan to date, will it heal me if my wife talks to me how i described i wanna be talked to above. I just wanna be held and kissed on my forehead so i can shut out what those girls did to me all those years ago.

But i dont know if it would.

How would fantasies of wanting a “dommy mommy” impact your marriage


I have a severe history of bullying, being picked on, backbiting, bodyshamed, you name it. Cant remember the last time anyone said they loved me.

Now i crave love and im severely touch deprived. I want a relationship with a girl who

-will tell me she loves me constantly
- let me show her constant affection
- be held by her and told everything will be ok and that im enough
- she lets me do anything for her
- lets me be attached to her
- calls me names like “sweetheart, angel, honey, her little x y and z”
- guides and nurtures me on things im confused on
- basically have the persona of a dommy
mommy , just one girl who loves me

My trauma of school still haunts me , from barely anyone showing up to my 13th birthday party to being left outta hangouts entirely.

Is this normal or do i need therapy?

Is it ok to want a relationship where i can still be an adult but cared and nurtured for?


6 months ago, I asked my wife (married 13 years) to try calling me “daddy.” I was just curious to try out the cultural trend where ladies use “daddy” as term of endearment and/or sexual playfulness for a dom-sub relationship.

She obliged and has hence called me this for the past 6 months, both inside and outside of the bedroom. She thought it was really awkward at first, but over time came to love calling me “honey daddy” (her own spin) and “daddy” all the time. She says it added some fun to our marriage and just makes her think of a protective and caring figure, nothing literal to it.

My experience was the exact opposite. I liked it a lot at first, but over time I developed very mixed feelings. Sometimes it feels warm and endearing (in a masculine and empowering way), rarely a little sexy if used submissively, but most of the time it feels pretty weird or even wrong as if it implies an inappropriate relationship (not that she means it that way). I also don’t want to feel more weird when we have kids soon, which makes me feel guarded.

It started to feel more weird when she was a) adding the prefix “my” to it (i.e., “you’re *my* \[honey\] daddy”) and b) using it *constantly*. Another factor might possibly be that she usually uses it in a sweet way, rarely in a playful/flirty way. During sex, it could be a little sexy (when she says “give it to me daddy”), but it mostly just felt weird to hear things like “I love you, my \[honey\] daddy” during sex.

I finally expressed feeling uncomfortable, and she was frustrated because it was my idea to begin with and it feels unfair to her to drop it now that she loves it. It’s also familiar to me as well now, so I have suggested that we try using it less often for now.

Help me sort outed my mixed feelings: why might I like it sometimes and not other times? What context makes being called “daddy” by your wife or girlfriend endearing/empowering/sexy, rather than weird and uncomfortable? Why is it that I can lovingly call her “my baby” without thinking anything of it (weird if taken literally), but her calling me “my daddy” can feel uncomfortable? Is it about using it playfully and occasionally, rather than sweetly and constantly? What does it take to adjust to it if your partner loves it?

Why does wife calling me daddy invoke mixed feelings?


I’ve never had pet names before my bf calls me baby, love, honey, beautiful, gorgeous but I just call him cutie pie or I’ll play it up and say good morning to the cutest most handsome man in the world followed by phones in my left hand (he always sends me a snap super early in the morning) 😂
I feel so weird saying babe or something but I really wanna call him something especially cause he added baby to the mix when we became official.
26m/25f

What nicknames do you like your girlfriend calling you?


I know in England and Maritime Canada, words like honey/darling/love are sometimes  just part of the vernacular, even talking to strangers of any age/gender.

I'm curious how it varies in other parts of the world. Do you only use pet names for long term partners? Or as a way of flirting? Affectionately or sarcastically with friends? For only women or for anyone you care about?

In what circumstances do you use terms of endearment in your culture/area?


OBSESSED WITH MY MAN, BUT IS THIS LEVEL OF OBSESSION EVEN OKAY??

OBSESSED WITH MY MAN!
Is this normal?! We've been married for 3 yrs, known each other for more than 5 yrs, we're parents of an adopted dog-son and our human toddler just turned 2.5yrs, we've a picture perfect family that we've struggled so hard in all ways to create from literally nothing, now lately for some reason the love I've got for this man is only increasing as days pass!
Yep, it's increasing.
Like; I get lost in his Fragrance, that's my most favourite aroma so at times when he's at work when I can't reach him I take a whiff of his aroma from his shirts, I love cooking for him that now I've learnt different cuisines and I surprise him on random days, sometimes in the middle of the night when I wake up for some water I watch him sleep and snuggle under his arms like a puppy, I take photos/videos of him while he's playing with our kids and watch them on repeat, I love looking into his eyes, like damn I could get lost in those sweet caramel, coffee, honey, pecan eyes for they're my home! 🤩
I could be so busy with the entire day managing the household chores and the kids all alone waiting to put them to bed so that I can finally take some rest yet the moment my husband comes back from work, suddenly all I just wanna do is talk to him or cuddle together in silence. I could sit the entire day doing nothing with him and time would just fly by making days look like seconds but without my husband, even though I'd be busy with a 100 undone work time would still move like a snail.!! I Love how independent, wild and free I used to be as a person back then but now solely prefer to include "my husband this, my husband that" in every conversation I could ever have with someone, my brain automatically shuts down when I'm with him, he babies me, pampers me, takes care of me in ways I didn't even know I wanted to be taken care of, understands me without even having to talk, protects me and does all what I ever craved for in this lifetime and I absolutely love that!
But sometimes I feel this obsession I have for my husband would suffocate him. I mean, I tried asking him and we spoke about it and he of course said that's the most important thing he loves from me and he'd always want that, but on the other hand I'm afraid sometimes he feels too coddled to say it and too scared to accept it because he fears it'd break my heart!

But either way, this is something I really wanted to get off my chest! ♥

How is this even possible??


I am really struggling with if this is an issue about me not showing up or him flailing. Woman asking mens help.

My partner does so much for me. So, so much. I literally cannot put into words the gratitude for how he shows up. A few days ago I was out in the bush and returned to my car battery flat. I walked up and down the road for ages trying to find service for him to come save me. Jump didn’t work. He has spent the last 2 days under my car figuring it out and finally limped the thing home to work on it proper. I cried when I saw he got it here, I was so thankful.

He fixed the hot water tank when it broke. He built me a chicken coop when I mentioned wanting birds. I mean it when I say this man does everything for me.

He often tells me that his love language is acts of service and he wants me to do things for him. I want to love him in the way he feels loved so every morning when the alarm goes off I get up, make his breakfast, make his coffee, put honey and cream in, put last nights dishes away, organize our morning and make the bed while he takes a shit. I buy our groceries and cut up all the meat and veg into portions so he only has to combine them at night (I work later than him so I don’t cook dinner at 7:00). I make his sauces to have said meals and leave them in jars in the fridge with labels so he can just add them.

I cannot fix a water heater but I can prepare him a meal but I’m constantly being told he does more than I do. This feels really crummy to me because I’m contributing in ways he struggles and he contributes in ways I struggle. I contribute 20 - 40 minutes every day and he contributes 3 hours once a week or two.

Men: what is your wife “doing enough” for you? I think I’m being had.

Equality in relationships


I live in the south, and it is not uncommon for random women to call me names of endearment.  For example, a waitress might say "Sure thing, sweetie, I'll bring that right out."  This is not flirty or rude, I am just not sure how to respond.  Usually I would either say nothing, or if I felt cheeky I might say "Thank you snugglebear" or something even more absurd.  It got some laughs.

What is the best response to this kind of thing?

Southern Murican Men, what do you say when a server/so on calls you "love" or "honey?"


To clarify, not necessarily in a relationship setup. So not the usual baby, please not love, no sweetheart, sweetie, honey. Nothing so sickly. Something cute though. Like, what does your mistress call you?

What pet names do men like to be called?


I'm struggling with this dilemma! I love strong, independent women who can rely on themselves and aren't too needy. All my past relationships were with people like that. But recently, I have been discovering a part of me that's drawn to girls who act cute and ask for help all the time.

