So I have a couple of expensive toys that I bought when I was with my ex. Lelo vibrators and the like.

She didn't take them away when the relationship ended and I'm now back dating again.

They were quite good fun from what I remember and a pretty penny... so it seems a waste for them to go unused and the idea of throwing them out seems equally wasteful.

However I appreciate that some of the people I end up dating and sleeping with may be uncomfortable with using toys that have been used previously (despite the obvious point that they will have been thoroughly cleaned and sterilised...). Myself to some degree, depending on the toys, included in that list.

Curious to know what peoples thoughts and feelings are.

Edit: I'll just add as per post below, my take on it for now, is as and when any of the dating / sleeping together seems serious enough to want to introduce some of these toys, I plan on having a light hearted conversation about it, to find out where that boundary lies. But still curious to get a general feeling amongst this community. :)

Toys being kept and used with future partners


The rose toy is significantly cheaper and has great reviews, but I’m a big believer in “you get what you pay for”. I’ve never had one of these suction toys before, but they sound great and come highly recommended.

Which is the better toy? LELO SONA Cruise 2 or the TikTok famous rose toy?


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Toy recommendations - better than Lelo?


Hi -

My wife and I have recently had some open discussions that her endometriosis is making PIV not appealing to her, and we have been looking at some different options to utilize toys and other activities to make things more fun. Does anyone have any recommendations for some toys that we might try? Been looking at Lelo and Wevibe - we have a wedge pillow already, and considering a sex swing to allow full control of depth. Also just got a CBD line which was great.

Toy Recommendations for Endometriosis Suffering Wife


I'm a 30yo MSW that recently started getting into anal play. Between the wife and I we have an aneros vice 2 and her Lelo Soraya Wave Dual.

I started with the prostate massager on my own 2 weeks ago and am learning what to do with it. I haven't quite gotten that prostate orgasm, but it does reach to waves of not-quite-penile-orgasm levels of pleasure. It may be because the vice 2 never seems to quite reach that spot hard enough or long enough.

Yesterday I placed a condom over my wife's vibrator and tried that instead. It definitely got closer, but when I started moving it back and forth, then I got a totally different kind of pleasure and got close to what felt like another, different kind of orgasm (not quite prostate, definitely not penile). What a different experience that was.

So the questions become:

Are they really different sensations and can I achieve different or stronger orgasms with one over the other? Or do I just have the wrong prostate massager to achieve the same thing?

These things are expensive. What other toys would you recommend that may ...better accommodate what I'm looking for?

I know someone will recommend it, but my wife isn't that into pegging. It doesn't interest her.

[30M] Trying to feel out some new sensations


Bondage & fun with LELO remote control vibrator to orgasm


I am looking for a wireless wand massager. Not sure if I should go for the classic wand massager or the Lelo wand.

Or what else do you all recommend based on experience?

Best wireless wand massager??


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My paramour is wonderful with the hitachi wand and I love him for it. This past weekend I brought over my lelo wand so we could play with both. After pretending my lelo wand was a gun(the curve of the handle amuses him) he held it to my clit over my yoga pants(I prefer the vibration through clothing than on bare clit). Apparently my wand alone was not getting the response he wanted from me so he plugged in the hitachi wand.

Side note: typically the paramour holds and presses the hitachi wand on my cunt hard
enough to leave me sore and slightly bruised afterward- I quite enjoy the orgasm from
vibrations and pain. I have a bad habit of closing my legs when I'm close to orgasming
 causing the wand to shift positions.

Back to the main plot. He slammed the second wand to my cunt and adjusted until he had my clit firmly between the two wands. The pain was on par with the joy from having my clit nearly vibrated off. I screamed frequently and often while he held the wands to my cunt. I soaked my panties and yoga pants. I kept closing my legs so he had to hold my thighs open with his feet while holding the wands to my cunt.

Afterward he might have suggested my clothing smelled like a whore house, yes an entire whore house.

Two wands are way intense


Cross posted to r/sextoys

Hello all... I hope someone can be of assistance, I am looking for a nice quality real leather flogger (heavy-ish) that I can get to Switzerland easily, there is lots of great gear on the USA sites, but the shipping and loooong customs delays makes it a problematic purchase, can anyone steer me in the right direction... I am looking at paying no more than around 150$ (slightly negotiable for a really well made item) ... advice appreciated....

I really am not interested in Lelo or 50 shades of grey toys, I am looking for a quality item and not something mass produced and likely to fall apart, I particularly want something on the thuddier side of the spectrum...   :)

A Quality leather flogger


How Good Are The Lelo Sutra Chain Cuffs?


Hi everyone! My boyfriend and I are looking at buying our first flogger and I was just wondering what all of your experiences have been with them. I've never thought I wanted one, but after he mentioned looming at buying one, I did a lot more research on them. I never knew there were so many different styles and materials available, and that they each created different sensations. Unfortunately, I don't think we live in an area where there is anywhere to go see them in person, so we'll have to buy online. We were looking at the lelo sensual suede one. Anyone have any experience with this one? At this point, we aren't really willing to spend more than this $45 price range, but if you know of something better at that price or lower, feel free to suggest it!

A little about us so you know what we are kind of looking for since they are all so different! I am pretty into spanking, and that is probably what we would use it most for. Sensation wise, I definitely don't like overly stingy, or too much thud. I like a nice mix of both. I also like when he pinches or twists my nipples, and if a flogger can create a similar sensation, I wouldn't be completely opposed to using it in other areas of the body besides just derriere. So any suggestions for floggers and/or your favorite ways to incorporate them into play time and where you use them (like what area of the body) are welcome! Thank you!

Experience or advice with floggers?


My gf and I took one of those online sex fantasy tests that will disclose common interests. It really helped open dialogue. We both found that we have interest in BDSM. She probably has more interest in sub role as she explained she would like to be tied up, blind folded, denied, etc. sub with interest in tied up, blind fold, etc. As for me I also enjoy sub and dom role with really leaning towards sub role since I make decisions all day. Kind of nice to give that control up in bedroom. Ball slapping, ass play, etc is all interesting. Even though we have discussed it we seem to resort back to our normal banging. She especially seems unsure what to do as a dom. She will say things like do you want to instead of do this, etc. Are there any videos that you recommend we watch as a couple to introduce her BDSM. Also, what toys would you recommend. Only toy we have at this point is a small vibrator, Lelo.

BDSM Newbie What videos/toys do you recommend?


After some recent picture posts about toy collections, I noticed some of us have some unsafe toys.

It's our responsibility to make sure we have safe toys for our partners and ourselves, whether we are a dom, sub, switch, vanilla, or somewhere in between.

Please check out the /r/sextoys sidebar for information on unsafe toys, where to buy, etc., and also dangerouslilly.com is an awesome resource for links to research and a more comprehensive and in-depth look at this problem.

I'm not going to get into all the details here, because luckily Lilly and other sex toy reviewers have already done all the research for me. I'm posting here because this is where unfamiliar users interested in bdsm visit first; the /r/bdsmcommunity subreddit has pretty frequent dialogue about this already.

The key issue is that the sex toy industry is not regulated in the USA, due to the industry being labeled as "novelty" items. This means that manufacturers can make a toy out of any material, even one that harbors bacteria or chemically burns people, and then state on the box that the toy is safe or made of a different material. There are also tons of knock-off companies in China who will gladly copy an Njoy Pure Plug and other safe toys in a crappy material and then sell it on Amazon. Amazon also dumps all their toys in warehouse in the same storage container, meaning if you buy a toy from Tantus, they are just growing to grab any box from that bin, and it could be a crappy knock-off. It's happened to me and others before.

Gone are the days when we can trust any business to have our best interests in mind. Do your research and make sure your toys are safe. Even a safe material can still be porous, which means once used it is contaminated with bacteria and fungi forever (and should not be shared between partners without consent). And using a condom over a toy isn't a cure-all; a lot of toys release oils that are used as softeners that damage latex condoms.

Not a lot of research has been done on this topic, so it's really no wonder we're purposefully kept in the dark by companies who want to make a cheap buck at our expense. I bought several jelly toys from Amazon before I knew this was an issue. I recently trashed all of those. Among those were the jewel buttplug that's so popular, a double-ended dildo by Doc Johnson, and a Glo-Thick plug by Doc Johnson, and the pink rabbit toy on Amazon's best seller list. The head of wands is usually porous unless it's the Lelo Smart Wands; this is one of those cases where a condom would be more effective for safety.

The best we can do is buy from a reputable manufacturer or vendor, and watch out for fakes or bad materials. That plasticy chemical smell that permeates the room from a toy? That's a big red flag of an unsafe toy. Again, the /r/sextoys sidebar has awesome resources for where to buy.

Yes, nice safe toys are more expensive. I justify it to myself that this is a forever investment. A nice silicone dildo will literally last me forever, and can be sterilized, unless I somehow damage it. So $50 or $100 here or there, even as a broke college student, is justifiable for me for something that will be giving me the O-face the rest of my life.

Mods, would it be possible to get a link in the sidebar to either the /r/sextoys guide or another informational site? Usage of toys and their discussion is a pretty frequent topic around here; it'd be another step in helping keep kinksters safe.

PSA: Are your sex toys safe?


Hello all, relatively new here, though I've posted a couple pictures of myself with my generally submissive gf previously.  Anyway, we're travelling to D.C. and Baltimore for a long weekend with friends in one week's time.  I'm planning to force her to orgasm in public at least once with the use of a remote controlled vibrator.  Specifically, a Lelo Tiani 2 that I bought her a while back.

I'm looking for any suggestions, ideas, or requests.  We'll be bar hopping at night, eating and sightseeing by day, and headed to the Ravens v. Titans game on Sunday.

Also, she's very willing to participate in BDSM in the bedroom, but not necessarily in public.  She's hesitant to wear more than moderately revealing clothing, or to be overtly sexual.  We have fucked in public locations...bathrooms and deserted park-type locations, but I'm curious how comfortable she will or won't be hiding an orgasm from our unaware friends in person.

Regardless, I'm always looking to push the limits and find fun for both of us, so your input is more than welcome.  I'm looking for....

1) Things to say to her in front of our friends
2) Places/ways to make her orgasm
3) What I should have her do during our nights out
4) And anything else you can think of

I'll be sure to post updates and some pics of what we get up to after the weekend (Nov 8 & 9).

V-DOM

Ideas for public orgasm


So what awesome kinky/sexy things are people picking up on crazy sales this weekend?

Tell us about the awesome stuff you are buying.

