I bought a cheap not safe dildo almost a year ago (just now figuring out that not all of them are body safe. Of course i didn’t research 🤦♀) now learning that it’s not safe I’d like to find something that won’t harm me. I’d like something under 40$ but I’m not sure if that’s possible ( if it isn’t then I might just need to save up) I’d also like something very discrete as I still live with family. I was looking at some of pink cherry silicone but heard they might not be safe? Recommendations pls!

Affordable SAFE dildos


We just purchased the shane diesel dildo from pink cherry it was a mutual decision but it is a lot bigger than expected. My parter is 8 inches himself and we have seen his videos before i guess it's just bigger in person lol. I am just wondering if anyone has tried it themselves and how the experience was ?

Shane diesel


I want to get an app controlled wearable vibe (vagina) for <$100 (preferably cheaper). But idk where to find one, I’ve only found cheaper on pink cherry so far and that’s not a trustworthy site.

I’d rather avoid Amazon for ethical reasons but also bc the two times I’ve bought a sex toy from there it broke in a month

Long distance sex toy recs?


I just bought my first ever Grinding pad off Pink Cherry. I’m super excited! I got the Creature Cocks Hells Angel vibrating pad. I’m so excited I even paid for fast shipping 😂. It comes with a strap too so that’s even more exciting. What are some things you’ve strapped your grinding pads to? How do you like vibrating grinding pads?

I just made a new purchase!


Pink Cherry is having a huge sale this week and it ends today and I’ve been gradually adding to my cart all week.

I’ve ordered from them before and I feel like as long as I pay attention to descriptions and reviews, I’ve gotten good toys! (Although I will say I don’t like the Pink Cherry brand anal training set because the base is round and digs into my cheeks so a heads up for anyone shopping!)

I’m looking for any recommendations of things others may have ordered from Pink Cherry that you’ve liked! Mildly time sensitive as the sale ends in 15 hours 😉

My cart currently contains:
• clit and nipple pumps (I already have a few varieties but I wanted a pump with a hose and they’re pink! love it)
• few butt plugs in different sizes
• anal beads
• arousal balm (I LOVE their arousal balm), an impression paddle
• handcuffs (I have some other restraints but these are pink and were sooo cute!)
• 4-point nipple clamps with a  chain
• nipple clamps with an attached clit clamp

For context: I don’t really love wand vibrators (too strong for me imho) or bullet vibrators (always get overheated in my experience). Im looking for flavored lube recs for when I give my partner head. I already have sliquid cherry vanilla swirl.

I’m open to any other recs you all might have!

Thanks in advance and happy shopping 😉

Pink Cherry sale - iso recs?


Hi all! I just saw a mention of SilExD – otherwise known as SilExPan and  and it made me remember that I'd forgotten to post among much *stuff* in my life:

Adrien Lastic makes this stuff "SilExPan" sometimes called "SilExD" for their brands like Hitsens, and for a few other manufacturers (it's SilEx-D with a dash at Pink Cherry). They claim:

"Premium super soft silicone dildo with dual density SILEXPAN®: maximum sensation"

This sucks that they're calling this *stuff* "dual density silicone" when it's a thin layer of silicone with foam inside (also plastic). It's not super-soft *at all*, it's a firm density of silicone with elastomer "mystery meat material" inside. *If anyone has theories on what this material is, I would love to hear – see the pics below.

[Pic 1 - shiny head](https://phallophilereviews.com/wp-content/uploads/SilExD-or-SilExPan-1-oil.jpg)
[Pic 2 - cut open](https://phallophilereviews.com/wp-content/uploads/SilExD-or-SilExPan-5-foam-core-ends-above-suction-base.jpg)
[Pic 3 - thickness of silicone exterior](https://phallophilereviews.com/wp-content/uploads/SilExD-or-SilExPan-2-thin-layer-of-silicone.jpg)
[Pic 4 - plastic core](https://phallophilereviews.com/wp-content/uploads/SilExD-SilExPan-plastic-rod.jpg)
[Pic 5 - attempting to pull core out of sticky foamy, no luck](https://phallophilereviews.com/wp-content/uploads/SilExD-SilExPan-plastic-core.jpg)

Not only does it feel highly unrealistic, I'm now wondering whether the foam core components could be irritating to sensitive tissues, as they exude.

What happened: I got a box of SilExD/Pan dildos from Adrien Lastic about 3 years ago. I used a couple of the dildos once, and thought they felt fake and weird. So, they ended up in the upper shelf in my laundry room until I moved this spring. I was majorly decluttering – and when I reopened the Lastic box, I noticed this oily sheen all over one of the SilEx toys. Now, I know that even great super-soft silicones (SquarePegToys, Bad Dragon, many others) will get a little oily-feeling from the dimethicone that slowly exudes, it's like silicone lubricant. That's fine.

This felt different. Like... it's a stickier kind of oil, and it doesn't make sense that it would be seeping out of this silicone, which is a hard 30 A Shore durometer. (Super-soft silicones measure much lower on the A scale, like 0.5 or less. Higher number = harder.) Only soft silicones should have any oilyness; I've never seen a firm Shore dildo have that.

So out of curiosity, I pulled out a large knife, aiming to actually see what the "stuff inside" these toys is.

It's sticky foam, and the shaft's silicone is only 2mm thick (that's less than one-tenth of an inch). The foam stretches, and there's also a hard plastic tube partway through the shaft, not the full length but close.

The foamy stuff was so sticky, that I couldn't pull the plastic core out to examine it by itself (and I'm my houshold's jar-opener, lol), plus my hands felt gross after the attempt because of the sticky-tacky-ness.

Before leaving the SilExpan sitting around for years, I assumed it was just mediocre-feeling, but not-unsafe. But the oily seepage makes me wonder again – especially about how Lastic has told people that they can *microwave* ["Microwave for up to 30 seconds"!](https://adrienlastic.com/en/productos/hitsens-2/) these dildos. I'm just thinking about how microwave dinner containers always used to be made of plastic – "Microwave safe!" – until suddenly paper trays started replacing them as scientists realize that [nanoplastics are *apparently* even worse than microplastics, and *wait did you actually **heat up** that baby food container??* ](https://www.wired.com/story/for-the-love-of-god-stop-microwaving-plastic/).

I'm not saying that this kind of toy will be definitely harmful to any given person who uses one, just... the strange gummy foam is something to think about before buying a new one.

SilExD a.k.a. SilExPan - Cut Open! See the weird foamy insides.


I’ve been buying my sex toys from pink cherry and eBay so I’m pretty sure I’m not getting good quality.

What’s a good website to buy sex toys from?


My gf likes to be penetrated while I go down on her. I usually use a finger or two curled upward to hit her g spot, but I find my hand cramps and gets tired quite quickly. I was hoping someone might have a toy recommendation that would be good for this purpose.

Budget is flexible, prefer to stay under $100 CAD. I’m Canadian and usually order from Pink Cherry but open to other reputable vendors.

A dildo that’s easy to use while performing cunnilingus


Is Pink Cherry a legit site?
How’s customer service?
I was looking to replace my fave toy, a CalExotics rabbit. On the calexotics website, it’s almost $80, but only 45$ on Pink Cherry.  Is this site legit or will I get a cheap knockoff? (If I get anything 😂, will this be like wish?) I’m weary since it’s so cheap, but dang would love a deal on my fave rabbit.

Pink Cherry- legit? Discrete?


I have a few different butt plugs, I’m looking particularly for something with a base for longer wear that doesn’t dig into the cheeks and/or has a better contour almost like the thin T-shape? to fit between the cheeks such as the Unbound Nudge (top of my list of contenders right now but I’d love more recs from people with personal experience!!)

I currently use the Pink Cherry Anal Training Set and they have round flared bases and what I have found is that the discomfort when I’m seated isn’t from the plug itself but from the base sitting uncomfortably between my cheeks haha 😂

I’ve noticed the same thing with the cute little gem plugs.

For those who wear while going about their day, what plugs do you like?

iso most comfortable butt plugs 🤭


I just got a fleshlight from Pink Cherry, the Pipedream Extreme Fill My Tight Pussy. And honestly I'm not sure how to clean or take care of it. Any tips would be highly appreciated. And what cleaning products should I use?

How do I clean my fleshlight?


Hey everyone,

I’ve been thinking about getting my girlfriend the njoy Pure Wand, and I’d love some input from people who’ve used it or gifted it.

One of her favorite things is when I finger her and focus on her G-spot, it really gets her going, and can get her to the point of squirting often. She doesn’t use toys on herself much, but she absolutely loves it when I do it to her. That’s why I’m considering the Pure Wand as a gift, something we can explore together that really targets what she enjoys.

It would actually be her first penetration toy, so I want to make sure it’s a good experience. I’ve heard a ton of hype around the Pure Wand, and I’m curious if it lives up to it. If you’ve used it or something similar, I’d really appreciate hearing your thoughts.

Also, since she sometimes gets nervous about making a mess when she squirts, I thought about getting a waterproof blanket along with it. If anyone has recommendations that are effective but still feel nice, that would be awesome.

I usually shop on Pink Cherry and collect points there, but the Pure Wand is out of stock right now. They do have some curved stainless steel toys that look similar. Are those knockoffs any good? Or should I just bite the bullet and get the real deal from somewhere else?

Thanks a lot for any advice, just trying to make her feel amazing and give her a thoughtful gift that we’ll both enjoy.

Thinking about getting my girlfriend the njoy Pure Wand… talk me into it?


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Have you guys bought from Pink Cherry?


so im very new to sex toys and have no idea where to start. dildos seem interesting and i think getting one around the same size as my own dick could be fun (6 inches), so would that be an alright size to start out with or should i go smaller? bad dragon stuff also looks cool but should i try out a normal dildo first? (they look intimidating lol)

and wheres a good place to buy toys from in canada? so far I’ve only looked at pink cherry but idk if that's good or not

i would also appreciate any other toy recommendations!

18m, new to sex toys


Ordered 3 toys from pink cherry only to find out 2/3 are TPE. Both that are made out of tpe are anal toys, and one is tpe jelly which I was unaware was unsafe and after 2 uses has a not pleasant smell. I wash everything with soap and antibacterial toy cleaner every time.
Do I throw them out? Should I reach out to pink cherry to try to get my money back?

(If anyone has recommendations for trusted sites I would appreciate it🥲)

What do I do?


Hi I’m looking to get a dildo and I thought I found the one but now I’m having second thoughts.
I’m buying off of pink cherry because I got my vibrator there so I have reward points and I already know I like the company. I want one of the unicorn ones because they look pretty and I found one that had a lot of what I wanted (vibrates, suction base, works for straps, and looks pretty) but it’s a bit shorter than I was thinking (5.5 in). And now before I could buy it a found another that is cheaper and also has all of those features plus is longer (6.5) BUT I’m not a big fan of the shape. It goes from a normal sized base to kinda pointy while the first one is more dick shaped I would say.

So to a make a long story short should I go with the shorter, more expensive, but better shaped? Or the longer, cheaper, but pointy looking one.

Also how important is length?? Cause it’s only a one inch difference so will it change that much???