For instance, this girl named "x" who works with me. She frequently comes to me for help, using a cute gesture and asking very silly and stupid questions like oh how do I close this ! Why is this lagging! What do you I should with this or can I email this. Like I’m 99% sure she just asking because of asking impossible normal human will ask that stuff,and  I find enjoyment in answering her, and this interaction occurs daily. Not only that, but within my current group of friends, there's also someone similar. She usually do these small, seemingly silly actions / and like very innocent that make you want to protect her and just help her ( like oh honey from how I met your mother ) .

I find myself extremely attracted to this like wtf . In the past, I cannot see myself in a relationship with someone like that like never !!!

I've heard that guys like it when girls depend on them more. So, what do you think about it ?

Getting attracted to cute girls who always ask for help


It’s common knowledge that most women like being called things like “beautiful” or “gorgeous” but what do men like to be called? What is your preferred compliment? Especially filling in the blank of “hey _____”

Edit: for men in relationships, are there any specific pet names you like? (Babe, honey, love, etc)


Hi there! I have a boyfriend and I love him so much and we’ve been living together for nearly 3 years. He is a very lovely men and does everything to make me happy. But there is something that I just don’t understand that he needs alone time more than I do. I know it sounds kinda shallow but when i want to do something I want him with me but he can just reject that and says something like “I don’t want to do that honey, I’ll just play games” but I can’t do that when he wants to do something. Even if I don’t really like that thing I just do that because he wants that and seeing him happy makes me happy too. Is it always like that or there is a problem in my relationship that we should work on?

Are all men are like this when it comes to spending time with their partner?


Pet names such as honey, sweetheart, love and darling.

For context: my friend suddenly called me honey, despite us knowing each other for a long time (were both in our late 20s) and him never using any sort of pet names with me.

So how often do you use them? and when you do, what's your intention behind the pet name?

Men, how often do you give your female friends pet names and what do they mean to you?


Darling,
Sweetie,
Love,
Honey,
Baby,
Etc. tell me your favorites, and least favorites!

What are pet names you love and hate?


I mean the random part of this… I don’t mean things like “learning how to communicate better” etc.

For mine as an example, the one thing that I still love from my time with an ex that I dated nearly 15 years ago was to always order honey mustard to dip my McDonalds fries in. She was a horrible girlfriend, but I always still order honey mustard with my fries. It’s delicious.

What is something completely random that you appreciate learning from an ex-girlfriend?


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Lately I have been wearing lots of sweet type of fragrances (caramel, honey, vanilla scents) and I keep receiving so many compliments!

Do you have a particular scent you love on a woman? Or a specific perfume?

What fragrances do men like?


I’ll go first, I love putting milk and honey in my coffee. I’m not going to drink it black, duh heck?

What are the dumbest mainstream masculine things that you will never do/understand?


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My hubby is sick right now with a really bad cold - he just looks miserable and I'd love to do all I can to help him. I would really like to know what different people have tried or had others do for them when sick that felt really good. I've tried rubbing Vicks on him, making him chicken soup and hot tea, keeping the dogs and my own activities quiet so he can sleep, but would love other ideas. Any specific medicine product? Particular food or drink? Just anything that helps relax you or make you feel better?

UPDATE: Thank you everyone for the suggestions! He's jumped to a 102 fever:(. I stocked up on Dayquil and Nyquil, made him lots of hot tea with honey and lemon, ran him a hot epsom salt bath and then rubbed his feet with some lavender oil afterwards to help him go to sleep. I'll keep everything y'all said in mind until he gets to feeling better :).

What feels really good when you're sick?


So I'm (24F) looking for a new whiskey or something strong for my relaxing time. I love Jack Daniel's Honey whiskey (dont judge) but I'm looking to expand my taste buds. So men, what are your recommendations?

What Is Your Favorite Nightime Drink?


I was in computer class and he was moved beside then we just started talking and then we talked more and more till he just became the homie,my guy,my honey bun(it ain’t gay if it’s yo homie) I just love that guy.

How did you meet some of your best friends?


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I’m not in bad shape, but I’m not ‘in’ shape like how I used to be. My diet is the biggest hindrance to living a healthy lifestyle. I have a big sweet tooth and I love my carbs. It’s uncommon for me to eat a vegetable, they are, for the most part, pretty repugnant.

I’ve had periods where I’ve managed to ‘diet’ for at most two weeks. I cut out added sugar and empty carbs and up my protein intake and force more veggies in. I do feel better, but I can’t sustain it.

I get sick of eating chicken, I miss eating a bowl of honey nut cheerios. Once I have a cheat meal, it’s like the dam has broken.

My goal is to cut out added sugar and empty carbs, increase fiber and vegetable intake, replace empty carbs with protein, drink water.

How can I make that a lifestyle?

How do you fix your diet for long term sustainability?


I feel kinda silly basically asking you all for permission to like sexy man butts considering there are a lot of posts where guys say they'd like it. I always get this nagging insecurity when guys ever so rarely approach me and it's just that some of these guys are just... not what I'd consider attractive. They are nice enough and I always try to be as polite as possible because I wouldn't mind making more friends, so I tend to default into treating these occassions as purely platonic, but most of these interactions fizzle out and it makes me think they weren't trying to be friendly after all so I just shrug it off. I feel kinda guilty, but I'm just a really visual person and when I don't find a man attractive there's little I can do to turn that tide. I hear lots of stories about how some people (especially women) meet their partners and don't think much of them until they get to know them and they suddenly become the funniest, or the smartest or the best guy/gal they've ever met and I think this is wonderful, personality is certainly much more important in the long run and I always find good character the greatest asset to attraction. I will have you all know that I have NEVER tolerated bad behaviour from men solely because they were good looking.

I just don't want 20 years to pass by and have my partner ask me "hey honey, remember back when we first met?" and see myself thinking 'yeah, at first glance you wouldn't have been my first choice, but here we are', regretting never have been with someone a bit more exiting. Because as much as there are some *meh* looking guys out there, I'm not vying for celebrity level looks, no. Sure, some celebrities I'm attracted to and I'll use them to describe what kind of style and look I enjoy but a lot of them just fade out of my conscious after awhile because it would be stupid to get hung up on them. But every so often I'll see men on the street or in my classes and they're just... breathtaking. And it's the little things, not bulging muscles, it's the curve of their nose, their eyelashes, the length of their fingers, small smiles, I'll catch myself just appreciating them because some guys are just dang pretty and I notice.

I don't think there's anything deep about this, I don't believe in love at first sight, I do however believe in lust at first sight and I know it's not the best reason to start a relationship, but is it really the worst reason?

Definently I'm not the most attractive person in the world, I've never felt like I depended on looks for anything, but I would still like my partner to appreciate my body and I'd feel a bit insulted if they deemed it something superficial or unimportant. Despite having crooked teeth and a receding hairline, I still found my ex attractive. I think Daniels Bruhl's almost monobrow is sexy!!

Do guys even care about this? I've just internalized this guilt about "giving nice guys a chance", and the insecurity that [all guys want the hottest girl they can find, independant of how she feels about him physically.](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/eyhjbn/men_of_reddit_whose_gf_is_noticeably_hotter_than/)

All this to say, I really don't want to settle on looks during this time in my life, for once in my life I'd like to have the guts to be close to a man I deem beautiful, in his own way. In your experience, do you guys think this adds anything to a relationship? When this interested didn't exist was their anything that made up for it in the relationship?

How important is it for you guys that your partner or crush be into your looks?


What terms of endearment do you love being called by your SO? e.g. babe, honey, my love, my darling etc


My GF would every now and then call my name in this distinctive, low-pitch, honey-dripping, elongated tone of voice("Staaaapleeeeeer...") I have come to dread, because I know that it will be followed by some bullshit inconvenient thing that she wants done right now, but can't be arsed to do herself for some reason. It mostly has to do with putting on pants and going to the shop to get her something. If I refuse despite of her prolonged badgering, she would go all sour and scurry off to some other room, and will remain bitchy for the rest of the day. So for some reason, it upsets her when she can't outsource her chores to me.