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A List of cool sites with deals I will try to keep updating as people add to it:

Kink Toy sites:

* Agreeable Agony:  www.agreeableagony.com/deals
* StockRoom: http://male.stockroom.com/Black-Friday-Sale-c753.aspx
* Extreme Restraints:  http://marketing.xrllc.com/newsletters/XR13November29Newsletter/newsletter.html
* MoCo Jute:  http://www.m0cojute.com/  (SB Saturday)

Vibrator + Other toy shops:

* Bad Dragon: http://bad-dragon.com/sales/blackfriday2013
* She Bop: http://www.sheboptheshop.com/blog/2013/11/shop-little-boxes-2013/
* Babeland:  http://www.babeland.com/  (20% off lelo, pretty sweet)
* Shevibe: http://www.shevibe.com/clearance-priced-pleasure-toys.aspx
* Goodvibes: http://www.goodvibes.com/  (20% off site-wide if you can get their site to work)
* Adam and eve & Eden Fantasy<--- dont buy from them, they are bad

Kinky/BDSM Gear deals for Black Friday/Cyber Monday etc?


Okay so when my bf and I start sex, sometimes we will bang before I’m completely aroused because it feels better that way but he’s pretty big and it kind of hurts my cervix. We usually do quite a bit of foreplay and then have sex again. But after a little while and I am turned on, I get so wet that there’s almost no friction. I feel like my vag is not as tight? It really bothers me and I wonder if it even feels good for him. I dry it off sometimes and that helps but even the inside feels like that. It’s just annoying. I want to feel it all lol I have been regularly doing kegels and got some of those Lelo Luna beads because I’m kinda insecure about this. But I can hold the heaviest ones just fine, it doesn’t really seem like it’s doing much. I guess I have only used them a handful of times though, maybe I need to more? Or is less friction normal for someone who gets super wet? How do I get less wet then? We are kind of rough, is it that? We gotta do different angles to feel more and he got a friction burn from it I guess. So how can I fix this issue? Normally when we start he will use 1 finger on me, but then by the end sometimes 2. So how can I just keep it tighter I guess? So I’m not so self conscious of it. Thanks!

I (f30) feel too wet sometimes during sex w/bf (m28). How can I fix that?


Sorry for the long post. My (49M)wife and I had an argument last night during sex. Actually a couple of arguments and then finished having sex and things are a little awkward today. I am curious to hear any thoughts and if I am wrong.
My wife is very good looking at 48 years old and her confidence has been doing well since she had a tummy tuck. She works out and stays in shape. For some background she loves to give head and has gotten quite good at it. I can pretty much ask for it anytime and she is down for it. It’s pretty much the same thing for what I will call vanilla sex. Basically missionary or spooning position. She is not a huge fan of receiving oral and I love to give it. Many times when I am giving it she seems just not to be into it. And I really feel like she just wants me to cum and get it over with. I don’t mind if we were to do it that way but that is not the only sex I want every time we have sex which i would say averages about 3 times a week which I think is solid. So no complaints there.
My complaint is I feel like she is the gate keeper of the sex we will have. I feel It really doesn’t matter what I want or am in the mood for. To give you an idea we have had all sorts of sex and a lot of it mind blowing and fantastic. She does anal and when into it is very vocal and cums very hard. She text me a few weeks ago that she was embarrassed to admit it but she thinks she cums hardest from anal.
She also will do dp with toys on occasion. She enjoys toys when horny primarily just on her clit: we have a lelo that is her go to toy. She swallows and will very rarely ask me to cum on her. She also has some awesome outfits she wears that she looks amazing in and feels very sexy. When in these she will be a bit more aggressive in seeking her own pleasure which is awesome.
The trick is figuring out how and when she is going to be in this mood or willing for any of the above. We played with a suction dildo a few month ago. She spit roasted on the headboard and went insane with pleasure and moaning….and has never wanted to play with the toy again. She gets irritated when I try….but that night she was an animal.
We took to mojo upgrade quiz and all of her answers were tame and she thought we matched on everything because nothing racy came up. But it only shows matches and I knew she wasn’t going to have any outside the box stuff. As I mentioned earlier her confidence is high now but she is very self conscious and not too aggressive asking for what she wants. I felt bad we argued last night but I tried to explain that I sometimes want more then just vanilla sex. She wasn’t into me giving her head last night so I stopped. Then she got mad I stopped and we talk and discussed. Then we started again and she was getting more into it so I tried with the toys and then that turned into an argument. Finally we started again and I got her to play with herself. She rubbed her clit and then eventually fingered herself and had me taste it. All the while we were making out and I was sucking on her titties. Then she asked me to fuck her ass and we finished with some awesome anal. In my opinion mind blowing sex. But it only happened because I was upset and basically stopped and said good night twice. I don’t want to coerce her to have great sec. I want her to want it regularly.
My point is how do i know what she’s up for? Many times I will finish and all of a sudden she gets all worked up and starts playing with toys and then asking me to play with her ass and fuck her. The problem is I already finished because she likely said she didn’t want any of that additional play so I just cum.
If I were to deny having vanilla sex she would be incredibly offended and upset. but when she denies any kind of non vanilla sex it’s ok because it’s her body….. that is all fine and I agree with it but in the same sense she should not get pissed at me if I don’t want vanilla sex.
I should also mention most of the time she is in her rare form she has been drinking or had some gummies. Otherwise it’s near impossible for her to “let her hair down”.
Sorry for the long post but just curious for any insight. I love her more then anything and will just continue to deal with this but I am curious for a way around this.

M49 F 48 trying to figure it out after 18 years


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Posting on a throwaway....

My partner and I have been together for 5 years and we have children together. Lately, I've been wanting to spice things up in the bedroom. My SO is super uncomfortable with sexuality in general  (missionary/cowgirl only, doggy style out of the question) while I am super adventurous and for me our sex life has become monotonous. I was thinking for Valentines Day I would make a nice dinner and then pretend to "propose" to him with a Lelo cock ring as a sort of humorous and sexy gift. I'm worried it won't go over well, as my partner is very old school. Just a few nights ago I wanted us to watch some nice juicy wonderful lesbian porn (I'm bisexual) while we fooled around and he became so embarrassed he literally RAN out of the room. I thought if I explained the cock ring to him as something that would be mutually beneficial maybe he'd go for it...any advice?

Should I (25F) get my super traditional SO (50M) a sex toy for valentines?


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I am 29 years old. I can count how many times I've had an orgasm on one hand. Ive been with my husband for 5 years. It has been frustrating but I still always enjoy sex. About a week ago, I bought the Lelo Gigi and did not tell my husband. I just wanted to see if I could do some investigating of my own without any pressure. Well, it has worked 100% of the time I have used it. So now, I am feeling empowered and want to keep it to myself. But, I feel he should know at the same time. What does Reddit think?

Should I tell my husband Im finally orgasming?


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What vibrators do you buy, the cheaper ones from Amazon or the high end brand We Vibe and Lelo?


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What vibrators do you buy? Cheaper Amazon ones or the more high end We vibe and Lelo?


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Who has tried the Playboy Pleasure Royal Wand before or the Lelo Smart wand 2


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What is the best vibrator, hibachi magic wand or lelo or other?


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Who uses Lelo wall chargers for their Foreo Lunas?


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Has anyone tried the lelo ora 3?


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Does anyone have experience with the Lelo Sona? What's everyone's favorite external toy?


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I first used the game Lelo, does anyone have a similar experience?


Is the lelo mona 2 a good gift for my girlfiend?


So I want to get my GF a Lelo to spice up our sex life.  She's never had a toy and enjoys clitoral stimulation.

I know the Hitachi Magic Wand is amazing, but it's probably too much for her.

I also think the Lelo Siri, Nea, and Lilly are nice but only clitoral and I probably want to buy for the future too.

So, I'm leaning towards the Lelo Mona 2, Gigi 2, and Liv 2.

Any recommendations?

Money is no object.

Best Lelo Vibrator for GF (first time)?


I posted something similar in TwoX, but I wanted a wider range of answers! What's your favourite sex toy/accessory/etc.? And to make it interesting, what's your favourite sex toy *other* than the Hitachi? ;P

I just bought Lelo's Mona 2 vibrator and I'm pretty excited to try it once it arrives. Also purchased ovo's K4 rabbit vibrator, but I know literally nothing about the brand or the vibrator other than it looked nice and wasn't pink. I love toys that come in colours other than pink.

Ladies of Reddit, what are your favourite sex toys?


I'm currently totally obsessed with my [Lelo Smart Wand](http://is.gd/2Q8Abk). SO CRAZY STRONG!

What's your favorite sex toy and why?


Here's the thing. I REALLY love being full and stretching myself. Except I've never successfully stretched myself.

I really love having stimulation on my clit and being penetrated, so I'm really hoping for something similar to the Rabbit. But because I've heard such great things about the Lelo Ina 2. I really want it! It is 200 x 62 x 33 mm.

7 x 2.4 x 1.2 in

http://www.lelo.com/index.php?collectionName=femme-homme&groupName=INA-2&infoType=detail

Does anyone else have any other recommendations for the rabbit style?

I'm a virgin buying a vibrator. Should I restrict myself to a smaller vibe?


My gf and I have been together for almost 5 years. One of us recently contracted an infection so every night this week I've taken the time out to help her put on her medicine. I was extra playful and I told her how much fun it was so she really enjoyed it. This weekend we're going on vacation and she's given me the okay to experiment on her with toys. The problem is that she isn't as knowledgeable about pleasuring herself since she doesn't masturbate. Based on our experiences together, she only really gets off with penetration and fingering her gspot. Clitoral stimulation doesn't do much for her. If I try to touch it, she just says that it tickles. She's also said that when I go down on her she likes when the entire surface area of my tongue covers her whole mound. I'm not sure it that helps with the question though.

I've looked up some past threads and Lelo Mia and Mona seem popular. I've been considering a butterfly gspot stimulator for $8 on Amazon. I figure that if she doesn't like the stimulation that vibrators give, it wouldn't be too much in wasted money.

So my question is: What toy do you recommend I try for our first time experimenting with each other? Any other general advice?

What to Get While Experimenting With Toys for the First Time?


I am a post-30 year old male in a happy sex positive relationship with a 29 year old muse.
She is a very open a communicative women but she has a feature regarding the way that she orgasms that I wish I could introduce some variety into.