Which one?????


I was using the pink cherry vibrating sucker, but the suction stopped working properly after a few uses, it would only keep getting tighter and tighter, it wouldn't actually do any of the patterns.

Best BJ Simulating Toy


I ordered from pink cherry without doing research and after ordering all the reviews don’t seem the greatest. What are peoples opinions. I ordered 250+ worth of stuff.

Pink cherry reviews?


Just got a vibrator made of abs hard plastic and it has white powder on it. The powder comes off easily when I scratch it with my nail. The powder is mostly concentrated on the seams of the plastic. This toy is from pink cherry. Is this safe?? What is it??

Just got a vibrator and it has white powder on it


For over a year now me and my partner have discussed trying a controlled vibrator to wear out in public so I impulsively chose to buy some things off pink cherry for public play got some nipple suckers and a arousal balm but Im mostly excited for the Vic neo because I heard it's good for both genitalia's and I keep on seeing very mixed reviews with The app that is supposed to be the controller and the main reason I bought this toy was for the control so I just want to know anyone's experiences with the toy and or the app

Has anyone tried the Vick Neo Prostate Massager and the app by SVAKOM???


Hi! This is embarrassing, but I brought this anal plug set for beginners on pink cherry and even the smallest one they had was TOO big for me despite a bunch of lube, and it's frustrating! The best I can do is fit a finger 😅 Maybe because I'm a short guy

I was thinking a slimmer anal plug (would love it if it can be vibrating, but not required), or an anal dildo would be easier to start, but I'm having trouble finding some decent sizes, any recommendations? Thanks

Looking for a vibrating anal plug/slimmer dildo for beginners


What are your thoughts on this wand in terms of rulbliness?

I saw a couple reviews that it came with 2 attachments , but I’m not seeing that on pink cherry or we vibe website .

I’d like to stick to we vibe if possible because they have a good warranty.

Any reviews welcome.  Thanks

We vibe wand 2


i received a broken toy i paid $80 for today and after leaving a review detailing the broken features and confirming my email i was immediately logged out of my account and my login no longer worked. so beyond frustrated right now.

pink cherry just deleted my account for leaving a one star review


Hii, so I bought this bullet vibrator on pink cherry and it’s not working. It uses LR44 batteries and I put them inside and it’s not turning on. Helppp plsss

https://www.pinkcherry.ca/products/three-speed-bullet-vibe-foil-pack-3 its this one

Bullet vib won’t work


My husband and I want to get a few toys to arrive by Thur (in 4 days) before we go out of town for a kid free weekend.

Who ships fastest? I tried Love honey before Christmas and they were very slow. (I will NOT order toys on Amazon.)

Pink Cherry was faster, but not that fast I don't think.

Thanks for recommendations!

Who ships fastest in US?


Hey everyone :) have been looking around online for online stores that are reputable and decent quality (that also ship to Canada) anyone have any suggestions? I’ve been looking at pink cherry/adameve but I’ve heard mixed reviews on both..

Reputable online stores?!


I was on pink cherry to make my first purchase. I searched for “platinum cured” and this was the only item I was shown so I assumed it was what they had. Only later did i realize that pink cherry has many other more trustworthy brands that are also platinum cured.

Here is the dildo:  https://www.pinkcherry.com/products/dillio-platinum-slim-seven-dildo-1?_pos=1&_sid=f2e5e69a1&_ss=r

It is difficult to find reviews on the platinum series. However, people say it is very flexible and soft on the pink cherry reviews. I don’t know if that is normal for platinum silicone.

 Would you trust their Dillio Platinum or king cock elite products to really be high quality platinum cured silicone?

“Dillio Platinum Cured” dildos,  are they platinum silicone, or are they fake/unsafe?


I ordered a prostate massager from the brand Cal Exotics. I am thinking about calling Pink Cherry to cancel the order so I can buy a higher quality product. The description says “phthalate free” and “body safe” but it does not mention anything else. I want to be cautious. Is the cal exotics silicone inert? Can silicone be inert and or safe even if it is not platinum cured? Any opinions or education would be greatly appreciated!

Is platinum cured silicone the only truly safe silicone?


I’m in a relationship and we are looking to find a good site where we can buy good reliable cheap sex toys lingerie and other type of things sex related we live in the US I heard about pink cherry but figured come here to see if that was a good website or if there was a better one. I don’t know any other websites besides pink cherry so please let me know if there are better websites that fit what we are looking for thank you

Website for buying


Me and my wife have starting to build a collection of toys and she was wanting a thicker dildo. I bought on the pink cherry Black Friday sale and didn’t read the fine print of the dimensions.

This thing is huge

It’s probably 4 inches wide and 10 long.

What do I do with it? Pink cherry doesn’t do returns and I’m not sure how to sale it

Did I just burn $50?

Accidentally bought a massive dildo


The website is saying stuff about the Canada post strike but does it mean they can’t ship here at all rn?

Also, I keep seeing a lot of hate for Pink Cherry which always gets me freaked out because I order from there a lot since it’s so cheap and ships free to Canada. No other site I have found is the same and the quality is always great or at least good. Sure some of the stuff has been not that great but I blame that more on the product/brand I got it from rather than the site. Do they sell bootleg stuff? I’ve never noticed anything looking weird about the stuff I’ve bought. I really want to get some more creature cocks and they are most affordable on Pink Cherry but every time I come on here people are saying how awful it is and I get freaked out all over again lmao. My stuff has always come early, I’ve never needed customer support because things are usually fine. I have heard they delete bad reviews but I have seen a few here and there but I am gonna start looking outside of the site for more clear reviews just in case. Idk. I’m literally so confused lmao. I have had such a different experience than most people and I don’t understand how lmaoooo

Pink Cherry Canadian shipping?


I know this is a touchy subject, but the US republicans are trying to ban porn and shut down all sites related to porn. This has to do with Project 2025.

If this happens, will this include sites like Lovehoney and Pink Cherry that sell sex toys that are not shaped in the form of nudity?

I cannot find any sources online about this topic.

Is there a possibility that sex toys could be banned in the USA in the near future because of Project 2025?


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Vibratex wand from pink cherry website


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Vibratex magic wand from pink cherry


Pink cherry is running a sale and they have a bloom rose wand mini. I wanna try but it has zero reviews and was wondering if anyone has tried it it knows about it.

Bloomgasm rose silicone wand (not suction)

Does anyone have the rose wand vibrator?


Alright I’ve ordered like 4 different rose toys from like Adam and Eve one from pink cherry and another from love honey and all have either quit on me, aren’t powerful, or just didn’t work upon arrival. So where is everyone getting the high quality rose auction toys? It’s my favorite one and I need to replace it desperately 😩

Best rose suction toy


Is Pink Cherry an ok company to shop with? They seem to have the cheapest price by far on the Magic Wand.

Pink Cherry


Need help picking one! I’m looking to purchase from pink cherry because I’ve had luck with them in the past and they have good sales.

Which would you recommend? I have tried vibration ones of clit and the suction kind… I prefer suctions but idk how it’d work on a dual thing in terms of my body shape and fit.

G spot + clit vibrators


I'm from Canada and I'm looking to buy for the first time.

I was eyeing Lovehoney but I'm too stressed about customs (i've been burn in the past lol) and Pink Cherry doesn't look like the quality I'm looking for? I need something that will definitely last and not break because of how complicated it is when I order (i live pretty rural).

I stumbled across the Nox shop (https://shopnox.com) and it would seem to fit what i want? But there's very little reviews so I was wondering if anyone had ordered from them and how was shipping etc

(also if it's normal that like 40% of their stuff is "sold out" (yet no review)

P.S: it's my first reddit post so I'm not sure if I'm supposed to close with something lmao?

Thank you in advance (?)

Nox shop (Montreal)


*Background info that may or may not be relevant:* Okay so *years* ago I purchased a few vibratos from Lovehoney – 2 simple classic vibrators (one nice-ish, and one cheaper which was way too buzzy), and 1 targeted clit vibe. I never really used the classic vibes, but I loved the clit vibe. Unfortunately my clit vibe finally died on me, and I figured it's time to replace not just the clit vibe, but also rebuild/expand my collection.

Since I love clit stimulation and know I love it more targeted, I purchased the We-Vibe Tango X and the Melt (I want to try an air suction toy and people rave about that one). I also got the We-Vibe Jive 2 because my husband wants to have fun in public. I just purchased these so I haven't had a chance to try them out yet.

The last thing I need to get is a G-Spot vibe. Like I said, I had some simple classic vibes, but have yet to experience a G-Spot vibe. I know the Jive 2 is a G-Spot vibe, but I want something for the bedroom. I've narrowed it down to the We-Vibe Rave 2 and Pillow Talk Sassy. (Also considering the Hot Octopuss Krave).

Here's why I'm indecisive.

1. The price. Pink Cherry is having a massive fall sale where I can get the Rave 2 at what seems to be an incredible price at $77 (after taxes) opposed to $130. The Pillow Talk, not on Pink Cherry, is about $55.
2. I'm super intrigued by the Rave 2's asymmetrical motion and the uniqueness of twisting rather than thrusting, but since I've never experienced a G-Spot vibe, I'm leaning towards the classic shape and thrusting of the Sassy.
3. People say that the Sassy is more rumbly than the Rave 2, which seems better, but I can't imagine it's that much of a difference.
4. Sassy seems to be more flexible than the Rave 2. I'm really not sure which I would like more. So insight on that would be helpful.

So it basically boils down to if the extra $22 for the Rave 2 is worth it and I should take advantage of the sale, or if I should just get the Sassy because it seems like such a classic/staple in any collection.

Another vibe I'm considering is the Hot Octopuss Krave. It's just a little more expensive, and people seem to like it, so if it's better than the others, I consider it to be worth it.

Any other suggestions are welcome too! :)

Best G-Spot Vibe: We-Vibe Rave 2 vs Pillow Talk Sassy


I own the satisfyer 2 so I'm not even sure if I should get a rose toy. They surearr on sale though so if you have tried it and think it's better or you tried the 2 brands listed above please let me know what you think.

Pink cherry rose or romp rose "sucker"?


I've been on the website a few times and I'm not sure how reliable they are. They're always having sales/discounts which is neat. Just wanted some opinions

Opinions on the toy shop pink cherry?


Im planning on ordering my first toy, problem is my parents have informed delivery from usps. I notice a lot of places use usps for shipping and based off me researching, places sometimes still show up as the base company name on informed delivery and not their discrete name on they put on the box or billing. Also it’s difficult even really finding a concrete answer from these specific places while I was looking things up.

I don’t really know where I’m going to order from either yet, but it’s most likely going to be pink cherry or last resort adam and eve because of budget reasons. Does anyone know if you ordered from those companies and have informed delivery what specifically they put for those companies as the company name on informed delivery?

I also have no access to a PO box or anything to get it shipped somewhere else to pick up. So it kinda needs to get it shipped here. Just praying it doesn’t say specifically pink cherry or adam and eve on informed delivery. My parents wont open the package or even question me if they knew. Just personally for my comfort id rather them not know at all if they got curious seeing something on informed delivery.