I don't understand this behavior at all. All my life, when I wanted something, I would get off my butt and do it myself, or I would come to the conclusion that it was too much trouble and I'd do without it. It would never cross my mind to be mad at anyone for refusing to see to my base personal needs and wants. I thought everybody had it like that.  I never bothered neither my family nor my roomates with crap like this, and I never imagined that once I get a GF, I would send her out to run my errands. Why would I bother someone I love in their free time to go out and do inconvenient shit for me?

Now, it's not that I don't do stuff around the house like cleaning, dishwashing, etc., I do try to do my fair share. I also have nothing against it if she asks me to help her out with something difficult, or to run her errand because she's away, but this bugging me out of the blue to stop whatever relaxing activity I'm doing, dress up, and get her some particular cookies or something is annoying as hell, and I don't understand why she does this.

My woman bugs me to do inconvenient things for her. Did you encounter this behavior as well? How did you deal with it?


When we're together it's some variation of the usuals:
Honey, sweetie, love, babe.
When I'm referring to her when I speak to  others I usually call her "my old lady".

What do you call your significant other?


Using common names like love, baby, honey, etc to call your girlfriend might not be sweet anymore.
Coming up with something unique and exclusive for her might be sweeter.

What are your bases in choosing a name for your girlfriend?


Terms of endearment - do some make you feel all warm and fuzzy while others grate?

Edit: Okay, so I'm getting the impression that anything vaguely positive is way ahead of the curve in terms of making you guys go all gooey! So let's say this: what is your reaction to standard honey, darling, sweetheart, love etc? Do you mind when people use them when you're just getting to know each other?

What's your favourite/least favourite pet name to be called?


Edit: I guess it matters if it's a ~28 year old woman vs a ~60 year old woman. Or does it not matter?

Men of Reddit, do you guys secretly hate or secretly love when waitresses, guests or miscellaneous women call you names such as "babe" sweetheart" or "honey"? (i.e. at restaurants, saying excuse me, etc.) and Why?


I'm from a non-English speaking country, and so is he, but our common language is English. I've been calling him baby or babe, but in both our cultures this brings up a mental image of a newly born human being, which is not particularly manly or sexy. I can't seem to be able to come up with a good alternative.

**Darling/honey/sweetie** etc.: too wishy-washy

**Boo**: too particular to a sub culture neither of us belongs to

**Lover**: works in some cases

**Love or my love**: works, but is a bit too high-brow for my tastes

**Sir/master**/similar ones: tried these a few times, but he doesn't respond to it as he doesn't like to think of himself as having power over me (he's a fairly powerful guy and makes a point of me being his equal within the context of the relationship)

What other options are there in this lovely and vivid language of yours? What does your SO call you? What do you wish she called you, if it was up to you, and why? All suggestions will be received with thanks!

What are the best, masculine nicknames for the (male) SO in the English language and why?


He's 40, I'm 32. Dating over a year and friends a couple of years before that. We've gone from sex multiple times a week to a grand total of two lays in the year of our lord 2017. There was no slow dwindle...it just turned off like a faucet.

I'm dying. I love him, very much. He loves me. I want to be supportive, but I also want him to seek out medical advice. At least a blood test, something.

Give me a script. What do I say? No man wants to hear, "hey honey, I love you but I'm not happy with our sex life please see a doctor". Also- men please tell me- why won't he go to the doctor on his own?!

Older men, how would you want a significant other to urge you to ask a doctor about possible low testosterone?


I'm 31 male; spent my 20's being drunk and working a dead end job. Never had a healthy long term relationship.

Cleaned up my act. Stopped drinking (sober 3+ years now), Getting a degree in programming right now. Met a wonderful lady (she's 33) in school four months ago. Our interest towards each other were mutual. There was "spark" from the very first date and hug. Been seriously dating for three months, official couple for a month now. Slept together. We've both said "I love you".

We've talked about marriage, moving in together, and kids on numerous occasions.
I'll graduate next Feb. and she'll graduate next June.

I've browsed this sub and every other relationship subs. I've gotten great advice on taking it slow, keep getting to know each other, don't call it love yet at 3 months, honey moon phase emotions and all that jazz. All really wonderful grounded advices.

Financially we're far from comfortable, she has a room mate and I moved back home to finish school. All that moving in, marriage, and family is a fantasy and a dream at this point.

What I want to understand is how can I differentiate my fantasies, my intense emotions at the moment, and what's a real long term relationship?l or "true love"?

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**Tl:DR** I'm 31m, met "love of my life" 33f in school. Want to understand what a "real relationship" entails. Or If I'm just going crazy with emotions right now. Is this going "fast"? Is it too soon to get this attached?

[serious][relationship] How can I differentiate "the story in my head", "intense emotions", and "true love/healthy long term relationship"?


I read this article and I would love to try it, but... a half lemon every morning just to get the juice? Wouldn't it better to buy lemon juice?

http://naturalcuresnotmedicine.com/amazing-benefits-drinking-honey-lemon-water-morning/

Has anyone tried the warm water w/ lemon and honey, does it work?


Looking for some possible life advice from the great community on this sub.
I'm a 19 year old Australian guy, a couple months out of high school, working part time at a grocery store, currently on a gap-year between high school and university. I decided I needed to take a gap-year because my final year of high school really took it out of me physically and emotionally, I wasn't even sure what further education I wanted to do anymore, and the idea of racking up debt for a degree I didn't even want seemed like a bad idea to me.
Up until now I've basically just trying to enjoy my freedom from school, enjoying it with my friends and girlfriend - however, the honey moon period has seemed to have warn off; After a major screw up on my part, my circle of friends from high school decided they would be better off without me and cut ties with me, all except my gf and closest buddy. The whole ordeal really brought me down and forced me to evaluate everything.
So now I'm out of school, working crappy hours, with no real social life to speak of, and have no real idea what I want to do with my life. My family is supportive but I just feel that I'm always telling them what they want to hear, that I have some sort of plan. But really, I'm flying blind. They all have so much to deal with themselves that I don't want to add myself to their list of troubles.
the best idea I have is to save enough money to go and travel somewhere, maybe work abroad, or volunteer. But I really don't know. I've even lost interest in my hobbies. I've always loved playing video games, but now I feel like I'm only using them as a distraction. I used to love drawing, but now every time I pick up a pencil, the passion isn't there.
I've hit a slump, but want to get out of it, so AskMen, any of you been in similar situations? How did you figure out what it is you wanted to do? how did you find your passion? Or are you all just making it up as you go along? Anyone got any ideas?

TL;DR: 19yr old Aussie guy, on gap-year, not sure what I want to do in life anymore. How did you figure out what you want to do in life? How did you find your passion? Any suggestions on what I should do?

AskMen, how have you/do you workout what it is you want to do in life? How do you figure out what interest/career/education you want to pursue? A 19yr old Aussie needs help figuring this whole Life thing out.


I've had one and its kind of stupid I remember when I was in high school my ex used to sneak me into her room. Long story short, it was spring break and I hadn't seen her in a week since my best friend was visiting for spring break from out of town. She snuck me in just so I could see her for a bit and she told me to leave because her mom was still up and well I was bullshitting and didn't want to leave. Well, her mom walked in and of course it got really awkward when she saw me and she just said "hi" and walked out of my ex's bed room. I saw the look on my girlfriends face and she was *pissed*. Soooo I left and I had to make up this bullshit story about how me and my dad were fighting and I had to play along and my ex told her mom that I needed a place to stay, so I crashed there at night for like a week on their couch. Needless to say, it sucked. Anyone got a story they'd like to share?

Edit: I have a second "Fuck, I should've listened to her moment"

I was with my most recent ex and I was buying a car. I hit her up like "Aye shawty you tryna take me to the dealership so I can buy this whip?" and she was like "Yeah boo, I'll be there in a few." and I was like "Thanks gur  hit me when you close." We talked ratchet to each other on purpose for fun, it was funny. Anyway, long story short again, she was telling me how she got a bad vibe from the sales dude and that I shouldn't buy the car. I told her not to worry and to go home and I'll be fine. Well, the car broke down 3 months later, the day after the warranty ran out. All I could think was "Fuck, I should've listened to her."