A bit of background:
She comes from a very open family environment and discovered masturbation at a very young age (7) and she has been using the same technique until today. She humps pillows until she climaxes in way that I will never be able to reproduce completely, I tend to finish her of by placing her over my thighs and rocking her gently, or penetrating her from behind while she humps the side of the bed.
For many years she's been desperate to experience other types of orgasms, according to her this type of climax is very bleak (she improves them by using a dildo so her PC muscles have something to "grab") and she usually requires several of them for full satisfaction (3 to 6 depending on the days).
She has a toy graveyard drawer where she sends all the toys that haven't worked for her to die. She gets frustrated over sex many many times when after I cum I start positioning myself in one of the ways that allow her to orgasm, and I want to turn that sadness into something awesome.

I want to help her to have different orgasms so for that I bought her some new toys.
-http://www.amazon.com/Fun-Factory-Gigolo-Vibrator-Black/dp/B0013VBIJC (because I Know sometimes she enjoys something " girthy"

 -http://www.amazon.com/LELO-Gigi-Personal-Massager-Deep/dp/B0029ZALBC (a g spotter because the very few times I was able to reach her G spot she just rolled her eyes to the back of her head in a way that I had never seen before-we had to interrupt the sex at the time because she said she had to pee)

 -http://www.amazon.com/California-Exotic-Novelties-Couture-Collection/dp/B003CYKZRE (I read a lot about the hitachi here but it just looks like a torture machine, this one looked way nicer physically)

We are going away this weekend and I want to surprise her with these toys, I want to help her surpass her frustration with not being able to cum without humping by using them on her.

I am going to try to convince her to stop humping stuff and in exchange I'll be there for her to manipulate these things whenever she needs it (the main reason for the toy cemetery is the lack of patience, she usually cums in 5 minutes by humping after 10 minutes of trying toys she is done with them).

If I am successful I will slowly try to get myself in the equation and try to use the toys while having sex until hopefully we can do it without toys.

*TL;DR: Please tell me how you masturbate and with which toys so I can try your technique on my girlfriend. *

 Thank you very much, I am sorry for such a long post.

http://redd.it/18x4vo

This is an xpost from /r/sex, amybe I'll get better answers here. Can you tell me how you masturbate? I am a male in need of help.


I'm in the market for a good vibrator for mainly clitoral stimulation. The brands I've heard that are best are Hitachi and Lelo. Anybody have these? Which models do you use/recommend??

Lady here, wanted to ask you other ladies about your favorite vibrators, massagers, and toys. Hit me!


This is a safe space for all sizes to discuss their condom preferences.

I was just curious what condom brand you prefer? Personally I use the Lelo hex condoms. Never had any issues with breakage, and I find them to be super comfortable. I'd say I'm pretty average in size.

For the larger and smaller guys out there what do you prefer?

What condom brand do you prefer?


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Gents, anyone try Lelo's "couple's ring" (the penis vibrator)? Worth $140?


Hey Guys,

I will probably post this in r/askwomen as well. I have been dating my girlfriend for ~3 years, we have been having sex for two years, and she has never had an orgasm. I try to go really slow with her, and I don't have trouble with premature orgasm. I've gone 30-40 minutes pretty easily before, and we've tried both slow and fast paced stuff. I also bought her two lelo vibrators, which seem like they are pretty legit. She has used them extensively to no avail, not for lack of trying! Does anyone have any advice in this area?

Girlfriend Trouble With Orgasm


No issues with it, the user guide just doesn't tell me everything, it doesn't tell me what it means when the bottom & top light are on or when they flash, just how to use it & charge it. [https://imgur.com/a/3k4lhGp](https://imgur.com/a/3k4lhGp) Its called a Boundless Bunny by Infinite, is this just a brand in Adam & Eve?

Help me find this toy online & the website for the brand?


Doesn't let me post images so here https://www.adameve.ca/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/g-spot-dildos/sp-dillio-platinum-super-silicone-dildo-112198.aspx

[Male Seeking Advice] bought the dillio platinum super8 silicone (curved) dildo from Adam & Eve. It's been fun experimenting over these past few sessions but it hasn't really "clicked" yet... Any advice for me? Maybe I'm riding it the wrong way? (I face the same direction that the bend does)


I’ve used the $20 specials from a couple different stores, like Adam & Eve. When it comes to strokers, are the $70 ones, like the fleshlight, worth the price or do they all feel about the same.

Are they worth it?


has anyone ever purchased the adam & eve mystery box for her? wanted to see if it was worth trying or if would likely be junk. thanks! :)

adam & eve mystery box


adam & eve mystery box


To those who have bought from them is it 100% discreet and who bought this toy was it any good? I wanna hear someone describe their experience with the company and toy before buying.

Adam & Eve Vibrating Silver Bullet


Basically the title

If i wanted to get lingerie for my Eve’s Realistic Torso toy from Adam & Eve where could i find some to fit it?


Is this safe to use?


Does anyone have experience with this one? Without a reason not to, i am going to order it and report back.

It is a little pricey at 50 (vs. 20-30 for the rest?). [https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/finger-vibrators/sp-dame-fin-finger-vibrator-112457.aspx](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/finger-vibrators/sp-dame-fin-finger-vibrator-112457.aspx)

Dame finger vibrator; zero reviews.


I’m so tempted to buy this but I can’t use a discount on it. It’s so cute and funny you guys think it’s a good idea? If not then where else can I find a 4 inch textured vibrator? :>

Also this isn’t my first toy. However this is my first toy I want to purchase while in college. Just nervous the discreet packaging won’t work and it’ll show what it is or what store it’s from. I don’t remember what the packaging said on my last toy :/

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/bullet-eggs/sp-emojibator-pickle-emoji-vibrator-110296.aspx?st=Pickle

Pickle Vibrator


Hi, i am looking to practice deepthroat and i decided it's best to use a toy.Any advice? I need to buy a dildo that is:

* made with a safe material, likely silicon

* soft/flexible, not necessarily to the point of jelly.This is very important because i already have a dildo that would be perfect if not for it being too stiff.

* relatively thin in the upper portion, still want around 16-18 cm insertable or more.Actually i have no clue how deep i can go.my dildo has 3 cm diamater head and it's giving me trouble, so slightly less is ideal.

* curved

* preferably 0 textures, you know the ones that look like a purple tube without even a head

* cheap, i am not planning to enjoy it past training. Doesn't have to be fun.

i am from ITALY.

I am currently using a smooth dildo for lovehoney, but it's way too hard and it's hurting me. I also have strong gag reflex: i also welcome any advice on deepthroating, today i managed to force it past it past the epiglottis, i think, but it does hurt and i can only last 4 seconds before gagging.

[this one looks reasonable](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/g-spot-dildos/sp-dillio-platinum-curious-five-dildo-109672.aspx) this one looks reasonable, but there is no guarantee on how soft it is and it's wayy to short...i have a big mouth and it's 12 cm just to get to the throat.

Dildo for deepthroat practice


Looking for the most realistic vibrator that feels as if I were having intercourse with my boyfriend. I don’t want a clitoral one, what’re some good options out there? Currently looking on AdamEve but open to suggestions or recommendations of others. Thanks.

1st time toy


I am looking for something like this but I would like it thicker, closer to 2” diameters https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/g-spot-dildos/sp-adam-eve-ombre-curve-silicone-dildo-111590.aspx?st=Ombr

Looking for dildo


Hi, I (25F) want to purchase a good clit sucker that is compatible with being held in place my the crotch strap of my body harness (one of the bdsm body harnesses), however, it's tough to do with toys with a large profile. I'm thinking of buying a toy with [this](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/clit-vibrators/sp-romp-reverb-g-spot-and-clitoral-suction-stimulator-109889.aspx) general shape. Ideally it should be small enough that the crotch strap keeps it in place and it doesn't protrude out from my body by much.

What are some good options so I don't buy a bad quality toy?

Best Clit Sucker for Crotch Strap/Harness?


Hello everybody, i need your help.

I wanna buy some first wand for my wife but i don't wanna buy one to expensive at first.
So i made my research and find this options until 50 bucks:

Romp flip
Romp presto
Satysfier triple love 2 in 1
Satysfier wand-er
And maybe some of the toys from here: https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/wand-massagers-c-1053.aspx

So, does anyone know these toys and recomend? Thank you a lot

First wand toy


https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/clit-vibrators/sp-satisfyer-pro-nd-generation-104151.aspx

I bought this ^^ toy and am feeling a bit frustrated. I have followed all directions but am experiencing no suction whatsoever. It really just feels like a vibrator, which is nice, but not what I was wanting. Is the seal or product broke?
Things I’ve tried,
Using lube or getting it wet, different positioning and speeds

Any experience with the satisfier pro 2? (link below) I don’t think mine is working right


I’m torn between a basic ball ring or a cock and ball separator for my boy toy—I want him aching and overstimulated, right on the edge until I decide he’s earned release.

I was leaning toward silicone for ease of use, but I’m curious if other materials actually change the game.
	•	Metal sounds tempting—cold, rigid, unforgiving. Does that initial chill or firm pressure actually intensify things?
	•	Leather? Something about that sounds filthy in the best way.
	•	Or should I stick with silicone?

If you’ve used both styles (just ball ring vs. cock and ball separator), I want to know:
What gets you (or him) harder, faster, and closer to the edge?
What gives that deep, full, can’t-hold-back orgasm—or keeps him stuck in that desperate, twitchy limbo?

Links to the rings I’m debating.

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/penis-rings/sp-enhancer-five-pc-cock-ring-set-purple-111945.aspx?listPosition=52

https://www.mr-s-leather.com/oxballs-ball-sling-nutt-splitter-cock-ring

I’m making him wear a cock ring. Which one will leave him wrecked?


TLDR at the bottom

So I bought these (https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/anal-beads/sp-deluxe-vibro-balls-92904.aspx?listPosition=6&stars=3#product-reviews) beads a bit ago and they're really nice. I love everything about the beads: size, weight, amount, all perfect. The problem is that they are attached together by a string and not all rubber. The string really irritates my insides and even led to me getting a small cut once so immediately stopped using them. Is there anything similar to them except maybe more rubber? Or even varying sizes? Anything remotely similar would be great, I'm not really loving the others on the Adam and eve site and not sure where else to look (new to a lot of this).

Also if anyone has any suggestions as to how I can make these simply not scratch me up that would be even better. Thanks in advance you lovely people!

TLDR: perfect anal beads have a scratchy string. Anything similar or ways to make it less scratchy?