Informed Delivery Discretion


Hello, I’m a timid (19F) and I’ve been searching for a beginner safe and friendly toy. My budget is about 30 dollars so consequently I’ve been having to explore the cheaper side of sex toys. Lately I’ve been looking websites like - Adam & Eve and Pink Cherry but they’re past my budget from what I’ve seen at least. I know some women order from Amazon as well so I found a toy that strikes my interest but I don’t know if it’s as safe as it says. As I stated - I’m a beginner. I don’t know what exactly to watch out for besides it being non-porous and having a legitimate provider.

https://a.co/d/4BbeRDr

(Amazon Link)

Is This Product Safe/Reliable? Please Help!


Does anyone recognize [this](https://imgur.com/a/YBR4B5V) toy? I got it as a free gift when I did an order earlier this year. It quickly became my favorite but it's now broken. I learned to gush with this one and I'm very sad!

It it mildly flexible, has a button to turn it on and adjust vibration settings, and vibrates both bulbs.

I thought I'd gotten it from either Pink Cherry or Lovehoney but can't find it on either site yet.

Where did I get this toy?! It was my favorite and I'm dying to find it again.


I’m going to order off Pink Cherry but unsure what to get. The only toy I’ve ever used was a small bullet vibe my boyfriend bought from the drugstore.
So far my two top options are “the wild ride with power boost” dildo or the “pinkcherry rose vibrator 2.0”
I realize both are different from each other but I want to get just one to start. Posting here cause I’m looking for reviews and/or recommendations to other products (nothing over 7 inches tho…)

Buying first toy


Just bought a We-vibe Touch X for almost half off with the promo code "fall". Been reading here and gained so much in my decision on what to buy....had to tell you.

Pink Cherry has a great sale - 40%+ off


Question for you guys, I currently have a Palm Power extreme, and love it, it is absolutely incredible, the vibrations are perfect for me it's just amazing. But I am looking for another vibe and I am looking for one that specifically has a very soft head, on pink Cherry they currently have Le Wand Petite Massager in Rose Gold, for like 99 bucks and it looks like it has an extremely soft nice head, I'm just wondering if anyone has any experience with it, or something else that you can recommend thank you in advance.

Looking at a new vibe.


Incidentally the best lube I've tried is Pink Cherry's house brand water based.

The thing is I don't have $60 I want to spend and $10 shipping is a lot for a bottle or two of lube. Especially when I want something I can reorder regularly.

The qualities I like / how it compares to others:

* Takes a really long time to dry out so works well for handjobs, very rare for water based imo
* Medium thickness, comparatively Astroglide X silicone soaks into the skin too much and too fast, lubelife is too watery, coconut oil / hemp oil also soak in and don't feel like they glide as well for some reason
* Really easy cleanup
* Toy safe
* virtually no taste (though this is less important)
* Affordable

I haven't tried too many water based lubes but from what I have they're nothing like it.

Anyone tried this or know something that might be similar?

Water based lube like Pink Cherry Lube? (shipping is crazy there)


Hey y’all,

Pink cherry sent me some arousal balm complimentary due to a purchase that exceeded some amount of dollars.

Is this thing safe to use, and how is it used if so?

Photo: https://imgur.com/a/JM4v4Z2

Arousal Balm - safe??


Does pink cherry.com except vanilla prepaid card


Looking forward for something similar to this, preferably available in pink cherry since I’ve bought from them a few times, and something that isn’t super loud and is discrete:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D2KWY916/ref=cm_sw_r_as_gl_api_gl_i_SQ3KD2SVD8BXDDMQM7B0?linkCode=ml1&tag=spicykneecaps-20

Not necessarily exactly like this, but just a holdable male masturbator and a similar concept. I’m assuming the example that I’ve shared isn’t very good quality to be fair.

I have a handy but it really doesn’t work well for me.

 Thanks!

Anything like this that I can buy in Canada?


Pink cherry keeps using a carrier that cannot deliver try to me, so I’m done with them, too annoying. Last time I ordered from love honey Canada I had to pay customs, so I never ordered from them again. Anyone know if they’re still charging Canadians customs?

Does love honey CANADA still charge customs fees?


Has anyone on here ever ordered from Pink Cherry? How are their toys? They’re running a good sale right now which is why I’m wondering haha

Pink Cherry


Me and my girlfriend are wanting to spice things up in the bedroom and I am wonder what is the best website to order from that is cheepish and still good quality. I was looking at pink cherry but their prices seem to good to be true.

Best affordable company?


I have ordered toys from Pink Cherry a couple of times now, and it seems that their toys are permanently on sale. It always seems to be the same amount, too. 80% off clearance and 40% everything else. I remember making my first order in January. It was their New Year’s sale, and I managed to get the Magic Wand rechargeable for $80 instead of $150 like it would be from other sites, and I got a vibrating butt plug/panties set for $5 when the regular price was $120.

I ordered again in May, and the sale was advertised as their Spring Savings Sale, and when I was browsing their website earlier looking for a thrusting anal toy, they had the same sale going on again except now it’s called “Black Friday in July”. That’s not even a thing. It doesn’t make sense to me how they are able to sell these toys at such a loss, and seemingly year round. I have consistently gotten over half off all of my orders from them using their promo codes, and while I’m not complaining, it just doesn’t make sense from a business standpoint.

Does Pink Cherry always have a sale going on?


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Is pink cherry trust worthy?


I ordered 2 dildos from pink cherry (I’m Canadian), the 7 inch king cock says made of PVC, the other says silicone and also Phthalate Free but I was reading that doesn’t guarantee it is.

Can someone please help me out?

If these are both unsafe, can I not open the box and send them back? They were quite a bit of $$.

Also realized my current dildos are all gummy and sticky so probably not good… I had no idea.

If these aren’t good, can I be recommended a realistic dildo that’s body safe and one in 7 and 8 inches?

https://www.pinkcherry.ca/products/colours-thin-pleasures-8-silicone-dildo-in-purple?_pos=24&_fid=b6ad6cc92&_ss=c

https://www.pinkcherry.ca/products/king-cock-7-dildo-in-flesh?_pos=7&_sid=7a2795a85&_ss=r

Was just informed about body safe material and now I’m worried.


i used to have a lovense toy (Lush 3)  & it malfunctioned, I'm looking into potentially giving other shops a try like Adam & eve, boutique bellesa, pink cherry, pleasure better as options. I loved Lush 3! main interest long distance toys, suction / thrusting type of toys! ( Debating on Boutique Bellesa)

any suggestions besides lovense? Lush 3 broke


For the last decade, air pulse toys have been the new darlings of the sex toy world.

For a trans man, the prospect of a toy providing a “blowjob experience” was supremely enticing. However, trying to find an air pulse toy that would fit meant running into the same problem over and over again: after being on testosterone for a few years, which toys would fit my bits?

There was also the issue of dysphoria: which toys would be the most gender-neutral in design, so as to not make anyone feel dysphoric?

So upon hearing of my plight, I was generously sent a few toys by Shevibe to test and compare!

**Ratings will be on:**

1. Power + Function
2. Sound
3. Aesthetic
4. Fit + Use
5. Trans Specific Concerns

Let’s get started!

# [Womanizer Classic 2](https://tabooless.net/toys/gender-expression/trans-mens-toys/best-air-pulse-toys-for-trans-men/#Womanizer_Classic_2) - Best Air-Pulse toy for smaller / pre-T bits

# Power + Function: 4/5

This thing is powerful. It’s more of a thuddy kind of air pressure, but wonderful. It reminds me of a motorcycle or a tiny little sonic boom.

Unlike the Satisfyers that include both vibration and air-pulsation technology, the Classic only uses air-pulses to get you off. This isn’t terrible, I find them sufficient, but having the option to really take this solo-love-fest to another level would have been appreciated.

# Sound: 5/5

It’s very quiet! If you have roommates, a quiet toy can make solo sex so much more enjoyable. I don’t want to have the entire household aware of how long I’m enjoying myself for. Also, anyone who’s brought sex toys into the shared bedroom can attest: there’s nothing quite like a sex toy screaming loudly to break up the sensual vibe. RRRRRRRGH! No thank you.

The Classic is quiet! At the lowest level, it’s only 50 decibels and at the highest level, it’s 75 decibels.

# Aesthetic: 3/5

The Classic’s look doesn’t thrill me. There’s nothing wrong with it! It just doesn’t excite me. With its matte purple plastic body and matching silicone head, it leans a bit clinical or cosmetic. It reminds me of pore-sucking tools from the mid-2000s, and for some people, that’s exactly what they’re into. (I see you, you little pore cleaning freaks, you!)

Having said that, if you had the Classic on your bedside table, very few people would immediately recognize it as a sex toy.

# Fit + Use: 3/5

The nozzle opening fits between an AAA battery with a little room.

I’ve been on testosterone for almost three and a half years, and it’s changed my body. As I’ve previously mentioned, being on testosterone causes your clit to grow and become bigger so lots of clit-focused sex toys just simply don’t fit.

The Classic, sadly, doesn’t fit. Looking at the nozzle, I wasn’t totally surprised by this fact, especially since it’s not as deep as the others on the list. It comes with two nozzle sizes, but they’re not even the biggest-sized nozzles that Womanizer creates.

Having said all that, the Classic still works. I know, I was surprised too! It also packs a real punch, and somehow manages to actually be enjoyable even though I wasn’t able to actually fit my entire clit into the nozzle.

The shape of the toy will also allow for some comfortable use if you use it with a partner which was an unexpected bonus.

# Trans Specific Concerns

Oof, where do I start?

The name is a *problem*. I mean, a capital P problem. It’s the reason why many people, cis women included, have told me they avoid trying one of these toys. The name just sounds like the fevered sex dreams of a sleazy club owner who decided to make a toy for vulvas and named it after his personal email address.

The aesthetics of the packaging of the Classic 1 were… well, they were very feminine. Heck, there was photos of a woman’s face on it and it looked more like branding for women’s yoga clothes than toy packaging. But for the Womanizer 2, it looks like they walked that back and are now offering a more gender-neutral packaging! So at least it seems like they're listening to our concerns!

# CONCLUSION

This toy is for you if:

* The company name doesn’t bother you.
* Your clit or bottom growth is on the smaller side.
* You want a quiet toy.

# [We-Vibe's Melt](https://tabooless.net/toys/gender-expression/trans-mens-toys/best-air-pulse-toys-for-trans-men/#We-Vibe8217s_Melt) - Most suction & power for smaller / pre-T bits

# Power + Function: 5/5

This is a powerful little toy. It’s thuddy, and reaches levels of intensity that surprised me.

Unlike the Satisfyer Pret-a-Porter or the Curvy 1+, this toy is *only* air pulse stimulation. If you’re going to be dropping money on the Melt, I would recommend being certain that air pulses are something that can get you off.

The Melt also connects to a smartphone app, and can connect to another smartphone anywhere in the world! I absolutely adore smartphone-powered sex toys; even if I’m not playing with another partner, the apps offer so much customization to my experience. You can even have the toy vibrate to the music of your choice! (Can you Rick Roll your pussy? Just asking for a friend.)