Third "Fuck, I should've listened to her" fast forward a month later, got a new engine for the same car. I wanted to take my baby out to lunch. The problem is, I had to go to work. So I call in an hour late and said I had to pick someone up at the airport, no biggie. She told me as much as she appreciated it, she felt bad for me calling into work an hour late and that I shouldn't do that and we'll have lunch another day. but I said "Don't trip baby I just got paid and I haven't seen you in almost 2 weeks." (I was working 2 jobs at the time) and she said "Okay daddy and gave me a kiss." We went to Honey Baked Ham and had orgasmic sandwiches, I highly recommend them, as well as a sushi place and we ate it all there. Well, time to go to work. So I drop her off and head to work. I'll spare the details, basically I got into a car accident on my way to work. It was 100% *NOT* my fault and I had witnesses. I held up traffic on a 3 lane main street during rush hour for about 45 mins. All I could think and yes ladies and gentlemen, you guessed it. "Fuck, I should've listened to her." DAMN MY STUBBORN LOVE AND AFFECTION!

Men: Have you ever had one of those "Fuck, I should've listened to her" moments?


Here's the story behind the question : I stayed at a friend's place last week and his girlfriend was there. I had never seen him with her and it was a little awkward, at least for me : he was always calling her "sweety", "my love" but not like your dad calls your mom "honey", in a much more sugary voice. And he would be talking with you, and then just stop in the middle of his sentence, go toward her, kiss her, and then come back to you like nothing happened.

I slept in a bunk bed above theirs and the entire hour after everyone went to bed was made of kissing sounds and whispers that I could hear. Maybe I'm an old grumpy man (but at 21, that would be rather alarming), but this constant display of love makes me really uneasy. When I have a girlfriend (which I don't currently, which may also explain this), I don't spend my time showing her my love, especially when there are other people around as I believe first it is none of their concern and second that it may be bother them as it would bother me.

I reflected a bit upon this, and my conclusion is that I'm just uneasy with, let's say, very evident signs of affection. Now, I'd be curious to hear what you think about this =).

Singles of reddit, what do you think of couples extensively showing their love ?


- spontaneity? Doing new things/unexpected things

- expressing your attraction for your SO? Physically (hugging her, squeezing her butt), verbally (telling her you love her, how much you want to fuck her)

- I'm new to relationships and I want to know how I can keep my relationship strong after the honey moon phase. I know true love and a long lasting relationship takes work

How do you keep a relationship strong after the honey moon phase?


I've neglected posting about this in fear that he might find it, so I thought throwaway, and then decided fuck it, I need help guys...

My boyfriend (m, 30) and I (f, 24) have been together for a little over 3 years. We've been together through a lot and I love this man with all of my heart. We went from being with each other all the time to Skyping a few times a week and being together roughly once a month (I moved). I go to school full time and work part time nights, while he works almost full time days.

This week is my spring break and I got a few days off work so that I could stay a few extra days with him.

He has a lower sex drive, and I have a higher sex drive. We matched each other pretty well in the beginning, but his is still going down. We get to have sex every other month, and this is where the problem lies.

I don't know how to put it other than our sex life has started to SUCK. He's not aggressive in any manner, he's not dominant, he doesn't dirty talk. He seriously acts like a little fucking kid and it turns me off so much.

Problem 1: I try to kiss him and get him worked up, I cop a feel and he's like "ut oh, honey, what did you do?" Or "what's that?" Doesn't sound bad, but read that in the oogily voice of a patent talking to a baby and you have the disgust down.

I've tried talking to him about it, and when I do it just goes over his head and he does it the next time. I'm sorry but I want a man who can make love and fuck, cause sometimes a gal just wants to be fucked, and never does she want to be talked to like a five year old. It makes me ridiculously uncomfortable and dries me up so fast and then he wonders why I'm not wet when he's finally ready.

Problem 2: He hates eating me out. I've tried shaving, I've tried trimming, I always make sure I'm fresh out of the shower when I hint at it or ask for it. Nope.

I understand it can be a personal preference, but just like he prefers head to a hand job, I too prefer his mouth to his fingers.

Problem 3: He doesn't have a fucking sex drive. Sometimes, like tonight, I feel like its my fault, like I disgust him or something.

I'm trying to lay in this bed next to him, and I can't stop crying. I'm going home tomorrow and won't see him until mid-late April and he completely denied me sex before bed tonight.

I try to remain calm about stuff, and I generally don't let things bother me. But when I had to pick myself up off the bathroom floor, wash my face and use the excuse of playing DC Universe for not coming to bed, I knew I needed to ask for help.

So guys, after my wall of text (sorry) does anyone have any ideas. I'm getting really worn out.

Boyfriend is not very sexual [NSFW]


I have a very good alfredo sauce or honey balsamic chicken recipe that works wonders.

I also love cooking a mean burger.

What's your signature dish you cook to impress someone?


He's 32, I'm 29. We've been together almost two years ago, and if I'm not quite comfortable saying he's the love of my life I can with confidence say he's the best thing that has ever happened to me.

Six months ago he admitted to me that he recently realised he had a gambling problem, and had sought help for it. He was worried it would mean I wouldn't want to be with him (idiot). A year ago he had injured himself at work and for the first time in years he wasn't getting a fat paycheck every week and realised he had to do something about it.

I told him I was incredibly proud of him for admitting he needed help, and then getting the help. I've also drunkenly told him that I'll never be angry at him for making a mistake, but I will smack the shit out of him if he doesn't seek help and tries to just sort it out himself. His life is full of people who want to help him and would go to the ends of the earth for him. He's a fantastic guy.

He's been overseas for the past few months. He's supposed to be saving up another chunk of money to come back to where I am and retrain in a different profession (if he sorts himself out he can put that fat paycheck somewhere sensible and save up really quickly). The plan was do save up in chunks and transfer about once a month to get the best rate.

He mentioned a few weeks ago that he's slipped up. I didn't ask for details, I just asked if he was OK, if he had resources to get help. The next day I texted him the locations of all the GA meetings in the area, with a message that I loved him and just wanted to help any way I can.

We've been speaking as much as we can, but he can't really text (he's a luddite) and when I speak to him I'm just so happy to hear his voice in turn into a giggling idiot. The next time I spoke to him though I mentioned that it might be a good idea if instead of transferring it all in one go, he starts putting a grand into my account once a week, so i can access it for house stuff (rent, bills - I have a credit card from that country that I've been using, so he can pay it off for me locally and we both avoid international transfer fees). He said he had been thinking that would be a good idea.

What I don't want to be is turn into the nagging bitch of a wife trope, or my mother who only nags and never actually listens. He's also had dominating psycho girlfriends in the past, and I want to be very different. But I want to either know how much he's lost at a time, and either get him to be very transparent about where his money goes, or just hand it all over to me (and I then give him a budget to blow on whatever he wants, knowing that our savings goals, rent and bills are being taken care of). We have a joint account but not in the country he's in at the moment, when he's back I'll ask him to just get his pay put in there.

We have a very loving and trusting relationship. He very much wants to be the man, look after things, doesn't want me to worry about things. Because he trusts me so much I desperately want to show him a huge amoubt of trust back. But he had admitted that he's terrible with money, not just the going thing, he's never tried to budget and when we met he was in debt and living week to week despite earning almost 6 digits.

I just have no idea how this conversation should go.

**EDIT: I think I conveyed the wrong idea here.** I don't really want to take over his finances, but I do want to try and have the conversation of "hey honey, I can see you're really not managing your own goals about saving and contributing well, here are some ideas". My parent's relationship growing up was shit, both in terms of money and just communication. We've both been in shit relationships in the past. My gut is that telling a guy who likes to feel that they're providing for their 'family' that they need serious help with their finances doesn't go down well.

**Edit 2: Ok the whole complete control thing has been overstressed**. I really had that in mind as a last resort, it's what his parents did and my grandparents. We both come from families where the women basically ran the show, were really strong minded and married loving supportive guys. Except my mum takes advantage of my dad's easy going nature and I don't know about grey area shit, hence asking the internet for some advice. And guy advice, not just financial or gambling advice.

I would totally edit the post's name but yeah. Nup.

How do I ask my boyfriend for more transparency with his finances or to give me complete control, without sounding like a tool?


going to keep it short. A while back I started talking with this Korean girl while I was with my girlfriend. We started hanging out more and more, and there was a good bit of sexual tension between me and her. I always had a fascination for Asian women, and this was my chance. I didn't want to be a cheater so I broke up with my girlfriend.