Looking for anal beads similar to these but not as rough


Here is the link to it:

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/male-masturbators/blow-job-simulators/sp-adams-gawk-gawk-thrusting-rotating-vibrating-sleeve-by-adam-eve-110663.aspx

I have had one in the past from Spencer's and really liked it, but it broke after the first two uses. I am not sure why. It said on the box great for shower play and I did use it in the shower and I have a suspicion that was what broke it. Has anyone else had any experience with this toy? I wanna know if I was right because despite my bad experience if I know what not to do to do I would love to own the toy again. Plus I never had one that also thrusted so that is also a new experience that am not sure about.

Can anyone give me an opinion on the male rose toy?


I’m pretty new to this and I’ve been looking on adameve.com but I just didn’t know if there was a better option.
Thanks in advance!

Where is the best place to buy sex toys?


has anyone had experience with this ? [https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/wand-massagers/sp-adam-eve-magic-massager-deluxe-x-99190.aspx?listPosition=22](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/wand-massagers/sp-adam-eve-magic-massager-deluxe-x-99190.aspx?listPosition=22)

so i got a muscle massager the hammer type massager and it was cheap but man it worked great as a clit stimulator when it died we bought a pricy hammer type massager but its WAY too powerful for my clit and doesn't do the same thing! I wish i knew the rpms on these things haha. I wonder if anyone has experience with this one in particular if its too powerful that instantly numbs or if its a little slower and does better at clit stim? thanks in advance

need a specific type of vibration...


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Has anyone here used this code recently?

What exactly is in the “mystery gift” or “romance kit”? Worth it or meh?

Any tips for choosing a quality first item as a couple?

Trying to be more intentional about exploring things together, so if you’ve got suggestions—drop ’em!

Thanks 🙏

Has anyone used Adam & Eve's “PLAYLOVE” code recently? Curious what all comes with it


Im looking at buying some toys, I’m a bisexual man so looking for one back door stimulator and one for the front lol. Are either of these two good buys,

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/male-masturbators/pocket-pussy/sp-lela-star-pocket-pussy-107747.aspx

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/double-dildos/sp-shades-fade-to-cool-beaded-double-dildo-110915.aspx

Are these solid buys?


So I have never shoved anything up my butt before, ever, and really when it comes to toys of any sort at all I'm a total newbie, I've only used one masturbator maybe five times? All that just to say I really have no clue what I'm looking for, really. I've asked some friends but they're in the same boat as me, so I'm coming here for advice.

Just like, what's a good size for a beginner, good shapes, what's the procedure for it all- stuff like that? I already heard how you're supposed to prep, eat a certain way for a day before, have a BM, rinse out with an enema in the shower and know that there's no such thing as too much lube or too much gentleness. Really it comes down to the actual insertion, and probably what I'm most hung up on, the actual toy itself.

I was looking around and found this, which looks like it's really fun with a bit of everything and prostate play (the main reason I wanna try it at all) but the thing is I really don't know if it's a bit much to start out with. 4.8" insertable, which sounds manageable to me, but I really don't know. Plus some thrusting, heating, vibrating, and internal spinning.

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/prostate-toys/sp-adams-warming-rotating-prostate-thruster-by-adam-eve-109253.aspx?listPosition=4

Which is about my price range too, preferably no higher than $70 (which that fits with the TAKE45 deal) and lower is better, but really that's more of a guideline than a hard rule. Preferably pretty quiet too since I live with people, but I do have a fan, AC, and TV to cover noise with so again, not a hard rule. Ideally I'd like something that can bring you to completion on it's own, but if I need to do some work myself while it's buzzing I definitely won't complain, that's probably gonna happen eventually either way.

Any input is appreciated!

Beginner anal toys for boys


This is my first time buying a sex toy. It was a spontaneous decision made by a horny mind. I bought a pocket pushy from Adam and Eve. Link: https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/male-masturbators/pocket-pussy/sp-lela-star-pocket-pussy-107747.aspx?listPosition=2

I wanted to wash it before using it. Last night, I rinsed it with warm water and mild soap, as mentioned on the website. I let it dry overnight. It’s been around 12 hours and it got all sticky. Did I do something it wrong? Did I break the material? I appreciate any insights or suggestions. Thank you.

Pocket pussy got sticky after first wash


I bought this toy https://www.adameve.com/vibrators/rabbit-vibrators/sp-jack-rabbit-signature-rechargeable-heated-thrusting-rabbit-107876.aspx?predictive=search_autocomplete_product_Jack%20Rabbit%20Signature%20Rechargeable%20Heated%20Thrusting%20Rabbit&st=Thrusting%20ra a few years ago and I lost the cord, I don't have the box anymore and the website doesn't have any useful information about what kind it needs or where to get a new one. If anyone else has one and could tell me what kind of charger it takes that would be greatly appreciated.

Need help finding a replacement charging cord for my toy


https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/clit-vibrators/sp-satisfyer-pro-nd-generation-104151.aspx

They say it suck and puffs... which is it?
Can someone describe it from all users perspective?

Does this thing suck or blow air, I'm confused.


For starters, I’m a guy, and this will be my first. I’ve been pretty adventurous and stuck a few things up there that probably shouldn’t have been up there, the largest being about 1” in diameter and 7” long. I had a good time though, so I figured I should get a proper toy. I’ve narrowed it down to these four. All of them are between $20 and $40, between 1.25” and 1.5” across, 6.5”-7” tall, and look fun rather than like an actual penis, which were my requirements. What would you guys recommend? I am also open to suggestions as long as they’re within the same range.

1. Neo Elite Tao
https://shop.lovestuffonline.com/p/491805/1331527/neo-elite---glow-in-the-dark---tao---7-inch-silicone-dual-density-dildo?lref=Srch%7CDual+density%7Ca%7C36%7Cc%7C0%7Cnull%7Csearch_page%7C0

2. Romp Dizi
https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/g-spot-dildos/sp-romp-dizi-dildo-111551.aspx?listPosition=16

3. Dillio Slim Seven
https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/g-spot-dildos/sp-dillio-platinum-slim-seven-dildo-109675.aspx?listPosition=2

4. Ouch! Ultra Soft Curvy 7”
https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/g-spot-dildos/sp-ouch-metallic-silicone-ultra-soft-curvy-g-spot-dildo-111224.aspx

Dildo Decisions


these are my favorite and I'd like to try and incorporate it into sex but the whole rabbit it too clunky

[https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/rabbit-vibrators/sp-fifty-shades-of-grey-greedy-girl-g-spot-rabbit-vibrator-99283.aspx?listPosition=2](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/rabbit-vibrators/sp-fifty-shades-of-grey-greedy-girl-g-spot-rabbit-vibrator-99283.aspx?listPosition=2)

If not, any other recommendations that are similar? I can't describe why it's different than something like a finger vibrator (see below for example)

[https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/finger-vibrators/sp-adam-eve-rechargeable-finger-vibe-106173.aspx?listPosition=1](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/finger-vibrators/sp-adam-eve-rechargeable-finger-vibe-106173.aspx?listPosition=1)

Are there are vibrators that are just the top of this rabbit and not the inside part?


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Found an old TPE vibrating dildo in the back of my closet.  Since TPE isn't a safe material, especially if its old, I decided to dissect it.  It was also sticky and kinda slimy.  Didn't know what I was expecting, but it's just molded over a bullet, battery, and chip for the different modes.  The bullet was also suprisingly strong out of the dildo until a wire broke.  It's also suprisingly triple density, with 2 soft outer layers which are stuck together, and a firm inner core.  For some reason though, there's a fabric layer separating the firm core and the soft layers.
The dildo is also $20 more now than when I bought it :( though I also used one of their never ending 50% off coupons lol.  It was a nice dildo when I first got it, but I cannot recommend it because it is made of TPE.

dildo:  https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/realistic-vibrators/sp-adams-true-feel-rechargeable-dildo-with-remote-control-by-adam-eve-106174.aspx
dissection pictures:  https://imgur.com/a/BLIyzmV

Dissected a vibrating dildo


I only have one dildo that I bought a few years ago, but wasn't aware of how some materials aren't safe to use. I was hoping someone might know of anything similar to the one I have so I can replace it.

The Dildo in question: [Adam & Eve Crystal Clear 8in Dildo](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/realistic-dildos/sp-adam-eve-crystal-clear-inch-dildo-105778.aspx?listPosition=1)

Willing to answer any further clarifying questions :)

Looking for a similar dildo


https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/strap-on-sex-toys/strap-on-harnesses/sp-eves-strap-on-play-set-by-adam-eve-102737.aspx?predictive=search_autocomplete_product_Eve%27s%20Strap-On%20Play%20Set%20-%20by%20Adam%20%20Eve&st=Stra

Im interested in buying one for my gf and i but i want to know if its save to use. Never bought a sex toy before

Has anyone used the eve’s strap on play set?


I am a straight guy trying to get my first butt plug but not trying to spend alog of money and wondering which one should I get

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/anal-sex-training-kits/sp-adam-eve-red-heart-gem-glass-plug-set-109180.aspx?listPosition=8

Or

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/butt-plugs/sp-booty-sparks-pink-gem-glass-anal-plug-108955.aspx

Which one should I get


Basically, looking for a smallish wearable vibrator for women that functions reliably and isn't too noisy. Preferably under 100$.

We tried one from Adam and Eve, and the remote didn't function at all. No option of return. I couldn't find it on their website and it doesn't appear to be available any more. [This one is similar in design](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/couples-vibrators/sp-lelo-tiani-harmony-couples-massager-109518.aspx). The shape is good, but we're open to ideas.

Very g spot centric and the clit gets over stimulated easily

Idea is for public play or for use while driving/walking.

Open to apps, but a remote is preferred, however, the failed remote was very disappointing.

Any ideas?

What's a good wearable sneaky vibe under 100$?


We have a Hismith and are currently using this dildo https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/realistic-dildos/sp-adams-true-feel-xl-by-adam-eve-102635.aspx its a little too flexible and bendy. Looking for recommendations for realistic dildos that might be firmer but not hard. Similar size or smaller.

Sex machine firm dildo recommendations


I have a cock ring that is your usual thing:

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/penis-rings/sp-performance-silicone-glo-penis-ring-106321.aspx

I like that it glows (though this isn’t a need). I guess what I’m asking is, what’s y’all’s favorite?

I like that it’s thick and wide so it doesn’t pinch or roll, and it’s good for us slightly girthier dudes. But I want something that vibrates and possibly allows for ball insertion too. Rechargeable; Heating would be a bonus.

I do also own a Lovense Gush and a Lovense Calor. I like the Gush cuz it’s close to what I’m talking about wanting here, but it’s not quite as small and also no room for the balls.

A lot of times other sex toys are just inconvenient, bulky, annoying, messy, etc, (even though they’re enjoyable when using em).