# Sound: 5/5

It’s a quiet toy, quieter than most of the other toys on the list between 50-80 decibels. Your roommates won’t be able to hear it, and it won’t be distracting during a hot hookup.

# Aesthetic: 3/5

Look, I know… it’s pink. So many sex toys marketed towards vulvas are freakin’ *pink* and this one doesn’t break that mold. Personally, pink is a favorite color of mine but as a trans man, having another “pink is for vulvas” toy is a bit of a downer.

Now, for the sculpt and shape… I’m a big We-Vibe fan, so I adore the soft squishy silicone covering. I love the kind of odd, approachable, and organic shape it is. However, not everyone agrees. When I showed this toy to a play partner, she wasn’t impressed and wrinkled her nose at it.

“Ew,” she typed back, “It looks like a slug. Why would anyone want that near their genitals?”

I emphasized that the shape was supposed to make it more friendly to use with a partner, especially if the person using the Melt was being penetrated face-to-face. The shape fits between two bodies comfortably, but she was so squicked out by how slug-like it looked that she wanted nothing to do with it.

That is… until she tried it.

# Fit + Use: 1/5

The nozzle opening fits an AAA battery… snugly.

Do you have hipsters where you live? Specifically, those artsy hipsters who insist on wearing beanies that stay effortlessly on their head without covering their ears and kind rest on the crown of their head?

Well, that’s how the Melt fit me... and by “fit”, I mean not at all.

I got so frustrated that I asked my playmate to try it out on herself to see if I was just failing at masturbation. As I mentioned earlier, she wasn’t a fan of the shape of the toy and was skeptical that the nozzle would be big enough fit her clit at all. I was watching as she was trying to match her body up to best fit the toy, and could audibly hear when it was suddenly working.

She tried it solo and was breathless. She tried it while partnered, and was breathless.

“It took a while to figure out,” she replied afterward, still slightly panting, “It’s unique! I’ve never had such strong orgasms from a toy that isn’t a magic wand, and even then… it’s completely different.”

# Trans Specific Concerns

The overall look of the toy isn’t the most neutral or masculine, so some trans masc or trans men might find that too dysphoria-inducing. In contrast, the packaging is strangely the best one of the bunch in that regard.

The size and angle of the nozzle is a bit odd, especially if you’ve had any kind of bottom growth. I was hoping the squishy silicone would stretch, but it failed to hit any of my good spots.

# CONCLUSION

This toy is for you if:

* You have a small clitorus.
* You want a toy that you can use while fucking your partner face to face!
* You like cute toys and don't mind it not being so gender-neutral.

# [Lelo Sila](https://tabooless.net/toys/gender-expression/trans-mens-toys/best-air-pulse-toys-for-trans-men/#Lelo_Sila) - High-end Air-Pulse toy for medium to large bits

# Power + Function: 4/5

The Sila is a thuddy toy, which can be a bit rare with air-pulse toys. When it turns on, it immediately grabs my attention, despite not having as much power as I would have liked. The Sila gets to a 7.5. It’s great, and I love it but it feels like I want more of it.  It feels like going to a tapas restaurant, getting incredible food but knowing you could easily eat seven more plates of mini quiches.

The model fits nicely in my hand without sliding around or giving me a wrist cramp. Though the shiny metal sides are unbelievably smooth and are nearly dangerous when wet. When I first tested it, I held it by the sides and it would shoot out of my palm like a rocket!

A small but major innovation to the wave of air-pulse toys is that the Sila has a bit of a lip around the nozzle. It’s a big deal! The clitorus isn’t just what we can see on the surface, there are also two “legs” that run down the sides of the vulva. I didn’t even realize how much I was missing until I tried that. It provides a more rumbly precise sensation similar to my We-Vibe Tango bullet but with the innovation of an air pulse toy.

# Sound: 5/5

When the toy is pressed against your body, it’s a whisper-quiet toy. It becomes a bit more obvious if it no longer is on your skin, but not terribly so. As far as decibels go, it was in the 60-70 range!

# Aesthetic: 5/5

This toy looks like a fancy skincare device, in the best way possible. With its bright and juicy aqua color, paired with the unreal gold shiny accents, it’s the definition of eye candy. It’s a roguish and dashing noble, looking to whisk me away on an adventure of a lifetime (or at least a satisfying afternoon break).

I adore the color, I love that the silicone feels sturdy, and I adore that it doesn’t wobble around awkwardly on my nightstand when I’m done with it.

# Fit + Use: 4.5/5

This one fits a AA battery with room to spare!

This has become one of my usual suspects. I keep it on my nightstand constantly because it is just so damn effective and reliable. It’s a real treat!

Only issue: the nozzle size isn’t deep enough for my anatomy and I’m not packing anything impressive.

If it was only a bit deeper!

The buttons were a bit tricky to adjust while in use but pale in comparison to what is offered in terms of pleasure.

# Trans Specific Concerns

Like I mentioned above, the depth of the nozzle might be a concern. If you’ve been blessed by genetics and the patron saints of transition with a larger clitorus, you have my respect and also a word of caution: this might be a bit too short for you, sadly.

If you don’t mind that, or really enjoy the focus around the head of the glans, this is an opulent jewel for your genitals.

# CONCLUSION

This toy is for you if:

* You like exquisite design
* Dig deep rumbly vibrations
* You got that girth!
* Don't mind nozzle depth that is on the shallow side

# [Satisfyer Curvy 1+](https://tabooless.net/toys/gender-expression/trans-mens-toys/best-air-pulse-toys-for-trans-men/#Satisfyer_Curvy_1) - Best air-pulse toy overall for larger bits

# Power + Function: 5/5

Much like Christina Aguilera, this toy has *range*. It can go from a soft tickle that captures your attention, to a fast burst of pulsations that make your crotch feel like a rocket ship. Zoom!

Much like the Pret-a-Porter, the vibrations from the Curvy 1+ are buzzier than I usually prefer but in combination with the thuddy air pulsations and I barely notice it.

The real cherry on top is the Satisfyer smartphone app. It’s absolutely ingenious. You can download different vibration/pulsation patterns uploaded by other users or create your own. You can connect it to your music library (including Spotify!), or have it listen to the ambient noise around you and vibrate to those sounds.

To add to the app’s experience, connecting with a partner is a real dream. Not only can you have your partner control the app from a distance, but you can also video chat with them as you virtually fool around with each other. Fun fact: the app stops any screenshots from being taken while video chatting!

# Sound: 5/5

This is a shocking quiet toy. Even at the highest setting, the toy was only around 80 decibels. It gets much quieter when pressed against a body, so it’s ideal for someone who wants an effective but stealthy toy.

# Aesthetic: 5/5

This toy comes in either white or a rich merlot burgundy color. What a refreshing choice! I got it in red, and it coincidentally matches [my favorite harness from Aslan](https://shevibe.com/aslan-jaguar-harness-cherry.aspx?rfsn=4818118.b415048). It looks approachable, yet unquestionably sexy. It’s definitely the hotter gothy cousin of the bunch!

# Fit + Use: 5/5

The nozzle fits an AA battery with a little room to spare.

It *fits!* Not only does it fit my clit in its entirety, but the nozzle has a swirly texture. When properly lubed up, the toy feels *so* good. Normally I lust after the exciting textures available for people with dicks, especially from Tenga toys. The Curvy 1+ makes me feel like I’m finally getting some fun texture. Finally!

After getting myself off solo, I wanted to try this toy paired up with partnered sex. I’m someone who has a lot of trouble climaxing with partners, hence why I always gravitated towards using battery-powered toys.

Using this toy with a partner felt like being a porn star; it was so incredibly fast, and powerful that I felt like I was having some kind of out-of-body experience. I was tensing up so much that my jaw hurt from clenching so hard!

# Trans Specific Concerns

This toy has very few concerns for me with regards to being a trans man. The box wasn’t the most gender-neutral like the We-Vibe Melt but wasn’t specifically screaming “HELLO I AM FOR CIS WOMEN” either.

Overall, it actually gave me bits of gender euphoria from the feeling of being able to penetrate a motorized toy with my bits. So far, it’s been the toy I’ve reached most for.

# CONCLUSION

This toy is for you if:

* You would benefit from largest nozzle of any air pulse toy on the market currently.
* You’re someone with moderate bottom growth.
* You’re not someone whose girth is larger than an AA battery as this toy will be too firm to accommodate you.

# [Womanizer Next](https://tabooless.net/toys/gender-expression/trans-mens-toys/best-air-pulse-toys-for-trans-men/#Womanizer_Next) - Most performance and feature-rich toy for medium to small bits

# Power + Function: 5/5

The Next is so thumpy and rumbly that the strongest setting feels like gently sparring with one of those punching mantis shrimp. I know! I’m sorry, it’s a weird visual but it is so shockingly powerful that I have a hard time comparing it to other airpulse toys I’ve tried. Nothing compares!

Are you someone who hates vibrators with patterns, but still wants something a little different? It features a “climax control”, meaning it feels as close to having a pattern without being as predictable (and eventually boring). It takes you as close to the edge before switching up the speed or power just enough to feel teasing and stay satisfying!

# Sound: 5/5

The Womanizer Next is such a gloriously silent toy I can’t help but be incredibly grateful.

There’s even a “Smart Silence” setting brought over from their Womanizer Premium, where the toy will go on standby mode if you stop pressing it against your body. How cool is that?

# Aesthetic: 5/5

I love how this toy looks. The matte black silicone is sleek enough to feel luxurious while still being approachable.

I forgot I left it in my bathroom while the superintendent was checking an issue, but didn’t worry about him immediately recognizing it as a sex toy. It looked like a high-end health device, or a pore cleaning tool.

# Fit + Use: 3.5/5

This is a tough rating to give. The fit is an issue; the Womanizer Next only comes in the small and medium Stimulator Head (the nozzle) and it just really didn’t fit for my body. We hit them up about this issue and they’ve said they’re working on a large nozzle. So those who are packing will have to wait and see on this one!

I don’t want to brag! It sadly just doesn’t fit. After a few years on testosterone, my body has changed in ways that I hadn’t anticipated. Simply put, I would need a much larger hole (similar to the Satisfyer Curvy) to really take full advantage of such a fantastic toy.

Regardless, I was able to use the Next by moving the Stimulator Head around until I found a spot that worked (even if I didn’t quite fit entirely).

# Trans Specific Concerns

Despite having a less than trans-friendly name, the box it comes in is gender-neutral; it doesn’t look like an “exclusively cis woman” toy from the packaging design alone. That’s a plus in my book!

Overall this is an incredible toy, it’s become my go-to toy over all others. Reliable, waterproof, quiet, and powerful… the only downside is the lack of large Stimulator Heads, so if you’re well endowed or have been on hormones for a few years you might not be able to properly use this toy until they release larger extra nozzles.

# CONCLUSION

This toy is for you if:

* You're looking for the best performance and most feature-rich toy possible!
* You are medium to small size, this toy will fit you perfectly. Otherwise, you will have to either work around it or wait for them to release a large nozzle.
* You live in an apartment, this toy is so quiet you’ll only have to worry about your own noises!