Kind of had like a week long Honey moon where we stayed in bed banging each other's brains out. Afterwards we broke things off, the entire time my ex gf was going insane begging for me to come back, calling my family, etc.

I got back together with her not out of pity but because I do care about her. I don't think sex and love are inextricably connected. I can still love my girlfriend while sleeping with another woman. I was curious had a fantasy that I got to live, and very happy that I completed it.

Now, my question is, is it the right thing to tell my girlfriend about what happened?

If I know anything about my girlfriend she'll most likely forgive me. I feel as if it would do nothing but hurt her, but then if she pulled this type of stunt on me I'd like to know.

IF you are here to just call me an asshole/douchebag/dick, I don't care.

Looking for people that actually have advice on what course of action I should take.

Thanks.

Broke up, slept with another girl, got back with girlfriend, should I tell her?


I've been dating my gf for a few years now and I remember the beginning of the relationship, it was fresh new and exciting. I remember always wanting to go out and be with her every second of the day and it was never enough. Now it's as if it just died, I remember wanting to fuck all the time and how we would and she would be so into it and love it. It was just so perfect and fun.

Now the honey moon is over and we seem so boring and like there would be absolutely no way to get this feeling back with her. But I know if I dated a new girl it would probably follow the same pattern, because don't all flames die down anyway ? I love her a lot still and am not looking to break up with her, but would just like to know if this is just normal and something you just have to get used to and adjust to it?

does anyone else feel this way?


This is going to be long and I'm sorry if it bothers some of you, but frankly it broke my heart.....what was left of it that is.

The story starts with my second boyfriend who thought that I wasn't enough for him so much that we had to have threesomes, mind you that at the time I didn't care and was actually enthusiastic about them as I just wanted to make him happy. He found out that I was enough when we contracted an STD (curable mind you, no I don't still have it). After that is when he found out I was enough for him and even told me, although he did turn my naked body down (which was on his lap trying to entice him) for the game or a video game or even the news sometimes, really whatever was on tv.

The next serious relationship, 2 years later was with a guy who would rather turn to porn than me. Literally. I would do the same thing (i.e. crawl on him naked and try to entice him) and he would turn me down. He, however, would be jerking off to porn only one or two hours later, and whenever we did have sex, he either couldn't get it up or couldn't keep it up, but didn't have a problem at all with getting rock hard for porn. That relationship ended too.

So after another 2 years of being alone, I found my current boyfriend who hasn't done any of those things to me but does love to look at porn. I have small boobs (32C) and he loves to look up huge natural tits, or big natural boobs, or what ever it may be, but like 95% of the time it was only huge boobs. It made me feel sad and inadequate. He reassured me that he loved me and wouldn't want that in real life. I tried for 2 years to put up with these feelings and they just kept getting worse, no matter how hard I tried to just brush it off and say to myself that guys just like to look at porn, they like variety. No matter how hard I tried I could help but feel like I wasn't enough for him, like if he likes big boobs then why would he bother with someone who doesn't have them and then look at them making her feel like he needs more than her sexually.

So this is how it progressively made me feel, I was finding it disrespectful for him who depends on me to respect him, to do act as a partner in household activities and chores, to raise our daughter, work outside the home during the day, be supportive of his goals and dreams, and who is gonna be the one to care for him when he’s sick, and the one who will be with him during life’s hard times so he’s not alone, has to turn to other woman just because it’s fun while it makes me feel insecure, unwanted, unattractive and not special. Feelings are valid. I’m sure you have times that you feel compared or insecure. Sure, maybe you push it aside and suppress it, but sex is personal. I gave up lots of things I thought were fun because they annoy my boyfriend, and I did it out of respect and because nothing in life is more important than family, intimate bonds and love. So is this how the dialogue goes? Honey, I find you sexy but I also find all the other women in the world sexy too. And I can sit at the computer and have virtual sex with any woman I can possibly imagine and cum, just like I do with you, but hey, you’re still the most important woman in my life. OK, if so, then ask me for sex every time you feel that way instead of turning to porn. I’m open to try anything. Well, no honey, I want you AND other women because it’s fun and I really like variety. I want all kinds of women, not just you. But you’re still the most special woman in my life. Then I guess I’m only important enough to you to be the only woman in the world who gets to be a partner in managing a household. Lucky me! You can see all sorts of women naked and see the most intimate thing they can expose of themselves that could and should be reserved for me, much like you expect me to do, but no, I’m not enough. You have to have anyone you want. Okay, well I’ll go do the dishes then because the woman you’re gonna masturbate to in about an hour won’t be coming over to do that.

 We argued again recently and I told him I feel this strongly about it and if he can't give it up for me and respect my feelings then he needs to find some one who doesn't care about his porn and who hopefully has big natural tits because I can't take feeling this way anymore.

My question is why did it take this long for him to respect me, why did I have to feel this crappy for him to realize, why did it take me to threaten the relationship for him to change. Why couldn't he realize how much it hurt me, no matter how much I spelled it out for him?

TL;DR

Why did it take that long.


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A little back story:

They were both at a party I couldn't attend. My girlfriend passes out or falls asleep or whatever, in a bed on the top floor alone, and my then "bro" did something to her. Only he knows what really.

She got a text in the morning; "Did we do anything last night?"
And after some texts he sent; "Well I'm sorry, you're so kind it's unreal and so hot it should be illegal, thats why I thought it was right maybe ;)" or something like that.

I dont know exactly since the texts were deleted and I got to hear they existed my accident while in an argument over an internet chat. It went kind of like:

"Dude you should tell him what happened at that party! XD hahahah"
"Nah, he would probably kill himself XD"

Those were exchanged by my "broes". I called my girlfriend and asked what the hell was going on and told her to explain. She just swallowed and started kind of shaking. I just took the bike to her house while shaking of anger and sadness.

**TL;DR: Girlfriend and then best friend did something at a party, and then agreed on not telling me.**

I am no longer hanging out with the dude, but me and my girlfriend are having our anniversary in less than two weeks. It hasn't gone a day or night without me thinking of the incident and these two people who stood me the closest has a little history of working really well together. My girlfriend doesn't think badly of him at all, though I despise him. I don't know how to handle this. I've tried talking about it but I just get "Oh no honey don't think about that" for an answer.

I don't know what to do. I love this girl more than anything and has many of the best memories of my life shared with here. I want to say I trust her fully, but clearly I don't. I'm maybe just jealous or maybe just thinking too much.

EDIT: I'm not entirely sure if she was asleep at all, or if she was really passed out, those details still remain fuzzy.

My girlfriend "cheated" on me with my then best friend.


Yes sex is great.  Yes blow jobs are great.  But let's talk about hand jobs for the sake of foreplay!

I was reading a post on fetlife, it was basically a how-to on hand jobs.  As a woman I really enjoyed reading it because I don't have a cock and I love learning new techniques for my SO.  I also think they are underrated and an important part of foreplay.

My Honey and I have great communication, but sometimes it's nice to surprise with some new talent.  I understand all men are different, and that is exactly why I'm here. For ideas!

**So here are my questions:**

1. Do you like hand jobs? Are they underrated?

2. Lube?  What kind do you prefer?  I've read coconut oil is supposed to be great.

3. How firm should the grip be?  How fast of a rhythm?

4. Do you enjoy ass play during?

5. What did I miss?  Any tips?

6. Do you have a funny story to share?  Horror story?

**Tell all the things!**

Gentleman, lets talk hand jobs!


I broke up with my ex about 6 months ago because he got incredibly clingy.  He still isn't leaving me alone.  How do I get my ex to just leave me alone? Is there a nice way of saying it?
What would you want to hear?  (f/21, M/22)

If you have a crazy ex story, feel free to share.

[details of my experience below]
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I explained to him that I just didn't feel the same way he felt about me.  I was miserable trying to pretend to "love" him like he loved me.  I felt horrible the entire relationship, and had many talks about "I need my space", "Can you slow down on the 'I love you' stuff, its really bothering me", and "Picking out rings? shouldn't we slow down a bit?"  He never backed off, and took my hits as an excuse to show me more attention.  I never tried to lead him on.