So yeah, does a toy like that exist that isn’t too ridiculously large?

- Cock ring aesthetic
- Ball snugger
- Vibrates
- Rechargeable
- Easy to take on and off
- Not too bulky and ridiculous

A Cockring-ish That Does All This?


Ii will report back on Wed, after they have arrived!

[https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/anal-dildos/sp-back-end-chubby-107233.aspx](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/anal-dildos/sp-back-end-chubby-107233.aspx)
[https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/g-spot-dildos/sp-dillio-platinum-slim-seven-dildo-109675.aspx](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/g-spot-dildos/sp-dillio-platinum-slim-seven-dildo-109675.aspx)
[https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/realistic-dildos/sp-inch-all-american-whopper-dong-80177.aspx](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/realistic-dildos/sp-inch-all-american-whopper-dong-80177.aspx)

I have ordered three dildos!


I have the adameve beginners plug set and a vibrating one that I want to end up using. I have been trying to progress to the medium one. The small one king of goes in easy when I relax and flex, I can keep it in for a few hours however the shaft isnt long enough and make me want to go... Then take it out and try the medium size, I can get it in again after 2-3 min easily and gently pushing it a little and flexing and relaxing. Then it goes in and feels good. However, I start to bleed a little and after removing will do so for a few hours but nothing drastic, just light bleeding.

So I take a few days off sometimes a week and try again - same thing. Now I also usually bleed a little if I get constipated even without using anything and have done so for most of my life.

What I am wondering is how can I get past this point, I am guessing stretching slowly and maybe sleeping in the medium one because it fits comfortably when in. Any tips or suggestions?

I dont think I am overdoing it, one it feels good and two after outside little bleeding nothing feels wrong.

Trying plugs not progressing - light bleeding (new to plugs)


Yall im so embarrassed to even have to ask this question…

I bought this glass dildo that came in a “protective case” ok cool awesome

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/glass-dildos/sp-crystal-heart-of-glass-91037.aspx?predictive=search_autocomplete_product_Crystal%20Heart%20Of%20Glass&st=Glass%20

But it’s stuck in there, I can’t remove it for the LIFE of me!! I don’t want to be too aggressive and break the dildo but how the fuck am I supposed to get it loose? I tried putting it in my freezer for a few hours to shrink the glass a bit but it’s not budging. It won’t even spin within the case it’s in full chastity. Lube/liquids don’t help just makes it slippery.

PLEASE HELP ME my roommate is only gone for 2 more nights I want to be wet naked and loud

How to remove glass dildo from its chastity??


The base of this toy is extremely flexible and during a session, i just had this go completely up my ass.  We were able to get it out but I'll never be using it again (or it's larger sibling, the XXL) ever again and may be considering sending it back.

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/butt-plugs/sp-anal-adventures-xl-plug-108790.aspx

Buyer Beware- Anal Adventures XL Plug


I'm looking for a new vibe to either replace or complement my older wand-style one which is ~10 years old.

I did buy a Tantus Rumble last year to try a new wand vibe. The head was pretty large to be able to use it during sex and I would have liked it to have a little more power on the higher settings especially considering how large it is.

Here's what I have in mind:

* Price - preferably under $100, but willing to go up to $200 or so for something that will last from a good company
* Location - US
* Power supply - AA or AAA batteries. i'd also consider something with it's own rechargeable battery if it charges through USB-C.
Not a fan of something that needs to be plugged into a wall and I don't want anything that can't use batteries or cables I already own.
* Style/Size - flexible on this, but likely something bullet or egg shaped (but not one that gets inserted). Something I can use on my clit. I do like the wand one I have but would prefer something smaller than can fit in my hand / be slipped under me easily to use during sex.
 * Not something that needs to be inserted - eg this fits in your hand, isn't too big, doesn't get inserted https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/clit-vibrators/sp-slay-please-me-clitoral-stimulator-108144.aspx
 * I'm open to just getting a new wand vibe to replace mine if I can't find something smaller I really like.
* Features

 *  Variable speeds - at least a choice between slow/fast. More options could be nice but not necessary.

 * Power/strength - I assume smaller vibes (eg bullet ones) are generally weaker than wands, a trade-off I'm willing to take, but would appreciate something that has decent power

 * Durable - I don't want it to break or stop holding a charge (if it doesn't take batteries) quickly. If it can last 10+ years that would be awesome.

Vibrator recommendations - takes AA or AAA batteries, preferably something smaller than a wand-style vibe


The wife and I would love a Sybian, but dropping $2k on a sex toy that we can't really store in a discreet location is a bit of a showstopper.  She's mentioned she'd love to give me head or having me fuck her tits while she's riding it and orgasming.
Just wondering who has used a grinder, and if it's worth it.  I was looking into something like [this](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/grinders/sp-adam-eve-the-midnight-rider-vibrating-grinder-with-remote-111071.aspx)
Let me know your experiences, or if there are better options.  Thanks all!

Grinders as Sybian alternatives


hello! I have a vibrator that has been well loved for around 7 years, but its battery life is starting to suffer. I am trying to find another one like it, but I can’t seem to come up with the right search terms. It’s a type of suction vibrator, but rather than the air puff mechanism it has a cluster of 6 short little silicone nubs (for lack of a better term??) that are vibrated by some internal mechanism when you turn it on. I would estimate that the nubs are around 1mm in diameter and 2-3mm long, clustered in the middle of an oval-shaped opening. the body of the vibrator is pastel pink silicone, around 5 inches long. whenever I try to search for one like it, all I can ever find is the air puff ones. I’ve tried those, and I like mine better. There is no identifying info on the vibrator itself, and I don’t remember what it was called, the brand name, or where I got it. does anyone have any idea what I’m talking about, and maybe where I could find another one like it when mine finally gives up the ghost? since photos aren’t allowed, I’m including a link to an air suction vibrator that is a similar shape in hopes that it will help https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/clit-vibrators/sp-womanizer-liberty-pleasure-air-clitoral-stimulator-110627.aspx

pls help me search for another vibrator like the one i have


So i recently bought this https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/bullet-eggs/sp-nixie-smooch-rechargeable-lipstick-bullet-110931.aspx toy.. i can’t figure out how to charge it, the bottom doesn’t seem to come off and i dont wanna apply any force and accidentally break it 😭 can someone help me out

Help!


Asked this in r/ProstatePlay but for some reason it looks like my post over there is hidden, so I decided to try here as well while I wait for a response from the mods there. Also I hope I'm using the right flair- wasn't sure whether to use "request" or "discussion", so let me know if I should change it.

I'm no stranger to anal toys, including a simple prostate vibes that's quite nice. (P-Spot Stir from Edenfantasys) But I want to get a fancier one now. Spent a good chunk of the evening looking around, doing research, etc. But the type I'm looking for doesn't seem to have a clear-cut winner in any "top #" type lists I've seen, nor a consensus here.

Here are the features I'm looking for (bold features are absolute must, the rest are greatly preferred but I suppose I can live without if necessary):

* **A rotating head** (wiggling or other similar movements will work too, but rotating is preferred)
* **A decent sized perineum stimulator**
* **At least two vibration motors (one in the shaft and one in the perineum part)**
* An attached cock ring to help hold it in place
* Waterproof
* A remote
* Not \*too\* thick- I'm not a size queen here by any means, and I generally prefer smoother insertions

So far I've found the following, though obviously I don't think any of them quite tick all the marks perfectly:

1. [The Lovehoney High Roller](https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/prostate-massagers/p/lovehoney-high-roller-remote-control-rotating-prostate-massager/a42638g85526.html)
2. [The Nexus Revo Embrace](https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/prostate-massagers/p/nexus-revo-embrace-remote-control-rotating-double-cock-ring-prostate-massager/a45326g81723.html) (currently cheaper on LoveHoney than on Nexus's own site, interestingly)
3. [The Nexus Revo Slim](https://nexusrange.com/en-us/collections/revo-rotating-prostate-massagers/products/revo-slim)
4. [The Giddi Thor](https://mygiddi.com/products/thor-rotating-prostate-massager)
5. [The Adam & Eve Derek](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/prostate-toys/sp-adam-eve-derek-warming-rotating-prostate-vibe-110154.aspx)
6. [Alpha-Pro 7X Remote P-Strap Milker ](https://www.pinkcherry.com/products/alpha-pro-7x-remote-p-strap-milker?variant=39321563758677)

As you can see, the prices vary a bit. I don't want to break the bank but I don't want to cheap out either. I'd appreciate thoughts and feedback on any of these that anyone's tried, as well as other similar suggestions along these lines if you know of one that might be a better fit than any of these.

Looking for A Rotating (Prostate) Vibe


I am in the US in North Georgia, completely clean, and can take cashapp or Cash. It is about $250-$300 USD in value but as I can't travel far the price can be significantly lowered and negotiated. All toys are in great condition and will be cleaned thoroughly before being sold.

I'm looking to sell some of my lightly used AdamEve sextoys from strokers, to dildos, ect.


I am so glad this sub is here, and it and all of you have been a big help in my recent sex toy journey!

So I am a gay guy, 26, and have yet to experience any sexual intimacy of any kind. I spent all of my life repressing my sexuality and the subject of sex was always uncomfortable for me. Anyways, a few years ago, after coming out, I decided I wanted to try a dildo as I've always knew I was a bottom, and just wanted to experience something in me, so I bought [this.](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/realistic-vibrators/sp-x-vibrating-beginner-dildo-103435.aspx)

I didn't know anything abut sex toys back then, and did enjoy using it but rarely did. Maybe once a month or every few months. Flashforward to just a few months ago, I decided I wanted something new and discovered Walmart sells sex toys. So I did a bit of research on what my local store had in stock and bought [the Hello Cake Buzzy Plug.](https://hellocake.com/products/buzzy-butt/) It was my introduction to silicone, and lets just say I was in love. This plug awoken something with in me, and helped me discover prostate orgasms.

Over the following weeks, I did my research on silicone, and discovered this sub and I have to say I have learned a lot! Especially when it comes to what materials are safe, what kinds of lube to use, etc. I ended up also buying two more Hello Cake toys, [the Pocket Wand](https://hellocake.com/products/pocket-wand/) and [the Pretty Big Dil.](https://hellocake.com/products/pretty-big-dil/) Both fo these toys are very good too. I was a bit hesitant with the dildo, and am still trying to figure out the best position to use it in, but it feels so good! Last week, I added another toy to my collection, and it has been my favorite so far, [the plusOne Dual Vibrator. ](https://myplusone.com/products/plusone-dual-vibrating-massager-6704)I have used it every day or night since buying it! I love it *that* much!