**This is essentially a Tl;dr of the** [**original article**](https://tabooless.net/toys/gender-expression/trans-mens-toys/best-air-pulse-toys-for-trans-men/)**. So head on there** **for a more in-depth review with pictures, size comparisons, links, and all that good stuff!**

A Trans Man's Search for the Best Air-Pulse / Blowjob Toys


Heya,

So I'm hearing an awful lot of positive stuff about the massager mentioned above. However, I live in Europe and they only do business in Canada/US. Anyone know of a way to get it shipped to Europe? I don't really mind extra costs, just don't know the route to have it shipped here.

Cheers!

Pink cherry 'That's the spot' international shipping question


Anyone out there know which charging cable this toy needs? We just moved and I lost the cable to charge it, but the only thing it says is DC by charger port.

Pink Cherry “From a Distance” Charger Cord


Looking for a realistic silicone dildo for pegging that has the least amount of drag. Have a number of silicone dildos already and some that aren't. Found the best ones to be the real cocks self-lubricating dildo, Tantus dildos, and pink cherry's lucky dick dildo: however, found these all to have too much drag - even with different lubes like xlube, jlube, ID glide, KYjelly, coconut oil, etc.

From what I am reading here, I am thinking the:
1. Vixskin Goodfella (expensive option)
2. Neo Elite Dual Density (cheap option)

Anyone have experience with these for pegging / anal? If so, how is the drag/glide and what lube did you use?
Any other suggestions?

Thanks in advance :)

Realistic Dildo for Pegging - No Drag


I really enjoy a plain old stroker/pocket pussy toy, such as [this one](https://www.pinkcherry.com/products/royce-crystal-masturbator-2), but they always end up stretching out, then ripping or tearing after a few weeks of use. I'd love to just buy one and have it last - are there any specific materials or designs that are more durable? I can live with it stretching out a bit, but I want to avoid tears and rips. TIA

Male stroker/pocket pussy toy that actually lasts?


Was sent a defective product, that was not fit for use, and their AI's response was to refund 50% of my money. It asked if I was satisfied, and I said no. Secondary messages to them went ignored. Now I'm stuck with a defective toy, and out $45 of my hard earned money.

DO NOT BUY FROM PINK CHERRY.

Do NOT buy from Pink Cherry


I keep drowning my toys and breaking them. I just got a brand new satisfyer 2 because the company has a 5 year warranty but I don't wanna break it again. I know things are generally water resistant but they say they're safe for the bath. I just broke my pink cherry gspot vibe and I'm so sad.
Looking for clit stimulation thanks!

Waterproof toy recommendations?


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Anyone use a rose vibrator (pinkcherry) or something similar? Can't seem to charge mine and it's frustrating me. Please help


Hi, me and my partner recently ordered some stuff from Pinkcherry, and we were wondering if their “enhance climax cream” can be used on a penis/AMAB individuals.

It says on the tube that you apply it to the clit and rub for a minute or two, but we can’t find anything online or on the product regarding use of it on AMAB people.

Advice and opinions appreciated! Thank you!

Can sexual stimulant clitoral cream be used on AMAB?


So I recently bought a dildo for myself to try out anal for myself for the first time and some lube. (I’m not sure this is the right flair) I got the merge, pink please dildo (it’s silicone based) from Pinkcherry and some water based lube. Should I have gotten a different type of lube for using it?
I’ve seen some posts around here about how water based lube doesint last very long so I’m a little worried 😦

A question about lube


So i am looking for adult toys online, and i came across a couple of sites like a & e or like amazon, pinkcherry, etc. but i’m a little lost because they all have some bad reviews. I don’t know where to buy from because it seems what ever website i check it doesn’t have the greatest reviews. i’m a male looking for packaging that is discreet and is affordable. I just need to know if it is safe/good or maybe someone can give me some better sites.

Where to buy adult toys


Hey everyone,

Just thought it might be handy to spread the word that ordering from pinkcherry.ca, and possibly others, is no longer guaranteed to be discreet with if you use the less expensive shipping option and have instructions for delivery.

For more details...

It looks like IntelCom has moved into being a major shipper in Canada and I just had a recent order from pinkcherry.ca left in my building lobby. I actually returned home at almost midnight as a kind neighbor was delivering it to my door.

Often I've recieved Amazon orders the same way and 50% of the time my package is either ripped open and left in the lobby (with my (and/or my girlfriend's) name and info on it) or just missing.

Generally I've really only found "boring" things like electrical components, car parts, miscellaneous tools, etc. still in the box when it's been left open.

I figured this might be a thing people would like to know about in case there's sensitive items or specific instructions to prevent theft.

My understanding is that IntelCom pays their drivers per delivery, and there's zero repercussions if they don't follow delivery instructions. Meaning they literally make more per hour if they spend less time and just dump everything for a building inside the door and select "delivered" in their app. Essentially, skip the dishes without any way to contact the deliverer or skip.

It's basically been going on since Covid, over 2 cities for me. Thankfully when it's been Amazon they've always sent me a replacement when it's stolen. I'm thinking my girlfriend might be a bit upset we find an order of a clit simulator and lube sitting open in the lobby with our name on it though. Lol

I explained all this to pinkcherry customer service

1. I showed them an example label of a parcel I found in my lobby the day before saying "Packages stolen often, please only deliver to my apartment door. Please No mailroom/lobby as it will be stolen"
2. Pointed how this could affect a lot of people.
3. Pointed out how this could invalidate their promise of "discreet shipping".

They told me they use 3 shippers for the inexpensive shipping option, and that if I don't want it to happen again then I should pay for fedex.

So, I figured as they don't seem to care if their deliveries are handled in the way the customer wants then maybe I'd share my experience and see if it helps anyone else.

Examples of this causing an issue.

1. You live in a specific suite and don't want others to get the package. Maybe family, a landlord, whomever.
2. There's a specific packages container you want it left in for security.
3. There's a secret door knock. Jk jk.

You get the idea though. Essentially, if you live in Canada and have been ordering from Amazon in the last bit, you'll know if IntelCom locally will follow your instructions or not.

Something to note if you're in Canada and order sex toys. Not sure if it applies in the US.


Hi all!

*important context: yes I am a virgin but I have experience with a lot of sexual acts, just not any forms of intercourse (anal, oral, or vaginal).  I also grew up in a religion that leans HEAVILY into purity culture so I'm sure there's a shame factor at play here too*

ANYWAYS...I literally just bought my first dildo/vibrator combo toy: [dildo](https://www.pinkcherry.com/products/fantasy-for-her-duo-pleasure-wallbang-her.  This is really exciting for me because I've had a battery operated insertable vibrator for the last 6 years and it finally quit.

I was really excited to test it out once I got home, and right when I went to "properly" use it by inserting the dildo portion, I got this intense anxiety that I was going to ruin my future sexual experiences by using this toy first because it was bigger than my old one (girth wise).  I have a partner who I love dearly and I've been grappling with the nerve-wracking fact that he may be the one that I finally feel comfortable with to have sex with, and I got the worry that the first time with him would be not as good if I use this toy first.  I realize this might not actually be true, but it's hard to brush that thought away.

I'm considering keeping the toy and reserving it for after my partner and I do get fully intimate with one another, but I'm not sure because I do really want to try it out.

I guess I'm curious if anyone has any general advice about this, or a way to become less rigid in my thinking and more comfortable with exploring different avenues of my sexuality, especially coming from a religious background.  Thanks in advance!

Anxiety about New Dildo/Vibrator


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good anal sex toy from pinkcherry? preferably for prostate massage


I am interested in getting one (maybe two) dildos to try. If I get two, I would get one glass and one silicone. I want to use them for myself obviously, but also to make content to sell, so which ones do you all think would (a) feel the best, and (b) be preferred by buyers?

[Purple silicone](https://www.pinkcherry.ca/collections/dildo-sex-toys-silicone-dildos/products/neo-8-inch-dual-density-ballsy-dildo)

[Not my favorite colours but cheap haha](https://www.pinkcherry.ca/collections/dildo-sex-toys-silicone-dildos/products/colours-pleasures-8-inch-tricolor-dildo)

[Realistic silicone](https://www.pinkcherry.ca/collections/dildo-sex-toys-silicone-dildos/products/pinkcherry-lucky-dick-realistic-8-25-dildo-1)

[Clear glass](https://www.pinkcherry.ca/collections/dildo-sex-toys-pyrex-glass-dildos/products/joystick-clear-glass-dildo)

[Black glass](https://www.pinkcherry.ca/collections/dildo-sex-toys-pyrex-glass-dildos/products/icicles-no-51-glass-dildo)

Help me choose what dildo(s) to buy? First time purchaser!


I'm in my early 20s and I love having orgasms while something is in my butt. I heard a prostate orgasm is like the best orgasm for a guy to have. I want to find a toy that won't be too painful and WILL make me have an orgasm. I also want a toy that is relatively cheap. I've been looking on PinkCherry for toys under $20 without shipping. Do any of you have any recommended toys? Thank you!

What do you recommend for a guy who wants to have a prostate orgasm, but also wants to be able to ride the toy?


 It was the 7.5" Orange Tickler Glass Dildo by Gläs, ordered from the online sex toy site PinkCherry. Luckily it was just my hand, but as you can probably imagine, this situation could have been a lot worse. Posting this as a warning, but also seeking advice about what to do next. I've contacted PinkCherry, but honestly I don't care that much about the refund, I just want to ensure that this product doesn't hurt anyone else.

I received it in it's original packaging, with bubble wrap in the box and everything, which makes me think this is more a quality issue with the product than the way it was handled during shipping.

Should I contact Gläs? What else can I do in this situation?

Bought a Gläs dildo from PinkCherry, received it broken and it cut my hand


And I want to buy [this](https://www.pinkcherry.com/products/colt-anal-trainer-kit) butt plug after some research and I just want to know if I can use sunflower oil as lube? I always used sunflower oil and I hope I can use sunflower oil with no problems.

I want to start with butt plugs


Hey all. So my girlfriend (24) and I(25) have been together for 6+ years. The sex is pretty damn good for both of us. We both cum, have a good time etc. But I usually last 5-10 mins, and by the time I swap rubbers to go again, my dick gets soft and needs a 10 min recharge. We've been looking at PinkCherry products and found their tetra male enhancement pills, and a dick pump, and we're looking for advice on if these items (or others, open to suggestions) actually have worked for any of you. I tried a durex numbing lube but that did FA for my lasting time. So we're hoping the supplement pills and a pump would help. Especially because my piece is around 4.5" on a good day, we're hoping the pill/pump will help whenever we use it to give me that extra few mm and minutes
Thanks, all.

How to last, use a pump, and good positions.


Anyone order from Pink Cherry before?

I see a dildo i think is super cute but has no reviews so was wondering if anyones used their site before?

https://www.pinkcherry.com/collections/dildo-sex-toys-pyrex-glass-dildos/products/sweetheart-glass-dildo

Good site for sex toys?