The week after we broke up, he started going though the Kübler-Ross model, stages of death. He even got suicidal and his mom called me screaming at me like I was the one who forced him to take all those pills.  Many months later, he still gets on facebook and posts almost daily, status about me that are passive aggressive and our non-existant relationship.  I'm getting sick of his shit.

I'm afraid if I block him, unfriend, ect... he's going to try to kill himself again.  I haven't replied to anything, hoping hes going to take the hint. I've started seeing someone new, and and this new guy understands when I say "honey, I need to play some diablo III, please leave me alone.  It's been along day.  We can have sex after I beat this boss".

So, men of reddit,  What do I do to get him to leave me alone with out me alone?  I'd rather he not try to kill himself again. He was a very nice guy with big heart, he just never gave me space.

How do you get your clingy ex to leave you alone? (this subreddit has better responses than r/relationship_advice I think)


Ive just started my first actual relationship recently and at the beginning of the relationship we just used each others names. He's been testing out pet names for me, just the usual; baby, sweetheart, love, honey, etc. I don't have a huge problem with that, but I have a hard time calling him a pet name. I prefer to just use his name rather than things like honey and sweetie, which to me, just seem too sugary sweet to call a man. He likes it when I speak French so I occasionally will call him mon Chéri, mon chér, and mon amour. Do you like when a woman uses pet names for you? Do you like using them? Does it offend you when a woman does not use one back?

Do you like using pet names in a relationship?


Ok. My husband and I met online playing CoD. Not a unique story anymore. Despite living thousands of miles apart we were married a few months later and are currently going on to a very happy 4 year anniversary.

Now my husband is a manly man. By that I mean he's a coal miner, he smokes cigars and drinks fine scotch. He's obsessed with his fav football team and so on. Until he met he was one of this towns "players" and was even dragged to take paternity tests for kids with women he never slept with. He had a house built at 25 and women around here were on his nuts HARD. This reputation lead me to believe that he had to at least be good in bed.

First time we slept together was 3 days before we got married lol I thought the "quality" was due to excitement, stress, etc and thought nothing of it. Worst case scenario I school him lol

Well 4 years later and he's happy as a pig in shit with our sex life, but I am NOT. Now, I love him more then anything. He's my soulmate, and I know him well enough to know that if I'm direct about anything he'll have a sexual breakdown. He thinks he's the shit and that's kinda my fault for amping his ego. He does 2 positions: missionary and doggy. He doesn't do oral sex!!! (WTF!!) To note: I was a very generous giver of BJ's for the first 2 1/2 years then I went "on strike" bc my efforts were never returned. It's very important that he thinks I orgasm during sex, or he will spend hours of brooding over it.

I can't win! I'd thought for a long time that as long as I had my vibrator to back me up I'd have no issue making him feel all manly and still be satisfied. I've reached on of the libido surges women have in their lifetime and my "eagerness" has skyrocketed! Due to some back issues he's been having he simply can't keep up; once a day is his absolute limit of his back just locks up.

I can't tell him "Hey honey I've been faking it for our entire marriage bc you're not a very skilled lover." He'd kill himself. But I also can't keep up this "vanilla" sex life where nothing ever changes no matter what I do/say. How can I get him to put more effort into the whole thing (his idea of foreplay is grabbing my boob and squeezing it like he's looking for lumps) w/o crushing his fragile ego? I NEED him to tend to me a little bit more, but everything I say falls on deaf ears!

**EDIT** : I never intended for this lie to get out of control. I had thought that if he was bad in bed then I had a lifetime to discover new things WITH him. It never occurred to me that in this day and age a guy in his late 20's could possibly be so sexually stubborn. We spoke about sex in detail prior to getting married and nothing he said is true (for the most part). When I asked "Why?" he simply responded that ppl change. Ok, fair enough.
I also never realized that these age oriented libido fluctuations were so...consuming. Not a clue.
It was never my intention to be manipulative or anything like that. I thought if throw him an ego boost and work on it. The prob is its at a standstill with my only obvious options including his fractured ego. I can't have that. I cannot hurt him.

How NOT to completely destroy a mans sexual confidence? Help!


A couple years ago I bought a clearanced advent calendar from Ella Paradis - it was February, I think, so the price was very nice. Inside it was a bunch of stuff I won't ever use, a few things that made the box worth it, and a We-Vibe Tango which I really didn't have a use for (I thought) because I had a wand and a couple other vibrators. I considered giving it to a friend, but then forgot about it.

I went through and did a quick inventory last week and came across the Tango still in the box. I pulled it out to take a look at it and, having never even looked at it online, I was surprised at how little it is. It's a tiny little cute thing in a pretty shade of blue, and it's packaged very nicely.

I was checking it out and pushed the button on it just to see how it functions, and it turned on.  2+ years in the box and still had a charge! So of course I had to shove it in my panties and see what the fuss was about. \*g\*

Oh, the fuss is definitely about something! How can such a small thing pack such a punch? It's nice and rumbly and not at all what I would expect for its size. Other small vibes I've tried give thin buzzy vibrations - they're the equivalent of a yappy dog, but the Tango is at least a german shepherd.

I went from cold (well, I was looking through my toy & accessory inventory & that always turns me on a little, so not *completely* cold) to orgasm in maybe 2 minutes. Holy shit, it's great.

The only downside is that I wish it was easier to hold onto. It's hard slippery plastic and smooth without anything you can grip easily, so it's easy to drop when you're...distracted.

I can't believe I got this thing in a discount box that was only a little more than what this thing costs, and I can't believe I let it sit there this long when I could have been having amazing orgasms from it. So foolish!

Long story short, the Tango is great, and I am putting a couple other We-Vibe items on my to-buy list. Number one will be looking for a sale on a Tango X so I can get that travel lock and take a Tango with me everywhere. But also looking at the Moxie, the Jive, and the Bloom. If any of you have experience with those vibes, I would love to hear your thoughts!

We-Vibe Tango where have you been my whole life?


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Anyone know if Ella paradis is reliable or discreet?


I haven’t seen [Ella Paradis](https://www.ellaparadis.com/?utm_medium=cpc&utm_source=google&utm_campaign=ECI-Brand_Search_CoreTerms&utm_adgroup=CoreTerms_General&utm_keyword=ellaparadis&coupon=hot&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIuYfP_-D66QIVA4-GCh01gQnzEAAYASAAEgK7bfD_BwE) mentioned in this sub... Has anyone purchased from there before? Is it a safe place to buy from?

Ella Paradis?


I'd been wanting a toy from Lovehoney called the satisfyer 1, but I waited too long to buy it and now they don't carry it anymore. I found the same thing on Ella [Paradis.com](https://Paradis.com). Does anyone know if this site is okay to buy from as far as quality and discretion goes?

Although, I found the next gen version of the toy on SheVibe and it looks very similar. I've seen some posts recommending that website, would I be better off buying from them?

I'd love to hear your thoughts.

Edit: The Toy  [https://shevibe.com/satisfyer-1-next-generation-pressure-wave-waterproof-stimulator/](https://shevibe.com/satisfyer-1-next-generation-pressure-wave-waterproof-stimulator/)

Opinions on Ella Paradis? SheVibe?


So I bought this set out of curiosity—24 items for $99 with a $400 value—and I’m wondering what the actual quality of the items are.  If you don’t know what I’m referring to it is this:  http://www.ellaparadis.com/sex-toys-advent-calendar-gift-box.html.  I cheated a little and opened up all the days because I wanted to see if it was really worth the price tag and to be honest I’m not sure how I feel about this purchase.  On the upside it did have one item I wanted and had actually bought, but in a different color and actually wanted both colors it came in (***spoiler***:  Bijoux Indiscrets bracelet/handcuffs in black, which retail for $40), so I wasn’t completely disappointed with everything, but the only other brand item I recognized was from Fun Factory (***spoiler***:  I think it’s the bootie small which retails for $35).  The other toys were from brands I don’t recognize and I’m not sure if it’s just because I’m just not that familiar with a lot of brands.  So, if you don’t mind spoilers please read below...