Anyways, sorry for rambling, and thanks to anyone who took the time to read all this! Just really wanted to say how much I appreciated this sub, and what a big help it has been for me on my sexual journey! 💕

Just wanted to say how much I appreciate this sub!


Preferably something on the longer (more than 6 in) and thicker side (preferably over 1.75-2” & tapers to get to that width)

I don’t want anything that will automatically be assumed to be a sex toy though since I don’t want the people I live with to find it

Was looking at these, I like both of the designs, but unfortunately they are both TPE :/

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/giant-dildos/sp-fantasia-nymph-dildo-111034.aspx

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/giant-dildos/sp-fantasia-phoenix-dildo-111036.aspx

Are there any dildos that don’t look like sex toys?


https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/male-masturbators/realistic-masturbators/sp-eves-realistic-torso-by-adam-eve-108150.aspx

Not sure if I'm asking right so apologies if I'm mistaken. I've been meaning to up my toy game and was thinking on a torso or hip toy, there's still a black Friday price for 100 USD which fits for my price and all the reviews are good

Length	15.0 inches

Material	TPE

Width	7.75 inches

Weight 11

I do wish to get a bigger one on Amazon but I'm not sure there trustworthy idk still doing homework on that. Could anyone recommend this or should I look elsewhere? I'm mostly on the fence tbh.

I was thinking about buying the girl next door as an introductory torso


My wife gets off most easily and reliably grinding on something. Historically that's been me, a pillow, or finagling her rabbit vibe between and grinding. None of those are optimal. I like to get some sex toy for Christmas, so looking for suggestions.

The [Ruby Glow Rosa](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/grinders/sp-rocks-off-ruby-glow-rosa-grinder-110058.aspx) *looks* really cool, especially since it can disconnect to use as a wand, but is it one of those things that tried to do two different things and doesn't do either very well? Especially since she would just be doing it on the bed, does the base need something more sturdy to grind against?
I see the [Ride n' Grind](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/grinders/sp-inmi-ride-n-grind-vibrating-sex-grinder-110462.aspx) looks like a good option, but also just looks a bit odd?
And of course the [VibePad](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/grinders/sp-vibepad-vibrating-grinder-110610.aspx) or similar looks very straightforward

Any suggestions? Pros/cons? Thanks all

Grinder toys: Ruby Glow Rosa vs Ride n' Grind vs VibePad


What is the cheapest clit suction and licking toys?

I need advice Adameve.com only


hi, so in january i bought my first ever sex toy and only vibrator i've ever owned at this point, [this bullet vibrator from adam & eve](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/bullet-eggs/sp-eves-silky-sensations-rechargeable-bullet-by-adam-eve-108071.aspx). i've liked it quite a bit, i like the size because it's easy to hide (i live with family still) and pretty quiet, and the vibrations are plenty strong for me. however, a couple months ago it kind of broke. it only works if i hold it at a certain angle, so i have to really press down and keep my hand still for it to work which is pretty annoying. i guess maybe some wires or something inside broke and so it only works if i hold it in a way that temporarily puts it back together if that makes sense lmao. since it broke in less than a year of use, i don't want to buy the same one again, i want something that'll last longer yknow? so i figured i'd come here for suggestions. my only requirements are something small, somewhat quiet, affordable, but won't break so quickly. i don't really want to get one of those suction vibrators because i'm a trans man on T and not sure if my bottom growth will fit or outgrow it eventually, so i'd rather just stick to a standard vibrator. basically just anything similar to the one i linked but higher quality so it lasts longer than like 9 months lol, any suggestions are appreciated, thank you!!

best affordable & quiet small vibrators?


Good afternoon, all. I'm in the market for a half torso masturbator like the [Perfect Ass Masturbator](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/male-masturbators/realistic-masturbators/sp-perfect-ass-masturbator-109467.aspx). Face down if preferable and with an anal and vaginal canal.

I'm also looking for a penis vibrator such as the [Adam's Gawk Gawk 3.0](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/male-masturbators/blow-job-simulators/sp-adams-gawk-gawk-thrusting-rotating-vibrating-sleeve-by-adam-eve-110663.aspx).

I'm not looking for realistic or anything along those lines. Just the best feeling that those of you who have used them have had. Price range is preferably sub $400 for each.

Thank you all for any help regarding this matter.

Looking for recommendations on a half-torso masturbator and powered penis vibrator.


I can use the biggest size in the [Doc Johnson Mood Naughty kit](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/anal-sex-training-kits/sp-mood-naughty-trainer-105824.aspx) but when I go to something larger it still hurts, even with lots of lube. My current dildos are 4.5-5 inch girths.

I’m looking into getting the [Adam and Eve My First Willy dildo](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/realistic-dildos/sp-adam-eve-my-first-willy-104016.aspx)

It’s cheap and could be fun later as I experiment with double penetration.

Any recommendations on what to go to next to help prepare me?

I don’t have a steady partner to slowly practice with

Anal training: where to go after mastering the Doc Johnson Mood Naughty kit, but everything else still is uncomfortable - more details in post!


I’m looking at Adam and Eve for some started sex toys. I want to train my ass to take a little more, so I looked at https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/anal-sex-training-kits/sp-mood-naughty-trainer-105824.aspx. Are there any reviews to this other than the website? I also looked at a piece of sexy wear, but wanted to get outside reviews as well: https://www.adameve.com/lingerie/womens-wear/panties-thongs/sp-adam-eve-exclusive-crotchless-beaded-lovers-thong-92707.aspx?stars=4#product-reviews

They’re also offering a free crystal rabbit vibrator, but there’s almost no reviews on that. Overall, what’s the verdict?

Sex Toy Help


Been looking for something close to this https://www.amazon.com/dp/B091641PYB?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share (my first toy) and went along with purchasing this https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/realistic-dildos/sp-neo-elite-light-glow-in-the-dark-dildo-108914.aspx
The new one looked thick in the picture but the tip is not as thick as the base… a bit on the skinny side for me personally as you get closer to the tip
My first one’s girth is the same all the way, it doesn’t taper like the new one
I’m a college student so I don’t have more than $40-$50 honestly to pay but nothing I find that size is in my price range AND body safe (which is my problem with the first one)

Reputable customs?


I need to combine two ol-reliables that have both died on me (RIP).

I need a g-spot vibrator that combines [the clit massager of this one](https://www.lovehoney.ca/sex-toys/vibrators/g-spot-vibrators/p/lovehoney-g-tickler-clitoral-and-g-spot-vibrator/a36310g67008.html) with the [insertable portion of this one](https://www.adameve.ca/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/rabbit-vibrators/sp-red-dream-dual-stimulating-massager-107772.aspx)

It needs to be flexible and the tip needs to be flush with the rest of the body. Toys that have a penis-head style are painful.

Also, I’m Canadian and can’t afford triple digits. Thanks!

Need a g-spot vibrator recommendation!


So I have a vibrator that I love but I haven't gotten to use it in like 9 months because I moved back in with my parents. I decided to go get it from my house on the way home today and I'm so excited to finally have it back I don't want to wait till I'm home alone to use it. And besides It's very rare I'm home alone like once a week at least while I'm awake. I need to know if I put it on the lowest setting, get under the blanket, put a pillow over it, and turn on my TV(can't be too loud tho has to be a normal volume), close my door and put a towel at the bottom will that be enough for them not to hear? There room is on the complete opposite side of the house, we're as far away from each other as we can be and the house is a pretty standard size for a 4 bedroom house.

Now this isn't a little vibrator I got a pretty nice one but there definitely known for being loud I'll link it here.

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/wand-massagers/sp-adam-eve-magic-massager-rechargeable-rose-gold-edition-105748.aspx

Will my parents be able to hear me?


Hey guys can I use both of these for prostate play? I read where some men use women’s toys. I haven’t found any good ones that I can possibly use hands free.

https://www.adameve.com/bath-and-body/romance-kits/sp-adam-eve-couples-warming-kit-104424.aspx

Can I use both?


Ive been on HRT for some years now and am aware that some pleasure remapping occurs as a result of it, such as the head of the dick becoming a whole lot more sensitive. Yesterday I used a dildo anally and it felt very odd (specifically this one —> https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/realistic-dildos/sp-adam-eve-sunset-dreams-dildo-107703.aspx) and it felt nothing like what I was expecting, almost like I had to take a tacobell level shit. is this something normal or am I unaware of something that I should be aware of?

Transwoman using a dildo for the first time


I was shopping for a bdsm set and found these two that appear to be basically the same but one costs half the price:

[https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/kinky-bondage/bondage-kits/sp-lux-fetish-bedspreaders-piece-bondage-in-a-box-set-107771.aspx](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/kinky-bondage/bondage-kits/sp-lux-fetish-bedspreaders-piece-bondage-in-a-box-set-107771.aspx)

[https://bboutlet.com/product/9479661879587/20-pc-bondage-kit](https://bboutlet.com/product/9479661879587/20-pc-bondage-kit)

anyone own this or have other recs?

What am I missing?


Hi everyone,

My wife and I have been talking about trying something new in our intimate moments, and we’re really excited about exploring sex toys. We’ve heard great things about Adam and Eve sex toys and are interested in giving them a try.

We were considering the [Clit-Tastic Tulip Finger Massager and Pleasure Plug](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/clit-vibrators/sp-clit-tastic-tulip-finger-massager-and-pleasure-plug-110939.aspx?sc=EROTICAL), but we’re open to other recommendations as well. For those of you who have experience with their products, could you recommend some that you think are great for couples? We’re looking for something that can add a little excitement and novelty to our relationship. Any tips for first-timers are also welcome!

Thanks a lot for your suggestions!

Looking for Suggestions on Adam and Eve Sex Toys to Spice Things Up with My Wife


Does any one know how long the Climaximum Sepora Bullet Vibrator from Adam and eve is ?

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/bullet-eggs/sp-climaximum-sepora-bullet-vibrator-108652.aspx

Bullet


https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/thrusting-vibrators/sp-twisted-unicorn-remote-control-thrusting-dildo-110748.aspx

So my wife and I are trying to spice things up a bit and get her a toy. She's had the basic dildo from Spencer's years ago but other than that never never really had any toys. We were just looking around last night and she expressed that she likes the "unicorn" style ones more than the more realistic ones, this is one she said she liked a lot but I can't find any reviews or any videos of it in action. Has anyone used anything like this or do you have any suggestions? I know this one has vibration and other movements but that's not a necessary requirement for any suggestions.