Hubs is out of town and wants to play when he gets home tomorrow. I have toys but have always kept them to myself. I told him I’d put some fun stuff in his bedside drawer and we’d play with it tomorrow. Besides lube, glass dildo, butt plug, what else should go in there? Not dumb stuff we won’t actually use 😂
____
ETA:
Thanks for the suggestions! I’ve added a “back” massager (like magic wand), handcuffs, ankle restraints, blindfold, towels, and some long satin ribbons to the drawer.

—-
UPDATE! The sex drawer was a huge hit. Literally had more sex tonight than we ever have before. Like 4-5 hours (with a break for dinner after the first hour) and I lost track of all the times and ways that we fucked. It was glorious 🤩

***
Just bought some new fun stuff. Won’t be in the drawer by tonight but it’ll be perfect for his bday in a couple weeks. [pink cherry](https://www.pinkcherry.com/)

- Oralove Delicious Duo Lickable Lubes

- Best-Lace Scenario Open Crotch Black Panty

- First Time Fetish Nipple Teasers

- Temptasia 60 Foot Bondage Tape

- Sinful Looped Spanking Paddle

- Renegade Stamina Rings

- Satisfyer Pro 2 Air Pulse Stimulator

What goes in the Perfect Sex Drawer?


So my newly acquired boyfriend is FtM and our equipment is lacking. I recently bought the Me2 probe which I think should work great for our needs but the only issue I see is that it's hard to find decent toys that are flesh colored. I'm hoping to find a strapon that'll stimulate him as well. We already tried a feeldoe and the insert is uncomfortable to him, so something more surface stimulating. Any help will be great. Flesh colored toys that help stimulating him as well would be great to help with his dysphoria.

The link below is what I ordered.

https://www.pinkcherry.com/products/her-royal-harness-me2-probe?user_id=38332054&utm_source=shop_app&list_generator=order_line_item&context=order_first_order_summary_line_item

Looking for good strapon options


https://www.pinkcherry.ca/products/the-double-dip-2-cock-ring-plug-blue

I[36m]Looking for something to use for DP with my wife[34f].  Anyone have experience with this toy or similar? How did it function when in use?

Also looking for suggestions on similar toys, would like something smooth but generally not very long.  Can't seem to find many like this on the market.

Tried on r/sextoys but didn't get any response.

DP with toy experience/advice?


Does anyone have any recommendations for good strap-on harnesses that are compatible with strapless strap-ons? I like the idea of the wearer having some penetration as well, but still want the security of a harness.

I'm looking at [this](https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/strap-on-sex-toys/sp-happy-rabbit-strapless-strap-on-106958.aspx) "strap-on" and [these](https://www.pinkcherry.com/products/king-cock-fit-rite-harness-in-black) [harnesses](https://www.pinkcherry.com/products/everlaster-wishbone-strap-on-harness) [x](https://www.theadulttoyshop.com/the-innovation.html), but don't know how compatible they'd be with the strapless (location-wise).

Recommendations from personal experience are welcome, as well as judgements on whether you think those\^ would work out!

Harness recs for use with a strapless strap-on?


Alright. So I'm looking for an actual website other than amazon for sex toys.
Adamandeve.com seems to be pretty popular, but it has terrible reviews everywhere. Is this company actually a scam? Any recommendations on getting good products at good prices. Currently looking for a pocket pussy or somethin like that
Edit: what about pinkcherry.com

Buying sex toys


My wife always says she never knows what to buy. I'd like to be able to offer her recommendations, but I have NO IDEA what works for her breast type. Again I'm not looking to buy without talking to her, in fact I'd prefer to show her what I'd like to see her in as ideas and have her surprise me.

She's a 36DD but her breasts are not perky ([https://www.healthline.com/health/breast-shapes#shapes](https://www.healthline.com/health/breast-shapes#shapes) \- they would be relaxed according to this chart). It seems like everything that I look at is made for smaller chested ladies or plus sized ladies.

The sites I'm looking at are:

[pinkcherry.com](https://www.pinkcherry.com)

[Adamandeve.com](https://Adamandeve.com)

[lovehoney.com](https://lovehoney.com)

I'm open to recommendations as well.

I've recommended things in the past and it was either low quality amazon stuff (early on) or didn't fit her right.

EDIT:  This is less about Bra sizing and buying, more it's about slinky things to help make her feel sexy in the Chemise, babydoll and other range.

How to help my wife pick out Lingerie we both will like


I (M21) just bought some toys from pinkcherry to use with my girlfriend (F20) on a surprise date night in a hotel room for valentines day. I'm looking for inspiration on uses for these toys. Perhaps combinations of certain toys and such.
Toys purchased are
-wevibe unite 2.0 couples vibrator (with remote)
-blinfold
-safe candles for wax play
-under the bed restraints
-a riding crop
FYI my girlfriend has expressed interest in all of the above items, so any surprise will be well received.
Thanks in advance :)

Just bought some new toys! Need ideas!!!


I bought a vibrator and a dildo from pinkcherry, they smell a little weird, and the dildo especially is sticky. I'm not sure what type of material they're made of, they seem a little squishy so maybe silicon. How do I clean them and get rid of the smell?

How to clean new sex toys


I want to get my girlfriend a real nice toy for her birthday, something entirely focused on female pleasure.

Right now I'm looking at the [Vibratex Original Magic Wand](https://www.pinkcherry.ca/the-original-magic-wand) (used to be called the Hitachi). Only thing I'm concerned about is it might be a bit TOO powerful for a novice user.

Anyone had any experience with it, or better suggestions?

I want to get my girlfriend the CADILLAC of sex toys -- want to make sure I don't botch it.


So my girlfriend and I bought [the pull plug vibe](https://www.pinkcherry.ca/anal-fantasy-pull-plug-vibe) from Adam Eve and tried prostate play for the first time today.  I'm not sure if we were using the toy wrong (not putting enough in, putting too much in...etc.) or what the problem was but I just didn't really feel much.
I've seen posts on reddit where lots of guys say that pretty much as soon as a finger goes up their ass or as soon as something touches their prostate that it shoots pleasure through them, and that just wasn't the case here.
We used a lot of lube and the plug went in easy.  We started with no vibration and she just put the first curve in, but it wanted to fall out as soon as she let go.  She put it in a little further (to where just the end of the vibe was sticking out) and it was pretty much the same thing.
We tried it with vibration for most of the time, and there was the odd time I felt something, but it would leave just as quickly as it came.  We used the toy for at least 10 minutes (I think longer) and in the entire time I never felt myself building any kind of pleasure like I've seen people describe.
We decided to put the toy away and the product comes with finger condoms so we tried those because maybe she just didn't know how to hit the prostate.  Well with her finger I felt a little something when she was inside, but it was the same story.  Even after a couple minutes of her fingering and blowing me I felt no kind of build up to an orgasm.

I wouldn't be surprised if most answers here are "You just have to get used to it.", which is totally understandable.  But one of the things I'm mainly wondering is if we used the toy wrong.  How much of it can/should you insert inside?  Can the entire thing (vibrator too) go inside with just the tail sticking out?  Should I just put that first curve inside?
Also what kind of feelings do other men get from having their prostate touched?  Like I said when she used her finger it felt okay, but I would assume after a couple minutes of that I should have felt something more than I did from when she started, but it just kept feeling the same.

[Fetish] Tried prostate play today and experienced nothing. Am I doing it wrong?


Basically I am looking for a somewhat higher-end vibrator for the girlfriend.  Putting together a "naughty" present package for her as a Christmas present as this will be the first Christmas she has not had a room mate since we started dating 4 years ago.

Anyways I am looking at spending up to $150 (Canadian, Canadian tire money, loonies, Tim Bucks, etc) on a vibrator that meets the following criteria.

A) Rechargeable (batteries suck)
B) Not too intimidating  (no flashing lights, 4 arms, weird shit, etc)  Just looking to keep it simple  and preferably nothing really massive.
C) Waterproof
D)  No cheapo ones that smell like china for months on end
E)  Good vibrations

Just looking at the sheer amount of choice on Amazon/pinkcherry and I get confused.  I know in the past she/I have bought a small durex (aaa) vibe, a tenga iroha mini, some bigger durex vibe (works alright).

Not opposed to saving money either if someone has a good recommendation for one to buy that is cheaper.  Just looking for a good quality toy.

As for the restraints part,  her and I in the past have talked about maybe engaging in some light tie down/bondage style play where one of us is tied down to the bed and the other is free to do as they see fit for x amount of time, stuff like that.  We do have some hand tie down similar to there ones [here](http://www.spencersonline.com/product/naughty/bondage/handcuffs-restraints/red-silk-rope-love-handcuffs/pc/2352/c/2385/sc/1227/1801.uts?currentIndex=24&thumbnailIndex=33).  Looking possibly for something inexpensive to try tying down the legs to the bed.   Maybe more.

thanks in advance for any advice.

[Toys] Looking for a higher-end vibrator for a xmas present for girlfriend. Maybe some light restraints too.


We've had a rabbit for quite some time but it gave up the ghost, so we're looking for a new one. Do we go with another rabbit such as https://www.pinkcherry.ca/enchanted-bunny-vibe-in-blue or go to something that we havn't tried before like https://www.pinkcherry.ca/enchanted-butterfly-vibe-in-purple? Has anyone used either type and able to give a comparison?

[toys] Rabbit or butterfly? Our old one broke!


Pink Cherry is usually my go-to, but the one they have in stock is not quite what I had in mind.

http://www.pinkcherry.ca/spade-petite-jewel-aluminum-anal-plug

I'm looking for something akin to this, except I've never ordered from this site, and the shipping deadline may not make Christmas.

http://www.aliexpress.com/store/product/Stainless-Steel-Attractive-Butt-Plug-Jewelry-Jeweled-Anal-Plug-Rosebud-Anal-Jewelry-Lavender-color/415640_680779047.html

Can you recommend a vendor based off of experience? Thanks!

[Anal Play] [TOY] I'm interested in getting a jeweled anal plug for my GF. What are some trustworthy Canadian vendors?


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Has anyone ever used pinkcherry.CA for toys?


So my SO and I are getting into anal sex and also wanted to add toys to our regular sex sessions. I have found a few sex toys ([this one](http://www.pinkcherry.ca/juli-ashton-anal-beginner-s-kit) and [this one](http://www.pinkcherry.ca/crystal-jellies-6-inch-ballsy-cock-in-pink)) and I'm wondering if it's safe to use coconut oil as lube for them (we love coconut oil). I tried looking for what they are made of, but I don't know anything about that to be honest.

Could someone help us? Or perhaps suggest better toys if you know any better. Thanks a lot for the future sex fun :).

Probably another "is this toy safe with coconut oil?" thread. Please help, first toy purchase.


Hi Sexxit!

I'm wanting to buy a dildo for my girlfriend (particularly something with a suction cup), but we're coming across a lot of pretty scary information about toxic toys.  I've found a few toys that seem to fit what we're looking for:
http://www.pinkcherry.ca/basix-6-dong-with-suction-cup-in-pink
http://www.pinkcherry.ca/crystal-jellies-6-inch-ballsy-cock-in-pink

The site says Phthalate free, but I have read that you can't really trust that any non-silicone toy is truly phthalate free.  Can anyone offer some guidance on how to avoid poisoning my girlfriend, and whether or not these particular toys can be trusted?