So, without further ado a list of things that I question whether they are safe to use (or eat in the case of the candy):

- Malesation - silicone cock ring and masturbation cup lucky ball
- Tokkets - male (enriched w/sacha inchi, cardamom, & organic baobab) and female ( enriched w/hypericum oil, liquorice, & organic elderflower water) orgasm enhancers
- Just Glide - strawberry flavored medical lubricant
- Shunga - massage candle in exotic fruits and erotic massage oil in aphrodisia rose
- OV-Grosshandel (?) - finger vibe
- Bluebox Shop AG (?) - vibrating cock ring
- YesforLov -sexy candy explosion
- Mjuze by Shots - wireless remote control vibrating egg
- You2Toys or OV-Grosshandel (?) - vibrator
- Ceylor - mini kit of amorama condom, sensual care lube, and intimate wipe
- bswish - bfit classic kegal balls

They are all individually sealed.  The toys are in plastic packages, some with a heavy plastic with heat sealed (?) edges and others in more standard retail packaging.  Any information you have would help because I don’t think I’d keep all of these for me, especially the guy stuff since I’m not a guy, but I don’t want to give away anything that’s subpar.  Also, in case you were wondering that isn’t the full list of stuff, but the others don’t seem to be as questionable?  If you’re wondering (and just off the top of my head) the other items were:  blindfold/sleep mask, red rope (doesn’t look very long), whip (or flogger??), pearl panties, fishnet bodysuit, tickler thing, and a mini plastic massager.  Anyways I don’t want to sound like it was a huge letdown, it definitely offers variety to try new things and about $75/$99 were brands I recognized.

Um onto the second part of my question, is there a cheaper (and possibly easier to launder) alternative to the Liberator throw:  http://www.liberator.com/fascinator-lush-throw-king-size.html or http://www.liberator.com/fascinator-throw.html.  I like that it’s subtle and could match the aesthetics of my room without feeling like you’re on a puppy pad.  I also would want to use it during those monthly times for extra insurance against ruining my bed/bedding.

TL;DR:  Have you heard of the above listed brands?  If not, would you use the items?  Any other commentary on the items?  Also, what are you doing the deed on that feels fancier than towels?  Btw, thanks for reading all this!  :)

What is the quality of the Ella Paradis Limited Edition Advent Calendar Gift Box? *spoilers* And a Liberator throw alternative?


Why are some retailers like lovehoney, shevibe, ellapardis, not listed on magic wands list of retailers? They are obviously genuine product, as these stores are not going to send out anything that might possibly be counterfeit, at least lovehoney and shevibe aren't. I have never bought anything from ellaparadis.

Magic Wand retailers and authenticity


I need a really, really quiet vibrator on the cheap. I have really limited privacy, and it’ll stress me out too much if I can hear the toy when it’s under the covers. Luckily I like gentle vibration which tends to be quieter. My last toy, which I really liked, was [picobong kaya rabbit](https://www.amazon.com/-/es/6895/dp/B007PX0E9M), but I want sth even quieter now.

Basically I’m looking for:

- a vibrator, doesn’t matter if it’s for clit or insertion or both, but I’ll mainly use it for clit
- really super quiet, at least at the lower settings
- can change vibration intensity and patterns (I mostly like it gentle)
- under $50; if possible under $40
- either battery powered or with a discreet way to charge it, I don’t have the privacy to leave it plugged into the wall

I’d love recommendations, or if anyone is familiar with these ones I’m considering I’d be interested to know how quiet you found them and how they are:
- [unbound bean](https://www.ssense.com/en-us/everything-else/product/unbound/bean-vibrator/9213151)
- [better love bunny](https://www.ellaparadis.com/brands/better-love/vibrator-better-love-better-vibrations-rabbit-pink.html?cjevent=046f0a366f7411ec82ee003b0a1c0e0e&amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;utm_source=cj&amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;cjdata=MXxOfDB8WXww)
- [better love better touch](https://www.ellaparadis.com/vibrator-better-love-better-touch-purple.html)
- [lovehoney flash](https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-vibrators/p/lovehoney-flash-7-function-rechargeable-clitoral-vibrator/a26627g41358.html)
- [lovehoney silencer](https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/vibrators/classic-vibrators/p/lovehoney-silencer-whisper-quiet-classic-vibrator-7-inch/a16603g19734.html)
- [paloqueth dolphin](https://www.paloqueth.com/products/couple-vibrator?_pos=6&amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;_sid=ad542fe42&amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;_ss=r&amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;variant=22433240514645)
- [paloqueth g spot vibe](https://www.paloqueth.com/collections/vibrator/products/waterproof-vibrator-g-spot-vibrator)

super quiet vibe under $50?


From what I see and the tests I have done, cart totals end up being as much if not more than what other sites sell for. Is this just me?

Ellaparadis, genuine steals or fake deals?


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Ellaparadis is too high. There sales and coupons aren't really deals


Any problems or issues?

Has anyone ordered from ellaparadis.com


Hello,

So I tried the Satisfyer Pro 2, and initially I had some scary results (it made me bleed), but now I love this thing.  I am extremely new to toys - where can I buy the Satisfyer Pro 4 couples?  I really "crave" something in my vagina as well, and I think it'd be good as it's smaller than a dildo.

The satisfyer website said they don't sell them in the US right now?  I don't know about reputable websites - it's for sale at EllaParadis?

Where can I buy a satisfyer pro 4 couples?


In all fairness, I guess we've had this for a couple of years.  It hasn't gotten used all that much as the wife really likes her wand.  I wish it would have lasted longer but now won't seem to hold a change.

Would like to replace it.  I know these aren't the cheapest, but not horribly expensive.  But I'm wondering, go with another Tango or go for something cheaper with the expectation that it'll be easier to replace later on.  Or is the Tango just that good that she'll be disappointed with something less?

Is this a trusted seller?   [https://www.ellaparadis.com](https://www.ellaparadis.com/)

they have 30% off coupon now

WeVibe Tango dead - buy again or something else


Which do Ya Think?......  Any other suggestions, I may not have seen?       Many Thanks

[Satisfyer Men Masturbator](https://www.ellaparadis.com/sex-toys-for-men/masturbators/satisfyer-men-vibration-masturbator.html)

[Trember Stroker](https://www.edenfantasys.com/masturbators/hands-free-masturbators/tremble-stroker?pnid=2431421&tag=c96f87b9-af3e-dca5-2182-bf26be0e8a7b)

[O Force 2](https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=35773&fo_c=1158&fo_k=06e2e36e3abb3bcfc510a11733b148c7&fo_s=shareasale&SSAID=1233101&sscid=11k3_sdd3a)

Which one should I Pick?


Been looking around online and have an idea Iwhat I want....I'm looking at the male vibrators.   It's between the  Tremble stroker from EdenFantasys, [Lovehoney O Force 2 Dual,](https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=35773#videos) and the    Satisfier Men Vibration Masturbator.

Any Advice will be well appreciated

[https://www.edenfantasys.com/masturbators/hands-free-masturbators/tremble-stroker?pnid=2431421&tag=c96f87b9-af3e-dca5-2182-bf26be0e8a7b](https://www.edenfantasys.com/masturbators/hands-free-masturbators/tremble-stroker?pnid=2431421&tag=c96f87b9-af3e-dca5-2182-bf26be0e8a7b)

[https://www.ellaparadis.com/satisfyer-men-vibration-masturbator.html?gdffi=41e953c00b824ec6993df3e5350cd847&gdfms=09AAD69815334C90AFB718480C5D9D2F&keyword=&matchtype=&device=c&adpos=1o2&esvwm=cpc&esvws=Google&esvwt=&esvwc=1523249171&gclid=Cj0KCQiA7briBRD7ARIsABhX8aDOqaK2Tc7766VxYzDCANjNwhDmOq5jQvTIp\_Xr1hCj8mWlg3q2hnQaAjKXEALw\_wcB](https://www.ellaparadis.com/satisfyer-men-vibration-masturbator.html?gdffi=41e953c00b824ec6993df3e5350cd847&gdfms=09AAD69815334C90AFB718480C5D9D2F&keyword=&matchtype=&device=c&adpos=1o2&esvwm=cpc&esvws=Google&esvwt=&esvwc=1523249171&gclid=Cj0KCQiA7briBRD7ARIsABhX8aDOqaK2Tc7766VxYzDCANjNwhDmOq5jQvTIp_Xr1hCj8mWlg3q2hnQaAjKXEALw_wcB)

Any advice on my first male masturbater...???