New to toys


Hi, female here! I am planning on buying my first dildo. I want one with a suction cup. I also think I want a dildo that is completely smoothed because ribbed condoms have always hurt me so I assume a dildo that isn't smooth will also hurt me. Any recommendations? I plan to shop from Adam & Eve online.

I am also getting this toy which I am super excited for! I have wanted one for so long.

[https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/clitoral-pumps/sp-jimmyjane-apex-sucking-licking-and-vibrating-pussy-pump-110722.aspx](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/clitoral-pumps/sp-jimmyjane-apex-sucking-licking-and-vibrating-pussy-pump-110722.aspx)

Needs some help picking out dildo


[M26] I've never had any toys before but I recently got an [Adam and Eve My First Willy](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/realistic-dildos/sp-adam-eve-my-first-willy-104016.aspx?) from my partner to experiment with and I've seen a lot of recommendations to use a condom with it, both on here and on their website, and to avoid silicone-based lubes. However, while looking around my local pharmacies, I noticed almost no condoms actually say what kind of lube they use on the package and all the ones I looked up were silicone. What are some decent condoms I could look out for that use a water-based lube? Would it be easier just to find some unlubed ones and slick them myself?

I've also noticed some comments in other threads here suggesting covering silicon toys isn't really necessary. Do I even need to worry about it if I know I'm not going to be sharing it?

Condoms for anal dildo?


I recently purchased a pipe dream dildo from A&E. The dildo itself claims to be made of Platinum Silicone both in the listing [here](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/g-spot-dildos/sp-dillio-platinum-slim-seven-dildo-109675.aspx) and on its packaging in fact it’s one of its main selling points.

Cut to a few days ago when I received the dildo and it seems sticky/tacky when dry? Not when wet.

Here’s an example of it’s stickiness:

https://imgur.com/gallery/z1ZmC78

Is this normal for a new silicone dildo out of the box?

I brought it  to Pipedream’s attention and they essentially told me to clean which of course I’ve already done more than once with a toy cleaner + soap and warm water.

They did briefly mention offering a replacement but have yet to get back to me.

Should I just toss this toy?


Hello, I recently bought a Dildo from Adam & Eve (forgive me). The Dildo claims to be Platinum Silicone on both the listing and packaging however there is a small smell and slight stick which none of my silicone plugs have.

Is there any way to verify the product is the material it claims to be? In a perfect world it would be illegal to lie or mislead when your product is going inside the body.

Here is the listing

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/g-spot-dildos/sp-dillio-platinum-slim-seven-dildo-109675.aspx?stars=5#product-reviews

Anyone have experience with this brand or Dildo?

Is there any tests to confirm a toy is in fact Silicone?

Any help would be appreciated!

Concerns About Sex Toy Material


My girlfriend and I recently bought [this dildo,](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/realistic-dildos/sp-bust-it-squirting-dildo-99290.aspx?predictive=search_autocomplete_product_Bust%20It%20Squirting%20Dildo) but the balls (~4 inches entire base) are too heavy for a strap-on harness. Would a larger o-ring work to keep it in place? If so, what size? I tried just using the suction cup in the o-rings and the balls were so heavy it still drooped before falling out.

Sorry if this is a dumb question, I’m new to all of this!!

Is there a way to get this dildo into a strap-on harness? Maybe a larger o-ring? The balls are too heavy when I use one solely for the girth causing it to droop and fall out


Hi all,

I need help with my next vibrator purchase. My absolute favourite was the Femme Fun Ultra Bullet. I loved the small size for use during penetration and the soft, bendy head. I also liked the different vibration setting and that it was waterproof and rechargeable. The only issue is I had two and they both died on me in less than a year.

Can anyone recommend something similar?

I’m looking for something shippable to Canada. Not too worried about price point. Around 4 inches long. Soft/bendy head. Silicone. Rechargeable. Around 1 inch in width I think.

[Here is the Femme Fun for comparison](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/bullet-eggs/sp-femme-funn-ultra-bullet-massager-104327.aspx?st=femme+funn&cm_mmc=GGL-_-DSA_CA_NB_Google-_-Adam+%26+Eve+DSA+-+Vibrators-_-DYNAMIC+SEARCH+ADS&sc=SEMGLCAN&medium=tsa&gad_source=1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIx4mTvtKahgMVaxetBh2DFAMxEAAYASAAEgLIyPD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds).

Thank you!!

Loved the Femme Fun Ultra Bullet but need help on what to get next


Hi all, I just joined and I have a question. I bought this discrete vibrator that you put in your panties and it has a remote control (see link below) but I can't for the life of me figure out how to charge it! I don't see a charging port anywhere. Has anyone else bought this item?

https://www.adameve.com/lingerie/womens-wear/vibrating-panties/sp-screaming-o-ergonomic-vibrating-panty-set-107410.aspx

How to charge discrete panty vibrator


For me it was the Vibrating Anal Power Beads on AdamEve.com but for my V. Im a trans male and I thought i couldn't orgasm from penitartion- i was very very wrong.
https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/anal-vibrators/sp-vibrating-anal-power-beads-92841.aspx

First toy that ever made you orgasm?


https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/anal-beads/sp-sassy-anal-beads-82108.aspx

This is the product I'm referring to. From what I understand, ABS is meant to be a hard plastic, so I don't know what these are made out of.

Anal beads listed as ABS plastic, but flexible. Are they mixed with something?


So I bought these Keego balls for my wife, hoping to get more sensitivity in her vagina so she can have vaginal orgasms easier . So she puts them in and says she can’t really feel them and doesn’t feel the little balls inside jiggle at all. Can only feel that they’re there when she sits down in a chair or Bends over. is there a different product I should buy with more weight or is it just her painkillers and stuff making her not feel it? https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/ben-wa-balls/sp-panthra-zane-geisha-balls-110088.aspx there are what I bought, we’ve never Kegel balls before. Anyone else have this experience? I can’t think a pain killer would make the vagina feel almost nothing. She still enjoys penetration very much when taking them

Wife doesn’t feel legal balls


Been eyeing it for a while but finally got around to ordering [this strap](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/strap-on-sex-toys/sp-new-comers-strap-on-and-dildo-set-92559.aspx) from Adam & Eve. I should’ve done better research first but I came across some reviews of Adam & Eve saying a lot of their products are not body safe, and I don’t want to expose my partner to something potentially harmful. Any input helps, thank you!

Does anyone own / have experience with this strap?


I''m so excited to be getting another rabbit vibe. I love these vibes so much. They're so cute and sexy. I can't wait to get off to it wink wink.

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/rabbit-vibrators/sp-function-super-rabbit-vibrator-10123.aspx

My new sex toy I'm getting today


I am in search of a life size butt to thrust into, closest thing I've found so far is [this one](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/male-masturbators/realistic-masturbators/sp-kendra-lust-life-size-booty-stroker-103215.aspx) but I want to make sure I know all my options before I spend that kind of money. Any similar products come to mind? MUST be life size and able to wear underwear is a plus. Thanks in advance.

Life Size Butt


First timers here!

Keen to hear any advice on these or alternatives regarding the size of the base so they don’t get lost inside and the comfort level for when they’re been worn anally during vaginal sex.

Thanks so much!

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/butt-plugs/sp-adam-eve-glass-anal-training-trio-104762.aspx

Butt plug advice


We've been looking and looking around and cannot for the life of us find one!

We don't understand why it's so hard to find but she doesn't want something that feel like it's flaccid.

She wants a HARD life-like shaped vibrator that isn't ...flexible? She loves [this toy](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/rabbit-vibrators/sp-eves-rechargeable-thrusting-rabbit-by-adam-eve-106698.aspx) and we tried [this one](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/realistic-vibrators/sp-x-inch-hard-on-vibrator-80737.aspx) but it has that flexibility is a big turn off.

Any help would be GREATLY appreciated!

Help please - looking for a life-like vibrator that is hard, not the softer jelly-like feel.


I'm a little inexperienced when it comes to this since these toys are gonna be my first ever so I wanna make sure they're any good before I spend $70 for all three of them. Can someone please reassure me that I'm not gonna waste my money pleaseee

1) https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/realistic-vibrators/sp-eves-slim-pink-pleaser-vibrator-by-adam-eve-11323.aspx
2) https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/realistic-dildos/sp-dillio-inch-chub-dildo-102421.aspx?stars=3#product-reviews
3) https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/anal-vibrators/sp-x-vibrating-silicone-butt-plug-108051.aspx

Can someone tell me if these three are any good before I click buy?


Does something like this exist? I’m currently on a medicine that makes it take longer to orgasm, so my vibrator usually dies before i’m done. I know there are things like wands but I want one that can be used hands free, similar to [this one](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/male-masturbators/masturbation-sleeves/sp-lovense-gush-bluetooth-glans-massager-110316.aspx).

Corded male vibrator


Hi! I was wondering if anyone has any experience using this toy or brand! It is [Creature Cocks Glow In The Dark Spacecock Dildo](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/sp-creature-cocks-glow-in-the-dark-spacecock-dildo-110224.aspx). It is made out of silicone.

I'm curious about trying it because I want to break into the world of knotted dildos (especially Bad Dragon's Diego) but I want to see if I actually like the knot before dropping 150$ on one of BD's models. Any information about this specific product or the company (Creature Cocks) would be amazing. Thanks <3

Does anyone have any experience using Creature Cocks' dildos?


Ok so my boyfriend has never had a sex toy in his life and he’s been pretty shy and reserved for most of his life it seems. I’m his first girlfriend and I’ve been helping him reach out with his sexuality and he’s been appreciating it a lot.

I bought him a fleshlight as a Christmas gift, and tonight I suggested we tried it out. Now my boyfriend’s dick is pretty girthy (lucky me heh heh) so I put some lube in it and when I first tried to put his dick in it, he started to squirm and told me it hurt. I put more lube in and we were able to get his dick all the way in but he said it was still really tight and that it still felt like he was having trouble getting it in. Eventually he just asked if we could stop because it didn’t really feel good. I told him ok and just finished him off myself.

So…he was too big for the toy. Is there any way to measure what will and won’t fit? Additionally, if anyone has any suggestions for wider toys? [This is the one I got for him](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/male-masturbators/realistic-masturbators/sp-shower-stroker-ass-106756.aspx) (he has a butt kink so I figured I’d treat him, haha).

Boyfriend’s dick seems to be too big for the toy I got him…


I’ll preface this by saying that we don’t have many toys and my wife is uncomfortable using toys in solo play.