Thanks so much for your help!

Phthalates and Dildos


I keep thinking it's the batteries, it's gotta be the batteries! but this past month or so my [little rocket friend](http://www.pinkcherry.ca/berman-center-athena-mini-massager) isn't doing the trick. It sucks, my boyfriends quite a bit bigger so sex can be painful even with lube if my toy's not distracting me. Do i just wait it out, no toys, for a few weeks and see what happens or is there something I can do?

I still think it might be that the batteries are old, but i keep changing them. They're from one of those duracell 40 packs, maybe I need something that packs more of a punch? Any recommends?

edit: added link to toy.

Too much vibration, desensitised clit. What now?


I have been trying to find size appropriate sexy lingerie online and I am at my wits end. Finding something that both fits and is appealing seems impossible.

I usually wear size zero. I am 5'7" tall with a 23 inch waist and 32B chest. After hours of browsing through (I live in Canada) amazon, pinkcherry, yandy, wicked weasel, odgirl, and countless others, most don't have a good enough selection for my size.

I noticed on amazon reviews that a lot of cheaper lingerie from china tends to have women complain about being too small. Using that, I found some asian models / gonewild posters (I am vietnamese) with a body type similar to mine and found things I liked that they wore like this

http://www.amazon.co.jp/gp/product/B00JUR7D7C/ref=ox_sc_act_title_1?ie=UTF8&psc=1&smid=A2U5YJ7W53W1IH

but a lot of them are on the Japanese Amazon and do not ship to Canada and the options that matched both my tastes and size were hard to come by on the North American site. Also, I am not sure how sexy lingerie is partitioned into quality e.g., I can tell the difference between a $3 and a $20 bottle of wine, what about a $5 teddy and a $25 one?

For now I've turned to eBay, and found some sellers based out of China like this one here

http://stores.ebay.com/easy24h/?_dmd=2&_nkw=lingerie

They sell some stuff I think would fit me like this

http://www.ebay.com/itm/Lingerie-Sexy-Black-Lace-Stripper-Clubwear-Ladies-Garters-Bowknot-Womens-5-Color-/281373942056

or this

http://www.ebay.com/itm/281242704956?var=580287236954

but I am not sure what to think when the price is that low. The seller has a lot of negative feedback, but a lot of their complaints seem to suggest unreasonably high expectations.

Would buying something from a seller like this be a reasonable starting point before building up to more expensive retailers? I am not looking for something extremely high quality, at least something I can wear and feel sexy or something that will last a couple rounds in the bedroom that a man would enjoy looking at.

I totally understand that I am hum and hawing over a few dollars with these examples, but I am in college and do not have a lot of money to throw $100 + at a single pair of lingerie. Any suggestions would be a huge help.

Buying extra small lingerie online


Great Deal on Njoy Toys at PinkCherry, Canadians! (up to 50% off regular price, PLUS an additional 25% off site-wide)


I have been trying to shop for my first dildo since moving away from my conservative parents for college, but I'm having some trouble.

I tried to do some research online, but I am quickly getting overwhelmed by both the plethora of choices and the plethora of warnings about allergy considerations or other potential dangers.

I think I narrowed it down to these that look fun to me, can anyone give me feedback if they are good or bad starters?

http://www.pinkcherry.ca/icicles-no-02-glass-dildo

http://www.pinkcherry.ca/dildo-sex-toys/aluminum-and-steel-dildos

http://www.pinkcherry.ca/icicles-no-18-glass-dildo

Does my height and weight help in making these considerations or are most dildos one size fit all? I am a fairly petite and I can't tell if the dimensions make sense just looking online.

buying my first dildo


If you're looking for sex toys, sexual health products, or anything similar, these are a few of my suggestions. I've been a reviewer and sex educator for 7 years now, so hopefully I'll be able to point you in the right direction.

* If there is a specific brand that you like, check out their website. Very often if you sign up for emails you'll get a coupon code for one time use valued at between 10% - 25% off.
* Shop around. Retailers compete with each other, if a company does a sale one week, another retailer will often have the same item, or similar, on sale the following week for a lower price.
* Email your fave companies and ask about upcoming sales. Yes, most of the time they want to sell products at regular price, but if they've got good customer service, are on the ball, and want to keep their customers happy they'll share.
* BUY QUALITY TOYS from reputable manufacturers. This should be a no-brainer, but when it comes to sex toys you get what you pay for. [Tantus](https://tantus.refersion.com/c/f006), [Vixen Creations](http://www.shevibe.com/search.aspx?manufacturer=89#oid=1012_1), [BS is Nice](http://shevibe.com/search.aspx?manufacturer=340#oid=1012_1), [Happy Valley](http://shevibe.com/search.aspx?manufacturer=224#oid=1012_1), [Fun Factory](http://www.shopsexed102.com/sphinx_search2.php?a=SexEd102&ser_key=Fun+Factory), [JimmyJane](http://www.jimmyjane.com/pleasure-sets?utm_source=LS&utm_medium=4&siteID=uGfTNGZ07oc-hXVxm0YiKV7jZDhCL8e1uQ), [We-Vibe](http://www.shopsexed102.com/sphinx_search2.php?a=SexEd102&ser_key=We-Vibe&s_cid=all), and [Lelo](http://www.shopsexed102.com/sphinx_search2.php?a=SexEd102&cid=0&ser_key=Lelo#showdvds=0&grid&ser_order=price%20ASC), to name a few, are all reputable companies.
* If you want a toy that will last you a life time (and *rarely* need replacing) get something made of 100% medical grade silicone, properly treated wood, glass, stainless steel, ceramic. No jelly, no TPA/TPR, no rubber, etc.
* Spend a bit more. Yes, I know this sort of cancels out the frugality, but many online shops offer discounted (if not FREE) shipping with orders over a certain amount. Very often the amount you'd spend on shipping can be the same as what you'd spend on getting something for yourself. I don't know about you but I'd much rather have something to show for my hard earned cash.
* Read reviews. [Sex toy reviewers](http://karasutrareviews.com/product-reviews/every-sex-toy-reviewed/) will usually hold giveaways, contests, and offer up discount codes with their reviews.
* Use coupon codes whenever you get the chance. Currently all the best companies have rotating coupon codes, for example currently Tantus is doing a 40% off deal on all their [grab bags](http://karasutrareviews.com/2014/05/16/tantus-grab-bag-sale/) w/ code "MAYBATION". High quality sex toys, from a reputable manufacturer, at prices under $20? YES, PLEASE!. PinkCherry has the coveted [Njoy Pure Wand](https://www.pinkcherryaffiliate.com/sextoys.php?id=1142&url=10953) at a DRASTICALLY reduced price w/ code "PINK25" (it's on sale for $66 w/ the code, the lowest I've seen it anywhere else is closer to $100)

I've compiled a list of the [best sex toy sales](http://karasutrareviews.com/go-shopping/sex-toy-sales/) for everyone, updated monthly or when decent sales happen. If you're looking for something specific, it might be a good place to start.

Hopefully this will help you find something you'll love at a price that's more than reasonable! If you have any questions feel free to ask.

Tips for getting sex toys at considerably reduced prices.


I've been seeing butt plugs with finger rings at the base like [this](http://www.pinkcherry.ca/jolie-pleasures-mini-jelly-butt-plug-in-clear).  Now, I know that butt plugs are designed with the flared base so they don't get lost in your butt so I'm wondering if you can use the kind above without having a finger holding on to it?  Like just put it in and then do other stuff?  Or is that a bad idea?  It looks like this kind is pretty popular and I can't really imagine they would design a butt plug that would potentially get lost inside your butt but I don't really know.  Does anybody know or have any experience with this?

Butt-plug question


I'm a 19 year old male and I've had both a prostate massager [this one](http://www.arentwenaughty.com/anal-toys/butt-plugs/dr-joel-silicone-prostate-locator-black-p2746.aspx) to be exact as well as a butt plug, [this one.](http://www.arentwenaughty.com/anal-toys/butt-plugs/100-silicone-triple-hump-p3058-a30.aspx) I like the base of the butt plug as sitting doesn't make me feel like it'll get sucked up but when I stand it tries to come out. Which is partly why I went for the prostate one. It slides in and if I stand it won't pull out but, it's nowhere near big enough and I tie a string to it so it won't get pulled in if I'm sitting. So is there a happy medium I could go with? I want one to use that I can sit with but also one that I can use to go in an out with an also massage the prostate.

Right now I'm looking at these three. [One](http://www.arentwenaughty.com/anal-toys/butt-plugs/euphoria-enhanced-male-g-spot-stimulator-p2098-a30.aspx) [two](http://www.arentwenaughty.com/anal-toys/butt-plugs/lux-male-stimulator-lx-1-p3448.aspx) and as a last resort I would order something and it would be [this](http://www.pinkcherry.ca/mood-naughty-3-large-butt-plug-in-black) Also I chose arent we naughty because it's the local store and I don't really want to order something because I still live at home which is why I want something to wear for extended periods of time. I don't want to get the toy out then use it for 15 minutes then have to put it away.

Is there a good butt plug I can use while sitting down for a little while and that I can also use for prostate stimulation when needed?


I just ordered this prostate massager from PinkCherry: http://imgur.com/idTSQQk

It has a sharp curve at the bottom, but no flared base. Is it dangerous to use? I really don't want to have to make an embarrassing trip to the ER.

Unfortunately, they don't allow orders to be cancelled after they're placed, so I will probably have to throw it away if it's dangerous.

Is this anal toy safe?


I own two buttplugs, an [8" anal dildo](http://www.pinkcherry.ca/enspiral-anal-toy), an 11" long beaded anal probe and an [11" flexible chain of anal beads](http://i00.i.aliimg.com/wsphoto/v0/623917146/Hot-Sale-Blue-Color-Silicone-font-b-X-10-b-font-Anal-Beads-Sex-Toy-For.jpg_250x250.jpg).

My question is: can the beads, the probe or the dildo damage my intestines? Or would I need something really sharp, long and/or thick to get to the danger zone? I use a lot of lube and I proceed very carefully, but I always get that anxious feeling when I slip them deeper than, say, 5-6 inches. I would really like to enjoy it, because deep insertion is a major turn-on for me, but that vague fear of puncturing my colon always holds me back :-/

Any advice on that?

I occasionally enjoy deep anal play, but it's spoiled by my fear of damaging my insides. Do I need to worry?


I've heard that doing these exercises makes sex heaps better.

Would be really interested to hear about any experiences people have had, and what differences - if any - kegels have made to your sex life.

How did your sensations change when you started to do them? Did your partner notice a difference, and enjoy the more ~toned feeling too? Any negative experiences to report? Etc.

Here's to amazing orgasms!

Edit: Holy god damn, everybody. Kegels fucking kick ass. Some awesome advice coming through - thanks to everyone who's contributing!

A lot of people are suggesting **Lelo Luna Beads**.
Thanks to /u/TattoosNgirlyHearts, who suggested buying them from pinkcherry.com.
Also, apps - /u/Altostratus has recommended mK Free.