I bought it on a whim, but I’ve never tried e-stim ever so I’m actually a bit nervous.  I was wondering if anyone had ever tried it before and what their thoughts were on it; e.g. would it be a good toy for a beginner? if not, what would be?

Oh, here’s the link to the item if you’ve never heard of it before:  http://www.ellaparadis.com/impulsetm-intimate-e-stimulator-remote-kegel-exerciser.html.

Has anyone tried the Impulse Intimate E-Stimulator Remote Kegel Exerciser?


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Ive been searching and i found a site called ellaparadis. Com. Is this legit? It seems i can get a fleshlight for 14dollars off so 55 instead of 70$ how do i know if this is legit? Cant seem to find a discount for the actual fleshlight site.


I'm interesting in buying the We-Vibe Nova and their website it the cheapest at $136.99.  I want to make sure this website is legitimate.  No one has posted about their site before so I'm somewhat skeptical and looking to ease my mind.

Here's the site if you haven't seen it before: https://www.ellaparadis.com/

Has anyone bought form EllaParadis.com before?


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I prefer Karmin
.


did you see any steam coming out of her hair? no! there's you're answer she didn't use heat protection spray.


I bought it but bought pink orchid ghd without the straightner. Just the accessories as they are better! Deffo check out US version & UK version of the site lots of diff flat iron different designs :)


Are they any good?


I recommend the karmin titanium :)


I got


where did you buy?! I need one! The only ones I have found are in the UK.


I just got one for my birthday :D


Awesome demo! Thank you!


I got mine yesterday and its really good. Definitely lives up to the hype. I love it :)


Thank you! :)  Love this flat iron!


Check folica.com and www.ghdhair.com/us/


The skin is the cutest 💕


💖💛💚💙💜This channel definitely deserves more subscribers!!! Appreciate all the effort!! I would absolutely luv the blossom one!!(the first one)😭😹💖💛💚💙💜🌈🍀


Love the cherry blossom option!


The rose gold one for sure!!!!


I really like the leaf one :)


I love the Bellflower and the Hazel leaf laptop package🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸


that Sakura Blossom tho. : ❤❤


Omgosh the cherry blossom one


Thank you for this giveaway. I'd love the sakura blossom case package if i win. Thanks again. Good luck everyone!!!


I really like the bellflower case one 😍


I would dream of having the bellflower package. The bellflower just looks soo kawaii 😍😍


the 2nd and last design 💕 Love ur apple collection girl💕


Wow....love the Sakura case. Love the colours - pink and blue. By the way, enjoy watching your videos.


I ended up downloading this video cos I was watching it like 10 times a day neway 🤓


Wow Angel! This is a great alternative to the Rose gold MacBooks! I love the bellflower package! 🌸🌺🌷


I love the Hazel Leaf design!


I can’t really stop watching this video....watching it for the fifth time now 👏👏👏👏👏😇😇😇😇😇


this is the first video I've seen from you i love you already!


Such beautiful cases! While I love them all, I think the Sakura one is my favorite! It's so divine!


I love, I repeat L LOVE THE CHERRY BLOSSOMS ONE!!!! 💋


THEIR REALITY IS THAT THEY DO NOT DELIVER


I Like the Rose Gold😊😍


I like the rode gold color 😍😍


I would love the hazel leaf case!!!


I love the SAKURA NO HANA colour.


The 3rd one is pretty 😍


Bellflower! It's so pretty!


Hi hi! I like the third one - the Hazel Leaf design


I'd love the Bell Flower design! 😻😭


Hazel leaf and cherry blossom are the ones I like the most 💕


I loved the bellflower 😊😊


I love ur vids 💕


I love the bellflower design


I would love the Sakura blossoms one! I love your channel! Keep up the good work I hope I win


any of those case because they are all so gorj! <3


I love the third one ❤❤❤


i would love and dream to have the sakura blossoms package ! btw i love all of ur vids!


Your hair is so beautiful💜


I love the first one very much


I like the sakura! I have always liked a touch of blue in everything!


I love the third case!


I'll like haze leaf laptop case


Cherry blossom


Rose Gold 😍😍I would take any their all beautiful


rose gold and the 2nd or 3rd case I think they are all beautiful just like you hope you get this is want to win so I can show my mom my talents and so I can start editing like you


Hi Angel.  I watch every video of yours.  This is a great video.  I love the pink and baby blue case.  Hope I win!!! :)


Hello i love you and your video i choice number 1 case thanks i love you


Hello i love the rose gold


Hey! Luv ya and I hope to win


Wow I like sakura blossom


Love the intro 😂😂


Really wish I can get the SAKURA BLOSSOMS package !!! Soooo pretty 💕💕💕🌸🌸🌸


The second one is hella heart eyes 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍


Would love the hazel leaf case :)


so cuteeee


Option 3! :D


option 3 ❤


I like all actually


I like the bellflower case the most out of the first three cases


I will love get  first one


Zelda looks to be plotting to take you down and take over as CSR host


@pauleichelberger5327  online. The website is Candysan.com


Where were you able to purchase this item?


Miniso haul!!!!!!!!!😄

Please tap captions while your watching so you know what I said.

Miniso haul!!!!!!!!!😄


Mystery Box Review!

Join me as I review the Mystery Box Toy! The Rose Vibrator from Pink Cherry! Get the Toy here!

Mystery Box Review!


I went to Japan and bought a vibrator

I went to Japan and bought a vibrator.

I went to Japan and bought a vibrator


victoria's secret pink 10 for $40 haul!

hi guys, i wanted to share some new underwear i got from victoria's secret recently. also i had to "save money" on shipping so i ...

victoria's secret pink 10 for $40 haul!


Unboxing Pink Cherry's Rose! 🌹

My first unboxing video! First impressions of Pink Cherry's Rose Vibrator. Get the Toy here!

Unboxing Pink Cherry's Rose! 🌹


Tap the captions to know what I was saying in the vid😊


Pls like and subscribe 🎉


Limerence playing in the background


you’re inspiring me to be more myself and not care what people think. A long work in progress, but getting there! Thank you for being my safe place❤


congrats on engagement im so happy for u!!!


Very nice Duo Haul vlog, lets call it August's Favorites!


The description cracked me up !!


u guys are so cool congrats on the engagement! :’)


need more davil on the channel!! let that man talk 😫


just finished making food and open youtube to new fractal upload god is great


hell yes! this is the haul we’ve all been waiting for. congrats on your engagement! 🎉❤that’s mom and dad right there :) excited for your journey!


ive never watched u before but u simply understand me in ways others dont


omggg i love your videos sm and also congrats on the engagement!🤍🤍wishing yall the absolute best


英語わかりませんけどこびとづかんも好き😊


limerence in the background is giving me life


i love ur taste <3 i audibly gasped when i saw the toy you got lol its so cute!!!! as was everything else. congrats on ur engagement 🩷 and happy belated!


cutefractal long videos are what i live for! quality content


swear the title was different ….


hi, i'm russian and that's just a bunch of chanson party (?) music that people who was born from 1950 to 1980 love to listen


i love your openness! you seem like a kind soul, I dig it :)


opened two gifts this morning... (my eyes and cutefractal upload)


You and your fiancé are adorable!!!! Congratulations on the engagement, hopefully we get more vlogs of y’all geeking out together !!!!


i love u, you make me feel safe


congrats you two <333333!!!!!


OMG MiniDisc keychain! It will be mine!


u also give a treat for us. yay. also ur bf's appearance+yap r bonus😅🤩


Congratulations on the engagement beautiful


V cozy and sweet, thank you!!


Cheburashka a well known hero 🎖had me chuckle


Great reviews 👌
Love that you smoke and talk about it.
Are you part Indonesian by chance??


they got bookoffs here in orange county, ca too. i love them


dope haul!


ahhh congratulations on the engagement!!!!! 🤍