We use smaller vibrators that can kind of be ‘tucked’ away or on me while she grinds on top of me and it in cowgirl style.

Over the years we’ve used a number of random off brand bullet and egg style vibrators that seem to work well enough but I’d like to find something more premium for her and especially drop the cords for something wireless.

I’ve seen the rave reviews over the tango x but I’m thinking that might be a bit large to tuck away and painful to push down on(it’s about double the length of most that we’ve used). I don’t think the air pulse stuff would work great for this use case either.

 Any advice?

This is something similar to what we currently use:

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/bullet-eggs/sp-adam-eve-vibrating-silver-bullet-86039.aspx

Looking for advice on mini bullet/egg size gift for wife


Me and my friend were on the phone having a casual conversation about Christmas gifts.

 A few years ago for a white elephant exchange I wrapped up a 3lb Chodey dildo with a Pizza Hut gift card for laughs.

So she asks me who currently has it cause she wants to use it. We laughed and decided to just look online for a new one she could have. Browsing through a selection of dildos she narrowed it down to a black Girthy 8”inch dildo. I asked her, is this something she can use cause it looks huge.

And her response was I’ll make it work and slip it in some how. Now for some back story. She is my friends wife but I can’t stop thinking about her wrecking her puffy lips with the dildo.

Should I gift her the toy she wanted for Christmas or is it a line I shouldn’t cross?

I linked the toy i was considering on getting her

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/realistic-dildos/sp-prince-yahshua-inch-ultraskyn-dildo-106215.aspx

She wanted a Girthy dildo


So I just shelled out for the Njoy 2.0 and after watching an insertion video, I'm worried I won't be able to do it! It's so huge. I've just gotten back into stretching after taking \~2 years off. I currently have a plug with diameter 1.4 inches in, but this one is 2 inches. Back in my heyday, I got the largest of [these toys](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/anal-sex-training-kits/sp-adam-eve-jelly-backdoor-training-kit-101661.aspx) in. It says the largest is 2in diameter, but idk the Njoy just seems waaay bigger.

Anyone else have any experience with this toy? How long did it take you to get it in?

Just ordered the Njoy 2.0... I'm intimidated by it


Hey, as title says! I live in a very conservative non-pro sex area (and family) and i wanted to buy a dildo for myself and for photos, is there anywhere i can order a decent quality and cheap dildo without exposing myself in my bank statements? thanks!

Looking to buy VERY discreet (online billing) any place where i can order a dildo that doesn’t read ADAMANDEVE DILDO on my bank statement?


This happened a few nights ago at a party I hosted, and I haven’t been able to stop thinking about it since. One of my close friends, Sofia, was there. We’ve been friends for years, and while we’ve always been comfortable around each other, it’s never been anything more than that.

The night started off like any other party—music, drinks, and a house full of people laughing and having a good time. At some point, I slipped away from the main crowd to my bedroom. I’d been waiting to try out this new toy I’d ordered online at [Adamandeve.com](http://adamandeve.com/), the Adam’s Gawk Gawk 2.0 Sucking & Vibrating Sleeve—and curiosity got the best of me. I figured, with everyone busy, I could taw minutes to myself.

I locked the door and started to explore the product, and let’s just say, it didn’t disappoint. I completely lost track of time, unaware that Sofia had noticed I was missing. She must’ve knocked at some point, but I didn’t hear it over the music at the party.

Next thing I know, I hear a faint “Hey, you in there?” followed by the door handle jiggling. My heart jumped—apparently, I hadn’t locked the door properly. Before I could respond, Sofia stepped in, probably thinking something was wrong. Her eyes widened as she took in the scene.

I froze, feeling my face heat up, but Sofia was just as stunned. “Oh, wow—uh, sorry!” he stammered, turning to leave. But instead of panicking, I surprised myself by laughing. “Well, this is awkward,” I said, trying to lighten the moment.

She hesitated, still halfway out the door, and then chuckled nervously. “I didn’t mean to barge in. I just…noticed you were gone for a while.”

Instead of asking her to leave, I said, “It’s fine. You can stay if you want. I was just…testing something out.” I held up the toy, making a joke out of it to ease the tension. To my surprise, Sofia stayed. She leaned against the wall, clearly trying to keep things casual, but there was an undeniable shift in the air.

She watched me finish and we ended up fucking the whole night. It was an amazing experience.

Oh, and for the record? The Adam’s Gawk Gawk 2.0 definitely lived up to the hype. And if you’re curious, don’t forget to use that code—HEYSEXY—for 50% off and free gifts. Trust me, it’s worth it.

I Let My Friend Watch Me Masturbate


I ordered the butterfly rose toy vibrator from adamandeve a long time ago, and lost my charger in the last month. The site no longer sells it and I don’t want to buy the wrong cord, does anybody know what kind of cord it takes?

Lost charger


So it’s been a long time since I’ve bought a sex toy and I want to steer away from AdamandEve because I don’t really have interest in their products right now. I have so many of their stuff. I want a site that’s diverse with different kinds of toys like glass, squirting, machine operated, fantasy, sex activities, etc. basically a one stop shop kinda site. Any recommendations?

What are some great diverse sex toy sites in the US?


Hi everyone !

I don’t know if I chose the right word in the title but I have been getting tired of my vibrator (which I only use externally on my clit) and I finally want to try a clit suction toy.

I am really curious about the different sensation from vibration and read great reviews about this type of toy. My problem is that while reading reviews I found that they are so many different types of technology, of shape, and of price range !

I am willing to put a bit of money in it but I am curious to know if that in necessary? Like what should I look for when choosing a toy like that? The brands satisfyer and womanizer are probably the one I see the most but there are a lot of others and it’s overwhelming.

My price range could be up to 100-150€ if it is truly life changing. But since I see some also as cheap as 20 I am wondering what are the difference between a cheap and a pricey one ?
Note: I am from Europe and mostly buying online either directly on the brand website or a sex shop site (like adamandeve, sinful, or if you have a good recommandation that ships in Europe I’m listening).

How to choose the right suction toy?


hi, I ordered a dildo from adamandeve and it arrived with black spots inside of it. it's not on the surface, I washed it and it doesn't go away. I contacted support and they sent out a new one, and this new one also has a black dot inside of it. Is this mold? They're both brand new and unused

[here](https://i.imgur.com/3wgTaji.jpg) is the first dildo I received

and this is the [replacement dildo](https://i.imgur.com/GwIF6DV.jpg) they sent me

Is this mold in my dildos?


I am quite fond of anal play, and enjoy fingering myself if I’m in the mood. I’ve been wanting to get a dildo so I can experience something more, but I lack the finances to get one. I would really appreciate it if someone helped me out. Please don’t comment anything mean or make a joke out of this, it’s not helpful. For everyone else, thank you for your time! (I also have a 40% discount code for AdamAndEve that would bring the cost down)

Looking for someone to buy me my first dildo…


New to purchasing sex toys, but have really been wanting to purchase some butt plugs lately and was planning to do so on adamandeve but based on some other posts found that this site isn’t regarded very highly. What online stores are safer/affordable in your experience? Only physical store near me is a lions den, despite being a chain are they considered good?

Which stores to purchase from?


So it’s been almost a year since I’ve gotten my fleshlight (got it in early July of last year) and I’ve lately been getting horizontal cuts on my penis that appear the next morning after using it the night before. This strangely only started happening this year, I wanna estimate like mid to late February. Anytime I used it before February everything was fine so I don’t know what’s changed.

I bought the fleshlight itself and some water based lube to use with it from AdamandEve.com. I thought it was probably friction burn but the last time I used it I put a lot of lube in it and I still had the cuts appear the next day. I haven’t done anything different than I did the first time I used it, does anyone have any idea what might be causing these cuts to happen? Do you have any idea how to stop it from happening?

I’ll try to answer any questions I’m comfortable with answering. Thanks in advance

I need help. My fleshlight has been hurting me and I have no idea why or what’s causing it.


\*TMI warning\*

Hi all,

I'm a 27 y.o. gay dude looking for a V-day sex toy for my boyfriend. He's also 27 and he ofc primarily bottoms. He's used to taking a big-sized pecker (lol.. for lack of better wording... sorry if this is tmi) and I was wondering if you guys would reccomend using [adamandeve.com](https://adamandeve.com) for products? Or what bout lovense for the bluetooth controlled vibrator?

Thanks

Recommendations for my boyfriend?


So I ordered the "Bloomgasm Rose" from Adamandeve.com.

I recieved the toy today, but I noticed the packaging was damaged. I took the toy out and it looks USED. I contacted customer support. The text conversation was so short that I could fit it all in one screenshot. I told the person that it looked used and all they had to say was "Would you like the product reshipped or refunded?"

NO THANK YOU, I'M OKAY, GOODNIGHT

Used toy from Adam&Eve


Hello everyone! I am looking to buy one or two new large silicon toys but I am having a hard time finding exactly what I'm looking for. I am trying to find a black silicone dildo that has 10-12in insertable length and approx. 2" insertable girth in the $20-50 range. I was also curious about a few monster-style silicone dildos I came across. The silicon options for these didn't hit the 10-12" insertable length goal either but they did have horse and knotted dildos which I was interested in (the max for the knot would be 2.75in but preferably slightly smaller).

Does anyone know of any reputable stores that sell toys with this approximate description and price range? If it helps, I can drop the links for what I have found below for reference. Most of what I found so far was on Amazon. Popular stores like LoveHoney and AdamandEve don't seem to carry these types of products. Located in the U.S. for shipping by the way. Thanks for any help you can offer!

Difficulty Finding Large Silicon Toys


Hi!

I’m in the market for new toys. Plugs/anal toys, and light bondage stuff (collars, leashes, cuffs, etc…). Which places online have good prices as well as decent quality items?

AdamandEve is okay, but it seems a bit limited.

Help shopping around


I'm a beginner with sex toys. I know the forum says 18+ but I really need help- I'm turning 18 next month, and for my birthday I planned on buying a dildo and a vibrator. One of my family members aware of this supported it but ordered the wrong things too early from AdamAndEve.Com, mainly an insertable vibe and a Blue Dolphin. The Blue dolphin was too big width-wise for me and I can't get a good clitoral orgasm with the vibe. I'm trying to fix this by getting a different dildo and vibe but NOTHING is helping me.
Firstly: The Blue Dolphin said it was 1.00 and a different one i'm looking at said 1.5
Is there a difference between 1.00 Inches and 1.5 Inches?
And Secondly: What dildo should I look for that's good for beginners?

Beginner here.