Great endorsement from /u/princesaanonimal, re: kegel work + orgasms - "I kind of enter an altered state of consciousness. It's like volcanos and earthquakes and feeling like you're floating or dying or being fucked or enveloped by a deity and every other superlative one can imagine."

In conclusion, GET THE FUCK ONTO KEGELS, LADIES! AND MEN TOO!

Women who do kegel exercises - has it made sex better? If so, how?


Alright!.. well Im hoping this is the right place to ask :) Im (24F) looking around on an online sex toy website, looking for something that's *primarily* used for kegels and I found these [Ben wa balls](http://www.pinkcherry.ca/weeks-specials/silver-ben-wa-balls) , [Glass eggs](http://www.pinkcherry.ca/weeks-specials/crystal-premium-glass-eggs-in-clear) and [kegel balls](http://www.pinkcherry.ca/weeks-specials/sb1-silicone-kegel-balls-in-neon-blue) . I don't have much knowledge on these puppys so I no idea which ones are good for what I need them for ( i'm sure I'll probably use them for play time too ;) ).  Do you guys have any recommendations? Tips? Pros/cons for the balls vs the egg shaped ones?  Help!

EDIT: While you looking at the links.. are those prices reasonable?

Kegel tools Question


Hi sextet! I hope this is the correct subreddit =/

I bought my first ever toy (Lelo Ella g http://www.pinkcherry.ca/shop-by-brand/lelo/ella-g-spot-dildo-in-deep-rose) and it isn't the most comfortable.  It feels too hard? Is there any other toys that are softer that feel closer to a real penis but not so large? Thanks for the help!

Dildo help =|


So her birthday is coming up and i want to treat her with a new toy for herself. She currently uses a cal. exotics rabbit style vibrator, but it's old and noisy so I want to get her something nice to replace it.

 So this is where i need some help, I've been looking at dual stimulator offerings from Lelo and Jopen,
both seem to get pretty good reviews. Does anybody have much experience with these toys or have a preference between them? I'm leaning towards the Jopen as it has a rotating shaft and i know that's something she likes, but the Lelo toys seem to get great reviews and they look fantastic. Is there some others I'm overlooking? Or maybe i should even throw her a curveball and get something completely different like like a Lelo smart wand?

I'm just looking for some opinions and ideas for what to get, the decision is somewhat overwhelming with all the selection out there.

EDIT: So I think I have it narrowed down to either [Lelo SmartWand](http://www.pinkcherry.ca/smart-wands-large-sensetouch-massager-in-plum), [Jopen Vr16](http://www.pinkcherry.ca/vibrators/rabbit-vibrators/vanity-vr16-vibe) or the [Lelo Soraya](http://www.pinkcherry.ca/vibrators/rabbit-vibrators/soraya-vibe-in-deep-rose). Its hard to pick!

EDIT 2: I'm going with the Lelo smartwand, thanks for the replies!

I want to buy a new top tier vibrator for my girlfriend's upcoming birthday, but I need some help!


Tried out this [butt plug](http://www.pinkcherry.ca/10-function-risque-vibrating-butt-plug-in-black) on my girl the other day, got it in ok but when she moved around it would pop out. Even when she was on her back and I was going in for PIV, still wouldn't stay in.

So she's only had anal a few times in her life, so it's not a matter of looseness. As you can see from the link above, it's of a reasonable size. Dimensions:

Length - 4"
Insertable Length - 3"
Girth - 4 1/4" at largest
Width - 3 1/4" at widest (base)

She was a bit nervous, so my thoughts that she was tensing up and pushing it out without realising. If that's it, any tips on how to make her relax a bit? Or any other ideas?

My girl's butt plug won't stay in. What gives?


Hugh Black Friday sale at pinkcherry adult toys


My bf is away for 2 months and today he tells me that he bought me the Don Wand Big Betty!

http://www.pinkcherry.ca/big-betty-blue-glass-dildo

Now I really can't wait until he gets home! Has anyone on here ever used it before?

So excited about a new toy my bf got me while hes away.


Just a heads-up: the Njoy Pure Wand is on sale for $88 at PinkCherry right now! (I have no affiliation with the company)


*This does involve a little period talk, just so you know.
So I[f] take a while to get off. Usually between 40 minutes and an hour. It is frustrating. I have also always really really really wanted to squirt. Just to know what it's like and I suppose in a way to own my sexuality. Well, I purchased the [Njoy Pure Wand](http://www.pinkcherry.ca/pure-wand?SID=sd45cot2k9q1l4cn6md3laosj0) with that in mind. First time using it was awesome. I had a fantastic orgasm, and within about 20 minutes, without watching porn(I almost ALWAYS watch porn while masturbating).
Second time, I played for a long time, about an hour, just building things up, while using my vibrator on my clit with the Pure wand and watching porn. I was more aggressive with the wand on my g-spot when I was getting close and do recall at one point feeling like there as liquid pooling under me, but I was on my period so I assumed my flow was just heavier than I had realized. I had one of those stellar, revel in it with your eyes closed and head back orgasms.
I usually completely stop playing after I cum but decided to keep playing and had what I would call a few mini-aftershock orgasms(which I have only multiple-orgasmed on one occassion).
Anyways, when I stood up to get dressed, the towel I'd been on was SOAKED. I mean, a huge puddle.
TLDR sexually hard to satisfy girl buys njoy Pure Wand and achieves squirting, becomes addicted to the wand.

For the sexually complicated ladies who want to squirt.


Their prices are ridiculously cheap compared to the local sex shops. I'm considering buying from them, but there are mixed reviews when I Google the company.

Has anyone bought from them before?

Has anyone ever bought from pinkcherry.ca?


I've been looking at this thing for months, picked one up a PinkCherry.com for $99 w/free shipping, which is $30 cheaper than I've seen it anyplace else.
The box: UPS delivered a plain brown box. "From" address was a website that sells air mattresses, customs description (it came from Canada) was "Novelty".
The packaging: Very easy to open, none of that hard plastic to cut open, just pop open a cardboard flap, pull the clear plastic holder out, and it just folds open.
The unit: Smaller than I expected, but feels substantial. The charger magnetically sticks to the front of the device & lights up when it's charging, so kind of like the magsafe plug on a mac, except it can easily be twisted out of position. The unit doesn't work when it's plugged in.

First time: Squrirt of KY jelly and we're off. You turn it on and it revs up slightly then settles down to a light buzz. Hit the + key repeatedly and it gets stronger and stronger, about to Hitachi magic wand territory. Once it's maxed out it has a few modes where it alternates the two motors in various ways to create some great sensations.

The orgasm:
First time it was very intense. The next two were very good as well. Easy clean-up since you don't need a ton of lube and you can hold the thing on while you walk to the sink.

The cleanup:
Just run it under warm water & dry it off. Simple.

Pros: Very powerful vibrations. I've used massagers for years and always try to rig up good masturbators from them with limited success.  The best I've had previous to this is a 2-headed homedics massager from the early 90's that I wrapped surgical tubing around to squeeze the heads closer together on my penis. It was a sad day when that broke... But this compares nicely to a hitachi magic wand. I've also tried some female toys and this is much more powerful than any of those I've found.

Cons: The buttons. You have to have perfect aim, no lube on your finger or the button, and hold the button for the right amount of time. If you brush against the on/off button the unit instantly drops to it's idle buzz -- which may be on purpose since you'd want that just after you cum.

Biggest con: No lockout for the buttons. Some other vibes (lelo for example) have modes & buttons similar to this, but you hold the + & - keys for a few seconds and the unit "locks" until you do it again. This thing would be hard to pack for travel -- it is liable to go off at any time. It might be possible to connect the magnetic power plug (even w/out power) to keep it from accidentally going off, but that's less than ideal.

Con: "locks" on the head of your penis, which is great, but it's "one size fits most" and evidently I'm not in the "most" category -- I've got a very thick unit, so need to apply a lot of thrusting pressure to force my way into the tip. Maybe it will stretch out a bit after repeated use... It's definitely going to get a lot of use. :)
Overall: highly recommend. Well designed overall, great orgasms.

Another Cobra Libre (male sex toy) review


Anyone have experience with them?  I've been looking into getting [one like this](http://www.pinkcherry.com/California-Exotic-Novelties-Double-Dolphin-Vibrating-Cock-Ring/productinfo/CE.1833.12.3/#.TeiosM1HBJk), but I'm not sure it's for us.  I'm looking for something to enhance things for both of us, and hoping the cock ring can help my husband last longer.

Thanks!

Vibrating cock rings


My wife and I have been looking for new toys to spice up the bedroom.  She has a few strap-ons used for pegging, and upgraded to the double-sided strap on, which she didnt totally enjoy.  Browsing through the web I came accross [this](http://www.pinkcherry.ca/Tantus/products/226/).  Its the FeelDoe, and the idea that not only is there something inside her, but that she doesn't have to wear an actual strap on is a really great idea.  As a bonus, the clit stimulation seems right up her alley... so to speak.

So does anyone here use this?  Thoughts?  Tips?  Pointers?  Pictures?

Is This Toy Any Good?  Looking at the FeelDoe


Quick question but has anyone ordered toys and what not from Pink Cherry before. My GF and I ordered a mystery Box yesterday, it was $100 said it’s valued at $500 lol. I’m excited to see what comes with it but I don’t want to get my hopes up if it’s just going to be a bunch of garbage.

Pink Cherry’s website


32 year old female and I’ve never experienced an orgasm. I’ve been with multiple partners but have been with my husband for 8 years. I’ve never been into masturbarion but recently am wanting to explore my body more so I have an easier time of knowing what I like. I purchased a g spot vibrator from pink cherry and while it feels good at times, I almost get a strong sensation that I need to pee. The pee sensation overpowers the feeling good sensation and I just end up stopping. Am I doing something wrong?

Experiencing sex toys


So me and my GF are both still virgins, we have been dating for 10 months and we do lots of kissing and shes a bit of a "freak" like she stuck her tounge down my throat unexpectedly and she has said that she cant wait to try all sorts of things with me. The sexual tension has been really building and although we've talked about "doing it" one day but she'll allow me to pull her panties down while she is bent over. The other day I pulled her panties down and I just love her petite figure, I also seen her pink asshole/pussy and its so tempting to just stick it in and start breeding but its like everytime I pull her panties down I just dont know what to do. When I pull them down she'll say "its all yours" but then she'll say "someday you will pop my cherry"

So I dont know what to do, we were kissing and I just pulled her panties down and stuck my tounge in her pussy a little bit which made her go wild. Although she seems to allow me to strip her and pull her panties right down so maybe she's waiting for me to stick it in.

But then I asked her when she wants to lose it and she said "I dont know maybe next month on your birthday".

Although im not trying to brag but my cock is a decent size when I measured (6.7 inches) but thick, its also very straight and my GF doesnt use any toys but then I have been encouraging her to use a toy because it might hurt when we do it. Thats one reason why I dont want to stick it in cause I dont want to hurt her as shes not use to using toys and shes also a virgin

Is my GF waiting for me to take her virginity?